₦airaland Forum

blackaxe78:
Smh….


You are lucky you have a matured lady who has all the qualities you looking for.

If you talking about age, the younger ones will get you to depression! They are only good on bed, maturity they lack.

Did I hear you say that younger ones are better in bed than the mature ones?

I will end it with just a question.

Ahmed0336:
Bros, you have done all is needed of a Gentleman. You made a mistake, had apologize to her and her family and most importantly you are remorsed about that act.

If I may, what was her reason(s) for sex starving you? What were her parents stand regarding it?

Oga no stress yourself, if she wan stay with her parents let her be.
If her parents want to change your daughter's school just to wicked you let them do it.

Use this time to develop yourself and save more. Peace!!!!

Exactly my advice. Simply ignore her now but don't negatively divert your energy. Instead invest in things worthwhile, get closer to God.

Just completely ignore her, at a time if she doesn't hear from you again, she will start being worried, Because she knows your decency, she might not think you would be another woman, if not it could have been a better tormenting thought for her

By the time you ignore her completely watch out how things will turn out positively.

Women are like shadow,follow them, they run, run they will follow you.
Especially in this your case you have profusely apologized. You have given her a serious hot coal that will always burn her.

Does the water have anything to do with those people that have name like the house where a bird builds and lives?

EgunMogaji2:
I wasn’t aware of Comoros. What are their citizens called?

Comoros dragons. Lol

Baba, it's Komori.

otipoju:
I for like go live that place for like 2 or 3 years ooo. ATL don tire me.

Even if you go there, e go soon tire you.

Life is always greener at the other side.

Even those abroad are still missing a part of Nigeria but console themselves with the economic and political challenges in Nigeria.

Fix Nigeria, many will run back home.

Sucolee:
35k small na... The man know what he is doing... mistakenly transfer 2million to him and know what next

You are wrong. If you transfer 2m to me, even though I will relocate to abroad in less than two days, ,I will give you back.

I have done like the OP severally.

Some people don't feel comfortable spending money that is not theirs.

I give people money, I don't take, especially someone's money.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

All these indomie husbands sef.

First, how can your wife reject having intimacy with you. First offence.

Then why should you rape her?

Then how can you apologize for doing that and she is still adamant? You mean you can't be man up to ignore her.

Anyway, your Story is very SIMPle.

GenderMix:
Dear Esteemed Nairalanders of extreme wisdom, I have a 4+ year old daughter who is very curious and sleeps on the same bed with me and wife. Some days ago she almost caught me and wife having sex, so in the morning she asked my wife what I was doing to her…lol. Most times I hug and kiss my wife in front of her and do same to her (in her case, a peck and she reciprocates back). This is our normal lives. Sometimes, when I hug my wife before her, she gets jealous..lol

I think we made a mistake in not allowing her get used to her room from day one. We had tried to make her see reasons why she can’t continue to sleep on same bed with us but it’s all falling on deaf ears. At a point, we forced her to her room and when she woke up around 2am, all hell was let loose, I felt sympathy and told my wife to allow her into our room.


We can’t continue this way, so I need your advice (especially married couples with kids)

1. Did we make a mistake by letting her sleep on same bed with us considering she is just 4?

2. Is it too late to force her to her room?

3. How do we go about making sure she gets used to her room without disturbing us?

4. If she asks what we are doing at night, like the case where she almost caught us, what would be a good reply that would sound logical and educative for her own growth.

5. Is her jealousy normal?

Thank you

You are not yet ready to prevent that. It's very simple. When you are ready to prevent her from sleeping in your room, we will know

I constantly gave both when he was alive but presently it's her luck to have the whole thing now.

Besides, she deserves it, so I don't look back one bit when giving her.

ppogba:
The government is trying to say, we are going to do nothing this year. How do I mean? Sack people, get into wahala with labour for 3 months. Fast forward to June, remove fuel subsidy. Get into another bruhaha with labour, long industrial strike commences till July or August then either ASUU or NMA takes over till December.

On December 31, every body goes to church for cross over.

And the cycle continues again. Lol.

FIFApresident1:
I can't imagine someone else sleeping with the woman I married, how am I gonna feel after hearing about it or seeing it with my two eyes.
My life is not going to remain the same again even after divorcing her.

A SIMPle statement.

FIFApresident1:
When/where did I say am going to take my life?

Don't mind him. You just made a SIMPle statement and he "misunderstood " you

StylesX:
This man has been the opposite of what I thought he is, I thought he's a quiet and respectful someone, but recently he's hanging out with questionable people and doing vain things he shouldn't be doing.

He used to maintain a low profile earlier.

It's just a behavioural change .Sometimes
in life, people try to change some habits or behaviour, hoping on making their lives better and well managed.

A very introverted person could loosen up a bit to accommodate some behaviours.

A person with sedentary life could change completely to very active person, with hope it will do him some good.

He is an example.

FernandezPablo:
It's the parent's choice and there's nothing wrong with that..

Everything is wrong for a young child at that age to paint her nails. Location notwithstanding.

Let's call a spade, a spade.

Lovely picture though.

fineboynl:
RiP. But must they travel. Why can't people learned to stay where they are. We are now in digital age. With video call and money transfer you don't need to go to the village.

Stay were you are and celebrate your Xmas and new year.

With video call, they can do all the occasions they should have attended.

Just hear yourself and reason your statement .

efembaba:
When I saw ur text in italics, I first thought it was Righteousness that wrote this...

Bro you should learn the word and the power of God..

Christmas may be done on a pagan worshiping day, but we are not worshiping pagan . We are worshiping Jesus and God... Except you are worshiping pagans

You really replied him? Maybe because today is Christmas and it's a season of giving, including giving time to those that don't deserve it.

You have done your Christmas for him.

EndBuhariNow:
Audio achievement.... Internet billionaire, keep fooling urself, nah you go enter bed with empty stomach no be me

I don't argue with fools. Neither am I here to prove a point to you. I achieved it in the same Nigeria you ran away from ,like a coward.

I hate show off both on social media and in real life. Because it is meaningless to me.

The message is clear.

Nigeria may be facing challenges but condemning it every time is not the solution. Buhari and his regime made things worse.

Let's hope another president makes things better.

Get little sense and change your mentality.

EndBuhariNow:
Now here it louder... the time I were wasting time in sick country Nigeria I can't boast of anything good, 3 months abroad I made my first 1 million naira, 1 and half year I brought my remaining younger bro, 2years abroad the only land I inherited which I sold for this journey , I bought it back plus extra 100/150 behind it to make my property specious, 4years abroad I finished my house one in town, one in village... siblings benefited from the journey and everyone happy.... mid last year I got married to my beautiful wife and brought her to my base, she's now in nursing school also working, at least if not for anything, my son is citizen by birth... all these happened in space of 6yrs buhari was strangling you... oya go cry to bed

Cry to bed? You are a dreamer. I achieved all my properties in the same Nigeria you ran away from like a coward ,when you were being strangled as you said.

For your information too, I spent more than the amount I mentioned IN THE SAME NIGERIA ooo, just to touch people's lives this period.

So who is the boss?

Hopefully you will take all your relatives to your adopted country too so that they will not be victims of banditry and kidnapping.

Wish your country good and stop bad-mouthing Nigeria. Things must surely get better in future.

Simple message.

Skyflygang2:
U must be stupid and foolish plus ur father and mother too

Very obvious you are a bastard because a senseless skunk like you is not trained well.

I know how to handle your type. Good money for soldiers like I did last month on another riffraff like you.

I won't waste my energy on a skunk. How I wish I knew you physically.

Lest I forget, consider this as my last reply. I can't belittle myself on a little boy.

Vagabond.

Skyflygang2:
You must be mad you are the one to shut the Bleep up for quoting me idiot

I wonder why you are saying your father is mad and you are even calling him idiot.

Anyway, he is your father. It's not my business. Continue. You skunk. Your Father deserved to be insulted because he didn't train you well.

Skyflygang2:
I dont believe it seeing is believing

Hit me up on whatsapp

Share me the video

Why not shut up if you don't have any reasonable advice. Don't compound her problem.

EndBuhariNow:
God if not for anything , I thank you for making my escape from that sick useless country possible...


If you voted for change... Sit back and enjoy it to the fullest

Now that you are outside Nigeria,
I'm very sure you sent Up to 500k naira this Christmas. Obviously, you are finishing your house project by now.

If all the above is not done yet, no much difference even wherever you are, stop speaking bad of your country. Just wish Nigeria the best.

Then if we hear FG, the president will make a direct statement declaring the holiday and you will know FG spoke.

But in Buhari regime, FG is every ministry handling their respective functions.

NCAA acting as FG for Aviation
Adesina is FG for information, even if it is his own opinion.
Covid-19 special commitee acting as FG for COVID


On another note, I love Christmas and the euphoria it brings.

Vickyvice:
my brother forget this omugwo yeye philosophy wey poor people invent. My sisters are married and given birth, but my mum no go. She just arrange baby accessories,,, clothes, toys, and their soaps, powder, foods and fill their kitchen with assorted foods, by waybill them abroad,. What's omugwo? Na low mentality slang. Like say we be low grade family, na so my mum go mumu leave her lecturing work wey she even dey look for more time to conclude research, dey urge to go abroad for omugwo, as if she's the first mother in law in d world, or na she be the first grandmum on earth, I hate to hear this useless term,,, omugwo. Africa and their useless mentality. It's is devised to attempt control the husband.

Don't condemn other tribe's culture if you dont know what it it entails.

Sometimes it is more sensible to keep quiet.

ahnie:
Abeg if you re in need of fried plantain pls contact me,I m ready to fry one trailer of fried plantain

What if after that you didn't get any kobo, Will you still be OK ?

obailala:
I'm sorry to say but if we claim all sins are equal, we only deceive ourselves. There's absolutely no way the sin of cold blooded mass murder can be on the same level as a 12 year old lad pilfering an extra piece of meat from his mother's pot. If the punishment varies, then the sins cannot be termed to be equal; punishment for some sins start right here on earth.

Even Christ himself tells us all sins can be forgiven except the sin against the holy spirit. Isnt that sufficient evidence to prove to you that all sins aren't viewed equally by God? What exactly is the basis of argument on this thread? Or is your position just purely based on a prejudice against the Pope?

Commendably said.

profmallor:
I am not Catholic but I agree with the Pope. That thing called pride and hatred has led to genocides, wars, ethnic cleansings and some of the most needless lose of lives. Those atrocities are greater than any form of sexual perversion there is. The Bible says sexual sins are sins to ones body and God himself would supervise the punishment of such so its no small sin either. However compared to Pride, that's a real monster right there. Pride is so great a sin God calls it witchcraft and the penalty is death. The devil himself is the master of pride bot sexual sin.

You sounded so wise. Exactly what I tell close ones.

But that doesn't mean that Adultery and fornication are not offensive unto God but don't compare with sin of pride and hatred.

God detests the two sins more. No wonder God loves charity to repel hatred and He drove satan out due to pride.

Only wise people understand this God's principle BUT DON'T GET IT WRONG, SHUN ADULTERY AND FORNICATION.

Some people could not understand the Pope stand and statement

larryking540:
why do females take to social media to cry,I can't even cry looking at the mirror not to talkof my mobile phone

Something has never happened to you that you looked at yourself and felt so helpless even when the situation was not your fault.

Till then, you might not understand how they felt.

adenodi002:
I will like to do all this job because i was very smart and intelligent and i love guns but i go add yahoo to my own because bombing is in my blood i don't think i can quit that work


Even i get a fucking billion job i will still do some shit because i want my money to be big

Bombing to defraud people of their hard earned money.Not even CBN. Don't worry you will soon expire.

MadamExcellency:
We are talking about the doctrine of forgiveness and the purpose.

To forgive here means to rescind all intended or ongoing judgment, punishment and retribution against the person of the offender not the sin.

To forget in this contest means never counting the offense in any future decision as it regards the person of the offender. It also means erasing the malice, grudge and antagonism the offense created.

Someone can claim to refrain from punishing an offender because of pleads but holds the malice, grudge and antagonism the offense created perpetually. This is against the doctrine of forgiveness.

Someone was caught while putting cyanide(poison) in your drink.You forgave him after so much pleading.

Will you allow him to have access to your drink?