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ahnie:
Abeg if you re in need of fried plantain pls contact me,I m ready to fry one trailer of fried plantain

What if after that you didn't get any kobo, Will you still be OK ?

obailala:
I'm sorry to say but if we claim all sins are equal, we only deceive ourselves. There's absolutely no way the sin of cold blooded mass murder can be on the same level as a 12 year old lad pilfering an extra piece of meat from his mother's pot. If the punishment varies, then the sins cannot be termed to be equal; punishment for some sins start right here on earth.

Even Christ himself tells us all sins can be forgiven except the sin against the holy spirit. Isnt that sufficient evidence to prove to you that all sins aren't viewed equally by God? What exactly is the basis of argument on this thread? Or is your position just purely based on a prejudice against the Pope?

Commendably said.

profmallor:
I am not Catholic but I agree with the Pope. That thing called pride and hatred has led to genocides, wars, ethnic cleansings and some of the most needless lose of lives. Those atrocities are greater than any form of sexual perversion there is. The Bible says sexual sins are sins to ones body and God himself would supervise the punishment of such so its no small sin either. However compared to Pride, that's a real monster right there. Pride is so great a sin God calls it witchcraft and the penalty is death. The devil himself is the master of pride bot sexual sin.

You sounded so wise. Exactly what I tell close ones.

But that doesn't mean that Adultery and fornication are not offensive unto God but don't compare with sin of pride and hatred.

God detests the two sins more. No wonder God loves charity to repel hatred and He drove satan out due to pride.

Only wise people understand this God's principle BUT DON'T GET IT WRONG, SHUN ADULTERY AND FORNICATION.

Some people could not understand the Pope stand and statement

larryking540:
why do females take to social media to cry,I can't even cry looking at the mirror not to talkof my mobile phone

Something has never happened to you that you looked at yourself and felt so helpless even when the situation was not your fault.

Till then, you might not understand how they felt.

adenodi002:
I will like to do all this job because i was very smart and intelligent and i love guns but i go add yahoo to my own because bombing is in my blood i don't think i can quit that work


Even i get a fucking billion job i will still do some shit because i want my money to be big

Bombing to defraud people of their hard earned money.Not even CBN. Don't worry you will soon expire.

MadamExcellency:
We are talking about the doctrine of forgiveness and the purpose.

To forgive here means to rescind all intended or ongoing judgment, punishment and retribution against the person of the offender not the sin.

To forget in this contest means never counting the offense in any future decision as it regards the person of the offender. It also means erasing the malice, grudge and antagonism the offense created.

Someone can claim to refrain from punishing an offender because of pleads but holds the malice, grudge and antagonism the offense created perpetually. This is against the doctrine of forgiveness.

Someone was caught while putting cyanide(poison) in your drink.You forgave him after so much pleading.

Will you allow him to have access to your drink?

Stemkay:
Make I no comment o, it's dangerous to comment here, make he no come start beating person as well.

Nawa for you ooo

Nt

Alwaysachick:
That dressing and provocative dancing should not be allowed in the church, call a spade a spade

Well said. There is no way one would be dancing provocatively and pretended that she didn't know she was.

Baamisere:
Help Me! I'm Fed Up

I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now and she has been a good woman through and through. I've met her parents and we're discussing on the next step. She has been supportive, responsible and caring despite


However, the problem I'm having with her is that when she's angry she tends to use foul languages and curses on me which I don't like. She end up apologizing after the ranting but I'm tired of going over this. Please how can I deal with this attitude of hers?

I need honest contributions to this thread.

The behaviour will continue if you eventually get married .

The choice is yours. Do you think it is something you would cope with? If not, forget the relationship soonest. As for changing her, she will never change even in marriage.

omenkaLives:
CNN reports about Taliban, Al Qaeda, ISIS, etc. I suppose that makes them legit according to ipob terrorist supporters.

Ipob supporters and commonsense are two parallel lines running to infinity.

Spits.

Una for dare disrupt the election naw. Bloody effing cowards. Other elections are in the offing, dare disrupt them, then you'd understand the treatment the FG has been giving you guys in ipob is heaven.

I really enjoyed the way you were spitting on your face because you really deserved it due to your stupidity.

Stating the fact did not in any way indicate that I am supporting the group though I have the right to my decision.

I have really realised that some senseless people like you with very low intellect ,deserved to be ignored.

Exactly what I will do to you right now so don't try to quote me because I have already put you on complete ignore mode.

Skunk.

omenkaLives:
Awesome.

The biggest loser in the whole situation is ipob terrorists and their sympathizers, including their biscuits thieving brothers in arms, biafla national guard- not forgetting malt sharing pdp.

They couldn't bully or blackmail the FG into releasing the terrorist and had no choice but to stuck their tails between their legs and take cover when federal troops came marching. While Ohanaeze feared for the situation and fell for the blackmail, urging FG to release the terrorist, the FG called the bluff of the pesky thugs and stuck to her guns.

God bless all the good people and peace loving indigenes of Anambra state. Proud of you guys.

God bless the FG for ensuring a peaceful and fair election despite her powers to do otherwise.

Viva Nigeria.

Obviously, you didn't listen to the governorship debate where Soludo said that IPOB deserved a listening ear.

Only an unserious politician would push aside IPOB issues considering their relevance in the South East.

Even the federal government had a relief when IPOB approved the election, maybe you didn't even know the reason why the election was eventually successful.

Even the media report IPOB news always despite the politicized proscription because they have seen the strong relevance of IPOB in the region.

Kennyprince:
When will women know that the word "ma" doesnt have anything to do with age

Even men, sometimes feel awkward when addressed as "Sir ".

I wonder why people don't know that addressing one such ways is just a respect not really being old.

Probably, they want to be insulted so that they feel young.

Kriss216:
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Fish brain contribution.

Fish brain? You still valued him. What he has is tadpole brain.

The astonishing thing is that the guy has made enough even more than some countries annual budget so it's not about money again.

It's just a lifestyle he is already used to. He has really gone far into it

DOTian:
After cornering every single important position in the land? The president, the Chief justice of the supreme court, the Senate president, in a multi nation country like Nigeria? Including the lopsided domination of federal courts including the appeal Court? After cornering all juicy positions in the oil an gas sector without having a single functional oil well in the north? After creating a North East commission to appropriate almost 5% of our total VAT remittance?

After dominating the Army, The Navy, The Air Force, The police, The immigration, The customs and diplomatic corps with all northern appointments? After securing all viable and "juicy" ministries? After your billion dollars gas pipelines to the north into Niger republic with power stations at Abuja, Kaduna and Kano? After dry seaports here and there and modern highways here and there? After all the "rail revolution" in the north? Should I continue?

After all these in less that 6 years, Someone from the north opens his gutter mouth and claims that Buhari is not doing enough for the north! And he's being entertained by the press! Obviously, these guys take us as fools! They don't rate Southerners. As far as they are concerned, we exist for their pleasure. Because if they do believe they are dealing with fellow human beings, this kind of revolting outbursts won't ever be made by a northerner, after all the evil unleashed on this country by Buhari, just to please the north..

He didn't want to say what he meant. He said it with parable.

What he was saying was that Buhari didn't carry other northerners along, only Fulanis.

Buhari succeeded in breaking of fulani from the Hausa -fulani false alliance immediately they gained much relevance, that made them to be clutching to the alliance

So other parts of the North didn't gain much from power sharing because of buhari nepotistic strategy

Jackson105:
Nonsense permutation and combination.

Very poor and Unintelligent analysis. You observed well.

Tonero5200:
They is this female cousin of mine, my dad sisters child (she's about 43years old) she seldomly visits my dad, whenever she does, she always acts odd.


1) she has never eaten my parents food

2) she has never drank water from our house. (prefers to go and buy ragolis water on her own)



3) she stays in another states, whenever she visits prefers to stay with other distant relatives and friends than my dad's house.

4) she always talk without proper reasonings ( talking to my mom anyhow, talking to my dad sometimes without reasoning.

5)she always talk about revelations from her bishops and witches worrying her and household.

honestly, I had to tell my mom whenever she comes no need asking her if she wants to eat (since you've already known she won't eat, why ask?) my mom won't listen. that always gets me annoyed.

my dad on the other hand is not making things easy, old man always waiting for people that don't give a dine about him to come feed him. so he doesn't talk at all.
he hardly pray for us his children to be Better in life so that we can carter for him, instead he prefers putting mind in other people. ( relations) I tire.



from what I noticed from all of this.
this female cousin of mine is looking down too bad on all of us....like we are witches and wizard or something in our own house, whenever she visits.


have you ever had a guest like this?

Sometimes, she goes to Canada too.

Emilokoiyawon:
This is how my enemies will continue to hate as Eledumare continue to bless me in front of their jealous eyes.

Just believe in God,pray and succeed.Your interest in your imaginary enemies could hinder you even when they are not interested in you yet.

Even if they are existing, your business is between you and your God. No time for enemies.

wirinet:
A landlord tried that shit with me a while back because I was owing just one month (I offered half the yearly rent). Because he was a retired officer, he brought boys to forcefully eject me. I just went to the police station and made a report about illegal eviction and damaging of property. Same day I got a restraining order against the landlord. He bribed the police and the police started taking his side
Then we started the legal battle. After 6 months of legal tussle, he had to start begging. At the end I ask for one year free of rent to cover the damages. He and his lawyer gladly signed. I left after 9 months.

His mistake was taking the laws into his hands. If not your case could have been baseless and very dismissable.Had it been he did the right thing,you could have been the one begging.

koning:
It's obvious you are a landlady. I am a landlord too. Only a hungry landlord or lady builds a house with the sole aim of living off rent proceeds. Not in Nigeria. Using all the money you have to build a house for rent in Lagos, and hoping to live on rent returns is suicide.
For me, only IDLE money should be invested in a property for rentage. You must have other sources of regular income.

Seriously, you are completely inscrutable .What right do you have to determine for an investor, how he would reap from his investment.

Be reasonable.

Angelfrost:
London too far tbh... make he enter Abu Dhabi, Dubai, Doha, etc... Lagos Island dey learn abeg!!!

You people and queer comparison.

Dubai and London which is nearer?

To you Dubai is nearer? Travel and see.

Then if it's for comparison not distance , Dubai is more classy than London.

Dabronze:
So what u are sayin is that if i sleep under the bridge and have sex everyday i will be more happy or "i dnt get"

Did you see that in my write up? Can't remember saying that.

My Line of fact is completely off your point.

Dabronze:
$5billion in my acct 2. 5 mansion in Monaco 3.Marcedez Maybach 4.Gulfstream 550 Private Jets

Material things can not make you happy.

There are more to happiness than material wealth. Some people have made more than that, but were depressed and committed suicide.

okine4real:
Not everybody is proud or unreasonable. I built the house when I was 37 years. I have 5units of room and parlor self contain, and I get 500k each and I get 375k for one unit of room self contain. The said tenant is my age group, I think am older than him with two years. I leave close to the house, the parking space of the house is in from of the house, I slabbed the gutter in front of the house so my tenants can park there cars, people from other houses then come to park there cars there, so when he comes back at night, he would not get where to park.

I repeat, as a landlord, you don't lord over your tenants, if its for house, I have houses not house, but I don't lord over tenants. I have tenants owing me 4 years rent, if I pass beside them self, you would not know they are owing me. Someone said if he is coming, all his tenants go compose themselves, I don't understand? Are they living on free rent? If i paid rent, I should be able to walk around as I like. A tenant should not be a slave in my house. The koko is don't destroy my house. If you be guy and babes dey find you come as many as possible, so what....the tenant paid rent ,so let him enjoy is money, or if I go rent hotel and I dey carry different woman come the hotel, its nobodies business, so far I paid for the room.

As for locking me out, how will a tenant lock me out. A landlord would only lord over me, if my rent is cheap rent, but if am living in an expensive house, the landlord has to treat me with respect. Eg if am paying 1.5M for three bed room, as a landlord you go respect me now, if you park your car, I go even park my jeep or Range for your back, and when you won comot you go call me for phone politely. But when you are paying 350k for a three badroom is Jibowu, if landlord come you go dey say yes sir, yes sir. So bro just chill when you treat your tenants well, when them misbahave, when you back them even baba God nor go vex, this is my believe.

Now let me give you another senerio, a tenant paid 550k for room and parlor self contain, 500k rent and 50k service charge. This was in Feb 2021. Rain start to dey fall, this guys house was leaking, I had already fixed the room before they moved in, but I never new it was still leaking, this guys would call me when its raining, once it starts raining, my heart to dey skip, sometimes when leaving home they would remove there TV from the wall because of rain. This guys paid 550k, less than 2 months and they are having this issues, I look for carpenter tire, after so many disappoinents finally the roof got fixed, the couple never shouted, they never disrespected me, all this happened I believe because of how I treat my tenants. So my friend, even if you get money, be humble.....I have tenants that are 50 years plus and am not up to 40 years, but I respect them very well, I nor dey do like boss because I be landlord.

Cheers.

From your write up, I can deduce that you are very objective and a kind of disciplined. But my concern is overdoing it to avoid being belittled by the same tenants you are regarding.

Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong in being reasonable as you outlined but you need to tread with caution. You are really unique but it's quite a sensitive approach to landlord -tenant agreement

On your first paragraph, not all landlords will tolerate being called at odd hours to repark for a fellow tenant, let alone the landlord .

In your second to the last paragraph, a landlord is a landlord and must be fully respected whether the tenant is paying 2m yearly or 200,000 yearly. That's my stand and probably many people 's.

As per your last paragraph, you acted rightly and that is the best way to act.
It'll be wrong to be against a tenant that reminded a landlord of his property agreement obligation .

The landlord will be very unfair to have issues with the tenant because of such complaints.

Personally, I feel too that it's not good to bully or lord over tenants but some people like taking advantage of a sensible landlord and mistake it as weakness.

Solatium:
Since you are not sure,just move on,those of us who knows and have applied in the past don't think.
We are sure

Maybe you applied that on an uninformed landlord.Dont try that on an exposed landlord or you will pay double including the money you are gathering for a new rent elsewhere

okine4real:
i have one rule at a landlord, I dont lord over my tenants. Personally my friend has withness when one of my tenant dey raise voice, i just kept quite. My friends says guy how you dey allow your tenant talk to you like this, i told him, because i be landlord doesnot mean i can lord over the tenants. The guys sometimes go call me for phone dey shout dey report matter about the issues, i go just say i would look into it. sometimes he would even use words like Bleep...I nor go talk anything. I give all my tenants privilege to enjoy the house, my only wahala be say nor by-pass prepaid meter. even the same guy dey owe rent, he go just call me say, oga landlord, pls give me small time, i go say i done hear, but the day he was trying to try raise voice the day my wife was around, the guy no know say my wife na fine woman but na Agbero, the woman just put am for him place, he kept quite. The guy go dey call me around 11.pm sometimes because of parking space. what am saying is, its wrong for landlords to lord over tenants. They have paid for the house, so let them enjoy the house in peace.

Sarcasm of the year. I just want to assume you are not serious. One day your tenant will lock you out of your house and you will be begging him, all in the name of allowing them to enjoy their tenancy.

A tenant calling the landlord at 11pm because of parking space? Why not professionalise your comedy talent.

Solatium:




You should keep your gunpowder dry,the battle is yet to start,ignore her verbal quit notice and Carry on with your life,wait until the lawyer serves you a quit notice,by then you will know if it's to go or renew your rent,if you are to go,you are entitled to up to 6 months rent free for you to get another accomodations.

Where did you get that information that 6 months quit notice is a rent -free period? Please stop misinforming people.

6 months quit notice is for a valid rent, once the rent expires, I don't think it applies.

pstmikol1:
In my life I will never forget telim , 15ssDRIVE , Ginomel , dayleke , olu77 , frozen70 , and yemobrown. This people really stand for me and will forever appreciate their kind gesture, wherever they are may God continue to bless them. Thank you for helping me!!!

So Good knowing that the effort Was appreciated. It puts smile on one's face. God bless you too for being appreciative.

PotatoSalad:
Glad you've narrowed it down to Nigeria. It gives you a clearer picture of the situation at hand. According to economics and statistics, you need at least 2 million dollars in investable assets to call yourself rich. You may be earning more than 80% of nigerians, but that doesn't mean you're rich. You're still in the comfort category. I have a lot of money, but does that make me rich or a millionaire? Hell no. Our networths in Naira makes us think we're millionaires. We're not bro. Instead, let that motivate you.

I have been struggling to understand your argument . Sorry you sound so inscrutable.

Riches is relative. Material things are not measure of wealth. It depends on angle riches is judged from.

One could have 5million naira in his account with a modest bungalow and he would be far far richer than another person with assets worth over 500 million naira. It's about state of the mind.

Reason in this direction.

Righteousness2:
The Bible says, a Man shall not put on a woman's Garment neither should a woman put on a man's garment. All that do such are Abomination to GOD.

You don't need an angel, Prophet or seer to tell you what is men clothing or women clothing except you wanna Deceive yourself.

No Matter what we argue and say this or say that. We can only Deceive Ourselves, we cannot Deceive GOD. The Foolishness of GOD is wiser than the wisest of Men.
Everyone will stand before GOD.

Eternity is a very Serious Matter! It is a Personal Race so do not let anyone irrespective of title or Position make you miss your place in Eternity.

Nobody will answer or speak for you before GOD.

So Get the Word of GOD ( The Holy Bible) and stick to what it says not what Man thinks.

Heaven is Real
Hell is real
Don't play with your Eternity

A woman in men's clothes but a blessing to those around her and a woman in female's clothes but very devilish.

Which of the two do you prefer?

Stop being over zealous Christian.