₦airaland Forum

internationalman:
Was he killed by a white policeman...

I'd rather been racially abused in a foreign country than become slave in the hands of people who are supposed to ensure my safety.

God should please give us a fairer judgment than the rest of the world because living in Nigeria is not easy.

Stop consoling yourself. Don't make it sound as if it is very easy out there. Not easy anywhere except by God's grace.

Zion63:
Wetin Man pikin go do .

Quite a pity. I really feel for you.
Could have loved to confirm other things from you but not on this medium.

Zion63:
Well,Without an Husband I have survived this year with Two wonderful children.
Ps Their Father died 2 years ago.
Gee as you are fondly called May ur Soul Continue to Rest in Peace.Though it has not been Easy!!!!! But God is still God..........

Definitely,

EgunMogaji2:
33 my brother
And yes many and up close and personal too.

I faint. You really came and conquered US, then left like a boss. lol

Some years ago ,Tijani Cole came to my cousin's big pharmacy to buy drugs. I was at the counter with the two sales agents. They didn't recognise him but I did, though I pretended and ignored him.

After buying his drugs, he said good night all, then I answered good night Mr Cole. He surprisingly looked at me and started smiling.

He was obviously surprise that I knew him but didn't betray any sign. That's the way to go of them.

Recognise and ignore them, it will deflate their pride.



Also met Victor Osuagwu and told him, Bros you are blocking the access. I knew he would be wondering didn't this guy recognize me?

Though I did but my usual ignore mode.

EgunMogaji2:
I worked at Paramount Studio lot in Hollywood for a few years.

Nuff said

Baba, you must have seen enough of them in your 30 years stay. lol.

Viknat:
This is gaboon viper also called ajuani in ika language. U are fortunate o. It's bite kills very fast

You meant Ika dialect because Ika people speak igbo language even though some of them deny their igbo origin.

Ever8090:
Very beautiful ..but will definitely be filled with images,..that is my problem.

I am a born Catholic but stop attending when I got tired of battling with my conscience wether prostrating Infront of those images is right or wrong, and praying to Mary was one other doctrine I could not understand...but I am still in love with Catholic hymns so much..in fact I listen to hymns almost every night while I sleep off...

God bless the Pope and give him the wisdom to reduce those images and also abolish the prayer to Mary and other saints so that I can return back to my Catholic..

Maybe you were not deeply rooted in the church and does not know what was happening.


I could still remember when holy water and oil was a taboo for other Christian denominations , but what is happening now

Presently, some denominations want to dress like catholic priest on the pulpit
Every thing done in Catholic Church has a deep reason, in no distant time, other Christian denominations would emulate it.

SmellingAnus:
have you ever cheated on him? I mean have you at least flirted with another guy before

You suppose to know that if what she wrote there is really true, the husband will be taken for granted and anything could happen.

Women are so puzzling that they don't really value and cherish Mr nice guy.

The chances of cheating on him is high.

GOTVee:
Even though I've been a born again Christian of over 25 years, I think we Christians really need to let the sleeping Dog lie. I have been to several Arab nations on tourism and Evangelism and I can attest to the fact that Arabic remains one of the unique and outstanding languages on earth. What is the big deal in having Arabic inscriptions on Naira notes and Army uniform? Nigeria is a country of Muslim majority and due to their numerical advantage I think the Muslims deserve to have the Arabic as a national symbol. I mostly prefer to read my bible in Arabic language for better understanding despite being a Christian. The Muslims in this country have never complained of the fact that the national language is English. The Christian missionaries brough English language to Nigeria and our dear Muslim brothers easily accepted it without fuss. Why are we Christians trouble some unnecessarily? We Christians really to be careful not to cause a national disaster

Did you just say that Muslims are majority in Nigeria? Leave all those lies people are fed over the years.

Are you aware we have a lot of Christians in the North, even Hausa Christians but they will be in Hijab because they take it as a culture

But in the south, there is Christian dominated region

temmypotter:
This is perhaps the only Mr Nigeria in recent times that actually looked like it, these days I have no idea what pageantries are about

You got the word. That guy too sweet.

When I heard that the guy participated in the last BBN was an ex Mr Nigeria, I was like, is this the best Mr Nigeria, Nigeria could have?

Was even surprised that some people were admiring him

Enough dramatic tendencies that make our politics nightmarish.

Lastmankc:
I hate riff raff and street urchins

You should not hate yourself.

Lastmankc:
Power sweet,I no go lie. I have tasted it before

Probably you tasted that fried corn called manpower.

DontBullshitMe:
What do people get in marriage that cannot be gotten outside of it?

Sinful sex of course.

Don't bother to thank me. I'm very OK.

YahooG:
This country no fit better again, I have lost hope since,Thank jah,i will soon be leaving this shithole for Ukraine,they know my worth and profession better, not this stagnant water of a corn tree called Nigeria.

So Nigeria is so bad, though I agree, but you really think Ukraine is the solution?

There is no much difference between the Nigeria and those places ,apart from good roads and power which our corrupt politicians refused to fix

valentineuwakwe:
seet his yeye man...come see my friend wey use bot monthly to cash out heavily from adsense as a blogger ....he is ok and his hussle is legit....he bought a venza recently.so if you see am you go say n.a. Yahoo boy...
just reorient your men n let them know their limits....what about innocent persons who have been stopped, search n extorted illegally?

But Venza is less than 7m. I may not accept harassing an innocent citizen but we can not take away the fact that a young guy that owns a car of up to 10m is not suspicious, though I don't want him to be disturbed.

ejanla077:
So wats wrong with mama how u dey

Hey, How are you? How you dey?

uchman:
My wife use to ask me that and it's always heavy in my mouth to answer...

I don't see anything wrong with your wife asking you "How are you " .That's the most sincere care you could get from someone close and equal.

Unless the husband has a very low self esteem or not in charge at home, that's when it would be a concern to you.

However, it should be a no no from any lady or anybody outside .

Forget the nonsense people are saying. Most of the "how are you "are not sincere.Its either the fellow wants to show you superiority or stupid and unnecessary dominance.

He doesn't care about your well being he just wanted to foolishly proud to you.

bjprodint:
i am going through something similar now,i want to run but i dont have the resources,am sinking into depression.

Try your best to ensure the workability of the marriage, if you see it's not feasible.

Get off it and look for your happiness. Determined to confront your life challenges and make out a resources for yourself.

You wouldn't believe how it will work out when you look back.

Most importantly, put God first in all your endeavours.

poshestmina:
There are levels to this forgiveness thing.

My husband cheated on me ,right in my face!!!

I left to my family... We settled after so many families meeting and agreements.

I forgave because he WAS SINCERELY SORRY and remorseful till as I'm typing this .( In my mind,yeah).

But I'm not sure if I'd forgive a husband that labeled me a witch , abandoned me (definitely doesn't love me),gave me a bad image , accused me of adultery , ABANDONED HIS KIDS , prolly flaunting the new woman/women.


I'd definitely be a bad Christian too . DEFINITELY!!!

As in you will start cheating on him or what.

just curious.

Ghostmode2two:
I didn't bother to listen to her confession because if she confesses that did something like that, it is over between us. She knows what I can do.

Hmmm. Kudos to you

. For me, curiosity will not allow me to let it go, a problem known is half solved.

Make somebody no turn me to mumu.

onatisi:
i do eat well and sleep well too, but have never taken the bp monitoring to be anything of special importance but with what you have said now , i will make sure i take a bp check as soon as possible . thanks a lot for the advice

Please, do check it often. That guy's death really pained me.

Ghostmode2two:
Get concrete evidence then you can tell her your mind. Very sorry for the emotional pains you going through. Women are not to be trusted. I once suspected my wife about cheating too as she suddenly stopped coming home from work early as she used to and was also receiving calls from a man any time of the day and night even when were in bed together. So I told my wife to stop receiving calls from whoever that always call. I told my wife if she is interested in doing fling outside I will not hesitate to divorce her and throw her out of my house. Funny enough the man who was calling her was also a married man. She told me she wants to confess something to me, I told her that I am not interested in her stupid confession and that I have made myself clear. I told her that I will take custody of my children and she will never see them again and I mean it. She can go and do whatever pleases her, as for sex no amount of sex she is going to have outside she is not going to give birth to kids that will grow older than the ones we already had.

You really mean that you didn't hear her confession. You could have known what she was up to.

onatisi:
boss, since i got married i have NEVER NEVER LOOKED THROUGH THE PHONE OF My WIFE OR EVEN BOTHERED ANSWERING HER PHONE ,if it rings from now till tomorrow i wont pick it . i am just too damm busy that even 24hours is not enough for me at times. that is why i always laugh when i hear or read about men crying or lamenting about their wives infidelity .

what many men dont understand is , if man is rich ,successful and powerful ,it is the mans wife that will be monitoring him , stalking him and making sure that no other woman snatches away her husband , but when it the other way round then definitely such a man really does have serious problems,
Get busy ,get rich , get successful and see how women will willingly submit themselves to you wholly and totally

Hope you check your BP and strictly monitor your health?

One young rich guy ,one of the greatest distributors of a particular product with two fine hotels just collapsed and died. Said just what you said now. A day is not enough for his activities. He slept late and woke up very early.

I hope your wife will not derail and turn to what you don't expect in terms of fidelity.

Some women are as faithful as their husbands could be. Once betrayed, her next type of life is not assured.

Mrscarter:
Ikr. U can control any desire weather it be sex or any other thing.
It takes willpower and really I dnt even need that. It's been easy for me.
I started off because I was tired of unmeaningful sex/relationships n wanted to wait until I found the right person n not just any person who I thought was right.
Eventually I met someone far away n feel he's worth waiting for.
Besides no one else has interested me in a long time.
I get lonely sure n I get urges sometimes but isn't like I must run out n just screw somebody. I wanted to be a better person than before n make my body worth more than just sex if U know wat I mean.
N it will be all the more sweeter for myself and the guy when the time finally comes for us to have sex.
Yeah as much as I like sex it's not something I can't do without for as long as it takes.
More women and men should respect their bodies more n not just share it with anyone or with all different ppl all the time.
Some ppl dnt care bout their reputation or sexual health. Ten/thirty mins of pleasure just to go bk home or whatever n know you've just cheated on the one U love or that you've just screwed Ur boss/neighbour or a random person n like someone who's cheap n easy. Isn't worth it.
I've had one night stands years ago just to screw n I'm not proud of it. Wat did achieve me? But being proud of Ur body not being used by ppl who only wanna screw U n use U or knowing U have the strongest loyalty to Ur absent partner and knowing Ur not easy. Or that Ur sexual health is perfect or that U have no reputation as easy or high body count that's all worth much more than a random screw just cos U had urges

Let's just say you are doing it for yourself and your belief.

But simply know that your partner might have his own belief and coded actions too. Simple truth.

Samakus:
Nice to see a lady with this mindset. A lot of people, gender notwithstanding, believe that one can't do without sex. That's a notion I find very untrue, maybe because I fit hold body small.

Truth is, if people learn to control their sexual urges, we have successfully solved 80% of world's problems. Sadly, quite a very high percentage of human population just can't

If the world is about sex, it could have been a better place than having violence. (Berlin and Amsterdam come to mind)

The only discouragement is the increased immorality and the low spirituality that will prevail due to sex abuse.

Imagine if married couples of the world will always indulge in mutual sex (not rape)
don't you think the world will be better off without violence.

Unfortunately, all things can never be equal.
Because once there is a sexual abuse, miscreants will be born and they will turn to terrorists/violence.

But imagine a world of clean romance, there would be more peace in the world.

The question is, can we ever have a clean and approved romance??

kunkelhanspeter:
Baba God I need Toyota Avalon 2013

Mr, why are you having same wish like me. Already said mine before seeing yours. Though mine is to have 2015/2016 by Dec.just don't know why that car is always expensive.

Igbochief001:
The edo speaker too deserve praise

You are right. He was unjustly excluded from the winners.

His resilience and royalty were very instrumental to his effective coordination of the house affairs despite the threat of those not sworn in.

If he had switched over to Oshiomole side, Obaseki could not have survived impeachment.

UyaiIncomparabl:
It hasn't been easy staying a virgin all these years. I just can't wait for that glorious and heavenly night when my untouched virgin husband will pounce on me and take me to cloud nine.

That glorious day ehn, my guy prick go hear am!

Don't be a virgin because of a guy otherwise you will be disappointed. Many funny guys will pretend they valued your virginity but in actual fact they would be sick and tired of your too much expectations of sex,romance and attention. Because you have been keeping to have them in future, you will seem not to be getting enough and that will actually bore him eventually.

Instead be a virgin because of your morals and sophistication. No man will belittle you for it.

Teena18:
Some pastors sha
Didn't Jesus say forgive 70×7 times daily?

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You must be a Catholic.