₦airaland Forum

Well the only thing I like about them is that they don't need fit to fly, which is also scary if u think bout it. What happens if one goes into labor on their flight?

zannie:
They are horrible I tell you. With my first baby I used United. Excellent service all the way. I really miss them. Anyway this is my last child so...

Thanks. Do you Know any affordable hospitals at Calgary?

Konquest:
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@Gloriagee
Hi...

It's in Canadian dollars... NOT U.S. dollars.

Don't generalize esp when there's proof to the contrary. Most of us don't think this way as we have survived without Nigeria...but l can understand y he thinks this way after all the country - Nigeria was set up to benefit the North which explains the passion with which they fight for it. Most of us couldn't care less esp if we can leave Nig without a war.

no be small e. delta sucks when travelling alone with an infant. On the domestic flight to Atlanta from Houston, no infant seat belt. When l asked the air hostess, she said we don't have infant seat belts on this flight. On the intl flight to lag- no infant seat belt and when l asked the air host ,he said ur hands are the best seat belt for the child and that was how l didn't even nap for one sec from ATL to Lag. Mcheww

zannie:
Hi guys
Second missionary journey done and dusted. Came home 2 days ago. I will say two things:
DO NOT PAY ANYBODY MONEY TO GET YOU APPROVAL FOR VISA ON ARRIVAL! I stupidly paid a colleague just because I didn't want stories about not getting the approval email before my travel date and I have been seriously regretting it since.
DO NOT USE DELTA AIRLINES IF YOU WILL BE TRAVELING ALONE WITH YOUR INFANT. That was my worst trip ever. I made firm reservations for a bassinet only to find out they didn't even have any on the plane. I ended up carrying my baby the entire trip. This is why I miss United airlines.

Good luck to everyone. I'm done

Well, from this sole post, I can tell she has a detailed approach to cooking. C'mon she even seasoned the flour. I recently started following matse on IG, n when I get bored visit sisi yemmie and Jemima's sites n I'm sure it's nothing she can't handle.

Coldfeets:
Na wa o!

Just Because Of One Post?

You think say to run and maintain a blog easy?

By the way, cococandy of what use is tempting and seducing someone's taste buds if you know they will not touch?

I'm sure you have the strength! Baby steps,
initially n with time you'll get the hang of it.

cococandy:
thank you

I don’t know if I have the strength for that. It’s taking all my energy to even create this thread

Start a food blog or vlog. You are good!

bobo yln wa confused gan

can we see pics dear? does lt affect fertility? ls lt safe for newborns? Heard so much bout lt n l'm curlous

Introduction or trad. Ayam not following...

Was Jesus - 1st born of Mary cursed

He waited one full hour after she supposedly sent him a message about his burying her, inferring suicide and he doesn't have a hand. Callous man.

As for the babe killing ur beautiful self after ur 1st class and gorgeous kids, odiegwu. Nigeria must survive... Me sef must survive. I cannot kee myself on top man matter. My children remain my utmost priority and I have no apologies for that.

What of his colleagues? Neighbors? Church folks? U Neva jam... U go tire

Do ur best and leave the rest for God...

biacan:
I can never bring a maid to my house when I get married biko........don't want my husband to be taken away from me by another woman....

Mcheww

Bro, I'm truly sorry about the issues you're facing in your marriage and I'm not going to pretend that I have all the answers.

I truly believe that you have been wounded and that you have to start the process of healing yourself and then the marriage cos if u don't, both of you will keep hurting each other. Not because you're mean but because hurting people hurt people.

I sort of can see why u feel slighted if ur MIL did not commiserate with you but commiserated with ur mum. Somehow, I missed that in ur initial post, but it's sort of irrelevant to me. Since the woman is as toxic as u say, isn't it better she's keeping interactions to the barest minimum. But if u feel strongly bout what she did, u can tell ur wife how slighted you feel even in a lighthearted manner. Truly I prefer passing info to in-laws thru the connecting spouse and ur wife should be able to handle it.

I really don't see why the Pastor should go on to tell you what the mum said and however she went wrong. I may be wrong though. His business is to pass on his message according to the gospel and as his conscience permiits whilst facilitating reconciliation. What he did is in bad taste. Nowadays people can't confide in pastors as u end up becoming laughing stocks and gossip topics.

My summary is this - work on ur marriage, please forgive and FORGET her infidelity. This is easier said than done, though. Stop making ur MIL so powerful. Ignore her and have a heart to heart with wife bout what triggered the infidelity - sexual dissatisfaction or emotional distance. If it's the former try to learn her sexual preferences and if it's the second, practice the art of empathy.

I truly wish u the best

kapelvej:
But I believe I have let so many things go, I have forgiven everything that needs to be forgiven, why can't they respect me for that, rather they see it as weakness. On a good day, there should be no problem at all when my MIL visits my parents. I said she has been avoiding my for over a year now, because she was caught red-handed in trying to use her pastor to manipulate me, she actually told her pastor to tell me it does not matter, but the PASTOR simply told her issues of infidelity must not be swept under the carpet. The man was so angry and told me to be careful this was after the man tried to arrange a meeting between all of us. From that same time my MIL, STOPPED attending that church and has been avoiding me. Thank God the man stood his ground.
Also, the reason for going without telling me amounts to undermining. She said she did not tell me because I will not allow her... This is where the problem lies. why do it when you know I will not allow it.

Oga, whilst I'm sorry about your loss, ur initial post was all about the failure of ur MIL to inform you that she visited ur mum, before and after the visit. Which in my honest opinion is not a crime.

She's so bad but she travelled to commiserate with your mum. You are overflogging this issue and there are better ways to handle it. Just don't set ur home on fire trying to get rid of a cockroach.

kapelvej:
Thanks for your response, but if you read the story again you will see where the problem lies, if we lost someone, I should be the one she should start with, not jumping to see my mum without commiserating with me.And kindly see the part where I said she has been avoiding contact with me because of her trying to manipulate me through her pastor.

Dude, ko ye mi. Why on earth does ur MIL need to tell u she's going to see ur mum for? Can't ur mum give u that update? So someone must announce a good deed before doing that.

You are making a good deed seem like a disfavor. You guys were bereaved n she went to commiserate with ur mum, u dey vex. What's her crime?

Freeze do me a favor...jus shut up!

Happy birthday to a very humble man of God. You indeed are blessed and have been a blessing. We celebrate you today, Sir.

@op, u didn't add that 100 days fasting he ordered in 2014. That one na another notable feat

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She tries too hard....

ko ye mi! She's bothered bout housemates wey no reach 20 wen her parents and the whole of Africa sef are in the know. She's funny ...

Yeah, but this is the Op's decision to make and apparently he doesn't want to marry an AS if he's one. Since we don't know his religion or personal experiences, bro, please run another check to avoid stories that touch.. .

Guitarlife:
My position in 1 word it is not scriptural.

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N here's where we disagree. If you have so much faith not to birth sicklers, I dare say u can stand in faith for ur genotype to be changed prior to marriage. A number of churches - Winners, Redeemed and maybe
Salvation Min have recorded such testimonies.

N FYI, the church is not a govt establishment. If you don't accept my rules, u don't have to get married there, so suing for what?

Most Nigerians are always quick to point out the watered down version of oyibo Christianity, the uncovered hair, gay's n Wat have you but I guess you'll accept their standards when it comes to protecting unborn kids. Well, what do I know?

Guitarlife:
You do have a right to take this position but if the church were to take this logic it totally defeats the whole essence of the message of Faith that the church stands for.

Plus I think for an organisation its totally discriminatory and also intrusive.

Such a decision clearly relegates the seat of the holy spirit. Its rather disturbing, I am not sure churches abroad could pull that off.

They'd get sued and rightly so.

Yeah, the church will have stopped the marriage if both of us were AS. Most Nig churches do and I definitely am in support.
I have no faith to take a chance of birthing sicklers n will avert that risk as much as I can.

Guitarlife:
Wait, are you saying the church would have stopped your marriage for genotype incompatibility ?

Thats quite profound. Faith ?

Yeah mistakes happen all the time. I kid you not. I remember when I was about getting married and the church requested for genotype results. I stopped by at a hospital with good structure and they took my blood sample. I told them I'll be back in the evening after work to pick up the results.

In the evening, got there picked up my neatly packaged result in an envelope which indicated my genotype was different from the typical one I had known from childhood so I was quite surprised but felt all was OK till I noticed the lab staff were jittery and whispering to themselves.

When I asked what the ish was, they said that there was an issue as per they did not follow the standard for getting the blood sample. That the results was not consistent and that I should not be angry. They now retook the samples and that my genotype was not what they advised previously.

I left utterly bewildered so if I hadn't known my genotype before that's how I would have been deceived. Since then I no longer doubt ppl who say they thought they were Aa before marriage and later found out they were AS.

Cos she's half?

kingthreat:
His ex-wife is way prettier

This lady is beautiful barefaced. Wonder what she will look like with make up on

friendlyadvice:
the gal no even fine