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Who's Kelechi? N if she looks old Kwanu? Oya take her to court, abi is her hubby complaining. Mcheww

PheezyLee:
Kelechi really got this wrong, she truly looks old &shouldnt av posted this.. IMO

SMH...Those are bath robes

Corn and ube

What part of Houston and what are accommodation details?

nanie89:
Please any Houston mum who wants to share accommodation cost From August to October? Thank you.

Please does the Haers come with the bag?

dunasy:
Food flasks

Master chef - N4,200
Potluck -N 8,400
Haers- N 8,000

What stops u from introducing the guy to your parents as your friend? That way he can stop by and say hello to everyone and u chat with him. Truth is my parents also would have felt disrespected if a guy parks outside the compound without saying hello. Seems like they are quite religious too...they might be worried bout being seen as condoning evil. Pele... e go better.

the okorocha one cracked me up... guess he'll make her commissioner of assurance

They are not hypocrites...simply saying it the way it is. You'll be deluding yourself if u overlook how fundamentally hypocritical the Nig society is wired to be and the slut shaming that'll def follow with what shes done. make she kukuma thank God say them no call her 'ashawo' which every Nig female has been called at some point.

nanakgh:
friggin hypocrites..all of you...Nina didn't Bleep alone...you ladies have been kissing Miracle's ass nonstop but r so eager to bash Nina. one up there is even saying no sane woman will allow her son to marry Nina. smh but your daughter can marry Miracle tho right.

ndi ewu. Nigerians just have to vote against thrash like this. Ogini?

Just shuutttt it biko. Selling birthright for a piece of tuwo.

just shutup!!!! Peeps like u are always blaming the victims

forreelinc:
Hmmmm so he raped her more than 20 times and she didn't tell no one? Are you sure she wasn't enjoying it or something?

Relocate from one's land of birth cos u said so... yeah right

Filed in jokers' section

Purewatermeji:
Relocate from the region if there is pollution. Every Nigerian owns that oil. Simple

belongs to everyone cos u live with the horrible effects of oil pollution ba?

Purewatermeji:
Sense of entitlement is common with these Niger delta youths. They will never work but waiting to earn free money just because oil is in their region. No wonder president Buhari called them lazy and irresponsible. The oil belong to every Nigerian, enough of this nonsense

I hear ye.

ImaIma1:
You guys need to go for counselling. That is your best bet. Your wife needs to hear it herself from a professional or Cleric that a woman should never say No to her husband.

Off course there are times when she is genuinely tired or ill.

There is nothing like not being in the mood. She should get in the mood

Reminds me of a Nollywood movie where the hubby and wifey sacrificed their son for a sacrifice and lied to their other kids that he was abroad schooling.

After some time the juju now requested for his wife behind the yeye wife's back. Somehow, she found out and now supported the husband by arranging for him to get a second wife who was now the sacrifice.

Since then I've viewed all 'well meaning' and 'supportive' women who are Happy bout their husband bringing in competitors for oga's time n affection as having a hidden agenda. #I'm not that gullible

Except helping your spouse shouldn't be all bout sex but about being each other's helpmeet. He acknowledges her work and domestic schedule is pretty intense. Lil things contribute to building an atmosphere of intimacy.

pcguru1:
I don't think choreplay works , though he should help to make things not just easier for her but sane, if she knows the act is because of sex it would seem somehow, then again its possible she's not just attracted to the husband anymore.

Do you help her with household chores? Bearing with working class women is not enough. Go out of your way to make things easier for her.

N listen. U mention that she's complaining incessantly. Wats the common denominator in her complaints? Listen without being judgy n see how you can help address the issue (s). Good luck!

My dear, they didn't send me a bill. The only statement they sent me had N/a or something on it and said I should expect a proper bill which never came. Called the number on the statement several times gave DOB of baby but they said there was no trace of her in system. Even 'travelled' back to hospital to meet with Sheila and she said I was in the clear from hospital point of view.

Christine77:
6 months after? Wow! I guess I was lucky. But if u get a bill saying past due it means on their system they had already sent u a bill. There is always a mix up with dese companies.
What I sha learnt is to argue n argue ur case till u’ve Exhausted every means necessary especially if u didn’t get a bill before this past due bill.

Waoh seems like u had a manageable experience with them. Didn't get my bill for 6 months after birthing and the bill stated 'Past Due' on date of 1st receipt. I got the hospital's zero balance letter mailed to my host's address on date of discharge. Pathologist's bill came on time but for some reason Pediatrix just couldn't trace my child not to talk of sending a bill. I kept calling and calling cos I wanted to clear all bills prior to leaving the US and they all sounded clueless irrespective of who they transferred you to. For this sole reason I'd vowed to port to Oakbend cos who needs more stress when there's a newborn in the pic? So annoying...

Christine77:
Take it easy mama. Don’t worry the discount applies from the date you receive your bill aka d date on the bill sent to you.
They use to dealing wit insurance companies. So if u call n the person you are speaking to does not understand ask to be transferred to a supervisor or a financial officer. Don’t let pediatrix give u high bp. Bad as e bad, u can pay wit a card over the fone if u end up not being able to get d bill and ask they send the receipt to your house addy in the US or email.
Please how is our baby?

My dear sis, pediatrix is a nightmare and that's putting it mildly. My own 1st bill had no account number and no patience reference no. Every time i called bout the baby's bill - feedback would be the patient does not exist. I'm yet to figure out why hospitals are switching to them as it makes no sense and I've always wondered if there's something fraudulent bout them.

Even after payment, they couldn't reflect the right amount paid and I still had to contest that. Little wonder their online reviews are consistent with nasty experiences by Nigerians so I doubt that their unrivaled unprofessionalism Is limited to cash paying customers.

CheeseMama:
Pediatrix is just horrible! I called them prior to delivery and was too i couldn't pay in advance as there was no account to apply the payment to since my baby would be the account holder. After delivery i called practically everyday and they did not have my billing information. The HBP rate is only allowed if you pay within 30 days. They just sent me a bill with only account number, the amount isn't stated. After almost 3 weeks, I kept asking if they will honour the discount if i haven't received their bill 30 days from delivery. The payment rep I spoke to was so clueless. I will call them tomorrow to find out what the charge is and also to insist that they honour the HBP rates.

Thou lady art quite harsh. Kilode?

Oyindidi:
Do you know how much taxi drivers make a day? You make it look as though driving is a sin. You have a long way to go if you don't get rid of that mentality. I have taxis and drivers that work for me, if only you know how much they make. You can drive but you sit at home for your parents to feed you and now you want to kill yourself. Mumu

I guess you can leave us to make our choice, right. For me, my kids will always come first and my mental health next but I def intend to be more than a passive onlooker in my partner's life. Everything adds up in the end so to quote the Good Book - He who repays good with evil, evil will not depart from his house so i'm gonna try to do all the good I can....

Flowers95:
Good day young women.

I have some tips that I would like to share to you young ladies especially those from 18 -28, women who are in their prime, Relationship and lifestyle tips as this takes a large percentage of your life. As a woman who has lived for quite of number of years and experienced things in life, I would like young women especially to wisen up, prepare for the future because you will not be young forever.

I was once like you, thought and believed I was untouchable until age and time hit me, I’m blessed and I have not experienced great regret however, many women my age have lived to regret their decisions made in the past.

1. Marry a man 10-15 years older than yourself.

Women who marry within their age bracket will most likely regret it, we age faster than men, you will not be 20 something forever. Once that man hits 40-50, he starts going through his mid life crisis. He wants to feel young again, if you’re his age mate, he’ll feel old around you and physically you’ll look like his mother not wife. If he doesn’t leave you for a younger woman he’ll cheat on you severely.

2. You are not bob the builder.

Young women please stop taking out huge loans to help your man start a business or whatever the issue may be. Stop giving him huge amounts of money to build his life please please please. Men like to feel like men, he knows you will always take credit for his success and that takes away from his manhood. He will take your money and leave you for another lady that he can impress. So many young women make this mistake of helping a man succeed and end up with nothing tangible in the end apart from debts, children and a broken heart. Women be wise.

3. You owe unconditional to your children, ONLY.


Men do not love you unconditionally, if your vagina cannot make them ejaculate, you cannot prepare their favourite meal, you do not look appealing or cannot produce children for them you are useless to them. They will never love you for ‘who you are’ without additional bonuses. Yet you young women are made to feel bad about wanting a man that can provide for yourself and family. That can provide a lifestyle of luxury. Young women please be smart, and stay focused on what you can benefit from a marriage. Unconditional love is not existent in a marriage my dear.

4. Keep up with your looks and do not let yourself go.
Stop listening to your boyfriend that tells you to reduce the amount of makeup. Stop listening to him when he says he doesn’t like Brazilian hair, it’s a trap. Men like to protect their territory, if he can stop other men from looking at you, his job as a boyfriend/husband will be much much easier my dear. He won’t have to spend as much on you, make as much effort because he knows you’re not going anywhere. Invest in your looks and let that man be scared to lose you, always, please! Regardless of your age.

5.
Stop splitting the bills. Young Women please, let that man be a man I beg una! Stop contributing huge amounts of money in the house. You’re making life extremely harder for yourself and easier for him. He is there to take care of you, that is his Job. Whilst you are helping him pay the bills and also doing 80% of the household chores and childcare, he will spend his extra money and time on a younger prettier lady who will do absolutely nothing for him. Let him take care of the bills and all finances in the house as MAN. Stack your personal/extra money away for rainy days. Be smart oh, I use God beg all of you.

This brings me to my other point. Have something going on for yourself young women. Just because you’re beautiful, that doesn’t mean you should sit on your bottom all day and be unproductive, its not wise at all. Have something going on for yourself, even if it’s small, don’t be lazy This will also help you with rainy days, and you will always have something to fall back on. Wealthier men also like women who have something going on, even if it’s small. I met my husband at 23 I was schooling and had a small hair business on the side. That attracted him more to me as he knew that i had a life outside of our relationship. Quality attracts quality.

6.Put yourself first, Always.
Never Compromise yourself for any man, not even your husband. Always remember that he can leave you and you will be left with nothing if you give your ALL. It should always be a give and take, not give give give. My dear, you must secure a future for yourself and children before anything.

As an older lady, I have witnessed multiple women crying to me about heartbreaks, their husbands cheating or leaving them, they have nothing even though they helped the man to where he is today. It’s always the same story and I always tell them the same thing. Get into a relationship/marriage with a GOAL not expectation. Expectations = disappointment, goals are made to be met. Stop marrying for love, get this silly fairytale illusion out of your head because it’s non existent. Love is secondary but your livelihood is more important. I’m not expecting everybody to understand, however in 10 years you will look back and regret. A word is enough for the wise. Good day my people! I

Dude, what a story indeed. Look, like attracts like. I know you're a cheapskate so I'm NOT baffled that u can get girls u give N500 to and they don't feel insulted. N500 to do what? Can't buy me lipgloss, can't buy data so yo I know ur specs - local as hell

GROW UP so u can drive cars that r better than camry, inugo

Shugarlord213:
My story....

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.

I have over 40 ladies single and married on my WhatsApp. Over 76 unread messages... I hope your babe no day among, if she is I don’t care how you feel I go nacck am...

I got no respect whatsoever for any female human being way day bend down pisssss

Except you be Virgin I don’t mind settling down with you, and please Don’t start whining about virgins with bad character, for a lady to abstain from s.xx till her beloved guy married her is a sign she can definitely stick to you, i cherish loyalty over everything else

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What's the new price?

ozycy:
Ok, I just learnt Oakbend increased their prices again, ghen ghen

Guys biko can anyone give a pointer as to actual Doctor experiences in Oakbend? As per any pleasant or unpleasant experiences that stick out?

Na by force...

@ hotstepper ejo du Know any hospitals in calgary that'll accept non insurance patients

Hotstepper:
have reaponded tp all emails i got



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