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onirugbon1: hehehehehe not my fault. Her posts can have any of the 2 such meanings at the first read.

Sophyrocks: My sister, i no dey vex o. Infact im laughing as im typing. LOL.

Seriously if the men are sooooo generous and are always in the mood of giving, why cn't they direct their generosity to the right channels? Buut of course, these men won't give without getting something in return. wetin babies wan give these men in return? That is why SAMBARRY is very correct. Men nowadays do not do things for you unless you've got something to give them.

lofty900: ur post is incomplete jor, give more details. how did she find out ?

Chillisauce: Go and read read about basic personal hygiene , then you teach your mother.
This is not the best place for you to do that. Take your home economics book and get to work.
Poor children.

snazzylove: When I was younger, my mama used to say that husband and wife issues are always settled on the bed, I didn't understand it then, thought she meant just sitting or lying on d bed to settle the matter . But now I know better. @Godmystrenght: putting momma's advice into practice . Kip it up.

snazzylove: Yes. Was told the same thing too. Reason is that it will prevent the older one from falling sick. Superstitious though.

ideee03: Or what if the infant was the first child? foncused

onirugbon1: ooohhhhhhhh I see. The Op didn't explain it that clear now. Ok it fairer but still dirty and unhealthy.

Hehehehehe Godmystrength, you have the qualities of a good tutor.

pussygotlips: Are u okay

Sophyrocks: You made a point earlier. Why flash cheese in front of a rat? Whenever a problem arises,the best way to solve it is to start from the root cause not the top/surface. This problem starts from the chasing and flashing of riches in exchange for intimacy. MARRIED MEN WHO ARE SUPPOSED TO STICK TO THEIR WIVES CHASING SINGLE LADIES. Why? The motive behind that act is the problem and the 'mother' of all other problems. why do you have to flash riches Hoping that ladies will not collect them? does that make sense? are you helping that way? Isnt it better not to flash at all, stay yor lane and stick to your wife? if you have too many gifts to dash, motherless babies homes nko? why dnt you open a foundation for that? YOUR WIFE NKO? she no need those gifts?

Tallesty1: Did you mother fly away after saying that? Why didn't you ask her?

onirugbon1:

You mean the dirty soapy scum water? kept for years and used again on another innocent child? Not in Nigeria. Our ancestors were not that wicked. Atleast, not my yoruba ancestors

snazzylove: Happy for you gal.
But come and finish d story...lol

pussygotlips: It means if u don't have the spirit of Christ in you,
You can't be able to speak his word.

Just as pvccy got lips but it can't talk.

onirugbon1: 3 posts since 2010? You feel embarrassed to open this topic with your other moniker abi?


1. Never heard of it before, dosen't make sense to me

2. It could be peculiarly your family's traditional belief and rites...but such should have been abolished because its unhealthy, keeping water in one spot for years. If it doesn't dry up, it would become an abnormal and infested water.

3. Maybe you didn't hear your mum properly. You may go back and ask again

4.

SAMBARRY: L to the I and A with the R and the S






excuses to keep on yashin the wife that the place has not healed

joanne1: Hi evryone, I do wanna know ur tots on dis issue. My Mum says d water used in bathing an infant wld b used to bath his/her immediate older sibling. Hw true is dis and why?

hispinkolo: @Godismystrength
I go love ooooooo .
Happy for youuuuu. I'm sure he will repent.
Good job!

Amelian: @ op, your friend or you have to be on the same wavelength, with your fiance. if two cannot work together, its better to let go.. At least, they are not married yet. plans can still change and everyone goes their own way and be with other partners that share their different views. The guy, in question seems like a struggling guy, and the lady too seems shes also not bouyant.. Both shud be open and plain about how much they earn monthly, and how much they are ready to sacrifice into their daily upkeep. and open an account for it.
if both are not ready to work together on this?..
solution 1:
the lady should go and look for a rich man to marry , so she can be a full tradition wife, with her rich husband taking care of her. e never too late o.
the guy, shud count his losses, give her back wat she bought in his house, and focus on making more money to stabilise his finances, and also seek out for a lady who understands, where hes coming from.


so, peeps e still early to do U turn... marriage is Not byforce or by manage... Its all about Sharing, Selflessness, undivided care, Trust that both of you av your backs for each other, and total discretion from both partners, no matter the situation... i notice the lady in question is not discreet...
word of advise , madan.... pls be discreet... dont disgrace your partner or whomever u end up with publicly or even at home... its not done... and its very immature..

peace~

crackhaus: Thank goodness I never cheated once before, this post ain't for me...no doubt!

Wendy80: Hahahahah

Godmystrength
Thank God for the happy ending. **clappinghands**

bodashee: @Godismystrength, that's so good to hear. Happy for u.

Icherishu: Awwwww so sweet. How I love happy ending. Please dear just watch and don't be carried away.

phabulous88: I'm a responsible man, my parents raised me well, I fear God, plus I've got sense

phabulous88: I promise you that we'll stop chasing when ladies stop demanding and dressing semi unclad.

Icherishu: Sweetie we are waiting for update in the other thread. You should understand na.

phabulous88: I ain't referring to all girls, just them lazy prostitute.s ones who need someone to talk sense into them.

Sophyrocks: AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
#Wipes tears from eyes#

phabulous88: If you don't market your goods, nobody's gonna patronise you

phabulous88: Nobody's crying foul. It just doesn't make sense when I hear peeps put the blame on the man. We're all at fault, our generation is deeply fvcked.

phabulous88: For those of you saying it's a man's fault, are you guys stewpid? Must a man (who's not your spouse) help a lady? Is she disabled? Can't she work & fend for herself? Has she no common sense?

Go to developed countries & you'll see high school/college girls working part time jobs through school. Are they better than you are?

Ok I see, all you wanna do is being lazy all day, watch E, apply mac and hope that your cookie is gonna fetch you bread. Hoes! Our society is fvcked! Nobody wonna work but everyone wants to live like a paparazzi. It's craz.y!