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SAMBARRY: you can't expect anyone to change automatically just because he or she got married. Someone used to his space and privacy cannot immediately change. It takes time to adjust. I don't understand why op is looking for problem when there's none because I don't see any problem here

But we can't say for sure how long the OP has been at it. What if the person is not willing to change or adjust?

sello555: @Godmystrength,you must be a clown,lol.

ledafaze: [size=13pt]The lady is sick...[/size]

[size=14pt]Whenever I am out with my wife, I dont miss any moment... Even if I am to miss, she will be the one to call me to see a big bum passing by or a size E bleast I didnt call her to see earlier... Life is short.... enjoy it with ur partner duh[/size]

You can't call the lady sick because you don't know the nature and extent of the man's staring/looking......


It is a different thing whe you are both calling out the bobbies and what have you. Not when you have her beside you and she is talking to you and getting no response only for her to see you almost dripping saliva because you are busy sizing some yanshes and bobbies across the road.....

[size=5pt]I will just slap the man into another continent. nonsense[/size]

What is this now? Does she want to break the baby's neck or back?

lofty900: please post the youtube link on the video in which he was beheaded. We wanna watch the gruesome video

learnt another thing about you now. how many more weird things do you really engage in?

jinkees: I swear you must be high on cheap drugs I suggest u have a very serious problem how can u serve God and babalawo at the same time? shocking bro na wahoo nothing eye go see commot blood. abeg you are def neva going to find a wife just give up ur life history is already bleeped up #giving pastor and babalawo 1m in d name of looking for wife#

So you believed him?

This is not what i was expecting to read jare... Was expecting to see something else ..........................Maybe i came too early?

babysugar1: [color=#000099][/color]
It is the remaining clean water dat wil be use for the immediate siblin. It is done in sum cases to prevent the older one frm gettin sick out of jealousy for the new born baby.

okay o. OP didn't explain like that sha...

bodashee: @snazzylove, I've got 3D glasses o. Shey make I borrow u?

Try again later o...

megamindmaster: Hmmm. This thing "night love" that you people are sharing @snazzylove and Godismystrength, continue... There is Godu o... Easy o!

priest2u: Its official most women loves sex more than men. Can't believe what I'm reading here lol

Where did that come from?

Pavore9: Hmm....l hope this does not apply to a man who is
polygamous with wives still bearing children! No one should be made to
pay for the lifestyle choice he has made.

lol. It means from one paternity leave to another. He might even spend a whole year on pat leave.

lofty900: haha, stupidity @ work

that is worse than stupidity imo. You need help. Feel so sorry for you.:*

lofty900: liar

Learn to close your mouth sometimes to save yourself.

^^^#drops the curtains and puts off the lights#. Can't afford to keep him waiting. Good night all. Off to perform one of my conjugal duties o

crackhaus: Hehehe.... as far as I can remember, I think I'm sure..I think

i am sure you are not sure because you think you are sure but not certainly sure

Icherishu: Then you have to use the communication techniques. Talk more. Talk more and talk more.

that i do/am doing now my sister. May God help me.

Sophyrocks: And what tha hell is that supposed to mean? which kind talk be this?

leave him jare. Na small pikin dey worry him. What does he know than to be having attention around naked babies.

lofty900: nice strategy , but then it also means that ur bum is
as flat as a.boki slippers else he wouldn't have been carried away

shut up there. flat ke? Abi i can suffocate him wt up and down sef. E no fit chop am finish.

choirmistress: So a couple got into a fight because the guy was staring at a lady with big bum & the lady was angry. Is there anything wrong with admiring a beautiful and endowed lady or a handsome man once you are married? Is this considered cheating?

Nothing wrong with that but if he is ogling, i will just slap his face forward and ask if he has finished eating the one on his plate before ordering for another one

on a more serious note, the day hubby got carried away, i just acted as if nothing happened. When he was through with that one, i started pointing out different sizes of bobbies and yanshes to him :the good, the bad and the ugly. even old mama and small pikins. By the time he got the drift, he felt embarrassed and begged me not to show him any again because he was no longer comfortable. Since that time, whenever we are together, he go just face his front ni o

MARKone: OP u would have used that 2 million to buy yourself a very loyal wife

Or Dog u mean to say??

Icherishu: Dear I used to be like you, though a part of me is still like you. But marriage has toughen me up, though not to the extent I want but I am getting there. Experience has thought me that anything you don't want later, you have to deal with it as they arise.

You need to be a bit tough on some of the issues. Unless you realised that every day you are being drained emotionally trying to please a lot of people.

I will still advise that while you are watching still collect his phone and delete all the numbers that is related to your work people. Then go to your contacts and change the names. Cos from what I can feel here, you ain't strong emotionally to lock your phone becos you don't want the drama that will accompany it.

Very insecure men are very manipulative, I have been there once but dear I must tell you I carried my load and run as far as. It was easy for me though cos we were dating. So now that you are married to him, don't just see it as love. Try to handle it by being firm. It isn't easy though cos this is a hubby we are talking about, but remember that your job is also very important

Doing that will not achieve much because he is very good with numbers. It can only work for new numbers (the ones he hasn't seen/noticed). Even if i delete all the contacts on his phone he can't be bothered because most numbers are in his head and he only has some few written somewhere and they won't include my colleagues numbers.

Lock phone ke? That won't work o. The next thing is for him to just ask for the password (cos he will assume i locked it because of our son). If i refuse, hmmmm, let's not even go there........ It has happened before and it wasn't funny. A very serious matter indeed.

Mind you, he wasn't like this before marriage. He acts less bothered about my phones. Maybe because i have VERY FEW friends so less contacts on my phones and even less calls. MOST of my contacts and calls are family members

phabulous88: LOL. Trust me, its in Diamond Bank

good. keep it up

ideee03:

That was in response to this

ideee03: Or what if the infant was the first child? foncused

instead of wasting the water, since there is no older sibling, the parents can stand in the gap for that. No wastage. Water must be used to the last drop ni

carefreewannabe: I don't understand exactly what you are saying but the water can be used for BOTH children for economical and ecological reasons, which is a good idea.

nyama more like bathing the baby and gathering the water in a bowl to also be used on the innocent older sibling .. for whatever reasons? bad idea i think. What if it is the new born baby's first bath?? You can imagine the state of the water after everything. So GROSS

snazzylove: Hahahahahahahaaa grin. Noo. If there is no new baby d last born won't fall sick. The 'falling' sick according to them, is due to the new born. #Jealousytinz# grin

Okay

mamateniola1: @Godmystrenght oh Good that you have resolved it. Marriage no be easy thing!!

na true jare

bodashee: @snazzylove.....that end of story that you are searching for.......

leave her alone o. She go search tire....

phabulous88: If I'm gonna deal with the root cause of promiscuity in men, I'll get rid of stuffs they are attracted to. And this, my dear, is the cheese I was referring to - semi unclad ladies displaying their wares.

And talking about motive being the problem, girls know that guys are easily aroused by what they see, and that's why you see them marketing their goods. If guys don't see these wares, cookie chasing will reduce and the rate of illegal conji will plummet. Its like a guy who is used to moi moi (his wife) and you're offering him shawarma, which one u go choose? Lol.

And by the way, there's no wife yet

my hubby doesn't like shawarma. He is ENJOYING my moi moi.

Then start saving the gifts for when you see WIFE.

mamateniola1: It's indeed a trust issue! I know what d way yu feeling now because I once experienced it. My boyfriend now DH will call my phone lik 1million times because he was seriously suspecting I was up to something or with another guy.so irritating!!
Start by telling him he should drop his Friends numbers just two of them so that yu can be calling them to check on him whenever his number isn't going tru. Don't show that you are angry so that he wnt know yu wan do 'do me I do you '.

he knows me too well. even when i am pretending, he know's what's up o. Anyway we don settle the matter last night.

As per his friends numbers, they no born the friend that will call my number well o. The friend will explain himself till saliva will finish from his mouth. Hubby doesn't joke to that level o. You call me and have no explanation for it, na to dis-friend the friend with immediate alacrity.
To now hear me ask for his friends' numbers from him na to get ready for 3rd world war....