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3cycle: 360 degrees

is that a s-ex position? please show me

Sophyrocks: The Op has not told us the truth. He has skeletons in his closet. There is no way a woman would go to such lengths of reaction if he had not provoked it in the first place. I wish the wife would read this thread and tell us her own side of the story.

I am just looking at the OP. He thinks people don't know anything. why did he ask advice from only married MEN. Is this the MARRIED MEN ONLY section? i don't have advice for him. I am not a matured married man

aisha2: You are okay with your husband cheating other people but you are worried he is now cheating you. You know its fraud yet you are content with chopping this dirty money. Anyway, una deserve each other no advice wish you the best.

Am no saint but cheating anyone is a No- No in my book

babe how are you doing?

Chillisauce: See your mouth like case of twins.

Make I keep quiet before I talk Wetin I no wan talk.
Anyway,
She should wean your son off the breastmilk. He will walk sooner or later. Boys walk late though .

She should now focus on her health now she is pregnant. as you are counting your blessings make sure her health is paramount. Check up, medication should be taken when due.
Wish her stress free pregnancy

That one go be for another pregnancy o because the ''pregnancy'' don become a boy of 7months old

wolewill: @idowuogbo we have been married for 9years. We have never had any reason to get anybody involve in our family life. But on this particular case I am not sure it will remain hidden for long. My wife will be shattered emotionally and I am not sure she will be consolable. The people I mentioned are people that I know genuinely cared for us and they will be very objective. But I understand your point. I will consider it all prayerfully. But thanks for your thot and line of reasoning

But i think you it will be better to share it with her alone first. Then her reaction will determine whether to involve third parties or not.

I can't imagine my hubby cheating on me/putting me in a mess and breaking the news to me in front of my father or any other third party. More like adding salt to my injury

He needs to get this sorted out with his wife. My problem is not even with the traveling after all his wife has been doing a lot even with him in the country. But he should know that he can't be with the children 24/7..

[size=5pt]well, since he is not use to all the wife's kind of upbringing, even the smallest bum smack can be exaggerated sha. But which one is even better:bare hands or cane??[/size]

Is it the MAN that will decide how many degrees the wife should ''bag''?

We are each others next of kin (in case of emergency, call my hubby).
Apart from my hubby, i am the other person that has the best interest of my children. Not any uncle, aunty, sister, brother, parents or siblings. My husband can't come and tell me that his parents or relatives can take care of my children better than i can and also vice versa. Concerning inheritance, though we don't have much now but the little we have are joint properties even to our washing machine. It is Mr and Mrs his first name, my first name and our surname. So it belongs to BOTH of us. So i see no reason why he will now say that he is willing EVERYTHING to the kids because they are not his alone. If he wants to will everything he has to his children, then let him will ONLY all his own PORTION and leave my own portion alone for me then if i like i will all to my children BY MYSELF or anyhow i like.

When we got married, we both didn't have anything to our individual names so it is not like reaping where i did not sow. In fact, anything i reap now, i actually cleared the land for the farming with MY VERY OWN hands........ (even when i wasn't working/earning money, I WAS CONTRIBUTING)


People talking that it is the child the MUST inherit once he/she is of age......No problem..
I(and my siblings) don't expect to inherit my daddy's properties while my mum is still alive. We knew how much she put into building the properties with my dad. In fact, there is no way they can even share the properties because they won't know who owns what e.g when building a house, while my daddy is worrying about cement and sand, my mum is worrying about burglary proofs and windows, dad is worrying about plastering, mum is worrying about painting, dad is worrying about roofing, mum is worrying about the interiors etc. Even if we were still young, we trust either of our parents to have our backs, and they also trust each other to have the children's back. How much more now that we are on our own? who wants to inherit parent's properties when you are working hard to have your own properties.

If you are so worried that your wife or husband will marry another person and they will be spending the money together, at least he/she will spend it together with the children and the new partner now. I think you should also be worried about your relatives taking over your properties without caring for the children. Any of the two ways, You would be long dead and won't even know what is up.

Instead of leaving the future of your children at risk, why not have a plan that will see them through till they are independent and let them worry about themselves afterwards. Haven't you seen children who inherited all their father's properties, squanders it and back to zero level? What will the man do from the grave then?

coogar: they bring it out in places where you can still avoid looking at them. when women pop out their mammâry glands, it's usually in places where men can't look away. i am talking of banks, buses, churches, post offices, etc. i won't even mention those yeye women in church that must show dirty looking underwear when tying their wrapper that never seems to stay in one place.

There is no such place you can never avoid looking except it is right into your face. Even then, you still have the option of closing your eyes o But i don't even think the highlighted is so. Some bring it out facing the road. I pity the eyes that decides to look out of the windows when in a bus or on a bridge. It is worse at night. They face anywhere and to avoid seeing anything, it means that you have to close your eyes all through the journey.

Anyway sha, anywhere they like let them face. it is their property. Apart from the smell of urine everywhere, what i also don't like is when after facing (for example) a wall and doing their thing, they won't be patient enough to keep facing that wall till they are through with the shaking and zipping up. You see most of them after peeing, just turn around half way through the shaking process and keep walking away while trying to tuck the thing back in and also pull their zip. Even when you weren't there when they were/started peeing, you will know that this man just finished peeing.

Please anyone (MAN or WOMAN) that enjoys peeing in the open should endeavor to go deep deep deep into the bush and enjoy the openness there with the animals. At least before the smell comes out to the open, it would have been DILUTED. It is not EVERYBODY that ENJOYS the smell of STALE and DRIED URINE. The smell does more bad to me than my very bad morning sickness would ever do.....

^^^^but they bring them out on the street, road, on top of bridges, outdoor parties,busstoos etc. Whats my own. I just hate the smell of stale and dried urine......

All these talks about pregnancy. What i know is that no 2 pregnancies are the same even for the same woman. Male doctors that advice about pregnancies have never been pregnant before. The female doctors that have been pregnant before can't use theirs as a standard. It is ONLY the PERSON CARRYING THE BELLE that knows what's up.

SAMBARRY: seconded. Wole will take this advice o.however if this story is true my prime suspect who is hiding as wole will will either be pickabeau, coogar, red Benson, shizzle or andyblaze.their waka waka to much

pickabeau1 ke? I don't think so sha. But andyblaze............

@OP- and the condition of strangers' joystick happen to be part of that your environment. Oka i get you now.

pickabeau1: Calling someone spouse irresponsible is irresponsible

. Sorry but i gat to laff

snazzylove: @Godmystrength. You took the words out of my mouth. Hahahahaaa
Dorosola na only you know wetin you dey find.
I prophesy into your life, that you shall find it very soon

abi o. Amen for her. lol

ceo003: @adanny01 are you sure you are the father of that pregnancy ?

what kind of questions is this now? Is this what the OP ask for? Or are you the father of the pregnancy?

@OP-so your concern is that they are not fat, fresh and huge abi and not the dirty habit of peeing everywhere anyhow..... continue in your ministry of joystick evaluation

When i go through my hubby's phone, it is not snooping because i have access to the phone anytime, any day and so does he with mine. I don't go through because i want to find something(i won't even see anything there if he doesn't want me to), but maybe because i need to use it or just doing it for fun helping him delete all those MTN messages etc. No time for SNOOPING.

but the very day he starts feeling uncomfortable with me using his phone, then story will definitely change.

rofemiguwa: My auntys husband tried sneaking into my room one night when I woke up he said he was checking if all the lights was off. In my mind I was like this man must tink am stupid.
The next time he entered my room and tried climbing on my bed I broke bottle on his head.
When his wife came back from vigil he no fit explain. Anyway I checked my self out the following day.


My advice to anyone if u are quiet and coolheaded like me please don't stay with relatives they will turn u to rag.

I can identify with this sha. Though in my own case, he said he came to drink water (the fridge was in the room i sleep). The room didn't have a door to lock and he will even come naked. Just that i didn't have the mind to break a bottle then i did what i could do then.

pickabeau1: Just observe n make your own conclusions

okay

pickabeau1: That is the position of a lot of posters here

on NL generally or on this particular thread?

It is a pity

soulglo: Could you please forward this to her? I am trying to get some information myself but I'm in the US.

I will check her contact on my phone to see if i can reach her.

Where did this nonsense even happen? is it in this lagos? I know a lady in my church who can ensure that this woman gets what she deserves. I don't know if she only helps children/teens in the church or generally.

pickabeau1: According to our resident sociologists, this woman is only acting out repressed brutality sowed into her by the male authority figure in her family so it is not her fault

Sounds about right.....

hmmm... so are you blaming her father, brothers, uncles etc??

Botool: You seem to know so much about this ish than I do. I don't even av d slightest clue of what u all are talking about. And it's better I don't

I thought you said ...

Botool: Am here reading all d usual comments u NL give. U all have d right to think what you want. I would pick d one dat concerns me and leave u all to keep answering d questions I already had answers to

You are confusing me

I never had the experience of staying with an uncle but i stayed with my aunty (father's youngest sister) for a short period. I had just finish writing waec and jamb and waiting for my results. My aunty had a 3months old baby then and she begged my mum to allow her go with me so i can help take care of her baby. because i love babies and my mum felt pity for her, she allowed me.

Her husband now spoilt everything. In his words, he wants to be dating me (i was 16years then). When i didn't agree, he tried to go physical but i know he won't ever forget me. he couldn't tell his wife and i didn't say a word till my daddy came one day to take me. That was when i told my dad everything. Since then, my parents have not allowed us spend a night in a relatives house without company

but my aunty still used me like a maid

greatgod2012: Since what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, i'm therefore waiting for........"HOW TO KEEP YOUR WIFE/WOMAN INTERESTED IN YOU-TIPS AND ADVICE".
Thank you.

just watch out for that ma.....he will soon post it

okay. I don hear.

I actually fell for this story and was reading up on herpes only for me to come back and see your post. I don't even know what to believe again..Maybe he left for his base after wifey finished preparing breakfast

In case this story is true, i have no pity for that your friend sha except you Molested her. Please tell everyone involved so they know what they are in for. You need to tell your WIFE immediately so they(your wife and children) can get tested



God please don't let me find myself in this kind of situation. What i am already carrying is heavy enough o sad

pickabeau1: Try not to take it to heart.
Take the good advice and leave the rest

That's why some posters open new accounts to table their point and then deactivate after

okay. you are right.

Sabretooth1: I guess the wife's part was the right thing to do, listening to thrash from her friend. Cheating is bad, true, but so is allowing a friend come between you and your spouse. At times a cold lesson is what people need to cure their hearts of foolishness. Some women never learn.

I never said the wife's part was the right thing to do. If she were the one here, she would have been told that what she did was wrong. One thing i know is that i won't put myself at risk just because i want to punish an erring spouse.........Well since your wife is fine with it, then good for both of you....


[size=5pt]You just risked your life for nothing..... well maybe for something sha because i guessed you enjoyed the game while it lasted....[/size]

sorry for bothering you. Don't be offended. Have a good week

pickabeau1: Who are these ones insulting people's husbands..

I am beginning to loose interest in this family section now.............. the reason i deleted the other thread. You can't solicit for advice or words of encouragement without being insulted directly or indirectly.....