Travel › Re: General-german-student-visa-enquiries Part 8 by Godson201333(m): 9:10am On May 22, 2020 |
Philamags: Hello great minds!
Please I need clarification on the issue of SL as I am confused right now.
I am hoping to get a SL from a Nigerian living in Germany. This friend has lived and worked there for a very long time but has no red passport yet (green card) . But he has legal resident permit .
I would like to know if a person like this is legally qualified to issue SL, is resistant permit sufficient or must he be a citizen?
Plz guide me ! Yes he is qualified to get your an SL, his income with his legal permit are enough! |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Make Up With My Boyfriend? by Godson201333(m): 8:58am On May 22, 2020 |
Acmepreneur: This my guy is not serious at all.
I used to tell myself change is the only permanent thing in life bla bla bla. And I really believe that once you take the right steps, you can be anything you want to be. This made me to be very soft with people.
When I started dating my Boyfriend, I really was not choosy or judgy. I accepted him without a second thought. I'm not the type of lady that actually do all those lady stuff, I'm a very serious person and I don't play games at all. My BF is very cool, like not bad looking, normal behaviour etc and I like him a lot.
I'm a very ambitious person, with an extremely big dreams, my boyfriend is also hard working, but I'm not seeing any future at all with his career/prospects/life. When I say I'm with big dreams, it's means I'm working on discovering (new innovations), planning big business that would compete with top brands etc. I'm that big in dreams.
My children is also very important to me, I don't plan for their sufferings at all. I'm an introvert, I find solace in my aspirations, dreams. I have books I work out those formulas (I mean how I would execute my business plans), I research a lot, think a lot etc
Our fight now
Since day 1, I do tell him to do this and that. I really hate company works, so I would tell him to have savings, and be building something sideways where he works. Also, I wanted him to do Masters, since he said he would love to travel out, he's always saying he hates Nigeria bla bla bla. His dad also wanted him to do Masters, but he's in the crew of Masters is a waste of time, and he can't do Masters in Nigeria bla bla bla
Baby try this business, he would say he doesn't have money, he needs 2 million to start a business etc.
Meanwhile, he doesn't have money to travel out of the country to do Masters, nor 2m to start any business. So I would tell him to manage what he has first, and that would propelled him later, but he likes to talk like illiterates that Masters is meaningless.
Meanwhile, while that is true, those things are just like investment, you don't know when you will see an opportunity to use your Masters certificate, and since he studied computer science, I told him that it can even help him get a job outside Nigeria when he leaves, that it can be useful there. I understand the situation of the country, but not having masters doesn't mean you will get a job as well, so why don't you just have it.
My bf would shut me off, and also his dad, the dad even asked him to take job at the federal university where he works, but my bf said he can't work in that place, this is a federal government job o, he would say the salary is too small and people there already knows him, because his dad is in a big office in the university.
So it won't seem like I'm disturbing him, I went quiet, but might chip it in in discussions, but I don't fight him on those things. He works in a small company, and he rose to the position of a Manager, he spent all his time in office, the little time to waste with his friends. It's a good thing but I'm not comfortable with that, the pay is about 90k, which is not enough for his expenses, also he's the first born.
Fast forward to last year, his dad died, it looks like a film trick to him, he now have to take care of his siblings and mum (mum is nurse, but retired long time ago, her pay is little because it wasn't normal retirement). Everything I was telling him finally came to pass.
He rented an apartment with His friends, he later hated it, and said he wants his own, he went to rent an apartment of 600k (he gathered it from different places and he borrowed), which I really hate and we fought on that as well. Because he could have used the money to secure his life in a better way, since his complain when I told him to start a business is that he doesn't have money bla bla bla
He will not apply for better jobs as well He's practically doing nothing to grow, and would say he hates Nigeria and he would like to leave, but he can't even apply for scholarships or even google schools.
So this 2020, Jan 1, I started fighting him, that I'm not going to continue with him like that, that he should go apply for MSC, start a business or just do something. He now started saying that he has responsibilities which are his siblings, I told him this is the nonsense, he would do till the year ends, we will fight and later resolve it.
He won't even talk about it, or get reminded, he makes me feel Hus boss is using him. I have told him several times how he would be used and dumped, in fact, he makes me say negatives sometimes, and that's because I have seen people that get dumped while working with companies and they fall back to grass, my mum won't even accept him because he works in a company, small company, not cocacola or big companies. My mum hates company works like shits because we've heard and seen people falling to zero due to company jobs.
The problem 1. He says I'm disturbing his life, and not allowing him to rest
2. I'm not happy with him living that way, with no future, no investment, hes not building himself while working, hes not doing courses, not learning any skills, and I think its too risky. His current salary is not enough for him, not to talk of me collecting part of it. But he gives me money though, has not been more than 1k, 2k and data subscription which I really appreciate.
3. I can't introduce him to my family because I want him respected. Truth is I don't know what he would say to impress my parents because I'm not even impressed with him. And I want him to be superloved and respected. I believe in first impression would last very long. He has introduced me to his family and all friends
4. He never ask me about my own life, aspirations, advice me etc, I'm always the one to do that. Yesterday he had the gut to tell me I'm not caring because of just two days of not showing care
5. Corona has turned his company outside down and he's highly affected. Just like all what I was telling him finally happened, and he has nothing to fall back at. He has a car,
6. I can't marry him or anyone this way, and I'm getting old, though and I want marriage next year. He said he wants too, but I can't marry him like this. And I don't want to get to late twenties, and he breaks up and I start looking for husband, people would be thinking maybe I have a problem that is why I'm yet to marry, they won't know that its him that caused my delay. Plus I have a very high esteem, so I would hate to be desperate for marriage with a man or be the one to be wanting marriage so much in a relationship
7. Right now, we have temporarily break up, so I'm asking if I should break up or make up? Because he was saying rubbish last night
Note: I'm not a fan of dating and rubbish, I love him very much and I don't want to leave him at all. I don't think there's any man I can date as I do not like dishonesty at all and 95% of men are dishonest. My BF is very honest and good I'm every other aspect You are trying to raise a grown up man, That is simply not your job! Use your head! |
Travel › Re: How Come Nigerian Roads Don’t Have Lane Markings? by Godson201333(m): 5:38pm On May 15, 2020 |
TheAfricaQueen: The roads you see where built before 1960 and were maintained before 1960 There was a framework for the development of Nigeria pre-1960, then greedy Awolowo/Azikiwe/Balewa claimed Nigerians wanted independence. They sought for independence for their selfish agendas, to provide for themselves and their progenies.
To this day the current Political thieves are still miss-managing the roads built by the British. I am not going to lie, if the British come back and want to take back control of thos country, I will support it because the clowns in power have dragged Nigeria into the medieval ages. Nigeria in 2020 is worse than Nigeria in 1960. I sight your observation and comment... |
Crime › Re: Abia Native Doctor Commits Suicide By Hanging by Godson201333(m): 8:38pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
The only funny thing is a traditional herbalist can also lose hope... |
Family › Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Godson201333(m): 10:47pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Dynamic33: I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.
He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.
I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.
We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.
He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.
Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.
Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.
But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.
Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please? Looks like this your abroad is somewhere in Ghana I guess. Anyways the earlier the better, let your parents know that you are no more in school. Lying to your parents while they keep sending you money to support your academic ambitious would be seen as a scam if you fail to reveal the reality to them. |
Family › Re: Is It Time To Seek Divorce ? by Godson201333(m): 7:02pm On Feb 02, 2020 |
bnmbv: Please this is true life story. Very honest opinions will be appreciated. I have been married for 14 years blessed with 2 girls, and 2 boys 12, 11, 9 and 7 years. We live in Denver Colorado, by God’s grace I am financially okay, I relocated to the states because it was my wife’s greatest desire, but this will be a move that has become an albatross that I have been carrying on my shoulders. I am not perfect, but I believe were true love dwells, things and issues can always be negotiated. The vast majority of all the problems in my family stems around disrespect. Moreover, my wife has this uncanny ability to keep malice without getting tired, because of this, anytime we have misunderstanding which most of the time I do not even create, It is either I make effort to find a solution, or I will allow the matter to linger on and then become overtaken by events. At any time she desires, she can leave the house at will without saying a word, if I ask she replies by saying that I should also not tell her when I am leaving home. This can be very disheartening. There are many other things. I cannot recount here in one goal; otherwise this piece will be too bulky and boring to read. Sex is dead, we can go for days, weeks and months without it, we do it once in a while following pressure upon pressure or when she wants it. I literally cook for my self To be honest, she has been like this during courtship, but I made some error of judgement hoping that she will change; this was interlaced with a tinge of deceit from her mother. Be that as it may, I take full responsibility for my choices because advertently or inadvertently, she was the choice I made. While dating, I noticed this constant bickering between her and her younger her elder siblings and maternal uncle and aunts, but she and her mother waived the observation away that it was because she has a different father from the her siblings. She is not in touch with her father and her father’s family members, because her mother raised her away from her father. I later realized just a year ago from a family of hers I met in California who grew up together with her that the root of her malicious relationship with her siblings and maternal family was anchored on her mother, who was always shielding her away from the chastising of family members while she was younger. I confronted her mother with this information and she apologized that she was at her wits end and she could not afford to jeopardize her daughter’s wedding so she has to lie. The problem now is that, there is nobody that can intervene, I have suggested counselling, but she will have none of it because she feels that everybody has a problem and not her. Her mother dare not intervene because she is the only one supporting her mother financially; the other siblings told me they are fed up with her and their mother. She does not even speak with her siblings and maternal family members I am particularly worried about the kids because she vents her anger on them at will. This is one of the reasons I have been hanging on because I am scared for the kids. Unfortunately, I was recently diagnosed of high blood pressure, I am 48 years, and I have been advised to stay out of the stress. The issue of this marriage is such a big stress for me. It is even worse because I sleep in the room with the children while she has a room to herself. This is because I snore, this has further worsen emotional connections in the family, imagine I have to go to her for sex and companionship in our room (but now her room) and in about 80 percent of cases I am turned down, with one excuse or the other. My heart bleeds especially any time she screams down on the children unnecessarily, or when she leaves home without telling me and especially her ‘you can go and die ‘attitude towards me. They are all too heavy for me. I must have to decide whether to hang on because of the kids or to save myself. For now I will like to hear from you guys. You thought she would change “ what happened to the law that says “ you can never raise an adult”. You are financially okay, Have you tried to open up conversation with your wife ? I hope you are aware that divorce in the USA is very expensive and emotional draining. Try to give your relationship with your wife a “relaunch “ before finally considering divorce. |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students In Germany..how Do You Survive?? by Godson201333(m): 7:24am On Jan 31, 2020 |
GreatSage: Experienced guys in the house how easy is it for students to get jobs arnd Munich? Cc: Godson201333 There are so many student jobs in Munich. |
Travel › Re: The areas Okada And Keke Where Ban In Lagos by Godson201333(m): 11:28am On Jan 30, 2020 |
frndfghtr: Me as okada man, I don't know where to start again, the okada is not mine, I have almost finish it on higher purchase, (instalments) my first okada thief stole it, I collected another one to pay with that one, police seize it and took it to an unknown place, this one managing now to settle all the debt now is beighn banned again, and am almost thruogh, God where are u, show me another way God almighty will see you through brother!! |
Family › Re: Men, What Is Your Issue With Marrying A Lady Who Is The First Child? by Godson201333(m): 11:00am On Jan 10, 2020 |
blaise26abj: Not really the bride price but the responsibility that comes with being a first child. His house might just be filled with all your siblings if care isn’t taken. Wise man,more responsibility on the man head |
Romance › Re: Do I Break Up With Him? by Godson201333(m): 9:38pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Davash222: Women are something else. What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!! Although, I understand your point from a man perspective. Do you know that the main reason rich men women cheat on them is because of the lack of attention and they will counter-argue back that they are busy because of the family needs and care? Have you ever heard about ''Balancing everything in life'' ? |
Romance › Re: At What Stage In Life Is It Okay For A Man To Have A Fiancée? by Godson201333(m): 10:57pm On Dec 29, 2019 |
My Man, follow this formula. Income-liabilities=Savings then at one point of time, you will have the ability to feed another adult, then get yourself into the dating and advance to fiancee. BUT if
Income-Liabilities=deficit, then work hard bro! |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Hiv Dating Network In Nigeria by Godson201333(m): 11:12pm On Dec 28, 2019 |
princesshoney: Now I know that been positive is indeed the end of the world. I met a guy here; he contacted me, we met, we got married. But it did not stop him from flirting about. As I am typing this, I am considering leaving the marriage. I need happiness, love, peace of mind, a happy home, and above all a God fearing man. But all this is not what I am seeing in him. I have a daughter now. But this man treats my daughter and I as trash all because he knew I have limitations (HIV) And he is the man who can get any lady at anytime. I dont love easily, but when I do, I put my heart to it. I love him but he cant change his ways. He always tell me that I should thank my stars that I saw a man who married me. And that if i leave him, i won't be able to remarry again because of my status. I think I am open to a new relationship (marriage) Plss dont misunderstand me, I am just fed up with life. I dont know if suicide is the best option for me right now? My eyes are soaked in tears as I type this. Pls anyone is free to contact me. Honeyprincess4lv@yahoo.com Thanks Hey dear Incase m you get to read this, take suicide out of your mind. Never think about taking your life and I pray you find true love . |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Godson201333(m): 9:23am On Dec 14, 2019 |
Dude, One thing I can tell you is that respect peoples opinion and never beg anybody to stay in your life! How do you feel begging a lady to stay in your life  |
Celebrities › Re: Teebillz: Tiwa Savage Is My Wife, Not My Baby Mama by Godson201333(m): 9:44pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
He is obviously still in love and he finds it difficult to accept the reality! Move on with your life fella! |
Romance › Re: Nairalander (Humbleservant) Weds His Beautiful Wife by Godson201333(m): 11:51am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Happy married life brother. |
Travel › Re: Tour To Seychelles --- My Experience by Godson201333(m): 11:49am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Did you get to meet any Nigerian that is living in Seychelles? |
Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by Godson201333(m): 7:50pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
I keep hoping that zenith will come to like 12 naira and Gtb 20 naira. |
Travel › Re: The Real Reasons Why Many Are Stuck Abroad by Godson201333(m): 6:02pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
drmikeadams:
. Any body wey dem born for naija ,grow old widout travelling out to see how the world operates,God sef no go forgive am,,this country remains à shit hole This got me laughing lol, what if not given the opportunity to get a visa? |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students In Germany..how Do You Survive?? by Godson201333(m): 1:34am On Sep 03, 2019 |
fellow: Hi Guys,
my sis is off to Bochum this coming session. She's off to RUHR Bochum and will like to know more about the City.
Shes also worried about accomodation and will be willing to discuss with other people going to the Uni this October.
Any infomation provided will be highly appreciated.
Thank You Bochum is a nice city and also multi cultural. It is not so far from other cities like Essen, Duisburg, Oberhausen etc There are enough student job that she can do over there and they definitely have Nigerian community in Bochum. African stores should be available and the city is not so expensive for students. |
Travel › Re: Which Country To Migrate To With N4 Million? by Godson201333(m): 6:58am On Aug 10, 2019 |
ItsJagaban: You can leave school for one year and work your ass out. The only difference is you paying taxes.
Germany is Best for the dude. Naija is a mess. Stop spreading false information. You cannot abandon school for a year and hustle. You have a limited working permit like the other guy mentioned. Failure to comply with your student visa rules will subject to automatic denial of your visa renewal. Many Nigerians followed this your advises and later regretted it. Investing 4m in a student visa is not wise if at the end of your studies you couldn’t get PR, get a job and don’t wanna return to naira ! This is the story of many Nigerians abroad most especially Germany because they followed unrealistic advise like yours. Stop misleading people with false informations. |
Family › Re: I Lost My Cousin And His Friends by Godson201333(m): 12:35am On Aug 05, 2019 |
Sorry for your loss bro |
Family › Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by Godson201333(m): 5:25pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
Anonymus010: NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue. Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue. Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby. Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school. Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her). After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry. Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year. Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid. Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding...... THE PROBLEM: 2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking. After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating. The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too). I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for. Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her. Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors. I stopped reading your post immediately you mentioned that you and your spouse would be migrating to Us soon. I hope you know that Divorce and child support would cut you off the ladder of living a healthy life over here. You better sit down and re think everything before importing this issue to the USA. |
Travel › Re: How Do I Get To Adeniji Adele by Godson201333(m): 9:54pm On Aug 01, 2019 |
abramabayomi: Hello house I am to meet up with someone on Saturday and we are to meet at adeniji Adele. Am at agege...how do I get there please best and possible directions From Agege take a Bus going to Oshodi. From Oshodi board a bus going to Idumota, tell the conductor that you want to alight at adeniji adele. |
Travel › Re: . by Godson201333(m): 2:23pm On Jun 14, 2019 |
123JohnF: The best you can do it's to progress in your own country and to live around your own people and your culture. You go to Canada or any other country, the life is more comfortable, environment is cleaner, better roads, etc. Jobs? You will need to start from simple jobs and to see how it works, if you are hardworking and well educated, very skilled, you may have a good career in Canada yet it takes time and you will be always an immigrant, a foreigner, even if you adapt well, you will always miss your homeland. ... if you plan is to have kids and to give them better future, go to Canada but chose well the mother of your future kids and remember, your kids growing up in Canada will be more Canadians than Nigerians.
As a man, I personally would prefer to be successful in my own country than to be a 2nd class citizen (new immigrant) in any developed country. The best you can do it's to progress in your own country and to live around your own people and your culture., This point is not enough for you to advise someone not to discover the unknown and what is the definition of successful in your own country? Nigerians needs to probably understand that being sucessful goes more than just showing off with money and cars! |
Travel › Share Your Dream Country by Godson201333(op): 9:12pm On Apr 08, 2019 |
What is your dream country for a visit or migration and also please share with us your valid reason? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Father Mbaka Heals A Blind Man - Trezzyhelm.com (Photos) by Godson201333(m): 9:13pm On Mar 27, 2019 |
Glory be to God |
Sports › Re: J J Okocha And Ronaldinho Caught Up At Airport Waiting Wing(photos,video) by Godson201333(m): 3:55pm On Mar 19, 2019 |
Wow very good |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Too Stubborn, Please Advise Me by Godson201333(m): 12:11pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Calls On Atiku, PDP To Form A Parallel Government by Godson201333(m): 4:11pm On Feb 26, 2019 |
bkool7: In a thread he tweeted some minutes ago, he wrote ....
The election was a charade! @atiku should now brace up to defend the choice of millions of Nigerians who risked their lives on Saturday,defied tyranny and oppression and spoke through the ballot!He must reject the results and give the FG an ultimatum to declare the authentic... results,failure of which he will form a Govt. and order civil disobedience throughout the nation!If this charade is allowed to stand,the country is finished! Then the authentic results collated by PDP from the 119,000 PUs must be released to the public and the int. community!
https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/1100340477134544896 Don’t worry drug addict, your sentence to Kuje is currently pending..Where you will go and continue eating beans ... |
Travel › Re: Hey My People by Godson201333(m): 7:10pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Mancala: I am interested to know under what visa category these Americans are living and working or running a small business? I maintain that it is not easy for an individual, except you are on an international transfer from a local American company that will get you a work visa or you are a retiree. I work for a global company with presence in 160 countries around the world. I manage people all around the world including folks who are transferred back and forth. There is no easy legal route. And note that you are only allowed to visit for a finite amount of time on the VWP. You will need an actual visa to stay and work. No job offer in the foreign country, no visa. And note that it is illegal for an individual to work online for renumeration while on the vwp except it is on a business visit tied to an American company. I know the games Americans play with extending their visit/stay in Thailand and oither Asian countries. It's still illegal to work. If you are caught, you will be deprted and forever inelligible for vwp in the future. You guys should please stop spreading false news. As an American citizen, you can only visit Europe or even Mexico for some days..Maximum three months. Anything longer than that will warrant you to apply for a legal stay of the particular country or you face the wrath of the law for staying illegal. The Americans you guys hear their stories living peacefully abroad either had a partner with the abroad residence citizenship, Once worked as an expatriate there and fell in love with the local national or invested in the country's economy. I live in Germany and I cannot simply say that I want to pack my load and start living in America without appropriate documentation, I can only visit and enjoy and it is vice versa. My elder brother is currently in the US army, he served four years in Germany, He would love to stay back in Europe but was forced to leave after his contract expired!! For more enlightenment, you can check many of these western countries foreign affairs website to filter out the number of Americans and other nationals staying in the country illegally. Last time I checked the USCIS website, you wouldn't believe thousands of Canadians staying in the USA illegally and vice versa. Free movement is different from free residency. |
Education › Re: List Of Church Owned Universities In Nigeria by Godson201333(m): 9:04pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
This is becoming interesting,We have thousands of universities but we cannot even discover simple solution to Ebola not to talk of becoming a producing nation. Sad! |
Celebrities › Re: I’ve Not Made Money From Music — Kelly Hansome by Godson201333(m): 9:00am On Dec 16, 2018 |
You killed your career yourself... Instead of collaboration, you went on hating on those that were supposed to raise u |