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Politics › Re: Appoint Tinubu, Chief Of Staff, Group Tells Buhari by golddare: 1:49pm On May 12, 2020
dre11:
https://www.independent.ng/appoint-tinubu-chief-of-staff-group-tells-buhari/
If they give Tinubu the position I tell you he will use it very well, I mean to project his interest for 2023, possibly he may right the wrong of this government, but those interested in 2023 will not allow it happen.
Politics › Re: Appoint Tinubu, Chief Of Staff, Group Tells Buhari by golddare: 1:46pm On May 12, 2020
dre11:
https://www.independent.ng/appoint-tinubu-chief-of-staff-group-tells-buhari/
If they give Tinubu the position I tell you he will use it very well but those interested in 2023 will not allow it happen.
Romance › Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by golddare: 1:44pm On May 12, 2020
Crazeman03:
Hello Nairalanders, Hope you guys are staying Safe. Please don't mind my writing, I will make it short as possible.

I met this wonderful lady Last year and everything has been going good until 7 months ago when she told me she was Hiv+. That hit me hard but that didn't change anything, she was surprised I didnt react and opening up to me didn't scare me because I'm negative though we haven't had sex yet before the moment.

Now it has been 4 months we've been having unprotected sex. I'm not afraid of contracting the virus, as she keeps taking med and her viral load is low. I made sure before we went for test before having unprotected sex. Her CD4 count is above 750 and viral load is below 20, which makes hiv undetectable in her.

Now one night around 3months ago, she woke me up in the middle of the night to ask me, why do I love her knowing fully well about her status because she could not believe she will ever have a relationship with someone negative not even in this Nigeria by the way they stigmatize hiv+ people. I told her the reason and I'm not afraid hiv is not the worse or the baddest of diseases. There are more killer diseases than HIV and HIV is not a diseases but a virus. Only attack your immune system and its no longer a deadly virus.

The problem I have now is that whenever I imagine myself having it and how I will popping drugs everyday, make me kinda moody towards her, because I always keep telling her to always take her drugs. Last night she discovered she is pregnant and I'm just imagining things how everything will play out, I know when she will put to bed she won't be able to breastfeed. People will ask questions. I really need to tell someone in my family but I don't know who. My mom my react and the other person I trust is my younger sister.

On her own part, only her elder sister and brother knew she has the virus. And she had it since 2007.

I only need an advice if I need to tell any member of my family, looking to settle down with her this October.
Dont tell anybody, if you are worried about suspicion then relocate to somewhere else. I think you should bone and move on with your woman. No send them.
Education › Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by golddare: 12:44am On May 11, 2020
Mexyz:
The person is not sure of a lecturing job Sir, at least not from the Uniben I finished from.
And yes, Uniben attach passport to your degree certificate.
That's a recent development.
Politics › Re: FFK: WHO, Gates, Bunch Of Confused Clowns, Sociopathic Fools, Psychopatic Idiots by golddare: 4:23pm On May 10, 2020
ghettokid1:
Former Minister Of Aviation, Femi Fani Kayode has described World Health Organisation (WHO) as "Bunch of confused clowns, Sociopathic fools, Psychopatic idiots and Evil souls controlled by Bill Gates."

He wrote on his verified twitter account:


https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/1259388987610992641?p=v[/quote]Covid-19 really messed up Nations and Organisations that people respected.
Education › Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by golddare: 4:17pm On May 10, 2020
Canada2021:
They now attach pasaport
Ok, thanks.
Education › Re: Does First Class Degree Guarantee One A Job? by golddare: 3:17pm On May 10, 2020
Steve0979:
Is first class degree a ticket to getting a job in Nigeria?
If the result am seeing is from Uniben, the person is sure of lecturing job in the faculty he graduated from. The best decision is to accept the offer and build your profile unless your parents have a job for you. I hope that picture was just attached to the certificate by the owner because Uniben does not attached pictures to certificates.
Christianity Etc › Re: Should I Confess That I Poured Hot Water On My Neighbor's Goat? by golddare: 12:08pm On May 10, 2020
Pluse992:
Advise Me Please. Should I Confess?

I recently packed into my apartment somewhere in Ogun, and my neighbor's goats have been sleeping at the back of my apartment near my window and they have been urinating and passing out faeces making my room inhabitable.

So the other day, I poured some hot water on one of the goats. I discovered that the woman is into traditional medicine. She has been making some incantations since yesterday concerning the goat. And I am scared that she will hurt me.

Should I confess or be brave? What should I do?
1. Pouring water on them is bad enough takless of hot water, that is wickedness.

2. You should have warned or report to the owner atleast once before taking any action.

3. Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse will not land on its intended victim. Prov 26:2.

4. Apologising to the woman is in right order, it does not mean you are scared but doing the right thing.

5. Tell her madam so sorry I do know those goats are yours and I have driven them but no positive outcome and out of anger or so I did ......

6. Be ready for any backlash it's better you face it now rather than in the future.

7. Pray that the Holy Spirt will go ahead of you to touch the woman, soak yourself in the blood of Jesus before going.

8. Look for a goat repellant.
Christianity Etc › Re: Should I Confess That I Poured Hot Water On My Neighbor's Goat? by golddare: 12:04pm On May 10, 2020
Pluse992:
Advise Me Please. Should I Confess?

I recently packed into my apartment somewhere in Ogun, and my neighbor's goats have been sleeping at the back of my apartment near my window and they have been urinating and passing out faeces making my room inhabitable.

So the other day, I poured some hot water on one of the goats. I discovered that the woman is into traditional medicine. She has been making some incantations since yesterday concerning the goat. And I am scared that she will hurt me.

Should I confess or be brave? What should I do?
1. Pouring water on them is bad enough takless of hot water, that is wickedness.

2. You should have warned or report to the owner atleast once before taking any action.

3. Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse will not land on its intended victim. Prov 26:2.

4. Apologising to the woman is in right order, it does not mean you are scared but doing the right thing.

5. Tell her madam so sorry I do know those goats are yours and I have driven them but no positive outcome and out of anger or so I did ......

6. Be ready for any backlash it's better you face it now rather than in the future.

7. Pray that the Holy Spirt will go ahead of you to touch the woman, soak yourself in the blood of Jesus before going.
TV/Movies › Re: Who Is Your Favorite Film/Series Character Of All Time? by golddare: 9:08pm On May 09, 2020
rottencorpse:
Ryan Gosling as Noah in The Notebook and Kiefer Sutherland as Jack Bauer in 24.

There's this feeling I get whenever I watch The Notebook. I can't even remember how many times I've seen it. Jack Bauer also did great in 24...

So tell us who's yours?
Denzel Washington
Samuel Jackson
Russell Crowe
Jackie Chan
Romance › Re: The Craziest Thing Your Partner Has Ever Asked You To Do? by golddare: 9:08pm On May 08, 2020
Randy100:
I was opportuned to get one 18years old girl with perky bøöbs. I promised her heaven on earth just to bring her to my house. She finally agreed and came on sunday evening oh. When it was time for me to chop and clean mouth, she made a request that shrinked my erected pen.is. She said I should dance naked for her while she video the whole thing. An elderly young man like me.
Your egungun was careful he for enter Express.
Politics › Re: Wike Orders Auction Of Adamawa Trucks, Cattle For Breach Of PHC Lockdown by golddare: 3:52pm On May 08, 2020
Politics › Re: Fresh $319m Abacha Loot In Uk, France - US by golddare: 10:02pm On May 07, 2020
NaijaRoyalty:
Eniola Akinkuotu, Abuja



https://punchng.com/fresh-319m-abacha-loot-in-uk-france-us/
It was indeed not Abacha loot but assets, i only hope these guys will use it for a tangible infrastructure.
Politics › Re: Malami: "I Deliberately Referred To Abacha Loot As "Abacha's Assets" by golddare: 11:32pm On May 06, 2020
nairavsdollars:
https://www.independent.ng/why-i-referred-to-abacha-loot-as-abacha-assets-malami/
He simply used the term they are using when they are in closets. Many in the government still worship the guy and dont believe he looted our dear nation dry..
Romance › Re: How My Ex Left Me After She Discovered My Salary Was 45k, I Now Earn This by golddare: 11:24pm On May 06, 2020
Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless
God just separated you from Lot... some persons needs to leave before blessing comes. Congratulations.
Family › Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by golddare: 8:34pm On May 05, 2020
Your wife is just being careful and I will advise you to be very careful too. God bless you.
Career › Re: American University Of Nigeria Sacks 400 Staff by golddare: 8:23pm On May 05, 2020
Family › Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by golddare: 8:19pm On May 05, 2020
ikh777:
IF THIS WHOLE STORY IS TRUE, Then sir, you have tried. you need a clean break.

BAD CHARACTER is like TOOTHACHE... you may have to remove the tooth.

See, the pastor and family deceived you. This is why I hate how marriage is done in Africa, THEY LIE TO SINGLES CLAIMING AFTER MARRIAGE TILL WILL GET BETTER only to marry then they start preaching to you to MANAGE.

In NIGERIA, MARRIAGE = MANAGING.

So, I can not say it is a spiritual matter, but with all you have said I feel you should prayerfully divorce her. And move on with your life lest you die early of HBP.
Prayerfully divorce her, very funny guy.
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson Welcomes Her 4th Child, Divine-Mercy Ehinomen Okojie by golddare: 8:57am On May 05, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Congratulations
Isoright
Damnnnnn. A niggarrr and three girls


Damnnnnn baby

Don't say that. To you it is a perfect combination
But pity the niggarrr among the three ladies
They should add another niggarrr to that squad
If not the stress will be too much for the niggarrr

Talking from experience!
Got five female siblings
Am the only niggarrr.. nothing when all those girls fit do. They continue to behave like babies and seek for your attention.

Imagine Bedc restore light yesterday. No light for our house. Just for them to go switch from generator to nepa light
Them begin call me for phone make i come house come do am
And those sisters dey jealous or protective when you are seen with another lady that draws your attention from them.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Troops Kill 134 Terrorists, Apprehend 16 Informants In Borno by golddare: 8:49am On May 05, 2020
zakim:
https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/nigerian-troops-eliminate-134-terrorists-apprehend-16-informants-in-borno-dhq.html
I hope oga is not planning to return to Abuja because FG have eased the lockdown.
Career › Re: Ever Lost A Job Doing The Right Thing? My Experience Doing One by golddare: 7:18pm On May 04, 2020
It's a narrow and rough road in a corrupt system but if you continue it will lead you to a great destination.
Politics › Re: 84m Barrels Of Nigerian Crude Oil Unsold, Stranded At Sea by golddare: 11:24am On May 04, 2020
Romance › Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by golddare: 2:17pm On May 03, 2020
Let me sympathise with you my dear friend. Frankly speaking your prospective "inlaw" values education. This was demonstrated through investment on his daughter. I bet the man must have spent roughly 10m on her graduate and postgraduate.

It's not about money and unfortunately you dont have "money". I may not be totally right but I think if you appear to be a jobless PhD student or MSc holder the reaction will be different. That man values education.

1. I think you need to prepare your mind for the worse.
2. I think you need to begin your journey to further education, put in for PgD... MSc/MBA right away.
3. If you have the means do it outside the shores and if not do it in a better school.
4. Even if you loose the girl you would have upgraded yourself.
5. Dont take this like a looser, take it as a challenge, even if you are not born rich atleast born somebody they will call rich.
Family › Re: How Can I Win My Wife's Heart Back? by golddare: 11:48am On May 01, 2020
Kingsleyyx:
I love my wife but I have been hurting her for years. In fact I had make her look like a devil in the eyes of my parents and siblings. I will not hide any truth from you because right now, I am trying to find a solution on how to win my wife's heart back.

I womanize a lot. I have a particular side chick that my wife is even aware of down our street. I love this girl with the whole of my heart. Anytime am with her I feel contented. I sponsored her through school with her younger brother and I also set up a provision store for her mum. I so much love this girl and infact I stopped having numerous chicks because of her. She is everything a man can wish for. She pampered me like a baby and she is an expert on how to sex a man and make him draw spits. I invested alot on this lady and never cared for the mother of my children.

The first and the last time I beat my wife was the day she called my girlfriend to insult her and I was with the girl that night. She put it on speaker. I went home and beat my wife blue black. Though I regretted my action and apologized to her.

Since then I didn't hide my extramarital affair from my wife. My girl will call and I will speak freely in the presence of my wife. She won't say pim. I wanted this girl to be pregnant but she just wouldn't be.

After, I started frustrating my wife so that she can leave the house and the girl can move in, but no matter what I did to my wife, she will never talk. I stopped having sex with her and and she never for once complained. I started taking my girlfriend to family function in place of my wife, still my wife was not affected. I siezed her shop key and gave to this girl as her graduation gift. My wife did not talk and she didn't leave my house. I planned all evils but she wasn't affected by it.

This my side chick is now pregnant with another man's. I have threatened her to abort the baby that I will forgive her and marry her, but she said am too old for her. When she and her family was collecting and spending my money, she didn't know that I am too old then.

Now am tired of fighting for someone that can never be mine. I want to face what's mine. Can you imagine that I just realised that my first born will write WAEC this year. Am so ashamed of my self. My wife has become so old and very slim. I wanted to hug her, but I don't know where to start from. It's been years we last had a physical body contact. We don't even sleep in the same room. The kids are looking at me like a stranger. I can't even crack jokes with them.

Please help me, how do I start and what should I do to win my family love back? I promise to do whatever you tell me to.
1. Invite one if your siblings or parents and let them join you to apologise to her. With this she will be happy that your family now know that she was not at faults all this while and that you have genuinely repented.

2. Return the shop you collected from her or another shop and stock it up.

3. After this lockdown take your wife on honeymoon, possibly in another state. It may be from friday to sunday. If you live in Lagos go to nearby state, visit nice places with her, I believed if you have sometimes together things will begin to fall in places.

4. Dont go on side chick adventure again in your life unless. It was grace that found you, you have been like a goat that was tied to the ground but was just released because of grace.
Romance › Re: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by golddare: 9:24pm On Apr 30, 2020
1. Mr Joe did the right thing, I like people that doesn't pretend.

2. He knew it will be dangerous for him to continue because he is not ready to share, cheat or be assistant..

3. Your mistake was not to inform him about your new relationship since you said you were close.

4. The guy will come around but he needs to shut down a lot of windows or files and redefine the friendship.

5. You also need to redefine your friendship with him as well otherwise you will loose both guys. Becareful because na from clap den dey enter dance.
Romance › Re: My Wife's Sister Wants Me To Sleep With Her. by golddare: 10:43pm On Apr 28, 2020
Egungun becareful you are going to express.
You are about to do what you will forever regret doing.
Dont do it.
Health › Re: How COVID-19 Dead Bodies Are Buried By NCDC Officials (Video) by golddare: 10:58am On Apr 28, 2020
Ruby5:
See How Covid-19 Dead Bodies Are Buried In Their Places By Ncdc Officials


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPA3ugX_Lfg
God indeed is our keeper.
Politics › Re: Buhari Imposes Total Lockdown On Kano For Two Weeks by golddare: 8:43am On Apr 28, 2020
joelbooks:
https://mobile.twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1254853138949066754
Kano hmmm.. the State of California of Nigeria election, the bride of Nigerian politicians.
Family › Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating On Me? Advice Needed by golddare: 11:24pm On Apr 27, 2020
Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.
Download spymaster app on her phone so as to get enough evidence before confronting her otherwise if she's faithful you will end up pushing her to be unfaithful.
Romance › Re: Why Do I Keep Meeting Girls From Troubled Families? by golddare: 6:12am On Apr 27, 2020
Besides your personality it's a messed up society even the rich ones in island too have stories, although where you do your search too matters but every families get one black sheep in one form or another.
Politics › Re: House Of Reps Fixes Resumption For Tuesday Amid Coronavirus Pandemic by golddare: 6:01am On Apr 27, 2020
Politics › Re: Obasa Gets N17m Monthly For Maintenance Of Personal Residence, Guest House by golddare: 2:28pm On Apr 26, 2020

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