I wished we dropped our dogmatic views about people just because they put on dred , certain clothes to presume they are not spiritual or born again. A fellow believer once challenged me from wearing Jean. Who would have taught Taribo was like that even with the dred then. No man is God.
BonPatrick: Guys can you date a woman with 3 kids and still in her husband's house but the marriage is about to be dissolved because her husband is not touching her for over a year and doesn't give her food or talk to her.
She met you on Facebook and loves you so much and wants you to sleep with her when both of you see. She even sends her naked video to you to show you how much she loves you. Will you sleep with her when you meet as she is about to divorce her husband?
Soludo I have missed your piece, the only writer that I can 20 pages of his articles without getting bored and also enlightened. Politicians think of the next election, while statesmen think of the next generation. Painfully statesmen have turned politicians .
I wish our politicians will look inward for solutions as rightly said , call the herbs specialist together and let see what they can offer.
Mine happened a long time ago. However, I still remember it crystal clear cuz it taught me some deep lessons.
I schooled in a religious school, back then in Sokoto, Mamman Barkeji Nursery and Primary School. In my Primary 3, I got first position for the first time and became the class prefect. Normally, girls started coming closer to me. I also reciprocated their kind gesture. There was this beautiful girl who came second that term. She was taller then most of us, had a pointed nose, and a very wonderful smile. I think her name was like Henuwell.
Naturally, I liked her. After school one day, a friend of mine, Musa, came to me and told me that she liked me and that she wanted to be my friend and would need some money. Mind you, I was about 7 years old then oh. Happily, I have him the little I has on me, about 10 kobo.
The next day, during the morning assembly, he told me that she was very grateful and that she loved me for that. My head began to swell. He asked whether I had some more money for her that it would make her love me the more. Unfortunately, I didn't have any with me, but I promised him that I would get it for him the next day. My people, that was how I started stealing the small change from our children's purse that was kept in my parent's room. I stole the N 25 that was there and gave it to the boy. Everyday, I got one new love story or another from the girl about how she was thinking of me, how she loved me better than any other boy, etc through Musa.
On one Monday morning, nemesis decided to pursue and catch up with me. I went into the Children's purse and lo and behold, only N 500 note was left there. Without thinking twice, I took the money and kept it in my bag. When it was time for us to go, my dad told us to enter his vehicle so that he could pick up our neighbours and drop us all at school. I really don't know what happened, but when he came out of the room, he came out with an empty bag of Children's money and began to ask for the thief. All of us initially denied it. Then my mom joined him and began to beg us to open up. By that time, I was already shaking. That was how I confessed and got serious beatings from both my parents. I cried and cried and cried. It was really painful. After some time, my parents stopped and bundled me inside the car.
As soon as we got to school, they told the Headmaster and I went for the morning assembly. The first thing that Musa asked when he saw me was whether I came with the money. At that point, the pain I was feeling was more than my love for Henuwell and I told him to leave me alone. As soon as the assembly was dismissed, my class teacher called me to kneel down under the tree for stealing from my parents. I then told him that it was because of Musa and Henuwell.
When both of them came, Musa couldn't look at me. As the man was about to punish both of them, the girl shouted that she didn't know anything about it. That was when Musa confessed that he didn't even talk to the girl and that he was using the money I gave him for himself. You need extra beatings I received that morning. Musa was called a criminal, was terribly beaten and got seriously punished throughout the whole day. They even asked reported him to his parents.
To crown it all, about a week later, I learnt that Henuwell actually really loved me and wanted to be my good friend.
The next term, I left that school.
That was how I was scammed. This stuff happened about 16 years ago, but funny enough, as I was typing this, I could still visualise Henuwell's face.
Edit: For those asking about the 10 kobo I gave Musa, like I said initially, I don't exactly remember the actual value, but I know it was the change I had on me which was a coin.
Also, N 500 note was in existence as at 2003/2004
I just hope Musa has not joined politics, what a mind at pry 3.
dokyOloye: Nice. Original 'slay' queen! Wish they could loan her to Nigeria to help us slay buhari's beloved boko haram
She's a personnel of Nigerian Airforce, she only went on international training. The problems with our airforce is equipments, we have rugged men and women.
Instead of you to inform your pastor that after this lockdown you have thanksgiving. You just dodge a bullet, rejoice. Dont even look at it as a loss but as a blessing, open your mind and eyes so that your real woman can come.
Is it by force to speak or post in English? E for better to employ someone to write this apology letter for you. You just remind of one of my old class mates.
brainz360: Hello guys, as a fresh graduate with a 2:2 grade, which would you advice I do or would you rather opt in for among the three to have a successful career in the near future?
After the Coro waka comot go do your MSc for better country..... you see that flying thing den go frustrate your life for there oo. I no go talk pass that.
brainz360: Hello guys, as a fresh graduate with a 2:2 grade, which would you advice I do or would you rather opt in for among the three to have a successful career in the near future?
After the Coro waka comot go do your MSc for better country..... you see that flying thing den go frustrate your life for there oo.
God you are faithful. Some will say but this is science, I can boldly tell you of people who have done several IVF home and away yet nothing. So I thank God for them .
Rozz: The primary responsibility of an envagelist is to preach God's words, telling people simply and clearly what God says about his messengers and what He has done for us all. It is the duty of an envangelist to deliver God's message and be faithful to every word.
However it is a difficult task for single ladies who have passion for evangelism. Most of the opposite sex do not really have interest in your message but romance and believe me some can go to any length for this.
No doubt I have passion for evangelism but my pastor has advised me against it as it brings everything controversial for all the moves I have made towards it, even online is not left out.
Pastors in the house, do you think I should give up this passion? Am I going against God's passion in me if I stop?
Dont mind your pastor, mind the word of God.. Jesus said
Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Matthew 28:19
The only thing we advise people to do while going out on evangelism is to in pairs but that's for a group or planned evangelism. If the Holy Spirit tells you to pick your bible and go out for evangelism will you say my pastor say...
My sister dont let anybody hinders your breakthrough, God has blessed me so much because of evangelism, so go ahead but dont go for evangelism in that kinda of cloth on your profile if you really want to be taken serious.
Mavrick2012: I heard my neighbor asking another neighbor if he can pay tithe from the 20k alert he got from government.
This got me thinking.
Are members expected to pay a tenth of whatever they get at this difficult period?
A lot of Christians still need to be educated about giving to God and man. It's like asking someone can I dash someone else 2k from this 20k or is it advisable to bless another person from this money they dashed me.
Tithes is used to foot the bill of the church such as power, rents, salaries, welfare etc. I will be happy to be amongst those that are making these things to happen irrespective of excessiveness of some pastors.
God always bless me back he never owes, Jesus said.. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you." Luke 6:38
I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice
My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him.
Yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially. I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough.
This is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back.
Is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?
I'm only 24 while he's 31.
You are in for a long ride if he actually borrows from you for his family. It's not a bad thing to marry a bread winner at least God always bless a giver. Yes only God can bless you because most family members usually have sense of entitlement and I tell only few repays in future.
When you marry a chronic breadwinner like yours you must put on your seat belt for a long ride. I called him chronic because he borrows for them.
Look at the prospect, seriousness and behaviour of his so called siblings, if its encouraging then it's a good investment.
In such relationships you dont declare all your assets because of his irrational behaviour.
However, if you mind is telling you "egungun becareful you don dey go express" ... you know what to do.
The FCT authorities have reacted: COVID 19: UNPROFESSIONAL CONDUCT AT GUDU CEMETERY
The Health and Human Services Secretariat of the FCTA has noted with concern the video trending on social media, showing a man pulling off his PPE unprofessionally after participating in the burial of the late Malam Abba Kyari.
A married man is woeing my babe o Saying all sweet things to her, promising her different things, although the man is quite wealthy, he said he want her to be his wife
Guys what should we do?
Its upto your girl, not your call but in the mean time open your mind for any outcome in prayer.
Imagine a world standard Hospital was built in Abuja in the past 6years of this administration perhaps this wouldn't have been the situation. Everyone believes if push comes to shove they will go for medicals abroad.
The ex-wife of the Oluwo of Iwo has released a video of the monarch rolling up a joint to smoke, after she granted an interview accusing him of numerous vices.
Chanel Chin, who has a son named Oduduwa with the King, said during her interview with GIO TV that the Oluwo married her after raping her when she was drunk. She also accused him of hiding the fact that he had other baby mamas and children. She further accused him of deception.
She went on to release a video to the interviewer and made other accusations that caused viewers to fear for her safety.
One of the videos released purportedly shows the Oluwo of Iwo rolling up marijuana to smoke.
This is just a confirmation because we know that his excesses were some of the attributes of members "green revolution ". Anyways he can still weather the storm if he can stop taking it otherwise his fall may be great.
People go reason you anyhow, anybody fit enter you.
Your talk no go make sense.
This is the worst feeling ever.
Try not to be broke fellas, the pain is second to none.
This night proved me some shit
Why not look at the bright side of being broke.. 1. You know your true friends. 2. You know nothing last forever but with proper planning you can never be broke in life. 3. You will always appreciate God for His grace upon your life. 4. You will know making money is easier than keeping it.