₦airaland Forum

valentineuwakwe:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2021/11/02/bandits-herdsmen-ready-to-lay-down-arms-grant-them-amnesty-gumi/

kepstone:
Honestly after all my experience in relationship I have realized that most Nigerian ladies are very selfish and calculative. If it does not benefit them they won't stay. Women are calculative, manipulative and tactical when it comes to relationship. It's all about conditional love not unconditional love. If benefits won't flow no business been with you, that's how bad and selfish this genders are. They call it smartness, I see alot of ladies despising alot of potential suitors guyz who are on their way to greatness, but because they are myopic they look down on them and insult him ... Hence many are victims of yahoo boiz.
I keep praying daily to find my own wife
What I have been through in relationship makes me want to give up the idea of marriage and just have my peace of mind. Man will be born grow take responsibility for himself, his wife, his children, his inlaws, his own siblings. Haba and most times the wife just looks at him suffering and she ignores him, he is the man... She won't even bulge to help. May God not allow our path to cross again with wicked ladies. It's better a man finds a woman who loves him more than the way he loves her. Then marriage can really work. Most ladies don't love their husbands just in marriage for the benefits of it.

Praxis758:
Why couldn't most Nigerians summon courage and expose attrocities/abuses being committed by officials or those in postion of authority but would suddenly be queuing to expose the abuses and raising allegation after the abuser is out-of-office or falls victim of one issue?

Aufbauh:
I think this Gov. Ortom needs a head check as his case is gradually deteriorating from paranoia to full blown insanity.

The question that any reasonable person should ask is that; why is it only Ortom in the whole Benue propagating this conspiracy theory if it is not mere mischief? Are they no worthy Benue indigenes even in the opposition to echo his narrative?

Only Ortom cannot be the only one with sight, insight and foresight in the entire state.

Jamesbiodun:
With the way bokoharam terrorist are received with a welcome hand when they surrender, you should know they are been recruited to fight the south

Plut01:
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The Ekukes can not do this type of Thing bro. Their receptor only perceive shit and FooFoo.

And that's why we prefer to have them in the pot than having them in our living room.

Thanks for the good Info BTW.

You are wrong about this.
Local dogs, when well domesticated and taken care of do much more than you think of them.
My cousin is having one, she is so intelligent and smart.
You won't even believe it's a local dog the way it behaves.



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blahc007:
So why don't you pray to be among the few that are experiencing total blissful marriage?
Or must you fall under OP's category of men suffering and smiling in Marriage?

TimeSpaceWizard:
Yet you refuse to realize that not all homes and towns are like your broken homes and hamlets.

How long have you and the OP been stupid?

TimeSpaceWizard:
The OP mistakes every home as an ecosystem of a bastard child and nascissistic mother of the mentally challenged dynasty.

Complete faikure

OKOATA:
You are very right bro, what you feed your subconscious mind all day is negativity about women. Nobody’s perfect but if you marry the right woman your life span will last just like we have seen cases of very old lovers still together after years and if one of the couple die you notice the other dies shortly. My own is that if you want to get married don’t just get married, make sure to look out for signs and pray about it and God will show you the way. Let’s be positive even though with all the negativity we still need women in our lives. I can’t do court marriage sha o no matter what cos I am presently in court divorcing my ex right now and the stress is too much bro. Now she wants full custody and I also want full costody of our child too, she’s so stubborn and won’t compromise. The least I can do with a woman after this divorce is just family introductions like the traditional way and that’s all. Court marriage is what I think people should preach against or there should be a prenup clause instead of preaching negativity always.

oneolajire:
You keep listening to the wrong things about marriage the devil tells you and that's why you see marriage as a failure.

I am a married christian, and I am not in a tolerant marriage.

As long as one follow the teachings of Jesus, happy will be his home.

oneolajire:
You keep listening to the wrong things about marriage the devil tells you and that's why you see marriage as a failure.

I am a married christian, and I am not in a tolerant marriage.

As long as one follow the teachings of Jesus, happy will be his home.

Waylex21:
Seems the OP is from a broken home or born out of wedlock. To have a reasonable and calm society, you cannot rule out the power of a stable family with a responsible father and mother. I guess you would prefer baby mama saga to a stable family relationship. Mtchew

oneolajire:
Nonsense post.

Firstly, we children of God follow God's rules as singles and married. God told us to abstain from fornication and adultery some we do.

He told us to abstain from worldly lust, so we do.

You guys want to eat your cakes and have it. You want to fornicate and commit adultery, make ladies commit abortions and blame them for not wife materials and unable to give birth to babies.

You have used I G M, (I Go Marry) to deceive many ladies, now they are desperate and careless.

Give your life to Jesus, follow his rules so that your life and marriage will make a meaning.

Mine is meaningful.

Sirjamo:
The only thing that is keeping Ortom in the good book of Benue people is his daily cry about Buhari and Fulani. The man is just doing what he has to do to remain relevant.


I'd love it if the President can double his efforts to end insecurity, so that calamities like Ortom can finally be buried politically.






I AM DONE TALKING