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Im in full support of that NECO exam, its just like duplication of WAEC.

Ignorance is a disease.


Anyone who tells lie to his/her doctor is gradually digging his/her grave hy him/herself..........shikena!

Even, unripe pawpaw is very good for treating jaundice in pregnancy..............talking from experience.

What a horrible parent indeed!!!

@op, not you alone o, its so scary seeing your very agile person becoming sickly, because of aging. Atimes, when i look at my ever agile mother, whom because of her agility we tagged/nicknamed her "colonial master", i just shake my head...........she complains of so many things, head today, leg tomorrow, hand the next day, etc, well,its one of those things, all we need to do is to always ask God not to make old age difficult for us to enjoy.
Wishing your dad speedy recovery. Amen.

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my brother, you and slimyem are absolutely right, everyone should be responsible for their actions and decisions. However, some things are just too coincident to be separated or ignored, that is why we need to pray to the good Lord to always make us goodluck to everyone we come accross.
For example, two of my husband's aunties use to call me......"iyawo mi oloriire", just because of good turn-around that happened to my hubby after we got married, the same way they could have called me "iyawo elese osi meji", if things went bad for him, even though i might not be instrumental to either his good fortune or his backwardness, its the coincidence of the whole thing that makes people think in that direction, yes, its bad to think that way, but, we are all humans, and human being will always be human being.

@op, it could happen the other way round o, its not only peculiar to wives, if you are doing very well before you married your hubby, and all of a sudden, things turn sour, pple will say that, that your husband has brught his badluck to your life, especially your folks, so, dont be bias, and be yourself, if what you posted is what is happening to you, take heart, and believe that, its a phase and it will soon pass, you can even call your spouse and encourage him, tell him that evryone has his/her/their trying time and this is yours and that you believe that all will soon be well.
May God help us all.

Its not a crime for even the last born to get married b4 the first born, everyone has his/her own time, and its better for one to wait for its time, to avoid future regret.
May God help us all.

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Its not compulsory for a family to have black sheep, at least, there wont be a black ship among my wonderful kids.


@op, i dont know about you.

Godmother: Why is it that if a man marries and things take a downward plunge for him financially people blame the the new wife? What if the man has put his hands into a lot of things that are bringing repercusions? Or he promised a lot of girls marriage and jilted them and they decide to punish him frm their wicked hearts?

Why must the poor, innocent wife be blamed for it. Nigeria is so unfairly tough on women

the same way the wife is praised if after getting married, things turn around for better for the man.
So, always ask God to make you source of joy and increase and an embodiment of goodluck(not our president o) to whoever that comes your way.
However, when it seems things are not the way it should be, instead of worrying yourself as wife as regards what pple say about you, concentrate on the Lord, always pray for a better turn-around and also be the type of person that can tolerate the hard times.
Its a phase, it shall soon pass.
Shalom!

This man again........................................................

Kamsy10: I don't remember any president that didn't promise us a free and fair election.

Besides is election not supposed to be free and fair before?

abi o

sunny t: GEJ will be a very wonderful poet, if he can remain quite for eva

and which he cant!

Oga Jonaaa......
Aa so pe e so be!

Very funny!
Well, the man got more than what he bargained for.


Coincidentally, that may be how karma wanted to deal with him for being unfaithful to his wife, and i know that if he survived it, he will think twice b4 having extra-marital relationship again.

cigar icon: WTF. how is she gonna take care of all of them at once?

never worry, our God is a great provider, so, dont let fear catch you.

May God strenthen the mother, provide for the father, protect the little ones and make sufficient provision for the parents to be able to take care of them adequately.

Sir, if the pregancy is not a high-risk one, abeg, dey fire dey go, 1st, 2nd and 3rd trimester, just dey go, you cant hurt any of them(baby and mother), the baby is already protected with and by amniotic sac, so, no qualms, if your wiffy ask, give her, if you feel like, ask her, talking from experience, all my pregnancies never put a gap btwn i and hubby, so, do away with that fear that you are going to hurt the baby or the mother.

I guess you are a first timer, if yes, then your fear is normal, so, no problem, you only have to change position aroud 5-term because of the protruding belly to maybe, from behind or other position in which you will not have to rest on the belly.
All in all, enjoy your wife and let your wife enjoy you.
You can ask your wife to get the book"everywoman", if she hasnt got one, its helpful for you both, most of what you may be afraid of are explained there.

Wishing your wife safe pregnancy and joyful delivery in advance.
Cheers.

You cant say she doesnt have job, because she has prospect, shes already working and only stopped to further her aducation, which at the end, will be for the betterment of everyone in the family, so, her joblessness is temporary, which i dont think should be an hinderance btwn the tw of you,if you truly see what you want in a wife in her.
After bagging her HND, she is going to use it to secure a better job than the one she was doing b4, so, its only for a moment, if you can, bear with her and also, that is not a reason to be complaining about the financial responsibilities at home, its just for a moment.
May God help you.

aadetoyin: Human!!!

thank you, i never thought of this, so, human top my list.

jidegirl12: Actually, I add my beans in warm water initially with bout 3 Maggi cubes , bring to boil for hours then add other stuff then voila !

I've tried @Greatgod's way too and it worked perfectly in pressure cooker.

Pele OP

thank you, that pressure cooker is a must-have if you want to make cooking beans or corn easy for yourself.

dayokanu: Mac,

Dont mind them jare

#Teamboringsex rocks

12 rules to avoid or@l, penile, vagin@l and whole body cancer and most especially to avoid the wrath of the gods

Thou shall not mention or make any sexuall reference at any time
Sex only at night and in the dark,
Thou must not see each others blockos and wetincall
Booby touching is only for pikin alone
Sex only in the bedroom on the bed or Mat,
Nobody utters any sounds at all.
Both partners tie wrapper before the act. You must be covered during the entire encounter
Call your partners Baba Saheed and Iya Dorcas or Daddy and Mummy
Sex mustnt exceed 5minutes per round before you roll to the side and snore off
Kissing is banned and punishable by flogging
Heading or carrying microphone is punishable by Hanging
Chopping igbin can only be allowed if the man would purify his mouth with conc HCl afterwards

Missionary is the only acceptable position with the woman below and the man on top, The woman below should only open the thing small and never open yakata else cancer might h-enter

@Dayo.......sora e o.
U wan kill me, i laughesd so hard that my kids all ran inside to ask what was wrong with me, unfortunately, i couldnt ask any of them to read what made me laugh so hard.

Anyway, these your laws no be for me, i no get time, i for pick them one by one and negate them with my points, but sincerely, i get the sarcasm in your post, i know you are pulling Mac's legs,


i no dey o.

If the two of them watch it together to improve their s...exual life, then, its okay, but when its the man's alone, i will call it cheating, because it can make the man to be involved in provocative thoughts and if care is not taken, it can make the man to ask more than what the wife can give s*xually, and in the process may make the man to look out when the woman at home cant do as exactly what the man had watched and would be demanding for.

All in all, we all call it INDECENCY FILM, so, i view a situation where the man is not watching it with his wife as indecent.


May God help us all.

I no go talk!

Eeya!
Sorry and go marry.


But on a serious note, that is how i use to cook my beans.

I put my beans in boiled water, add salt, pepper, palm oil and onion, almost at the same time, then covered and when its about to be done, i put my ponmo and dry fish, and it hasnt been staying longer than necessary on the stove .

Snake and Dog!

Yomieluv: Not married,hope to learn from this thread,to know when to draw the line btw me,and my future children.

I just noticed that some women tend to divert attention to kid,thereby leaving the man with no option but to jealous,this is also peculiar to women who get jealous of their children when the man showers affection to the children.

you shall get there!

waleadex: We tried using the time-table but it just didn't work in our own case but all the same,I think it helps a lot.But how will you feel if baba comes back and say 'mi o je ounje ti inu time-table yen' ?

i thank God for him, he rarely complain, hes always okay with me and whatever i prepare, though, sometimes it happens, but because hes not the complaining type, i would gladly prepare whatever he wants for him, and sometimes too, he suggest fast food, he would have called me b4 he closes from work to inform me not to prepare dinner, of which when he comes back, just pick all of us straight to an eatery...........but sincerely, he hardly say that. I think im just lucky to be married to such a man, the same way he claims to be lucky to marry someone like me.
Meanwhile, my last kid, 2 yrs now, is the one that still feel like baby, so, i always have conflakes around, which i always bribe him with, and also, he likes pap, so sometimes, when he refuse to eat what i had prepared, i just prepare pap for him, always available, because of him.

#ogbon laye gba#

Its the food time table, all of us are used to it, we all know what to eat next, except in few cases, may be, due to illness, one of us may not feel like eating what is prepared or when we have visitor, and we just have to prepare what the visitor may want to eat and which may lead to deviating from what is already slated on the food timetable.
It makes thinking about what to eat easy.

May His soul rest in peace!



I wonder why some people no longer think twice before killing their fellow human being.

There is nothing impossible in Nigeria politics.

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thanks!