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Iru awun nii ri awun he. Like attracts likes. Only God knows how they both met. |
Emphasis: Proudly onemay God help you and all of us. |
You are the only one who can answer for yourself, but i think these points can help you to discover the reason/s. -bad company, remember, bad company corrupts good manners, check out the type of friends you keep. -worldiliness, remember worldiliness is an enmity against God. If you are worldy, it wont be easy to be godly. -direction of your thinking habit, remember, as a man think, so, is he. -preferences, remember it is whatever you prefer to do is what you will eventually do, inasmuch as that is your preference. -spiritual forces, remember, we do not wage war against blood and flesh, but against heavenly principalities and powers, they might be responsible, how ready are you to wage war against them? -double mindedness, remember, you cant serve two masters, its either you serve God or you serve the devil, and the one you serve is the one that will direct your life and living. -wisdom, are you able to discern between good and evil, if yes, do you choose to do good or not? -desire, remember, we desire from within, and it is what we desire we consciousl and unconsciously do, how desirious of God and good are you? -the church you attend, remember, the church you attend have a long way to go, if holiness and righteousness are constantly preached in yur church, it will enable you to constantly evaluate yourself, you might need to change your church. No one is perfect, but we can subject ourselves to checks and balances, (examine yourselves, whether you are still in faith, says the word of God)it will help in being better than being worse. May God help us all. |
Ogunyemi John: Most of working class women are over 80%dependent on husband for domestic spendings.and where did you get this your finding/research from ![]() I hate a situation where someone just make annoying post just for the purpose of making post, go to Balogun market and othe notable markets in every town as early as 5:30 -6:30am, and see the number of women that have already started their daily work, also, go to motor parks at that time too and see the same. Visit banks, schools and other multinational companies and see for yourself if wmen are not working, what about secretariats , are there not women there , are you now saying they all dont assist their husbands to take care of family needs financially or what Apart from all what Jeffizy highlighted, women are also relevant in the financial/domestic obligations of the family.Your wife or any other woman you know might be totally dependent on you for every domestic/financial obligations of the family, but that your 80% is BULL-Poo. Get your facts right before coming here to post what is not right. May God help you. |
Shes your sister, right , i hope this will help you to know what to do.Invite her to your place and plead to her to let you have the lecturer's number, if shes able to provide the number, then, it means shes still seeing the man, and if that is the case, she has to face the music, tell your parents any your siblings, so that, she will know the gravity of her offence, but if shes truly sober and she no longer have the lecturer's number, pardon her and counsel her and ask her to find a very suitable way of apologising to her friend, the apology may be thru phone, or SMS or e-mail or pinging, or any other way preferable by her. We are all sinners saved by grace, no one is infalliable. May God help us all. |
Educative, but the myth we are used to hearing is that, it promotes dullness in children. I just hope people get to read this and be more educated. |
Its better to live alone than live with an uncontrollably angry person. |
Nice outfit! Good snap! |
Now, the strategies to all these is maturity........always behave maturely, carry yourself well, respect yourself and never be too familiar with them, always give yourself your space, never demand from them, instead, give to them, and no one will mess up in your territory. Simple. May God help us all. |
kulyie: lmao.that was one of the reasons i broke up with my ex.his mom was telling me i should call his little nephew of 4year old brother jide when i get married.i tried to bury the shock,when my dad investigated into the family,he discovered that they treat their wives like sh1t,omo i took to my heels oin my hubby's family, i only call those who are 20 years and above aunties and brothers and less than 20 years their names, there was a day i was talking with a 15 years old girl and one of my SIL, their mummy's first born was saying "see how you are talking to your iya oko" , i answered her, who is my iya oko , shes my younger sister, i now faced the girl and asked......."are you my iya oko , she said no, if i call you aunty, will you answer, she said "olorun maje, mummy mi niyin", i embrace her and said....thats my girl, i then faced my SIL and asked, can you see now , they are all my younger sisters and brothers...... ![]() |
k4kenny: @. You told ur BIL to wash his own plates? Dayum!!! U bad ganhow i wish you know me really, im a very nice person, but strict, everyone wants my company but with that, i carry myself well, nobody, i mean nobody, can treat me like a trash, i tell you, i just look straight into your face and tell you what is in my mind "oju to ba dile, ni rore(insect) nko si, that, BIL was 21 years old then, i guess he told others, none of them ever try BS with me, and you know what, i settle them well, when they are going, i give them money, stuff, etc, but i never allow BS, if all women are like that, no one can maltreat them, and the fact is that, you cant be maltreated, if you dont allow it. May God help us all. |
The guy should have known better, a 32 years old girl is not a baby neither a 33 years old man. They both are adults, so, i blame the man for his unreasonableness, having an unprotected s..ex with a working 32 years old lady, he should have known that age is against her and she wouldnt want to be just be used and dumped, hence, her desperation. I, therefore will suggest they sit down and talk it over with each other, the man should state out his mind, whether he want only the baby or he want the family to give him time before getting married, therefore, only want to have the baby now. For those blaming the girl's parent, no sane parent will be happy that a 32 years old daughter of their is still at home with them, and worststill, at that age, she is put in family way and the guy refuses to marry her, its a big shame on them, hence, their action. That, being said, that is the price to pay for his foolishness............... marriage tipapa syndrome. I wish them goodluck. |
Orikinla: NOT IN NIGERIA.but in any other country ![]() |
Orikinla: NOT IN NIGERIA. |
The fact is that, its the way those ladies present themselves, and also what you know you cant continue to accept, do not start it at all, some ladies, just because they are trying to give good impression about themselves, while still courting accept rubbish from their in-laws, and after marriage, it now becomes difficult to correct their foolishness, the fact is that, dont accept it at all from the onset. Secondly, it has to do with how the lady present himself, whether hubby intervene or not, "talo fe gbe ina woju ekun" None of my inlaws can try nonsense with me, i tell you, i give them their respect and they give me mine.I remember when i just got married, like a month after my marriage, one of my BIL came visiting, i entertained him, and after eating, he packed the plates and put them in the sink, i quickly asked him, if he left those plates for me to wash, he said, not really, then i told him to go and wash it immediately and he did, none of them ever tried it again, so, it depends on the wife. Bottom line...............dont pretend and accept what you cannot continue to accept. Its risky. |
@op, sorry for the loss, may God give you and the parent the fortitude to bear the loss. @ other bereaved fellows, sorry about your loss, such is life. |
How i wish im still in baby business, i would have given this toujour a trial, but unfortunately, i don close shop and for all my lovely children, i never used any other type of diaper except pampers premium, and none of them reacted negatively to it. Wishing you best of luck. @biolabee, keep it up, the Lord is your strenght. |
Oh! God! What is this ![]() Is it by force ![]() |
byvan: ....But pinky,is your hubby ok with this,if he doesn't know please remove it as soon as possible.I doubt if most men will be happy with this,unless he doesn't mind,then you can have your fun.i completely agree with you, my hubby will not even be happy with mine, not to talk of ours. |
nikkypearl: tnks. Sis!I jus like u nd greatgod1,I don't knw yythank you, thank you, thank you. You and hubby look cute and lovely. May the peace in your marriage be permanent and fruitfulness abound IJN. Love you! |
dayokanu: Are you the woman? Cos with your English sef we no know the differenceha! Dayo, you don finish am, haba! Kilode ![]() |
Very sad and pathetic! May her soul rest in peace and may God give her mother the fortitude to bear the loss. I dont know why, i just have phobia for dogs, even from my childhood, i cant keep dogs, its a no no for me, and what i just read now just added to my fear, chai! |
biolabee: always an epitome of wisdom.....abi o Is not better for one to first be poor and later become rich than for one to first enjoy and suffer later."ayipada eni ti ko lowo san ju ayipada olowo"...........so many examples full ground yakata for us like our country's president, baba Obj, MKO Abiola, etc |
chimex38: Sometimes as young Adults, especially returning 4rm schl or wherever 2 see ur parents. Most if not all, prefer hugging their mum, including me.regardless of your age, you are still a child to your parents, and they deserve to be respected, in all circumstances, therefore, to me, if you are a lady, to kneel down is the best, and a guy, to bend down and even, betterstill, prostrating to them is the best. May God help us all. |
@byvan, biolabee and others who want to know about injectable contraceptive.......lets gooooooooo Its an injectable medicine that prevents pregnancy for up to 3 months. It helps to prevent pregnancy by preventing ovulation, which is the release of an egg from the ovary. If ovaries do not release an egg, it is very unlikely for pregnancy to occur. It is very effective, 99.7% effective, infact, as effective as tubal litigation(having tubes tied) and more effective at preventing pregnancy than some other methods like pills, or condom, but does not protect against STD. Its effect is not permanent, it only works for 3 months, the shots must be repeated every 3 months, after a woman stops, her normal ovarian function returns after a short time, but it can take up to 9-10 months to get pregnant after taking the last shot. The side effects include.......... Some women have some changes in their menstrual periods while using it, which may be, irregular or unpredictable bleeding or spotting, an increase or decrease in menstrual bleeding or no bleeding at all. After one year of use, about 50% of women have no bleeding at all. The absence of periods is not harmful and periods usually return to normal after it is stopped. P. S. Im not a medical personnel, but this is the summary of the lesson the doctor gave me the day we went for "family planning" and i've been on it for close to a year now, and i can say its working well for me, because im d type that do get pregnant when i have unprotected s..ex, so, for me not to have gotten pregnant till now, means, its effective as claimed by my doctor. May God help us all |
slimyem: E nor get as e be o.I don sleep am before.I nor know wetin knack me that day.thank God you didnt miss your bus stop then. |
ifyalways: I can't live with the thought of something inside me.i believe the coil won't let you balance well and kpekus as much you wantwe are in the same shoe, i was on pills when i got pregnant with my last baby, i jejely accept my fate, after i weaned my baby, and went for family planning, the doctor re-introduced the pills again, i said.....no way!!!..........., he then introduced coil, i also said.....no way!!!!?, the doctor asked why, i opened up, i told the doctor that i have this feeling that the coil will affect my s..exual life, and even, if it will not, the thought will always be there and its gonna affect my performance, then, he introduced the quarterly injection, which i embraced and accepted wholly and totally, now, im on that, it hasnt failed and by the grace of God, it wont fail, its seriously serving me well. We went together with my hubby, the doctor asked for my hubby's question, my hubby said and i quote....."she is the owner of her body, all im concerned with is that, if the injection will later have adverse effect, he should let us know, if not, im solidly behind her", d doctor laughed and said......you two, go on and exploit you s..exual lives. @ify, that makes the two of us, pls, lets continue to pray against accidental discharge o, because im scared of madam CC assertions...lol |
lawrenzoo: Hello Nairalanders, I'll like to share with us the mysery behind calling our children kids.thank you and may God help us all. |
taryour: just assume u had gone to your hubby pocket with the hope of getting some cash to add to the one you and you found an empty pocket wouldn't you have used the one you had on you?thank you. |
babysnogls: G.G, everytime i eva took money, i told him. Its like ds: For example, i discover we run out of eggs in d house and i need to buy a crate and im short of cash, i just take money frm his pocket then go to where he is and say 'hon, i just took so so amount from ur pocket cos we nid eggs' or i even buy d eggs then tell him almost immediately. I dnt let him discover it, infact he neva knows. I just know i av to tell him.. I asked earlier, wat if he takes smtn dts mine b4 tellin me, did he also steal frm me?telling him immediately or b4 he gets to know about it settles it, BUT,if he doesnt want you to tell him after, then, tell him before.....simple. As regard taking your own thing without telling you, i guess your temperament is melancholy, that is how WE are, prone to revenge, i absolutely understand you, that, if he doesnt want you to take his money without his approval, he too should not take your things without your approval. Well, if thats how you want it, then, tell him not to take any of your things without telling you, but i will prefer overcoming good with bad, not, do me, i do you(hope you understand my parable). Love conquers all things, says the word of God, why dont you leave revenge alone, and dont take it......... Revenge is of the Lord, d4, win him over, thats my own opinion sha, but i will say, whatever rocks your boat. May God help us all. |
I wont twist words here.........taking money from your hubby's pocket/wallet without informing him, is STEALING, regardless of the type of man he is and also regardless of how rich he is. Consider this scenario and clearly state how you will feel if it happens to you. A man kept some amount, lets say, #5000 naira, the second day, he thought the money is still intact, went to a boutique to buy a beautiful dress for you, which costs the same amount, bought it, and when hes about to pay, he discover the money is #1000 less, imagine the embarrassment you would have caused him by your action. Another example, both of you already have kids, and he kept money in his pocket, only for him to get to know on getting to work the next day, that part of the money is missing, and by the time he would be back home, you had gone to the market and he just assumed that its the kids that must have taken the missing money and he has already punished the kids severely before your arrival, only to discover that the kids are being punished for the money you stole, how will you feel ![]() So, stealing is stealing, if you need the money, ask your hubby or take permission from him before taking his money, and if hes the stingy type, abeg, two wrongs can never make a right, d4, ignore him and manage the ones with you, in this life, there is a blessing that is attached to doing and being good, especially, taking care of one's immediate family and he who refuse to play his part misses the blessing. Dont allow a stingy man to turn you into a thieve. May God help us all. |
Byvan, CC, Ify, pls, dont scare me o, i don close shop, na only enjoyment galore i want to be, but reading about accidental discharge here dey scare me abeg, stop it, ![]() |
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