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Christistruth00:
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

Ps Where have you been Tao11 ?

I was beginning to think you were on maternity leave this got me rolling

I was going to send you a Congratulations message and ask if it was a boy or a girl

Lol

TAO11:
Hi Christistruth00,

Could you please post a link to where you and I began this particular exchange you’re talking about?

I am requesting so everyone can read from that point all the way to see what my argument actually was and to see how our exchange went.

I am requesting so everyone can see whether or not I alleged that Oduduwa is from Ọrà simply because S. A. Akintoye documented it.

Thanks bro.
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PS: For clarity, king Oodua is from Òkè-Ọrà not merely because this information was captured into writing in the mid/late-1900s, and not merely because Akintoye too captured it in another peer-reviewed work. He is from there for the reason that this truth is present in the indigenous and traditional narrative of Ife and of the Yoruba people in general prior to the emergence of the Johnsonian hypothesis which is rooted in Sultan Bello’s supposition on the origins of Yorubas.

Cheers.

You make me laugh...

Present in which ife tradition prior to Johnson work Oduduwa is an invention of sultan Bello and Johnson improved on it

Christistruth00:
Merry Christmas



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmm1gt_2SkQ





Cc Tao12 ,Olu317,Macof,AreaFada,Gregboy,Etinosa,Samuk

Happy Christmas to you too my brother

Joysticks:
Open a shop for a girlfriend?Are you alright?

Nor vex

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

What are you so afraid of, loosing her if you dont meet her demand and ao what she leaves then so be it, you need to be a man and control your relationship naso you won dey do for marriageif you cant control her now you will end up using blows to control her after marriage

You cant do more than yourself, you have to let her know, if she stays fine, if she doesnt then etter her go ashawo dey her eyes be that,

If i were you i will seat her ass down and scold the fucking living day out of her life, and send her home afterwards with no tfer,

Every lady always have something they complain for in a relationship you have to understand that, if you can foot her bills they will complain you're not giving them attention, vice versa

My lady always bring out money issues like your lady my scolding has been the reasons i still have her and am still maintaining my peace daily

In all get her something, like a job or open a shop for her to start something...

While you're saving for this reduce the money you're giving her and let her know why...

Make you nor allow woman control you ooh

UGBE634:
First there is nothing like an Esama family as it is not hereditary.
2. Usama is a palace not a family.
3. Esama is different from Usama, Esama is a title that was created by Oba Ewedo long after Oranmiyan died, Oba Ewedo is about the Fourth or fifth in line if I am not mistaken.
Your Oba came to Pay Obeisance to money, Igbinedion is not your mate

Nothing like oromiyan in benin going through this thread from beginning would help you

Christistruth00:
Omuaran was under Oyo Empire
Even Lokoja was the Area of the Alaafins River Port before the Collapse of Old Oyo

Story

SeaTrade:
Brother ode.
How did she chop my money exactly?
Na me order pizza,exactly my specifications about what I like in my pizza, I order dessert same specs and exactly how I like my chicken wings.
Order chateau mont bassiliac,exactly what I drink,like usual she just tagged along.
This is the lifestyle I live every other day,doesn't mean I did it cos of a smallie ,rather my comfort.
So how did she chop my money?
She was just a tag along incase you didn't notice.

I know a guy who will Bleep this lady few minutes after he see her, this very guy wont even give her a dime, just better o.T and she go dey game her mind go dey ....

Your desperation self fit make d babe fear or get mixed feelings or even probably want serious relationship from you after she see spendings...

And your serious babe anoda guy dey spread am without a dime, stop making pussy a big deal

samuk:
Incase what I wrote is too much for you to grasp, let me unpack it little by little.

1. Yoruba claimed that Oyo was an empire.

I am saying that outside of this Yoruba claim and few hearsay, there are no independent eyewitnesses to this so called Oyo empire.

2. Apart from the yoruba making this claim, the Europeans who visited Nigeria and West Africa region between 1400s to 1800s never witnessed your so called Oyo empire. All that was ever written by Europeans were hearsay accounts.

3. If Oyo empire existed, it would have been visited by the various Europeans that repeatedly visited Benin between 1400s to 1800s.

4. Benin was one of few Africa/Black civilisation without the influence of the Middle East. Most Africa civilisations are tainted by middle eastern civilisation.

5. Yoruba couldn't even create a fictitious Ife civilisation without importing an Oduduwa from the middle eastern countries of Saudi Arabia or Egypt.

6. Benin was the only black civilisation in the Nigeria space.

7. Oyo wasn't an empire, no one knows about Oyo empire outside of Nigeria, Oyo empire only exists in the imagination of yoruba people.

8. Benin is known and studied worldwide.

Comrade calm down small, before your action unknowingly bring in another lying machine like tao11 that took us time to curtail...

She is somewhere scratching d surface of the earth to bring something against us

Jerkbaba:
no be magu na maga. mumu

See mumu, mumu man

Your useless sense dey tell you na diabolic grabbing na wetin pastor take dey cashout from mumu members like una

Ozwor

Jerkbaba:
Its just the vaginal walls. But the thing dey like say it bite me!

It happens, her pussy walls was about closing on your dick, thats what they usually call magu, thank god you escaped, if not your dick would have been trapped there and right now you would have been in the news...

scholes0:
lol another Benin on the rampage to steal Yoruba heritage.
Obalufon and Obatala are Benin characters I guess..... Better go back to your Ogie title if you want to be seen as real Igodomigodo.

The word oba belongs to the benins

Ogie is a generic word for royalty, the Supreme leader of all royalty(ogie) in benin is called oba,

Just as we have emirs and a sultan, the sultan cant be called an emir
. In the British royalty a Duke cant be called a king it is only meant for one person alone that is distinction,

But only the yorubas in the whole world defy such language structure, because it was during colonization that they accepted the word oba as a generic title for kingship to gain popularity just like the oba of benin and they neglected the title like olu.... Which was the original title for kingship in Yoruba language


This is how far the benin lordship sank in the entire yorubaland the benin kingship in the heart of kwara state omouaran town ...


The word obatala and co were coined by Samuel johson in 1897 to make his frictional books om Yoruba sell to Europeans

Tao11

Men have been barbaric since inception... What came to their mind to do such harmful stuffs to themselves in the first place....

Now The new barbarism is gayism sleeping with same gender

Juliusmomoh:
When jesus was saying " It is finish " he was actually talking about your brain....

Sometime what i read on nairaland, makes me vomit.

I mean how can you be crushing on a married woman

Though some married woman are sex stave. But aleast na... Let some married men Bleep her, not a guyman like yourself.

You even went and mastubate using her image... You start imagine how you were ontop her shaking your potato head like standing fan ...

You sure say your G-wagon never bend ontop mastubation.

Am leaving nairaland for you people... Thank you

craze people don full nairaland young boys planning how to Bleep married women it is finished

ifinger:
Look at this mugu u de sure say no be me bleep ur mama born u trowey ?

Ozwor.... U already blike who ogun don kill, and a lady opened punna give mad man like you,

Both you and the lady are insane.... Just imagine how u will be insulting your mom and your wife.... What a pity go and hide in shame

Stupid man fucking somebody wife, it can only b possible if d lady is retard as you're

We need a block button and a report section

Mugu

ifinger:
I de blp ur mama werey

U dey even dey bleep your mama,

You get luck say nor b my wife u go Bleep, you wont spend an hour in this life after my discovery i mean it...


Na foolish man dey Bleep anoda man wife... Idiot

ifinger:
Idiat thunder kiu dia

U dey Bleep anoda man wife chaii, nairaland mods they condole anyhow post oo

flokii:
It takes strong will and discipline to avoid intimacy with married female colleagues.. surprisingly, they are usually more appealing and they just know the right things to do to arouse sexual feeling in guys.

I won't say the Op has all the fault cos from his writeup, she is the one possesive of him and even threatening him so it's safe to say she initiated the whole affair.

Shut up.. Bro d pikin wen go Bleep your wife never come life

Ooni of ife is a chief priest... And not a king

The Oduduwa history was created by ajayi Crowther and then revised by Samuel Johnson to unite the Yoruba people


The oba benin decided to be under the political umbrella of yorubas after amalgamation for political benefit and the history of Oduduwa coming to benin was coined from imagination


The oba of benin historically had nothing to do with ife until 1920

ThickSharon123:
Don't be angry boo, I'm sorry. That guy sounded so angry like he woke up from the wrong side of bed. Do you stay in Benin?

But is that the pics of your ass, and if it is iwhy upload it

ThickSharon123:
Don't be angry boo, I'm sorry. That guy sounded so angry like he woke up from the wrong side of bed. Do you stay in Benin?

I have read benin history to an extent of understanding, and thankGod benin history was writing down by European that was only gift the Europeans could have given the benins to for their hospitality... To them...


Benins didnt just invade any territories without
Importance to that area the ika land was believed to have the native white chalk in abundance, and in other to control such vital resources, ika areas had to be occupied by force by the benins,

When benin conquers a territory they only sends down military commanders and few traders who were mainly chiefs, their wives and children were forbidden to go with them, to this new territories, these benin nobles occupying this new territories takes upon new wife's in the conquered territories and have children and the children and their mothers would be left behind if he returns back to benin,...


So to say, the ikas were original igbos, who later were mixed with benins, any benin man who is saying ikas were originally benin is egoistic and deluded, i am benin myself.... Even the esans were not originally benins, but were invaded by we benins and a full mass migration happened from benin to esan at a time that made them edo like...

TAO11:
Being ethnically Igbo is one thing, being able to speak Igbo is another thing.

I’m shocked that some of our brothers from the east are pretending to be unaware of this difference.

The data is simply about the ethnicity, not about the ability to speak the language.

Whether you (can) speak Igbo or not, you are Igbo if you are Igbo.

Stop the childish excuses. You’re not that much in ‘the abroad’. Simple as A-B-C.

LegendHero.

U still dey nairaland

South west governors are mad, skull mining activities seeems no more enough for them abi

officialmario:
Good Morning Fellow Nairalanders
This story I want to share here is a true life story about my family
It happened that my father retired at the Nigerian Brewery PLC in Ibadan in the year 2005.
After his retirement we expected him to set up a small scale business, but knowing that he has another plan in mind.
I had just finished my secondary school when he retired,we are just four and I am the third born,. On the 10th of October my father travelled to United kingdom (UK), without telling anyone about it, it was when he got to the UK that one of his friend came to pass the news to us, it came as a shock to the whole family, the most painful part of it is that he went with his concubine who had giving birth to four children and divorce her husband, and they did court wedding in Lagos,
To cut the whole story short, life is not that easy for us as we had to look for means to survive, my mother is just a petty trader who earns little, I had to pick up a phone call business and I was earning 3k per month.
Life really went too rough for us but thank God we are able to survive..
My father came back last year from London, and it was with surprise because nobody was informed about his coming.
When he got to Nigeria, he had to stay in her younger sisters house in ondo state, so he fixed a day for get together, it was at the get together that he apologized and gave my mum 10k just to forget about what has happened in the past, he has not been sending any support to her right since he travelled


I have an advice and a question to ask on nairaland
Firstly, the advice goes to the ladies, Please and please, don't ever rely on any man to survive, always try as much as possible to work hard and never be a burden to any man, even if your husband ask you not to work, try and find a better business to do because you never can tell what tomorrow will bring..
The second is just a question, if you happens to be in my mother's shoe,Do you expect her to forgive such a man and then accept the 10k gift he offered without any other benefits?

I blame your mom for not having something doing when your dad married her and after you dad left she ended up as a petty trader...

She is the one to be blame for you all misfortune your father got his own blame tho, but he definitely left you guys to take care of his other children he had from his second wife


Just imagine your dad died and not that he left what would be your mom excuse for you guys suffering

I blame your mom, not your dad....

Nigerian women belive the dick should always shoulder them

Sonnobax15:
Yesterday being Sunday, so I went to a match viewing center to watch the football game between tottenham hotspur and Everton... After the first half came to an end, an argument arose between an old man and a young man..The argument was all about the merits and ills of polygamy.. The old man's opined that a man who's married to many wives will have lesser marital Problems than a man who's married to one wife..

While the young man was of a counter opinion, insisting on the fact that a man who has only one wife will always have his peace of mind intact

Well, I was just sitting aloof, sipping my black fearless small small . ...But then I thought about a similar scenario happening to my uncle who has only one wife... Their marriage has been blessed with five sons,and of course my uncle is a very well-to-do man...And out of their five sons,three of them studied abroad...

So after my uncle's retirement from the oil company he was working,he sat his wife down and had a discourse with her that he'd love to sell his port harcourt duplex so that he can use the money to build a house in his village here in Delta state...But his wife refused, insisting that everything that my uncle has worked hard to achieve belongs to her son's,that my uncle Shouldn't even dare think of selling anything....That has resulted to a serious pandemonium in their home..And of which my uncle has threatened to divorce her..But his wife has kept on threatening my uncle that she'd wreck my uncle if he should dare divorce her .

The wahala has even deteriorated from bad to worse to the extent that their sons has taken sides with their mom..... One time self,they all ganged up and beat their father .

My uncle has filed papers to a customary court,to divorce the marriage, because all the previous efforts he had made to take his bride price from his in-laws have proved abortive as they have been dribbling my uncle . He has vowed to sell everything,his shopping mall,his hostels,his other two storey buildings.....I even heard him complaining to my popsman that his wife has started to sell his cars and other things he left in his house..... Imagine someone who has different storey buildings now has to be a tenant in a two-bedroom apartment..

At this moment,my uncle has been plunged into a state of so much regrets,that if he had heeded to the advice of his kinsmen back then when they were advising him to marry a second wife,this wouldn't be happening to him .

Guy your story doesn't add up,

Because of one building to be replaced in the village na e cause quarrel for family


Haba it sounds funny to be true

godlessmind:
Most Nigerians still have stone age mentality.

what's their business with two Adult having a good time?


HOMOPHOBIC CUNTS

Shut up you're d one dat have stone age mentality so to accept gay in our society makes you advance you need mental checkup

1Sharon:
Is a virgin birth natural? Yeye finish you there.

Wetin dey do this one even without using the Bible sadomy is wrong by nature

Morningblues:
Cry today! Cry tomorrow!! And cry forever!!!

U speak based on emotion. I try to tell people logic gonna always beat emotions.. That’s why I don’t react with emotions because once the other person becomes enraged they unravel. You know their weakness and you can break them.

What is your logic that they were created as that fool, no humans or animals were created as such

Commentor:
Nigerians are yet to advance in their emotions.

Would you keep quiet Whiteman madness something we should be condemning the white for introducing is what we are supporting.... Fool

All ijaws are useless they have no lands to call thier own always residing close to the rivers of other people land, areas that the indigenes of the land wouldn't want to reside.

Why would anyone settle close to the river when they have lands if not they came to that areas, and the real indigenes of the place have occupied all the lands, the fulanis today are settling in the forest in the south and years to come just like the ijaws they would claim indigenes of the southern forest


The white people describe the ijo people as man eaters in the year 1827, if not Nigeria this idiot called ijaws would still be eating humans as meat

They are claiming edo lands using the fake historical narrative of ile ife, that was made up by the oba of benin and ooni of ife during the indirect rule system to unite both tribe for political benefit, seems they dont know the narrative is fake and they already look foolish


You lots have luck am not the governor of my dear edo state i would have silence you lot you will have no choice than to run to bayelsa to resettle

Etrusen:
Personally I appreciate this and I really understand the write up


Thank you

I forgot to quote your name, we nor dey see your post again

Wow kudos you have giving we edos a bonus on this your thread to a further deep understanding on benin history


Etinosa123
Samuk
Valirex
Areafada1
Areafada2
Etinosa1234
KingOkon



My NL name is Isusugbaghada meaning BIG DEVIL/EVIL In Edo language gotten from the first OBA N IKHUENE Y EDO (the oba of ikhuen that never enter benin) of Evekoi


Can you tell the story behind the bolded