₦airaland Forum

macof:
lmao
All this to deny the facts

As i said before
“And you know very well these facts you only choose to reject them for whatever reason unfortunately your sentiments have no bearing”

I cant be arguing what I know you know

bcomputer101:
God bless Oba of Benni.



One of the servant of Oduduwa

aremuforlife:
Those that gave negative reviews thought they are harming Buhari, NO.
We are doing ourselves, a thousand miles begins with a mile. I don't see any bad in the digital wallet, it is an innovation that needs to be encouraged.

Moneyboyz:
I married at the age of 23, things were hard for me at first but I thank God today.

Life doesn't end there bro. If you can persevere things might get better..

If you don't have something that brings money for you please reason abortion with her.
If you have ways to make money then keep the baby.
My little girl is 2 years plus now and I'm happy I kept her.

Hypocrites plenty for here, they are behaving like they don't have sex.

LiegeMan:
hello nairalanders,

sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

Rocktation farano lalasticlala Seun

IDENNAA:
As a Bini man I don't expect anything different from the response you gave.

Now , to reality: politically, of course Ooni must wield more influence because of population of people who pay homage to him and powerful influential Yoruba nation.

I lived in Bini for over 5yrs on Idehen street off Ohoro road and I am in tune with Bini culture and sentiments. And what I is that you fear your Oba! You do love him but there is a big side of Bini consciousness that fears the Oba. I don't think its a healthy relationship between Oba and his subjects.


As for Ooni, he is loved by all , even me like the Ooni because he commands excellence, of course , after the elegant Agbogidi Achebe.

baby124:
I know you are good at arguing things that don’t make any sense. Lmao.

OmovuduTheBeast:
All this Benin ashawo! Dis one die for nothing because I know say dis case nor go see the light of the day as far as na black woman wey come be African for that matter

Ashawo no be work, na manage dem dey manage am

TAO11:
IF you must come to the public sphere to discuss, you must come forward with your evidence.

Show me your evidence. You’re saying it’s at home. Go and bring it na. What’s my own. Are you daft?

Of course it’s a tongue but you are yet to prove to me that the crap you’re typing is the linguistic reality.

Bring me linguistic evidence stop saying it’s at home with your people. Bring something verifiable. Help ya self.

Contrary to your delusions, the linguistic evidence has the following to say:

(1) The Bini word oghene has three distinct meanings in order of their popular usage context as follows.

(A) oghene → Osa [i.e. God].

(B) oghene → Ooni of Ife.

(C) oghene → A piece from a five-piece kola.

(2) The Bini word oghene (whatever meaning it has) originally comes the name Ooni.

“oghene … cf. Yor. Ooni.”

H. Melzian, A Concise Dictionary of the Bini Language of Southern Nigeria.

Making a claim is one thing, providing evidence for it is another thing.

Help yourself with some evidence if you must come forward to make claims.

Peace! :

Pumpumking:
.who r u sef? R u beyansi? U ain't even lightskin u dont hav yansh u no fine & u doing shakira like u all day goat. Do u realise u talking to a Londoner? Have u been to London? Gimmmmmme yor nomba jorrrr?

MITCHELL96:
Wow! That Girl got talent and voice abeg!
I'm really proud of her, Try me and Essence put her on the world map, very soon, Beyonce and Nicki and the rest of them all will be looking for her

mardis:
I need honest answers and no lies please. You can as well share one or two experiences.

leksite120:
Don't mind those commenters up there.

Your wife isn't doing the right thing. The fact that she's still following him after asking her out will tell the man that he can still try again later. Trust me, the man will still ask her out again thinking she's forming hard to get

Oluseunade98:
I have my car but my wife doesn't have yet and our routes are not the same so My wife's colleague used to pick her and drop her from work.
Sometime in January, my wife told me he asked her out but insulted him and stopped following him in his car. So this week she started following him again, her reason was the guy has stopped talking about it but I am not comfortable with it.
When i confronted her about it, she started ranting about how she has to take care of our 3 kids every morning and still come back to look after them when she gets home by 6pm. Saying what time does she have to rest after the house chores and work that she will now be following a man despite her busy schedule.

N:B she is not the only one the man takes to work