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Kaybae:
Thanks sir, but to be honest, I am not the type, I do pray one prayer point that I want my children to live the kind of life I lived when I was growing up, the only man I know and will forever know in my life is my husband, I married at the age of 24, immediate I graduated before National youth service, and my husband was 10years older, to cut the story short, I dated him for 2yrs before marriage and I went into relationship when I felt I was ready then because that was my vow, so I'm not the type and my husband cherished me alot, just that as a woman, your flesh will react when you see your man being intimate with another, though on phone, and to be sincere, I do tell him whenever he is traveling back to his base that if at all u can't hold your body, please use condom cos I know it's a man, and we see on public holidays, he stays far.......So am not seeking unnecessary attention on this.

Wow am astonished, most ladies have messed the society we let them have back in the days ladies were betrothed and we saw it as inhumane and we decided to say not anymore
Our daughters should marry who they want
We stop polygamy to ease things out for our women we stop all practice that was unfair to women

But these days we men are now at the mercy of the women we tried to give equal right to
They have decayed the society with their unclothedness we men cant even caution them anymore, they sleep and cheat with who they want especially for money not even for love their pride has female is governed by money

But none them advanced to be self dependent just imagine we men are facing all this now despite our financial contributions to our homes and imagine when the female are now doing same in equal contributions we would forever be at their mercy

If Everylady was your type there would be sanity in our culture and society everyman would know the appropriate time to seek for relationship from his dream lady if men cheat then he would be called out for it

Men are now well dressed than females this days is it the ladies that wears tight out and raise their shirt so their buttocks would be viable all to be yanshed by the highest bidder
Like an olosho

Dailyparrot:
I want to plan her bro. I am not going to rush it but she'll definitely go down.

The work is 70% done!

I wanna here the tails dont give her dime

You should question her on her snubbing attitude initially and her clingy one now let's make a research of this ladies make we know if them really get sense


When you Bleep her dont give her nothing not even transport money trust me she go commit suicide the next day, giving a guy free pussy is their worst nightmare that's where they keep their pride

kushme:
This what I am talking about. Better oil dey your head. Illustrious son.

Sometimes, I laugh young men wey dey say to cheat na bad thing.. Na because dem never get dough and some no get style to follow up the game... Men don't cheat, there is nothing like that.

Men just fvck other females when they could do it.. Man fit give plenty women belle in one year but woman only carry one belle in one year...

Women should be at our mercy instead dragging us out for cheat

Men don't literally cheat only women cheat

Kaybae:
Not all Ladies.....

That's their headache, most ladies had their fun fucking rich guys on campus and giving attitude to the broke bro's


When we have d money to have our fun we will use our money to Bleep youngster our wives did same fucking niggas for money too,when they had tge chance

See the other thread were a guy was trying to woo a lady she was giving attitude as soon as the lady saw his car she went to his dm to say hi, pure olosho moves

If he was really a broke dude he will never see the lady's attention ever again so were is true love...

So when we men get married lets us cheat in peace afterall we are mercyful enough to our wives not to have our side chick as second wives and yet we are not cheating with their money unlike when women cheat they cheat with fellow men money

So why strsss us

If you're a married man you aint cheating you are not using your privilege most ladies exploited their olosholism in their time, while they trying to talk down on you exploiting for yours

If she cheat because you cheated have her dumped to her father's house when her kid grows up they would love to hear her excuse of her olosho doing

No lady should take offense if men cheat they should see it as pure mercy for not having them replaced by side chick most ladies would replace a broke nigga with a rich dude without thinking twice

anigbajumo:
See this guy, the phone wey I don collect before I left three days ago. This forum has enlightened me so much.

You don't gat it, I spent for her coz I saw a young lady that I hope she will matured right under my armbit not knowing they are all the same. Rule no one, guys pls don't trust any lady, Always expecting the worst coz those gender are not to be trusted at all.

Thanks to nairaland if not for nairaland
We men would have been at mercy of our money... By our ladies chaii

The questib is why do ladies fuckfor money and if you call them olosho they will deniel it
And rather point to the ones on the street


She probably bleeped them both fir less than 10k

Seems we have to go back to the ages were ladies are totally subjected to our rules this freedom they have they are abusing it

Dailyparrot:
So, I added this girl up through the school telegram group and we started chatting. Let's call her Tomi.

Connected to WhatsApp and Facebook. Lectures were held online at that time so we were only chatting.

Fast forward to the second semester and school resumed physical classes.

I tried meeting up with this girl severally but each time I chat or call her, she will tell me that she's busy. In some cases, she will end the call on me.

So, I decided to let her be as you can see in the chats below.

My last chat with her was May 27, 2021 when I told her that she lacks the character to be my friend and honestly she does. If she had come off as a rude girl that she later turned out to be, I would have deleted her number on the first chat.

Fast forward to Friday last week on June 11, 2021, I went to their female hostel to see another girl. Amina hostel precisely.

I was with the girl in my car when three girls came out of the hostel and I recognized the Tomi among the girls. We have never met in person before but I have seen her pictures a lot on Facebook and WhatsApp status, so it was easy for me to recognize her.

She wasn't looking towards my direction so I had to call the attention of the other girls to touch her for me. Immediately she turned, I asked if she's Tomi.

The speed at which this girl ran towards my car, she nearly entered inside gully water. I had to engage my reverse to get to a dry place so she could come closer.

At first, she claimed she couldn't recognize me until I told her my name. She was acting all nice and told me that she was rushing for a lecture.

Immediately, the girl texted me on WhatsApp at exactly 3:08pm. I read and ignored her message because I know she's been moved by what she saw. The boy looks fresh

And she texted me again with a dot around 10:26pm before I just decided to give her a reply with her try to form stressful lecture day. Maybe I would promise to come and take her out. Lori iro!

Why do girls act cold or nice based on their perception of a man's worth? If I want to bed that girl now, it's as easy as ABC.

CC: Lalasticlala

Omo me as a broke nigga i dey feel d heat from useless Nigeria ladies with their demand


So automatically you became handsome prince charming

Bleep her and give not even transport money

I use God beg you, if you don't show then reality they will keep doing it

anigbajumo:
Once a cheat is always a cheat. Av been on this forum for many years. Av Never for once see any guy here that said she forgive her GF coz of cheating and she never cheated again. They always returned back to their wayward Life after forgiveness. Her last message is " I will keep on texting and calling you even if it takes a year for you to forgive me" . I don dey reason another lady no time..

Ladies when we know particular Nigeria lady wen sabi form go tell man say she go text till he reply, unless she don mess up


Collect the phone if you fit

Try nor reason virgin or no virgin

And nor dey quick spend money on women just that we cant help it because is the money that they her after and draws their attention


We basically make our money for ladies

anigbajumo:
Even to partially accept her back is very difficult for me. The day I caught her, she asked for money for hair and I gave her with even more money. I just don't understand wat she needed. Two different guys in a space of two weeks just because of a penny, a guy Bleep her coz of 5k in the same week I bought a phone of 40k for her?? Honestly I just don't understand....

Then dont accept her bro,

You see my comment to a lady earlier this ladies Bleep for money she wont have leg open if the guy ask for free pussy

She be olosho, call her and tell her that and hung up

anigbajumo:
As am telling u now my hand were tied, Her brothers and sisters av used begging to confused me. Their comments was that am the first guy in her Life and I was the one that exposed her to social media coz of the phone I bought for her,am just too confused. But am seeing the sign that her fainted story is just a stunt, how will someone that just came out of hospital went to our house and started crying in front of my mother?? I was told that her faces has swollen up and she has lean. Am not around now coz am a Traveller infact my younger sisters at home is preaching forgiveness despite I showed them all the evidence to them. If I show u the evidence here, nobody will ever think of forgiveness. They all peg their comments on "she is just a small girl that she's prone to make such mistake I should give her another chance". Am really confused but the fact is that I can never forget even if I forgive her which is the main reason why I can never date her back.

If the beg is too much accept her back and show her how they treat cheating spouse

She go run.....

She will ever regret cheating.....


Please never fully accept her back never on no amount of begging nor be your family she cheat on


Am a very discipline sombori, for d sake of other men teach her a lesson...


No man should abhor cheating spouse never aslong as we are still paying the bills as the man faithfulness is our gift in return we know they can't give us respect but atleast faithfulness

And even if you cheat on your wife you deserve it just do it in a codeded way so it wont be an open insult if she cheat back send her packing no time

anigbajumo:
Let wait and see is someone will prove me wrong with my submission of marry ones best friend. Moreover, most of those ladies are the same. This is a girl of just 22yrs, I bought a Android phone of 40k, place her on weekly allowance and I took her to a pharmacy shop so that I can open shop for her once I married her but later prove me wrong that all ladies are the same. It has reached the point that my mum av now putting pressure on me to accept her apology coz she has fainted twice and was rushed to hospital coz I neither reply her messages or her missed call, it has reached almost 150 missed calls on my phone, she is calling during the day time and in the midnight. Finally, it's quite obvious that no matter how hard to satisfy a lady they are likely to show their oloshoism attitude in them, I don't knw if they swear for them. Imagine a lady that I deflowered not less than 3weeks she don sampled two different dicks..

Lol, if u accept her back i go swear for u, she cheated on you upon your spendings


And you hear stupid ungrateful wife here complaining on their husband cheating like they are the ones who is running the family so the youngman wont enjoy freedom again


Havnt you heard real life cases on Nairaland were cheating ladies who put up same drama after they were caught and forgiven went back cheating again


For d sake of other men you will be doing good for, teach her a lesson that no man would accept a cheating lady by dumping her

Dump her and her drama, or still make her a sex slave of yours na she go run, probably she
Knew of your marriage intentions that's why she put up the drama in the first place and d money u dey spend on her


If she is only fainting and dont passout completely then feel no remorse all na staged stunt

Another drama await everyman after marriage
We men have always been the victim to women


She kept her virginity that long not for good intentions probably the guys that cane around wasnt worth it to give it to, probably you were more finically capable to give it out for, as soon as open it, wahala optorunity to test every other dick came


Virginity in ladies these days doesn't guarantee morality like in the days,

Next time you come across a virgin again burst
It after marriage it would safe the stress of promiscuousness on the lady

Flier:
I dislike Buhari but this is very wrong
Don’t let us use our hand to destroy this country,Buhari will leave in 2023,Nigeria will forever exist

Weton dey do you, wetin b destroy d country

Wetin dey to destroy again our leaders nodey shame

ObaKlaz:
No nation is without challenges. Nigerians are always eager to point back home with the left index finger, especially in the full glare of the international community.

Comments on Nairaland alone are enough to repel foreign investors! Nigeria is down already, as it is, but negative portrayals of the country such as this one, on international platforms do the already battered image of the country no favours.

Ghana ain't sh!t, but Ghanaians won't stop hyping and giving their country good PR.

The average Nigerian needs to be taught a thing or two about patriotism, while we try to fix our self-inflicted problems.

Sharap zombie

anigbajumo:
As if virgins were saint, I just deflowered my GF which I wanted to marry only for me to discovered that she had sex with two of her exs' when I traveled. All these virgin stuff na crap, I don't bliv it a bit. Am talking about an issue of just 2weeks, she has been begging and I was told she's presently admitted in hospital coz I told her I can't date get again. If you want to av rest of mind in marriage, marry ur best female friend.

While you made a good comment on the virgin

You made a bad one just as the guy who said you should marry a virgin

I actually quoted d virgin guy comments as a teenager behind d moniker and your comment further reveled to him reality



Am waiting for the guy who will now counter your own assumption of marrying a bestie


My own advice is dont ever force yourself on a lady dont pretend to take her bullshit and try to go for lesser evil ladies bcus all of dem are evil yet unrevealed

Kirkman:
Madam, you need someone close to you to voice out all these pent up worries before it explodes inside of you and gives you mental issues. And one more advice take a few weeks holidays off to any destination of your choice in order to clear you head and decide on the next way or step forward in your marriage. Your mental health and well being is paramount here. God forbid you kpai from acute depression, think of your kids o!

Allow the poor mam cheat she is just being selfish

Would she marry the said husband if he waant financially buoyant.. We mem do literally everything to meet the demands of women

If you have no money no pussy, no matriage


If you got the money no freedom

Haba... Who we offend

Let every married man cheat we dey try

nijaomegacode:
No mata the number of pages of advice you write on marriage, 21st century marriage will not still last.
My simple advice: marry a virgin.

Virgin wen get shakara full ground u still be small pikin

Kaybae:
. Thanks so much, I really appreciate, I was a guest on nairaland all this while and have even been begging him to allow me join, he said no but I joined last month when I caught him with condom..... It's a long story Sha, happy to be a part of nairaland.

Men deserve to cheat in marriage and women are obliged to remain faithful


You ladies had your fun with guys when you were young we men will have our fun after marriage

Kaybae:
. Are you telling me men are saint, yes we have small percentage that are, but why is it that it's only women people do point accusing fingers at..... I have been married for almost 10years, my husband is not staying where I stay, being faithful, loyal, sincere, respectful, just name it, going through each pregnancy all alone, but despite all this he is still cheating, always on his phone chatting with different girls, he will leave me alone, pretending to be tired and go to his room to sleep but check on him later, u will meet him on the phone. When he wakes up, he will first send good morning massages to all his girlfriends, and always behaving like an innocent. This is the only man I use as pray point whenever I pray, sometimes, I don't even pray for my children and myself........ This is the man that will always tell me, he doesn't understand his health so we should stop having sex, which I agree cos I don't want to hurt him but caught him with condom of recent and lied he just took it out without any intention..... So many...... Don't always blame women alone in marriages, I have never reported him for any one in the last 10years of marriage but I was forced to do so to his parents recently cos I feel betrayed.

Leave that bullshit so many men never had their fun of life, when they were young bcus ladies demanded the impossible from them finically they gave sex and love to whom had the money

I know countless of ladies that have abandoned good guys for a money bagging dudes and i have seen ladies who gave hard time to struggling guys but soon as these guys make it the ladies begin to rush them....


Ladies had their fun earlier than guys if you were a lady and u fuvked based on the pocket of a guy then karma awaits you in your marriage


Are you going to tell me ladies with their sane mind would be attracted to married men, they are simply doing it for the money and fun not for feelings, you are complaining because youre the victim this time around....

If cheat in marriage have to stop it would have start from ladies and their love for financial desires in men

Am fucking gonna cheat, and have my fun, since am not opportune to be having the fun now because of my financial disabilities

Mecka:
what if your wife dey give u beta style plus bj. Wetin u go do

Na she know,


Dey enjoyed their own time as ladies fucking guys with cash why we broke boys hustle for pussy without having fun, so when the money finally comes... We go cruise our own

nahzyla:
Have one or two kids at most, dont turn having children to competition, economy is really dealing with many Nigerians these days.

As for men, purge yourself of any bitterness you have for females before you get married. Many of you seem to hate women for no reason. You have been dealt with in relationships, fine. That doesn't mean you should move around with bitterness in your heart forever, females also get their share of heartbreaks.


Lastly, sex after marriage does not decline. The wife loses interest because she doesn't enjoy sex with her husband
Sex without orgasm or satisfaction or hy a man who treats her like crap is just like being used or taken advantage of by many women that is why they start to lose interest, this is something married women discuss, its not empty talk.
That advice was for males that are already planning how to cheat after mattiage because they were told that married women lose interest in sex.

Me i go cheat for marraoge women are scum


All of them olosho fucking men for money.....

Me i will save my debtor, leave my parents and spouse to the hands of God, since i cant save one and leave the others, after saving my idiot debtor, after paying me, i will have him shot, for owning me money and denying me a chance to save someoneelse,

So practically am saving no one, there be lesser guilt saving one and leaving the others

DenreleDave:
Best monarch...


Civilization


[s]Ooni is not like one ọba for South South wey dey claim boss for him town... Him influence no even reach Edo.... Him just Siddown for palace like sumone dt is bedridden[/s]....


Good one... Ooni

Your onni dey waka around like who sweetie catch for yansh


Awolowo self made king, ooni of ife

Anyone with available data cheat should help me out with it, thanks

Mangekyo:
Right in aware that pdp won in edo state in the long run. I made my comment when I remembered the old days when you'd enter tuke tuke or oshiomole bus and some Buhari supporters would tell you to shout Sai baba. It always happened bck to bck to bck. When you go to depot market or agbor park etc, some the women were always hailing him. You dare not speak against him!

You cant blame the edos back then bro

Pdp in the regime of lucky igbinedion messed up the state to a stand still, Oshiomole who was the face of democracy in edo and Nigeria ay large was apc,

For pdp to still succeed in edo, know majority of the people who voted against buhari were elderly ones who already tested buhari incompetency in the past

ariesbull:
Anglo Aro war
Ekumeku war
Igbo ibibio war
Biafra war


Do you know that the present Abia State was captured by igbo ...Aro was captured and renamed Okigbo (great igbo ) after the war

Igbo never lost a Territory...they gained territories from other tribes


Yoruba lust territory (Ilorin ) to Fulani
Benin lost gelelege to Ijaw

Lol benin lost gelegle to ijaw what a good laugh, gelegle are just foreign migrant Nigeria law wont allow us evacuate them since we cant evacuate them we make subject to us

ariesbull:
Benin that Biafra Troup defeated in less Han 24 hours on their way to Ore


The 13th Battalion was given the job of defending the Biafran north flank while also cutting off Nigerian supplies going to Nsukka. A Nigerian Army unit was pursued by Biafran soldiers to the Siluko River where the two sides exchanged fire, before the Nigerians managed to escape under the cover of darkness. Unbeknownst to General Banjo a unit of Biafran soldiers under Midwestern Lt. Col. Ochei attacked the government residence of Mid-Western Region governor David Ejoor in Benin on the orders of President Odumegwu Ojukwu to capture Ejoor dead or alive. Fortunately for Ejoor, Quartermaster Lt. Col. Ogbemudia changed the guard detail at the government house the night prior, replacing troops that were in on the plot to hand over Ejoor. His guards resisted the attacking Biafrans which gave Ejoor enough time to escape and flee to Lagos. Within 12 hours of the initial invasion the Biafran Army had control over the entire Mid-Western Region, most of it taken without a fight.

And general ogebemudia reclaimed it, back

When you defeat, defeat completely for we to reclaim back our land by an edo man and not by igbo or another tribe then midwest was never defeated by Biafrans

BKayy:
LOL. You outran and sold who to who?

[s]You better watch your tongue. If you know who Ndigbo are, you should know that we adore competition and detest stupidity. I won't argue your slave-master relationship with Ika which is officially not considered as Igbo for now but when you say Igbo nation again, don't blame anyone for what might come your way.
Your entire Benin land fell under a day to Biafran forces. I don't think if such is repeated that there will be any difference.
Apart from the Fulani that owned the entire Hausa as slaves, I doubt there is any group in Nigeria that had more slaves than Ndigbo. A slave population so big that they are part of caste. Where do you think those slaves come from? If not from Minorities like you people, Igala and Ijaw.
The fact is nobody, I repeat NOBODY dared raid Igboland. The Fulani that are trying to attempt it in this generation have a good story to tell their well wishers like the Yellow Bar and you guys.[/s]

Trash i see you're eager to defend your igbos ethnic group but you really dont know anything, i will assume you're a young man who doesn't know much but filled with simply tribal ego, if i am to descend on your comment
With reprisal reply i wouk end up hurting the innocent ibos fighting for their freedom which i admire


I would let it slide

OutOfContext:
Bring it let see

Benin the mushroom empire

Your moniker says it all, a troll

Anyway we aren't discussing history here rather the present so let's leave it like that before we derail the thread

BKayy:
They really believed and live in their fairly tales.
They think we are all fools. The entire Benin of today sef can't field as much army as average Igbo town, talkless of clan

We binis outrun your ibo towns in the past and sold you off as slaves

If you want proves i will bring them but again you will still deniel it

Instead of you fighting the past you can't rewrite why not be proud of the present you guys are currently the face of bravery in Nigeria

Yorubas are registered cowards, from an edo man...

The igbos never had explicit historical past but they have now made modern day history of their braveness

Inside a country another country is know as biafra deserves an applaud


Yorubas have been historically cowards binis ransacked their lands for slaves, fulani sacked their empire and they only found bravery in waring themselves


Yorubas can never be a brave tribe, religion differences would always pull them back

NoSentiment:
Why do southern Nigerians have inferiority complex? An american is insulting your governor and you are celebrating because of hatred, inferiority complex and lack of self worth. If America knew that the big tech threatens its corporate existence it would have since banned it. But they know they have institutional buffers against the antics of the big tech and they are using them to control other countries so they wont set an example that other nations may follow, which will burst their bubble.

I don't know why southern Nigerians worships and lickk the backside of the Yankees. Anyway if a people lack values and moralities they also have such kind of inferiority complex.

I was in UK for a masters degree and saw how my classmates from the south were mimicking the way oyibo speak and even mocked me who didn't, telling me that how would I prove that I had been in the Uk when I come back to Nigeria if I didn'tchange my accent!. Oh boy, how condescending! I just laughed at their inferiority complex, cheapness and lack of self worth.

It is these kinds of southern Nigerians attitudes that even make these oyibo to patronize and look down on us. Get some self worth, my compatriots from the south. Come to north, where even a shoe shiner knows a white man is just a human like him.

Is it inferiority compkex when we southerns call you guys A. B. O. K. I, ehnn?

So much from an aboki, who talks about inferiority complex and yet went to uk, a whitemen country to study for his masters

, we can wait to half this countey the north deserve a country with Niger rupublic

Kaduna1stson:
My president is not a tyrant, he is a quiet person and he loves the whole country to be quiet at the same time without talking too much. Cattle grazing doesn't require twitter, so what's all the fuss about Twitter ban. You people should go back to nature and stop twitter and Facebook.

He is tyrant and you're an aboki

The op wasnt lieing my twitter and playstore wasnt working this money untill i forcetop my playstore