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How many of these musicians don't sing trash, many of them av no meaningful lyrics both Nigerian and outside. Nigerians' own is just to av gud beat, the rest doesn't matter even if the lyrics is 'U are all mad', pple will still dance, one of the reasons I stopped listening to music except annasheed and some other few music I still find reasonable like Asa's, Adele's, beautiful nubia, etc. Many pangolo singers out there.

iambabaG:
D heart of men t truly wicked..
But dis religion is such a barbaric one oo!! It has turned into a world wide pandemic.
I wonder wot dey r filled wit 2 carry out such horrendous acts.

why are pple so filled and blinded by hate and stereotypes not to see the truth right in front of their nose. Does it seem like boko haram is actually religion related wt all their activities. If they wanted to destroy non-muslims and fight for religion under wc they are hiding they wld nt be ravaging the North where the Muslim population is high bt the South. These pple waste innocent lives no matter the religion, they are just plain animalistic psychopaths, stop associating Islam wt them. Terrorism is not endorsed nor allowed in Islam, they and their sponsors and protectors are the only ones who knws what their motives are.

What can I say, but wonderful and insightful write up. U've said it all.

Wow! Just bumped into this thread. Weird but nice thread, I must say.
I'm a reserved kinda person, I'm not overtly introvert though, I do well in public gatherings, I can face the crowd wtout any qualms (I av to cos of my profession), I can talk to strangers if there is a need to in a friendly way, but I'll rather not. I don't like going out, telling me to go somewhere is like a punishment for me, unless I'm in the mood or absolutely necessary, I wld rather coup myself up at home, neck deep in novels, watching cartoon or working on clothes.
I just don't see any reason to talk or keep talking when I dnt need to, I dnt av problem making friends though, but I look around well at my surroundings, studying pple to knw who I can mingle well wt. Wt outsiders I only talk when necessary but wt close friends, I'm a talkative. Although, I'm reserved and dnt get angry easily, I hate being taken granted of and so I dnt take shit from anybody, although I myt keep watching d person sometimes till he or she makes a major flop. On social media, I can obviously express myself well. All in all, I like myself just the way, I am. Sometimes, when some of my extrovert friends do somethns, I just think, that's just plain stupid, although fun.

gimakon:
Because I have talked, you now want to face me now relax let's say things well.

If truly your Quaran forbids killing of innocent as you say,why do your brothers sing for Allah and slash throats like that, are they killing goats.
Islam is no religion, full of hate.
Whatever happened in that church, in the south west has got to do with their pastor, dig deep and you find out.
You cannot change the idea of one person with "islam is against terrorism" your Quran is brutal and it prompts people to do and undo

Read this http://www.israeltoday.co.il/NewsItem/tabid/178/nid/16800/Default.aspx

You read a holy book that makes you very hostile. Are you supposed to serve God as a villain? They serve God in open mindedness, but today...inverse is the case.
My best friend is a muslim, we quarrel but he always says... Islam is a religion of peace, am yet to see that,because evil has clouded,not my judgement, but the judgement of several billions of people around the globe. write letters to Mecca and Medina and let them arrest these people causing the chaos and burn them alive, let them feel the pain they cause to innocent people and watch, if someone like me will speak again.

Islam, a religion that says something else and does something else.

Ur comment didn't surprise me. Those psychopaths might chant Allah Akbar but it doesn't make what they are doing right, or conforming to Islamic tenets or doing it for Allah.
Like some1 fornicating and shouting 'God', is God in support of what he or she is doing? This myt be milder compared to what the terrorist are doing bt the person saying God is also sinning against God. Islam has made it's stand known, but some 'extremists' might deviate for reasons best known to them. And even in all these craze, Muslims are also killed.
U are no best friend to that Muslim, if u were, u wldn't say 100% of Muslims are terrorists, if he is he cld av killed or tortured u to join Islam. What do u know abt the Quran to say it's a Book of brutality? Pple just make claims due to hearsays.
I don't understand the excuse u made up for the pastor of the Church tho, if his plan had worked the Muslims in that Community are in trouble, there is a high probability of them being harassed by the pple in that community or innocent pple arrested.
What the crusaders did then, was it in conformity with Christianity? They also claimed to be fighting for Christendom.
These terrorist av their motives wc is definitely not religious bt shading their actions wt religion, and there are a lot of facts still hidden from us and fabrications also heaped by the media. Who are the master mind of these pple, who are the pple supplying them wt the top class weapons and ammunition they use? Etc. With all the intelligence acclaimed to the West are they telling us they don't know what is going on. The incidence of Paris took place, why was it afterwards they deemed it fit to attack those ISIS camps with grenade, since they knew their hiding place, who are the pple protecting these terrorists? There is a lot of hypocrisy going on.
The whole World shld come together to fight these murderers becos they are a common enemy, but like I said there is still alot we don't know.

gimakon:
100% of muslims are terrorists.
You need to see how violent they react when you tell them about ISIS. You then will know that these people are something else. Their father satan just day use them accomplish end time tracks
Not very surprised, many of them serve Devil or rather Mephistopheles.....without knowing

The evil and devilish ones are stereopythic pple like u. U only want to see the bad in Islam and there is no bad in Islam, only bad Muslims or pple who claim to be Muslims.
Somethn happened in a small town (can't remember the name of the place ryt nw)in the SW early this yr with some masked men dressed like BH entering the church harassing pple and wanting to burn the church down, but surprisingly for them pple turned on them, gathered a mob and beat them up when their faces were revealed they turned out to be members of that church acting on the bid of their pastor, if they had gotten away wt it, what pple wld av been shouting is that Muslims are here again, BH is in SW, etc, but today nothing is heard of the case again, it was swept under the rug.
Islam is against terrorism, those deluded animals killing pple and destroying places may claim to be Muslims fighting for religion, but they aren't, cos what they are doing is against what Islam upholds. The media has also done alot to black name the Muslims, Muslims are harassed, some Muslim teenagers killed in America by peers simply becos of this evil stereotype.
Q6:151 'do not kill a soul God has made sacrosanct, save lawfully'
Q5:53 ''---- Whoso kills a soul, unless it be for murder or for wrecking corruption in the land, it shall be as if he had killed all mankind and he who saves a live, it shall be as if he has given life to all of Mankind''
These are some of the quranic verses forbidding killing of innocent pple. Suicide itself is a grave sin in Islam not to talk of mass homicide.
#Terrorism has no religion#
#Islam is not synonymous with terrorism#,
#Terrorists are deluded animals not Muslims#

icelord:
u an aspirant ma ??

Yes bro, thru DE though

icelord:
clam down ma

Thanks

gannycute:
u dont hav to see anyone scream. Those that truely needs help have already contacted me, and i've guided them. You expect them to join U in ranting here?

Whatever thought rocks ur boat, mister

gannycute:
u must be one to know one. Nairaland needs to review its age restriction. Maybe by scanning valid I.D, they will be able to affirm d real age of juveniles lyk U. Anytym one talks of money here, the next thing that comes to mind is scam. How do u reason?

U are the juvenile here, probably even a delinquent one at that.
I shld ask u how u reason, everyone knws abt scammers parading the threads trying to sell off their garbage to pple that might be gullible enof. If u're not a scammer, u wld av made ur manner of approach in a polite, rational and reasonable way, I avn't seen anyone screaming for help from u. And it's better u work on building ur manners u clearly lack it.

gannycute:
1) i finished as a certified Medical Doctor in the same OAU u're praying to enter. And when u are finally admitted, give me a call, i will be glad to assist u morally and financially

Odensin, u must think every one is stupid enof to fall for ur cheap lies.
Useless scammer wt over-bloated ego, u better go and find work, and stop living a mirage, certified medical Dr in ur dreams. U think a brain with no grey mater can get u MBBS? Yeye dey smell

I heard the 2nd list is out, how true is this?

jabojafa:
i stil think its better she runs away on her own accord dan for her mum to send her away. U dnt throw d baby n d dirty bath water together.

I neva said they shld send her away, that wld be a rash decision, but they shld call the boy and his family and get them married, after then she is free to go and live with the boy since that's what she wants. If they don't do this She might leave of her own accord very soon and they might nt even be able to trace where she lives.

jabojafa:
leaving to herself isnt d best decision. Our ppl say ''an okro plant can neva be taller dan d owner'' since she suckd ur mum's breast and der is absolutely nothing impossible for God to do den d place of prayer must neva be neglected. Also sending her away since she is nt married or becom an adult yet then u, ur broda n mum have to employ wot eva means to instill discipline into her. You guys hv to be hard on her especially ur elder broda. Dont eva neglect d rod of correction. Finally Shilow is starting on d 8th of Dec, and i think u shd mk it a date with d God of Shilow bring ur sista along to God physically or making her ur only prayer request.

I'm telling u if they don't let her leave, get her married to that guy soon, she'll leave herself. They'll just come back home oneday and find her gone. I know of a girl like that, she later left home and left her child with the parents, till today the parents av nt been able to trace where she lives. She removed her thn from d house one by one wtout them noticing till she finally left. So it's better they let her go honorably nw, if she sees gudness there 'unlikely' gud for her, if the other way round she'll realise what they were doing for her the hard way.

I felt I had to comment on this thread cos the rate of ignorance felled hatred against Islam by non-muslims due to all these propagandas is high.
First and foremost like we always say Islam is a religion of peace and is not synonymous to terrorism. Islam is against murder.
Q6:151 'do not kill a soul God has made sacrosanct, save lawfully'
Q5:53 'whoso kills a soul, unless it be for murder or wrecking corruption in the land, it shall be as if he killed all mankind, and he who saves a life, it shall be as if he has given life to all of mankind'
- There is no compulsion in religion
Q2:256 'There is no compulsion in religion. The ryt way has become distinct from error'
Q18:28 'Say: the truth is from ur Lord; then whosoever will, let him blive and whosoever will, let him disbelieve'
Q10:107'Say: O making, Now hath the truth from ur Lord come to u, whosoever is guided, is for his own soul and whosoever erreth, erreth against his own soul, and I AM NOT A WARDER OVER U'
So if the prophet wasn't given given permission by Allah to coerce pple into the religion, where are the deluded animals coming from?
- I am a Muslim and a Jihadist
JIHAD is a word that has in recent times been greatly misinterpreted. It simply means 'Striving' as against holy war as it has been painted.
Jihad is in 3 phases, jihad on one's soul, that is one doing the right thns and avoiding evil, searching for knowledge and partaking in righteous deeds.
2- Jihad in the Society, this deals with dawah, enjoining pple to do gud and avoiding evil, spreading the mssg of Islam etc.
3- this involves war, this can only be done against oppression and injustice. The Muslims later resorted to this against the pagans of Mecca who were torturing, starving, banishing, and killing Muslims.
The consensus has to be reached by the head of the Muslim community and a warning being given to the enemies
Q2:190 ' Fight in the way of God against those who fight u, but begin not hostilities. Lo! Allah loveth not aggressors!
Q8:61'But if the enemies incline towards peace you also incline towards peace and trust in God! For He is the one who hears and knows all things'
In conclusion, it can be inferred that the terrorists are against what Islam stands for. Like the crusaders fought for Christendom not Christianity. These deluded terrorists aren't fighting for Islam but for whatever personal reason they myt av whether political, territorial or just plain psychotic missions.
The might shout Allah Akbar, it doesn't make what they are doing right or supported by Islam. It is also noticed that more religious Muslims are least inclined to terrorism becos they know what they hold, but pple who know next to nothing and are easily brainwashed are drawn to it. Their motive isn't to fight for Islam, cos what they are doing is against Islam.
And I know there is more to this propaganda than meets the eye and what the media portrays. America has a lot of hand of many things. I pray the truth prevails soon.

Ah! My mum dey try for tht area, and it has rubbed off on me although I'm still nt as gud as her. I disliked haggling once bt nw I don wise, I can remember when I went for a conference from sch to Delta then, and they were selling bread we buy for N150-200 here at N250, I didn't knw when I said na 200 na. The seller said they dnt haggle bread, I asked him who wrote the law. But it was funny sha.

She is being naive. I think u guys over pampered her though, how can someone who got preg at tht tender age still av the guts to be disrespectful to the pple caring for her, if the family had made her realise was she did was shameful and wld not be tolerated a 2nd time she wldn't try tht rubbish. Don't be surprised when she comes back home with a 2nd preg from tht same irresponsible boy.
This same thn happened to a neighbour of mine while she was in sch, the girl had d 1st child, they didn't curb her and she brought another 1 again from a different man, sadly her younger sis followed her step.
U av to let her learn the hard way, since she thinks she is matured enof. Trying to severe her bonds wt tht randy boy myt nt work. Since she wants to go to him, call the boy and his family, arrange their marriage, whatever she sees there let her learn from it. It's then she'll appreciate u for trying to make her life better, bt since she wants to be ambitionless leave her.

angiography:
Please m sorrie if I've dissapointed...but you shld understand that was written in the heat of emotion of the killing....imagine some people from Syria killing 128 people all in the name of religion- shouting Alahu Akbar while shooting fellow men down??


And the guy I quoted then tried to justify such killing... No, you too should be angry... My friend.


I've Muslim friends, who're soo gud...but just imagine the above


M sorrie again if I sounded so strongly...but the dead could be anyone...you and I. Is such killing justified??

I understand how u feel, I feel the same way. The killing of innocent pple all around the World in the name of Islam. But these deluded extremists aren't following the injunctions of Islam, Killing of innocents is a grave sin, or committing suicide as the suicide bombers do. These wicked deluded animals in human skin may bear Muslim names, shout Allah Akbar, but what they are doing is against what Islam stands for.
Why wld anyone try to justify such madness and inhumanity?

angiography:
This foool Islam terrorist resulted to using vituperative words to exemplify the depth of his fanatical believe..fool, you singled out only al Qaeda out of the myriad of terror attacks carried out all in the name of Paedophilic Muhammad and blood sucking demon you called Allah. So, the west created Book haram too and the Maitasine riot in Kano in the 1990s??...

Idiot polygamous set of evil religionists....

Wow! U disappointed me, never took u for a religious bigot.

raumdeuter:
This is not true. You're just embellishing
The wife works full time from 7-6 yet has no help no maid and the mother in law stays without helping with child care and to be taken care of again.

Lol. Tel another one

Lolz, I'm being serious here and nt an atom of lie in what I had been saying. Her mother-in-law was actually sick and the daughter who was supposedly meant to help out wt taking care of her was more of a burden than help. Hers was just to sleep, eat and watch TV but cos she was like age mates wt my mom, my mom ignored her and took up the care of the mother. Even then when my mom newly gave birth to a child, my maternal grandma took it upon herself to wash my paternal grandma's clothes cos they knw her daughter will nt wash them. At the end of the day, she died praying for my mum, cos she stood by her even more than her children. Even though, she had her work and children to also look after.
So u see nt every woman lives just to go to work and come back wtout making any impact in the home, I'm sure there are many women in my mum's shoe only probably in varying degrees. Thank God for the appliances that are being made to ease women's life.

Askseek:
In marriage 1+1=1. So if one inherits something it belongs to both. That's the way it should be. Yes many don't practice this, doesn't make it right

so what do u advice a woman whose husband keeps his affairs secret from? He doesn't show her his lands, when he built another house she heard thru an outsider, herself or children ain't his nxt of kin. U expect her to share her own property wt him?
That can only be done where there is adequate mutual love, trust and understanding, wc many marriages these days lack

raumdeuter:
In the west/ America where you live both husband and wife do the childcare together

While in Nigeria the maid and family does the bulk of the job

So where is it that wifey does the whole housekeeping and cooking all by herself

Stop generalizing, probably that's what ur wife does. In the average Nigerian home the women takes up the entire home care and child care, sometimes if the man's mother stays wt them she takes care of her too and still work, I knw my mum did until we came of age to help out

cococandy:
Accident you say? Hmm. So he hasn't always had the bad leg. Well that sort of changes things.

At the risk of sounding like I'm making excuses for him (which i'd never do).
When people go through life changing injuries especially ones that leave a disability behind, there are two kinds of healing to go through.
Physical and psychological. Especially with accidents. Because it's sudden. One moment you're walking, the next you're in a wheelchair, limping or using walking aids. It can be hard to heal inside and come to terms with the disability.

Maybe the physical healing has gotten as good as it can get, but the psyche still needs to heal. Because in his mind, he's less of person now that he's not full on his feet and active. Causing him to maybe seek validation in his ability to still attract women outside. (This is provided he hasn't always had a womanizing habit). If he has always been a womanizer, pls disregard this post.

If not, then suggest counseling and therapy for him. The things we often overlook are sometimes the most important. He needs to be able to once more believe himself whole and complete. The fact that he as a young man (I assume) needs viagra to get it up again even with a new girl which is usually a turn on for most people shows that he's internally disturbed.
I know it can be hard being the one to swallow hurt and pamper someone when you're in need of it yourself. Seeing as you're having a baby and all that

All things said and done, if he's not willing to work with you, you know where the door is.
Life is too short to live it in misery.

Wonderful piece.

raumdeuter:
Ok if they are bound by religion. I dont make comments or judgment when it comes to religion or cultural issues especially those that arent mine,

Have you explored what islam says about woman owning and developing a property without her husbands knowledge. Have you viewed all her complaint from the Islamic prism? I dont know about Islam so I cant really say

But I think its unfair to say Its Islam that forbids her from paying her kids fees yet not considering the impact of Islam on other aspect too

I hope u weren't referring to the case study I brought. If u went thru the stories I wrote, u wld note that the woman didn't build a house behind her husband's back, she was willed a land by her dead father and she shared her plans for the land with her husband bt after then the man withdrew all his financial responsibilities to her and partly for her children.
In Islam, a woman has the ryt to financial security and freedom, any money she earns or any property of hers is hers alone, not for the husband or family, but if she chose to hand it over to her husband or support the family then it's her choice, she isn't mandated to. The man is seen as the provider of the family.
Let's even look outside Islam, socially, and I blive in Christianity who is seen as the head and provider of the family? Is it not the man. I hate pple seeking for excuses for irresponsibility. But with the social and economic melt down we are facing, a ryt thinking woman wld naturally support her husband financially, unless he is overtly rich. But ideally, the financial duties falls on the husband.
The woman spends on her children with or wtout the husbands knowledge, takes care of their feeding and clothing, buys their provision, gives pocket money, pays part of the sch fees when the husband is unable to. If this woman is doin all these, I don't know how else u want her to support the husband financially.

raumdeuter:
You read those 2 sentences and you dont think the woman has issues?

Wc woman?

DollyParton1:
Even that makes him more stupiid.
So because they are all girls, that makes them a lesser human being?
It is his responsibility to pay all their fees if he has the money. So paying half of their fees while being a father Christmas to his extended and distant family members means he is totally bad.

sadly that's the life some women live

cococandy:

Lmao.
HaneefahRN

You go explain tire.

Your aunt opened up about her finances while the man is acquiring props only in his own name yet she's the bad one.
Or maybe she cheated on him and gave him other men's kid. Just find somewhere to pin it on your aunt that she's the problem with the marriage.
If you don't accept that the matter won't end.

Anyway goodluck to her.
It would have been worse if she can't support herself. But since she can, she should continue doing her thing. It will clear from his eyes one day.

Abi o my sister, I'm finding it hard to blive I had been answering a woman since sef, me sef get time o, sha trying to put the blame on the woman. Yes, u are ryt, she also taught me a lesson that a woman must know what she is doing.

DollyParton1:
You sound more ridiculous with each of your replies.
How about the only thing is that something is wrong with the man. No need to parambulate. The man is clearly sick. If u suspect your kids are not yours, paternity test is there. If he suspect his wife is cheating on her, confront her or catch her red handed and end the marriage.
Dunno how the man can have a rest of mind, knowing that if anything happens to him, his kids are not well catered for.

It cld be cos the woman's children are all female tho, 4 gals, didn't knw some men still take the children's gender to @, it's a wonder he hasn't gotten a 2nd wife. But nt to paint him in a totally bad lyt, he pays their sch fees and some other fees albeit partly. Thank God the girls are doin well, the 1st born recently got admitted in one of the prestigious unis for nursing.

fem29:
Walahi your anty no try. Since she knows what kind of man her husband is she should have kept it to herself.

Abi o, finally, someone who gets my point. The moral of all my story is, the woman shld knw the kind of husband she has well b4 opening all her case files for him. Not every woman is lucky in the marriage institution

freshvine:
Like I said : Trust issues.

If this man did all this things you enumerated, then something is wrong with the marriage.
1. The man doubt the paternity of his kids ( so he doesn't know who to will his property to)

2. Your aunt have been behaving funny with him threatening to leave with her children so he decides it is best to will off his investment. Fathers hate it when their grown blood turn against them because of their wives brainwashing them.

3. He suspect your aunt is cheating or not being real to the marriage.

If non of the above is the case, I suppose that man need help. You guys should chain him and take him in for deliverance

I know if u know this family u wnt judge her like that. The wife is the kind of person even outsiders are ready and willing to put their trust in, even mere colleagues. None of the listed is true. Sincerely, it's even cos of her children she has been enduring the marriage. And he is the kind of person that places his extended family above his wife, even the most distant of them all. He'll tell his wife of over 15yrs blood is thicker than water. Even if the children avn't eaten and a full grown family of his come, he'll rather give that family. And God help the wife make she talk where they are doing family meeting, she'll hear the history of her life. One of his extended family, a full grown man with his own family who doesn't even send anybody is his next of kin rather than his wife and children. Even at the early stages of their marriage, he once told the wife to remove her thns from her only box for his sister to take to sch. He doesn't beat her physically but the psychological abuse is there. As in I always pity her and pray for her.
The last part of ur reply is more like it.
I think from all I av said u shld get a picture of wht she is going thru, all we av to do is to pray for a person that best completes one not someone who will derive pleasure in seeing some1 sad who has no understanding of one's feelings

mizzhoneey:
I finished ond 5 years ago, after sec school, I planned and dreamt to finish uni @20,and service 21. here I am over 21,waiting for a miracle. my friends that went for hnd are working,some married self. though I dont regret not going for hnd cos my years @ home, I enrolled for ican,and I am now @ d final stage. thats y I advice Young nd holders 'obtain de form as many as possible but have hnd as back up.



story of my life

Eeyah, all the best sis. The thing is I'm not against HND, why wld I be? I was only stating what I'av read from most HND related thread and discrimination. A plan B is always a gud thing.
How is UniIlorin thns?