₦airaland Forum

freshvine:
You see there lies the issue.

I never expected you to judge on the favor of the man because your aunt is family. If I ask you about your dad now, you'd say he is an angel thrown from heaven just as you have absolved your aunt of any wrong doing.

The mentality your aunt have is what you've exhibited on your last paragraph. What happens in joint ownership of properties with the Mr. and Mrs. title? Are they not suppose to be one till date or isn't their children going to inherit it?

Tomorrow you'll open a thread here to claim abandonment when your husband become smart due to your deception.

freshvine:
When a woman accept to marry a man, she's expected to value his position as the head of the family. Men has been raised as the Head of the home at least that's what the learnt from their respective household. You see, if a wife did anything in marital union against the knowledge of the husband it's understood by him as pure insubordination and lack of respect.

In this case, your aunt was using the husband as disposable income provider while her own money is being saved for capital venture. Your aunt husband spends a good fortune of his income servicing his responsibility while she hardly contributes but all of a sudden is now trying to go into capital project that's is supposedly not in his name. So the husband devised a means to manipulate her to spend her own stake on the family while he curtail and save for his own future project.

Their problem is TRUST ISSUES.

Your aunt believe that her money is hers to spend while the husband's money is for the family upkeep. If only she will carry the husband along and make him the chief PILOT in her house building project, then sanity will return.

Nicepoker:
Another poor soul

OrlandoOwoh:
You're saying rubbish. There is Eliza nurse aka auxiliary nurse.

drberry:
Hahaha... It's very interesting indeed my dear. I remember our psychiatric posting as well, it was fun filled and you can't help it but being on the alert at all times. However, my intention of specializing in it is not for hospital practice. It's for lecturing purpose, hence you going into academia is also a good choice. The profession at this point is still virgin in this country and only persons with a vision will be able to identify this on time and write his/her name on the sand of time. Eg I don't know if nursing in Nigeria has up to 30 professors (I'm over-estimating), unlike the doctors, pharmacists, med lab scts, etc. Hence a career in nursing academia will make one stand out very high faster than in professions like medicine that already has profs everywhere. Specifically, psychiatry is a department that is scarcely ventured into by nurses unlike med-surg, community health and mch. That make psychiatric specialists a hot cake. In the school I finished from for instance, the HOD of psychiatric health nursing dept did not do her PhD in psychiatry because because of lack of man power, she just had to man the dept, unlike med-surg and others with enough personnel.

igyuzus:
RE: "Nurses Demand Apology From Senator Ali Ndume"
Good morning all
My attention has been drawn to an online publication captioned "Nurses Demand Apology From Senator Ali Ndume" authored by a group INSPIRED NURSES NETWORK AFRICA (INNA). May i use this opportunity to state clearly and unequivocally that i have a lot of respect for NURSES. My late Mother, may her soul rest in peace was a nurse, i was therefore raised through the proceeds of nursing. My distant Niece became a nurse courtesy of my tutelage, i also have two prospective nurses under my personal and private scholarship scheme. The "NURSE" in the interview i granted was not used subjectively but figuratively within the context of SYSTEMS THEORY where component parts function for the effectiveness and efficiency of the system. The Medicare system in this context comprises of Doctors, Nurses, Pharmacists, Laboratory Scientists etc. When a component of these malfunctions, the system collapses. Some components of PDP are malfunctioning that's why the Party is collapsing. NURSES are care givers whose role in Medicare cannot be under estimated and therefore should not be denigrated, derogated, insulted, disrespected or mocked. These were not and will never be my intentions, therefore the impression is highly regretted. I also use this opportunity to extend my hand of friendship to INSPIRED NURSES NETWORK AFRICA (INNA) and urge them to avail themselves to my open door policy as my office and person is always open to suggestions, in case they need any legislative framework that will enable and strengthen the practice of nursing in Nigeria.
Thanks.

Senator Mohammed Ali Ndume
Senate Leader
Senate of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

drberry:
Thank you my dear. Don't be surprised though if I'm fully back with the nursing profession as things get better because in the real sense of it, nurses got the real power (following international best practices) but willed it to the doctors ( here in Nigeria). I'm already planning on doing an MSc in Psychiatric nursing. And when I travel out, I might as well identify more as a nurse. The problem I have with it is just the image it has in this country.

drberry:
Lolzz ... Actually I first did my BNsc. However our primary and major problem is not even about the doctors but with the leadership of the profession (NMCN & NANNM). They've not helped in anyway to protect the image not raise the head of the profession. I believe you should know better what I'm talking about.

drberry:
My friend please don't be naive in your judgement. How will you say they were sponsored by the PDP? What time do they have to start getting involved with Nigerian system of politics? I really don't agree with you on that one.

butanep:
Thank you our male nurse. lol


Keeping doing nursing as a guy when your mate are during medicine. Later you will claim you are a doctor.

sunnyb0b0:
Are nurses from schools of nursing on the same pedestal with graduate nurses?

donodion:
Sista, ladyfiona,Ameenahz...I'm proud of you..yourself truly. You really impress me as practitioners who knows their story and what the profession entails. You are no pushovers.

Here's a link I want you to join ....offers jaburata for there... www.nursestogether.com and u get to update on your present knowledge by relating with others from across the globe.... Ahem....likewise job offers.

bnovative:
I have made my point clear and i have no intention to argue with u. The point is: it's the attitude of the nurses that contribute most in crumbling the sector than lack of equipment/govt policy.
u can try to explain why a cruel and incompetent nurse should be excused for his inefficiency, but the public know some of them are merchants of death.
To put it mildly, the public see the nurse in the public hospital as the nigerian police.

Pennywise:
U either missed the point or choose to ignore it. what could have been a routine primary intervention yes some pph cases are became secondary, tertiary case then death. The only way a doctor can be absolved here is if none was on call.

A lot of doctors are working under extreme conditions to save lives in our hospitals yet they generally are not appreciated bc of bad eggs.

They should actively look out for them when culpable and punished when found guilty not protected on account of sentiments.

Alal:
Nurses aren't devilish and wicked, nursing is a good profession anywhere in the World.
It'll do u well to stop generalizing. Thanks

HaneefahRN:
Eeyah, poor woman. This is a very pathetic case. RIP to the mother and child.
My observation is that the hospital is a primary health care centre and sincerely many of our PHCs are nothing to write home abt, they can barely handle normal cases not to talk of critical ones due to lack of equipment and personnels. Most Drs don't want to work at the grassroots and the ones that do, might not been seen around for weeks. The PHC in my area, I av never even met the Dr posted there once. So the work falls on the nurses and CHEWS. Sometimes only one or 2 nurses and several CHEWS. I don't know abt that particular PHC but most I see around where I reside av just at most 3 nurses and the other workers are CHEWS and record officers. It might even be possible the two women the man met that nyt were CHEWS not nurses, and the man shld av listened instead of being persistent when he was told they can't handle the case and found his way out, u don't claim stubborn when the lives of ur loved ones are at stake. Leave and find somewhere else they can be managed.
The system is a very bad one, I must say. It isn't even advisable for a woman to register at only one ANC, she cld register to 2 probably a PHC and a hospital with more facilities in case of emergency, that way both will have her history.
May God give him the fortitude to bear the loss.

Alal:
Nurses aren't devilish and wicked, nursing is a good profession anywhere in the World.
It'll do u well to stop generalizing. Thanks

chiefmidwife:
So you want the nurses to kill themselves..hw much is government paying them
Even if the woman was saved by nurses tomorrow she will say it is Doctors
Nigerians don't respect nurses even if they kill themselves

kaziblake:
Dis women abuse is getting too much nowadays,dats how my dad beat my mum for good 17yrs b4 he died,am gonna share my story someday in memory of abused women