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Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Loses 4 Endorsement Deals Over Leaked Tape by Hathor5(f): 9:47am On Oct 23, 2021
MufasaLion:
I strongly believe it was leaked by her. These celebrities are ready to do anything for clout. Moreover, she's got fans all over the world. She knew the backslash that would follow the release of the tape, but she just didn't care because the noise will still die down.
I have reasons to believe so too but we will never know for sure.
Family › Re: My 2 Year Old Hates Writing. by Hathor5(f): 9:46am On Oct 23, 2021
Mercychen:
Story!

When you come down here, youll see the challenge parents are facing because their wards cant compete with children their age who started writing earlier.

Some schools won't even admit a child into a class her age because the child cant compete with his/her peers due to the standard they operate. They mostly suggest putting them in a lower class and this can be very frustrating for most parents especially when changing the childs school from the so called Montessori. This makes them opt for extra lessons on writing for their ward just so they can be at par with other children.

Most Montessori schools are no longer thriving in Nigeria these days.

Make una dey there dey ask questions.
They are not meant to compete against their peers. They are meant to develop at their natural and individual pace.
Family › Re: My 2 Year Old Hates Writing. by Hathor5(f): 9:43am On Oct 23, 2021
Mercychen:
You think so. They don't.
Thinking ko, guessing ni.

There is enough research and knowledge from different fields like child development psychology, neurology etc. to tell you what is appropriate at what age. Even the Chinese who drill their kids like soldiers don't start school before the age of 6.
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Loses 4 Endorsement Deals Over Leaked Tape by Hathor5(f): 7:28am On Oct 23, 2021
Adakintroy:
She choose fame over meaningfull life. That thing weh take am up na go still bring am down.

Many of this musician are possess.theur is no other way of saying it.
Maybe fame is what gives her life meaning.
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Loses 4 Endorsement Deals Over Leaked Tape by Hathor5(f): 7:27am On Oct 23, 2021
I am still wondering if she wanted it to be leaked since some women became (more) famous and rich(er) like this.
Family › Re: My 2 Year Old Hates Writing. by Hathor5(f): 7:24am On Oct 23, 2021
Mercychen:
Well?? But down here that's what is commonly used where children start school at 1+.
School at 1+ is nonsense and waste of money.
Family › Re: I Need An Advice,my Brothers Girlfriend by Hathor5(f): 6:57am On Oct 23, 2021
Ayiman001:
We both pay the rents
And besides I'm not against his girlfriend coming to stay with him but my problem
Is some days just give us small privacy
This is what you need to tell your brother and not us.
Family › Re: My 2 Year Old Hates Writing. by Hathor5(f): 6:56am On Oct 23, 2021
CareerMom:
It's too early for her to be writing na. What kind of teacher or school is that? They don't know what they are doing there. Please take her to a montessori school. She is only supposed to be scribbling at this age.
Exactly!
Family › Re: My 2 Year Old Hates Writing. by Hathor5(f): 6:54am On Oct 23, 2021
Mercychen:
Which Montessori? Montessori that don't start writing until they are five when their pixa grip is already stiff, making it very difficult to write the curved letters and numbers.

I know how many parents ( whose wards were in montessori ) contracted me because Im specialized in that area, and paid through their nose just to take their wards in writing lessons after age five because it wasn't an easy task.

I know what I saw. Their pixas were so stiff that I had to start by doing the pixa grip exercise where they wriggle the fingers, do massages and other little exercises we do before we start. Sometimes too I hold their fingers and pray on it lol.. it wasn't easy but within a month they start writing and the parents were amazed and linked me to more parents. Before you know it, they withdrew their wards from Montessori and put them in schools using British curriculum.

It's good to start early otherwise you'll pay more in the end. Imagine, that time (2014)I was charging the parents 25k per child just to teach them to write and I only take them twice a week.

Montessori is over hyped. With all those their overly expensive materials and objects. That's where all the money goes into.
It's enough to start writing at 5.

The British curriculum that you so praise is taught in countries where kids start school around the age of 5.
Crime › Re: Blackmailer, Charlotte Delhi Granted N5M Bail By Court (Pictures) by Hathor5(f): 3:30am On Oct 23, 2021
XXXXTENTACION:
Abeg which one be dis green gown and prison officers again...huh has she been found guilty or convicted ?
I no just understand Or can a person be handed over to prison warders when they are not yet convicted... huh
Yes, they can. It's called pre-trial detention.
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie Reacts To Tiwa Savage Sex Tape by Hathor5(f): 11:17pm On Oct 22, 2021
Lokojatoofar:
Shut up already angry stop using one persons cup to measure for another. Bloody idiot talking about women remaining with cheating husbands and encouraging tgem to cheat safely? Are you normal in that coconut shell head of yours? Will you encourage your wife yo cheat wisely? If she was caring to you but her only flaw was cheating? Dont even give me that crap about gender differemce. Bomboclat.
cheesy
Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Gives Birth To Quadruplets After 11 Years Of Marriage (Photos) by Hathor5(f): 11:13pm On Oct 22, 2021
This is going to be expensive.
Family › Re: 'My Wife Has A1 In Bed, Never Refused Me Sex': Man Praises Wife On Her Birthday by Hathor5(f): 3:57pm On Oct 22, 2021
And this is something the public must know? Disgusting.
Crime › Re: Baba Ijesha: Minor Was Defiled, Doctor Tells Court by Hathor5(f): 11:27am On Oct 22, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
You're still at it?

In defense of sex with underaged girls, this guy is on every such thread with his law of 11 years.

He clearly feels older men can have sex with little girls because they have vaginas, and the argument you are having has been had every year with him on almost every thread that there is a raped female child, or that has a man clearly committing a contemptuous sexual act.

Lawless and without ethics, all to seem logical and "different" while playing devil's advocate.
I wish they had the balls to say such things offline so that we know around who to be particularly careful with our daughters.
Family › Re: (photos) 61-year-old Man Marries His Goddaughter Who Recently Turned 18 by Hathor5(f): 10:21am On Oct 22, 2021
Shameless man.
Family › Re: How Can He Stop Betting? by Hathor5(f): 10:20am On Oct 22, 2021
If I knew how to help people recover from addictions quickly, I would be very rich.

He needs to admit he has a problem first. Many addicts live in denial and as long as they do, they will not accept that they need help.

Once he admits he is an addict, he will need professional help or God's intervention.
Celebrities › Re: Georgina Onuoha: Any Man Who Loves You Will Never Record You During Intimacy by Hathor5(f): 2:21pm On Oct 20, 2021
Acidosis:
It's confusing because you assumed that having money should stop one from looking for a man with more money or a man in the same social class.

Also, don't forget that it is very difficult to have a man with all the package. Men with values and wealthy enough to marry someone like Linda Ikeji are probably married to women who chose to build from scratch. Linda had the opportunity to have a man with whom to build but, for reasons known to her, chose to build her empire. The men she would have married back in the days are either married now or below her social class. So no surprises when I find news about her with f**k boys.

Another question will should be asking is are these women even responsible? Tonto Dike is a chain smoker. Tiwa's sexcapabes with Wizkid are all over the internet.
@bold

I think you nailed it right here though I would not attach it to a bad habit like smoking but to making responsible choices or not. Isn't it better to have an average earner or someone who makes slightly less than a fvckboy? undecided

Just thinking out loud ...
Celebrities › Re: Georgina Onuoha: Any Man Who Loves You Will Never Record You During Intimacy by Hathor5(f): 8:43am On Oct 20, 2021
Acidosis:
I think since women prefer a man they can submit to, they're less likely to give an intelligent broke or average man a chance. The goal may not be to take the man's money.
It's still confusing.

Even if a woman prefers a man she can submit to (whatever this word means), how is it easier to submit to someone who has money but lacks other important qualities like integrity, honesty, a vision, kindness etc?

Is money all it takes? Even if the woman herself has her own? Plenty?

The choice is not between rich without values and poor with values after all, right? There are many shades of grey in-between.
Celebrities › Re: Georgina Onuoha: Any Man Who Loves You Will Never Record You During Intimacy by Hathor5(f): 8:23am On Oct 20, 2021
Acidosis:
Your points are actually very valid.
I am still confused though.
Celebrities › Re: Georgina Onuoha: Any Man Who Loves You Will Never Record You During Intimacy by Hathor5(f): 8:21am On Oct 20, 2021
Grandmeister:
Lol if a woman like you can't even fully understand the reasoning of many females in Nigeria then the so-called male simps should be cut some slacks. Because the thinking and attitudes of many women defy common sense and logic.
I think it is helpful to keep in mind that not all women are the same so it's impossible for me to understand all of them. They are individuals.
Celebrities › Re: Georgina Onuoha: Any Man Who Loves You Will Never Record You During Intimacy by Hathor5(f): 7:56am On Oct 20, 2021
Tiwa and Tonto don't have enough money? Isn't it a matter of misplaced priorities or values? Greed? Instead of looking out for intelligence, kindness, integrity, they see money and ignore all red flags even though they don't suffer poverty? Me myself I don't understand it. undecided

Acidosis:
When a woman loves and submit to a man, she would allow him do almost anything, including taking nude photos or videos. While some of these things aren't even necessary, the main issue is that more ladies do these stuff with irresponsible men. Reason isn't even farfetched. There are more irresponsible men with money. Women want money so it's very likely that more women will continue to date the irresponsible ones.

If someone like Tonto Dike, a supposed "King", can shed tears for a known blackmailer and f**k boy, then you should realize that the noise women make about being strong ends at the altar of love or sex with a man they submit to.

Would I blame Tiwa for allowing a man take her sex video? Absolutely not. Doing it with a stupid man is the main issue and as a celeb, she should have been extra careful. Wizkid, Tbilz and the other men she's been with could also have done even worse but they never did.
Family › Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Hathor5(f): 10:23am On Oct 19, 2021
truthsayer009:
I doubt that Nobody actually blocked the road to polygamy. Christian women don't want it, even non-Christians except Muslims don't want it. Infact my Muslim friends whose wife is highly educated dare not try to be polygamous by bringing new wives home. No woman will ordinarily want polygamy unless she has looked beyond and within and saw that she has no choice or she is over 40 plus and just wants to relax.

The traditional laws may not block it, but the women involved are totally against it. I mean, are men going to marry stones? How do I convince the women I want to marry that I want to be traditional, the conversation is dead on arrival.

Women don't want to share their men with anybody oh, except maybe Janemena.
The things I read on NL. grin
Career › Re: My Boss Dropped An Internship Applicant Because Of This by Hathor5(f): 4:43am On Oct 19, 2021
I thought one should use long forms in (formal/essay) writing. In this case I am is right and I'm is wrong.
Family › Re: African Names by Hathor5(f): 4:39am On Oct 19, 2021
Nice piece. Thanks for sharing.
Family › Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Hathor5(f): 4:29am On Oct 19, 2021
Mordecai:
First off, even unmarried persons in relationships talk of cheating. It is not a clause restricted to legal marriages.

Even in registry marriages, cheating still happens. Marriage under the act has not been shown to reduce cheating. In fact, the huge divorce rate (over 50%) in places like the US, of which majority of the divorces result from infidelity, is a testament to the fact that civil marriages do not deter cheating.
Cheating is one thing. Marrying more than one wife is another. The latter can be legally prevented.

Secondly, even if civil marriages were to allow men take more wives, most men today would not exercise that right. Heck, they do not even want more children. They would rather still prefer the casual side chic.

Thirdly, while feminist movements are railing against polygamy, a new trend is taking its place - the baby mama culture. Because frankly, why would a man choose polygamy, or monogamy for that matter, when he can knock off different ladies, while retaining his freedom to be with any lady he so chooses?
You tell us because I see men getting married every week, in Nigeria and abroad.
Family › Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Hathor5(f):
armyofone:
Only in Nigeria and other 3rd world countries can you people be doing "return you back" up and down.
Return an adult back ? undecided grin
Wow!!
Do they keep receipts to return them? cheesy

And some people on this forum argue that women are not marginalized in Nigeria. They have been used to very low standards for too long, I guess. undecided
Car Talk › Re: Please How Much Is Corrola 2009 Model Shaft? by Hathor5(f): 3:58am On Oct 19, 2021
Klass99:
cheesy Finally!

It's so good to hear from you, you crossed my mind again over the weekend. Busy is good, it keeps the mind and body active.

I doing alright and glad to hear, you are good too.
Happy to read it. smiley kiss kiss kiss
Family › Re: The Benefits Of Polygamy In The Modern Society by Hathor5(f): 8:09am On Oct 18, 2021
The advocates of polygamy often start their argument with pretense as if they cared about unmarried women (they do not need your concern) and children born out of wedlock (in the 21st century where unwanted pregnancies can be prevented or these children still raised decently).

It's funny though because monogamy benefits men a lot but keep dreaming your wet dreams of harems. tongue

In polygamous societies too many of you will end up without one woman.
Romance › Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Hathor5(f): 7:48am On Oct 18, 2021
begoniaa:
Ahh, dear Hathor, I just love your brains. Once I see a thread and I'm thinking something, scrolling through to see other people's thoughts and to drop a particular reservation, bam! I see your comment echoing my exact sentiments. Likeeee. I don't know. I'm just feeling one kain one kain about the story, unlike most that I make a judgment on the spot about.

The OP, the girl, the man. Not one of them make any damn sense to me.

And she declined help from Mirabel Center? Why? How come? Because I know that org., and they take things like this seriously.
Thanks dear. Coming from you, I feel flattered. cool smiley kiss
Car Talk › Re: Please How Much Is Corrola 2009 Model Shaft? by Hathor5(f): 7:46am On Oct 18, 2021
Klass99:
Hathor5, it's been a while I hope you are okay?

You've been on my mind and crossed my mind again, today. So, I thought I should holla
Hello sweet kiss kiss

I have been very very very busy but I am good. Thanks for checking on me. I have been missing you and Cococandy. wink kiss I hope you guys are dong well.
Family › Re: My Friends Elder Brother Slapped His Wife by Hathor5(f): 3:16pm On Aug 26, 2021
descarado:
Didn't see this before responding.
But I saw your comment. cheesy
Family › Re: Disadvantage Of Being A Full House Wife by Hathor5(f): 3:14pm On Aug 26, 2021
AmazonTopaz:
Some Nigerian men don't give a bleep.

It is the woman's job,the woman can slave and look worn out for all they care but she must answer to his beck and call when the need arises grin grin

There are some kind of Nigerian marriages that you won't even waste your time admiring,and this one I painted is an example.Some men cannot help in the running of the house as the woman also assist in supporting the home by having a job.
Instead of these men to help out or at least get a help for their wives they just leave everything for her and the woman doesn't complain because after all she is a super woman grin grin
Let them be super woman. They think there is a prize awaiting them for being a super woman. We know how it ends. wink

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