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Regex:
And why will the man consult with his wife before he invest his money?

sisisioge:
Thank you my sister. That's the issue. If all concerned stakeholders' were bought in , there wont be any injure party created. It is well o

LutanFyah:
Why should a man consult some wife before buying a gift for his mother?

The wife is never family, she can go anytime she wants (especially when the man is broke and sick) but a mother will stick with her children no matter what.

ImaIma1:
When I mean depend on my son, I mean for survival, for my daily bread. Of course as we grow older, we need help.

Many men are quick to point out that the money is the husband's money and not hers. So will he only respect her if her money is involved. [/b]People need to grow up. [b]So if the husband is out of work and she is the one with the money, I guess she can buy a car for her dad.

I just wished people would reason clearly.

Magnoliaa:
Yeah. It's definitely not what people would pay attention to.

In the e-world, women no dey ever get money o. Dem no dey ever work. Men are complete providers offline.

Nisiw365:
So far she used her own money for the properties. It doesn't matter if I know or not

Nisiw365:
Nonsense. So far the money makes money on his own. He owes the wife no explanation how he spends his money ok

ImaIma1:
Exactly o. You can't be married and still manage your finances as if you are single. The wife should have been in the know about the purchase.

But if the man did it without telling her, it's because he knows he's not totally right and he didn't want his wife to object.

Many men do not understand that when they get married, their wife and family become their first responsibility even before anyone else.

My husband told me how his father protected his mum from his family and put her first. His dad bought things in her name. So when we got married, my husband told his mum that she should not expect him to be any different. That he learnt from his dad. So he does the same.

You can't enjoy that kind of privilege from your husband and expect your son to do the same to you and neglect his wife. Marriage is not just a physical thing, it's the unifying of two souls.

I don't pray to be a mum that depends on her son, thereby causing trouble between my son and his wife. My mother never did it. I pray never do it too.

Nisiw365:
Are they supppsed to manage finance together for money he made alone?

Magnoliaa:
All these pitting of wives against mothers-in-law sef is tiring. I really do think this is a fake story, all to get people talking; it's Twitter after all, but even if relationships between wives and MILs are strained - is it this bad?? Seriously?? Any and everything to make women seem like opposing forces and guess what? Most people will conveniently ease the man (the real, ever-invisible culprit and catalyst) out of tongue-lashing and start dragging the wife or mother-in-law. And not even see how this is not about buying a car, taking care of one's mother or the wife's possibly valid reaction.

Make everybody getat. All of them are not OK with their mismarriages and agenda.

IamCookie:
I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Akposy:
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Happy Sunday

Klass99:
Hathor my gal - this cracked me up real good NL and some users be making me laugh today which is a good thing.

I don't think you or the couple in the picture are being woke. Children mirror and imitate what they see, if they see warmth and affection while growing up they'll demonstrate it. If they see domestic violence, insults and bullying they demonstrate it as well.

Is it any wonder that abusive men/women have a childhood background of domestic violence? As in, they grew up seeing one parent abuse and brutalize the other, so it's normal to them and normal for them to repeat such patterns.

Biglittlelois:
In front of your kids? Maybe you did, when seeing a Hollywood movie and you unconsciously see it as normal, this thing has never been prevalent from the time of old in Africa.

Biglittlelois:
Wrong, kids of now will definitely practice it on someone they "think" they love cos mummy and daddy explained kissing as showing affection, not everything should be copied from the west just to be woke.

Richy4:
OK....I understand that you have never been in that situation before that could be the reason it was easy to say... neither have I...

But picture it this way....U Built a house with your sweat... got a spouse that u lived with for 3years...
U had irreconcilable differences that made your spouse move out with your 2year old...

While seeking for the custody of the child, the court ruled that u should vacate the house so that your spouse and the kid can come in because it's a better place to raise kids... that u should look for somewhere else and rent...

Are you very sure that u will be happy with the ruling?... if you are indeed sure then you are one of the rear species that is difficult to find in human race ...

MrBrownJay1:
someone would still say:" its a miracle!"

MrBrownJay1:
ALLELUJAH!!!!
now lets hope the baby doesnt look like their neighbor or even their pastor (like the below) lol:

mardis:
It is not comparing, i am just putting them them in groups. You treat them as babies, they need more of play and fun

Khonifer:
The narrative that sex is a thing that takes from women is unhealthy and frankly, in 2021? Just tiring to come across. There is nothing wrong with having a healthy sexual relationship with a man you’re in love with regardless of whether or not that relationship will end in marriage.

Sex does not deplete a woman, there is no nectar being sucked out, it is just that - sex.

There is nothing to ‘save’ as this nectar or virginity as op refuses to call it, does not define or enhance your life in anyway. In my opinion marriage with a person you haven’t even been with sexually is very risky. As you have no idea about the person’s appetite, what’s and needs, likes and dislikes, people try to act like sex isn’t that important in relationships but it is.

I am all for getting to know your partner a full hundred percent before getting into a hopefully life long relationship with them.

I also can’t help but wonder when we women too will enter marriage and be offered nectar. Abi God didn’t give the other gender nectar??

Magnoliaa:
[color=olive]Exactly. They don't care! They fvking don't! It's all just faux outrage. Let's insult this one, move on to the next. Rinse and repeat. Everything fuelled from a misogynist mind. "Ah, is it a woman? Okay. I'm not seeing the facts. As far as she get vagina, na her fault. I no wan know. She brought it on herself. It's female nature." Funniest thing is MOST of them are not even active in orphanage activities. How many times do they donate to motherless babies homes? How many outreaches in real life do they engage? They are tenaciously pro-birth, actually. It ends at eart, nor pro-life. They do not care for the living conditions of the rest of humans on earth. And last I checked, it is WOMEN that still run these foundations. Women. Caring for orphans; hosting events to donate to poor people, women and kids - both feminists and conservative women. More women are into caring professions than the lots of them sitting behind their computers and throwing half-baked logics around. Whether in cash of kind, they never help in stuff like these. But if it's to spend time watching porn, trading cocaine, splashing money on drinks, cars, in clubs and on girls -- they are always representing.[/color]

Moji12:
Their hypocrisy reeks of delusion when it comes to that aspect. Hian.

Klass99:
Seven blessings ,

You are always making sense like kilode? Me likey.

RightToReject:
In addition to the things that have already been said up there by some people, one of the best means of disciplining a child is by first being a disciplined person yourself, and then encouraging hir to always imitate your behavior - of course, they will certainly do it with or without you pronouncing it - and showing them active and action love.

No sane child will wittingly wish to bring shame to hir scrupulous and loving parents.

BRATISLAVA:
Why are teens so troublesome?

In all these scenarios, I can see where they would like to push the line and get you very cross. That one hour earlier one is the very one that makes me lose my temper.

efficiencie:
Lol! You will surely be among those castigating those who make a living out of getting pregnant and putting up the child for adoption. I agree it has its benefits and I agree it is better than abortion but just like abortion, putting up a child for adoption has the effect of helping ladies get away with terrible life choices. We need to properly educate our ladies about what it means to get pregnant, the responsibility it comes with and the implications it has for the child...it is selfish thinking you can just spread your legs, get pregnant, abort the child or have the child and put him or her up for adoption. The pharisees had one problem, they were masters of the law but were slaves to themselves and the same goes for anyone who is intent on bypassing responsibility. Abortion and adoption are both not necessarily bad under the right circumstances but when both become a ploy to escape responsibility it becomes evil!