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PhonesRe: See The Photos A Girl Posted On Facebook by HCF(m): 2:42pm On Feb 02, 2016
Signs of depression!!!!
FamilyRe: Man Divorces Wife, Just Because His Friends Saw Her Wife unclothedness. by HCF(m): 8:33pm On Jan 23, 2016
Enypie:
Serves her right.. when will our women listen. Tying towels/wrappers outside your homes/ rooms is absurd!
Abi o. It is very disgusting seeing married women exhibit such indifference in their mode of dressing at home. I am quite sure the husband is mad at the wife,not solely because of her unclothedness seen by everyone, but because he must have repeatedly warned his wife against such a behavior...it was just like the last straw!
IslamRe: Early Marriage In Islam by HCF(m): 10:27am On Jan 22, 2016
JackBizzle:
This is the religious problem in Nigeria.

4) Patience is also a virtue in islam, isn't it? If one doesn't find a suitable partner, is he or she meant to rush? Do you know how hard it is to find a suitable partner in some societies? Ask any muslim woman or man living in certain parts of the west or secular cities, there are not many faithful muslims to enter relationships with. Sometimes, we have to wait/work for good things to come.

Marrying early is great but we must consider the variables, especially the kind of partner we want before we enter into it.

Salaam.
I quite agree with all your points,especially the 4th. May Allah make it easier for us to carry out our earthly responsibilities.
IslamRe: Early Marriage In Islam by HCF(m): 10:20am On Jan 22, 2016
Thoughtful and apt piece!. But,there are many challenges standing in the way of many Muslim singles these days...May Allah help us.
PoliticsRe: Forgive Me When I Said That APC Is An Islamic Party, It Was A Joke –ekwunife by HCF(m): 8:43pm On Jan 13, 2016
I don't know why anyone should be surprised....is she not a politician?
FamilyRe: Is He Impotent by HCF(m): 7:34pm On Jan 12, 2016
raumdeuter:
Did anyone take time to check the OP's profile and her topics she opened?
PhonesRe: My Whatsapp Is Currently Down. Could It Be What I'm Thinking? by HCF(m): 9:38pm On Dec 31, 2015
It is back o!!! cheesy
FamilyRe: Describe 2015 With A Word by HCF(m): 4:56pm On Dec 31, 2015
INTRIGUING! cool
CelebritiesRe: Mama G, Mr. Ibu, Others Visit Actor (harry A.) In Hospital After Hoodlum Attack by HCF(m): 2:24pm On Dec 28, 2015
marked10:
He is recovering very well currently. The actor was visited by some of his colleagues such as Patience Ozokwor, Mr. Ibu, music rapper nigga raw and HOLD of others.
It is '....and A HOST of others'.

The man is a fine actor...I pray he bounces back soon.
CelebritiesRe: Celebrities You Didn't Know Originated From Kogi State by HCF(m): 12:30pm On Dec 24, 2015
sanmibukunmi:
Dare art alade is not from kogi.......he is from osun state an ijesha man....his father used to be a popular singer there.....rubbish op kogi khooor kongi soap ni.
You're mixing it up I think. You probably wanted to say 'Paul Play Dairo', whose late Father,also a renowned singer, IK Dairo,hailed from ijesha in Osun State.
TravelRe: Air France Flight Forced To Land In Kenya After Bomb Was Found In Toilet by HCF(m): 1:51pm On Dec 20, 2015
PLANETMARS:
Religiion of Piss is prime suspect

TravelRe: Air France Flight Forced To Land In Kenya After Bomb Was Found In Toilet by HCF(m): 1:40pm On Dec 20, 2015
Wow!!! In the face of an impending explosion?... the personnel really handled the situation courageously!!!.
CultureRe: Daughter Of The Ooni Of Ife, Princess Adeola Ogunwusi by HCF(m): 11:20am On Dec 17, 2015
njays24:
If the ooni is 40yrs old,how old is the daughter,18?
oloriadejoke:
I tot dem sey the king na 40plus? How com he don born this full grown madam
The ooni got married very early. He married at the age of 19.
PoliticsRe: 20 Feared Killed As Nigerian Troops Arrest Shi’te Leader, Elzakzaky by HCF(m): 3:52pm On Dec 13, 2015
I just hope the Nigerian army is not making another 'mistake' here; Boko Haram was not this violent ,until 2009,when their leader,Mohammad Yusuf was killed extra judicially!!
PoliticsRe: I Gave N600 Million To George, Odili,bafarawa,nwobodo,others-ex-minister Yuguda by HCF(m):
What really caught my attention were the names of people mentioned. Here you have every geopolitical zone of the country WELL represented. Bode George-South West, Nwobodo-South East, Odili-SouthSouth, Yuguda,Dasuki,Bello-North, Ahmadu Alli-North central....

The bottom line is that corruption knows no boundary. These are People we should collectively chastise,embarrass and if possible ostracize. Not for us to come online and start abusing one another based on ethnicity or religion. We have Muslims and Christians on the list,Yorubas , Igbos,Hausas are all there...Forget the fact that only PDP members are there, APC members at that level are no saints either...they are all birds of a feather!

The discrimination and segregation You and I talk about are the handiwork of people like these,who have accumulated our wealth in the most obscene manner. They are the reason for the high rate of unemployment in the country,they are indirectly masterminds of violence in the North and general insecurity in the south.

It's time we put on our thinking caps and understand that there are only two 'ethnic' groups in the country;the GOOD and the BAD,...
IslamRe: 14 Tips for Raising Great children by HCF(m): 12:39pm On Dec 11, 2015
@Op. That's quite educative. Parenting is an onerous task. And it is becoming more and more difficult by the day. May Allah make it easier for us all.
Jumma'ah Mubaraq!!
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 8:59pm On Nov 26, 2015
HaneefahRN:
Thank u so much. I really enjoyed discussing wt u.
You're welcome...It was fun for me too. smiley
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 9:53pm On Nov 25, 2015
HaneefahRN:
Lolz, yh, I guess that's what my friends like abt me.
Mel/Sang? That's like combining an introvert and extrovert temperament. I dnt necessarily like arguing but I do esp when I know I'm right, and I can be confrontational too.
That's cool, I want to join ur clique, what books will u recommend? I know it wld be fun and interesting, it'll be like being in on secrets of the human psyche. Like why pple behave the way they do.
Ok..Haneefah...you can start with the book ' Why u act the way you do' -Tim LaHaye.

Also, by the same author is the book 'Spirit controlled Temperament'

Personality Patterns by Lana Bateman

Personality Puzzle -Florence and Marita Littauer.

Personality Plus by Florence Littauer.

You can get some of these books online...and other relevant texts too can be read/downloaded online.....

by the time u finish reading at least two, especially 'why u act d way u do' as suggested by whitecloth..u might be convinced that added to melancholic traits u also have traits of a sanguine! cheesy
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 5:36pm On Nov 25, 2015
HaneefahRN:
Cool, but u will agree they are nice virtues not many pple have.
Funny thing is I haven't totally agreed I av a melancholic temperament, don't knw why cos some parts really fits me well apart from the overtly sensitive, organized,etc . I like things in order but not like it's a compulsive thing for me, and I can procastinate alot but not in a way that affects my outcome or do a task right at the min, depends on my mood, I like setting alarms for tasks and stick to it. I dnt mind things not going my way when I see there is a better alternative. And I'm definitely not self-centered nor selfish, frugal,yes but not stingy etc . I think I'm Mel/Phleg.
Lolz, I love the confession part, nice to av someone with similar traits.
So, hmmm, psychoanalysis? Are u a psychologist?
Lolz,....Yes u are quite right!. These Virtues are not so common these days. They are gradually going into extinction,like species of black rhinos....So,u can take pride in being among the few with the golden virtues smiley.

However, I think u are mel/sang. and not mel/phleg. ( though i can't know u more than urself sha.lolz). Let me use one trait of phlegmatics to corroborate my point; Phlegmatics are so peace loving that they don't like arguments, but here you are trying to justify your line of arguement..! cheesy

...And this doesn't mean I am a Psychologist, I am NOT o...but I av read quite a number of books on human behaviour...and observing some of those things in people could be quite interesting and revealing!. It makes u understand people,hence there would be little friction between you and others. Its fun sha! smiley
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 5:26pm On Nov 25, 2015
Empressgifted:
This is just Me! The worst part is the part where I'm taken for granted, it hurts like hell which is why I almost blinded my classmate in JSS 2. I thank God I'm beginning to let go of bitterness, I nearly destroyed the girl's life which if I did I wouldn't have forgiven myself.

For now my method is never say YES always, for instance my roommate asked for my laptop to watch movies yesterday and I told her I also need it for a movie (I actually needed it for a movie) so I can't give it out. The normal me wouldn't mind giving it out, I mean it's mine and the movie is there for me to watch any other time but NO you just have to put up some resistance for them to know that hey! Someone is actually in there.

It kind of doesn't feel comfortable being who you are not but people just have to know their boundaries with you and if you don't create one they are ever ready to override you. They will think "after all she's quiet", what they don't get is she's quiet doesn't mean she's Stupid.
Thank God u didn't make someone go blind o.. cheesy

But really,I understand u perfectly. You see,oftentimes we come across people who are very exploitative in nature.

They capitalize on your perceived weaknesses to achieve their own goals and usually, melancholies are their victims,because they(Introverts/Melancholies/Phlegmatics) find it difficult saying the two-letter-word, 'NO'.

For instance, Melancholies can go all out to render financial assistance to People even when they themselves are not having enough to cater for their needs...just because they don't want to hurt their 'friends'.

But, are these 'Friends' really 'Friendly'?.... Exploitation(Attempted or successful) from such category of people makes you see who your real friends are...and u would be able to seive friends from mere acquitances pretending to be friends.

In short, real friends wont exploit you because of your perceived 'weakness', they wont make u feel guilty for saying NO, rather, they would genuinely respect ur stance/decision and this would make you feel real good inside.

So, your 'new' method is okay smiley. When next someone requests for something,and sparing such would bring some level of discomfort don't hesitate to say NO..this, u can do bluntly, indirectly or diplomatically, but you must be Sincere....
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Between A Multi National And Lecturing Job by HCF(m): 1:02pm On Nov 25, 2015
nervorum:
As young people we mostly think money, but thats a mistake. If you do what you love, money will come, eventually,your job would be like a vacation, you will not struggle.

Back to you..take the lecturing job because:

You have always longed to teach.
You just said what I had in mind!
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 11:02pm On Nov 24, 2015
HaneefahRN:
Lolz, U got me, but am I such a gud girl?
Hmmm, now I'm curious. I'll av to overlook ur last paragraph, sorry mister, u can't rouse my curiosity and just slip thru. Oya come and confess how u came abt ur speculations
Lolz, the traits don't really make u good or bad. It is just who you are. But they are VIRTUES common among Introverts especially Melancholies.

On how I came about it,it is just psychoanalysis. You gave yourself away with the description you gave about your personality.

But, since u asked me to 'confess', here's my confession; I have the same set of traits, so I could easily relate to what you said!!! cheesy
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 10:45pm On Nov 24, 2015
whitecloth:
some introvert are phlegmatic, hope you know, nice write up and many of your words are on point.
Yes, you are right 'some introverts are phlegmatic '.
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m):
@all. It is not weird being an introvert/melancholy. The day you understand who you are,by appreciating your strengths and weaknesses,u regain a kind of paradise.
We live in a world of showbiz/amusement. We grew up having a distorted view of what being sociable is all about and the media hasn't really helped matters either. If by nature u are not gregarious or outgoing, u are tagged 'unsociable'...If u fail to follow the trend,u are ostracized socially and sometimes psychologically. This has made many Introverts,join the bandwagon,...the end result is that u would be made answerable to other people's weaknesses.

But did you know that,most extroverts admire and are often attracted to introverts?. Why is this so?. Because you are thoughtful,you possess the foresight,the ingenuity,the industry, commitment to responsibilities, candour, above all the Calm and reserved mien all of which u often have in higher degrees than an average extrovert.

In short, Strive to excel at what u do, put in your best..participate in activities that you love to be a part of. It could be sporting activities, showcasing of talents,etc...Don't allow people's opinions stand in your way. Remember,a majority of those who have made great impacts in the world were/are Introverts/Melancholy. smiley
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by HCF(m): 7:57pm On Nov 24, 2015
HaneefahRN:
I'm a reserved kinda person, I'm not overtly introvert though, I do well in public gatherings, I can face the crowd wtout any qualms (I av to cos of my profession), I can talk to strangers if there is a need to in a friendly way, but I'll rather not. I don't like going out, telling me to go somewhere is like a punishment for me, unless I'm in the mood or absolutely necessary, I wld rather coup myself up at home, neck deep in novels, watching cartoon or working on clothes.
I just don't see any reason to talk or keep talking when I dnt need to, I dnt av problem making friends though, but I look around well at my surroundings, studying pple to knw who I can mingle well wt. Wt outsiders I only talk when necessary but wt close friends, I'm a talkative. Although, I'm reserved and dnt get angry easily, I hate being taken granted of and so I dnt take shit from anybody, although I myt keep watching d person sometimes till he or she makes a major flop. On social media, I can obviously express myself well.
Lolz

Let me add some other traits you didn't remember to mention; You don't like being taken for granted,just as u DON'T take people for granted. You cherish sincerity because you are also very faithful and trustworthy too. You are conscientious. You prefer issue-based 'talks' rather than mundane conversations.... When you talk,u could be brutally frank...You're more of a thinker than talker!......

If I got my speculations right, don't ask me how I got to know cool.
PoliticsRe: Photos From The Burial Ceremony Of Audu Abubakar by HCF(m): 5:15pm On Nov 23, 2015
Ismukha:
This guy can lie. Non of the pictures above is from Audu's burial. This is how you deceive people with fake stories forgotten that we would be held accountable for our deeds some days. May God forgive you sha.
I thought as much too!!.
PoliticsRe: Dolapo Osinbajo And Her First Cousin Segun Awolowo by HCF(m): 6:08pm On Nov 13, 2015
Resilience:
I wish to see a pic of her and our VP just like this.... like they look so cute together in d pic
wink

HealthRe: University Of Ibadan Discovers Cure For Sickle Cell by HCF(m): 5:33pm On Oct 29, 2015
tomayira:
This procedure has been on for some time and it works but the cost is really high for an average Nigerian. We appreciate this, can we know how much this procedure is? embarassedThis procedure has been on for some time and it works but the cost is really high for an average Nigerian. We appreciate this, can we know how much this procedure is?
Exactly my thoughts. It is not new..the clog, was just the high cost of carrying out the procedure. Except there is something else that has just been integrated into the procedure....in fact I opened the thread hoping to see a new drug meant for the treatment of the disease.
CelebritiesRe: Omoni Oboli & Husband Celebrate 15th Wedding Anniversary by HCF(m): 5:03pm On Oct 28, 2015
EmoBoy:
Nice. One of the few Igbo man + Yoruba woman couples around. A very scarce combo but its lovely.
Omoni is NOT a Yoruba Woman o. She is from South-South.... Born in Edo state.
PoliticsRe: Igbo People Prostrate And Apologised To Deji Of Akure-picture Inside by HCF(m):
Demmocrats:
Idiot OP, just know the two pics are different and just know this ibos are not asslickers like Yoruba.

Once again ijiat OP
Calm down!. The two pictures are THE SAME!. look at that man(on glasses) standing in front with the typical Igbo Cap in the 2nd Picture. He is ALSO the one prostrating on the far right (close to the pillar) in the first picture.

That said, there is no crime in what they have done. It has neither degraded them nor affected their integrity. It is a way to show u respect the culture of your hosts...and ensure peaceful coexistence. Only a fool would see it as an act of superiority of a PEOPLE over another!...
FamilyRe: Why I Got Divorced by HCF(m): 6:33pm On Oct 24, 2015
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin...what can I say sef?...

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