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Wetin concern us na? we get our insecurity problems here o

Dear HR manager, the kind of lady you are looking for got married many years ago, when we were buying fanta Chapman for #7.

winkmart:
I just need opinions on what next action to take. As he needs to pay for slapping me. I didn’t deserve that in any way

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lalasticlala

Go ahead o. Let it serve as deterrent, for what other policemen are doing to Nigerians on a daily basis, as I am typing someone (that doesn't know enter button in a computer) may be receiving another slap right now on the account that he is a scammer.
please, let that David be taught there are Goliaths that can trample this david

Wonderful....
Please ladies should read the self esteem part every morning. You can be the next big thing, say that yourself with a driven purpose (not just with a lazy mind)

And those are the exact ones that want a faithful man and God fearing man. Them come say make men no do shino

Stale.... even as at 2016 June it was stale

This wife don give the man clearance.
Ladies always forget marriage is serious work, at times, you have to work and work in order to make the man's excuse minimal. You can't cook, keep the house tidy, to cap it all odour, the man got his excuse for shino already.......
Marriage is work, forget those pre-wedding pics reigning and those glamorous pictures you all waste mb checking.
If you waste more mb in checking pre-wedding pics, instead of learning how to cook different delicacies/ being more attractive without big stomach/ making your place neat (even with the stress of having a job), all these men will make those pics you want post-wedding pics very early.

Wait o, did anybody actually see the age of the girl and the guy? E funny o

I exited the blog a long time ago when I realized Kardashian news, outfit, fight, quarrel or just name it, was a daily thing.
I just had to take a very long break...... but that doesn't affect how much I love that lady at all.
I so love how she is encouraging young girls to be independent

OKorowanta:
Guy kpror
Bifor nko,na your mother tongue?
U speak inglish pass us?
Wole Soyinka's 'The Lion and The Jewel' was written in English and the same man
won for himself a Nobel Prize.
Everybody is uniting against this riff raffs for talking us down and you are here yarning puan

I am not against anything, read my post all over and you will understand.
Check our population figure and see for yourself, it just baffles me that people give that excuse.
If we don't speak English, then how can a calabar man communicate with a yoruba/kwale/Hausa/Igbo/Itsekiri man in an official gathering?
I hope you understand?

People are bashing the guy online, but guess what? they are still typing in English and not their mother tongue.
Tell them to type in their mother tongue, and you will see how many won't understand anything, we will end up leaving the post exactly like the tower of babel.

Before people start commenting, if deeply you know at least 60% of Nigeria's population don't/can't speak English, then there is no need for argument.
Some people will give flimsy excuses for not being able to speak the official language of the country (its not their mother tongue).

But I thought Bishop being from same state as Bukola Saraki will also be regarded as a northerner.
Because some keep saying the number 1, 3, & 4 positions are held by northerners. so which one is the op talking about Fleece and Bishop being from same tribe?

Johnsown1:
THE unfortunate once will be changing DP every 4hours online and they will write ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME. Who asked her to taste all of them

Hahahahahaha......
You don kill me with laughter this morning, hilarious.

Johnsown1:
It hurts me so bad ma brother, they don't think of the future,the only future they see is sex. They don't know that she can start doing something tangible to help to the man if his biznes fails.

The reasons why some homes fail is cos the ladies spends 3hours making up,2hours in the bathroom,11hours sleeping. So tell me what they can do with the remaining Hours?

Gossips,

Very funny we are seeing things and we keep ignoring.
Ahhhh, you mentioned 11hours sleeping, I thought I was the only one who realized this o.
These days, ladies find it hard to work on the smallest dream they have, they fail to realize there is nothing bad in them being the next big thing, that's why I just love LindaIkeji for trying so hard to force some ladies to believe themselves and their dreams. Being a lady doesn't mean they should be dependent, that's one major thing they don't understand.
Most just fail to realize that the woman smiling in her husbands house will not tell you how she covered up her husband's inefficiency at many points, but they are so happy together.

Johnsown1:
And don't u think that is a duty of a lady is to take care of his man, Dangote son is a human not a bank,

Sometimes i wonders if gals of this our generation have dreams apart from thinking about sex and reproducing.

You just nailed it....
Is it that ladies don't have any kind of dream these days?
You see them watch a guy proposing on Instagram daily, and keep wasting data on wedding post, and pre-wedding photos (that seem to be all their dreams) No wonder many see marriage as an achievement.
They can take eternity to prepare for wedding day and they won't ever prepare for life of marriage

irumanle:
Exact situation i'm facing right now.

My brother, its not as easy as they portray it to be.
Love alone can't do it all, as many ladies think.....
A lot must make it balance before you ask her the question.

That number 2 ehn....
Ever wondered why love just vanishes at some point in the relationship, you try to ask what happened to you, but you just can't figure it out, and it's not as if you are seeing someone else...... then you realize the pressure and hustle of life is just the cause.
The simple thing is, it gets to the point when guys realize we don't just settle down because of love, so many factors come into play.
The lady's career, mindset towards the work ahead, what is she adding to the union, is she the kind that can stand with you when you are broke, a lot just keeps coming to mind.
That's where balancing comes into play ahead of love

sleeping, as in sleeping?
Could she be facing marital issues right now, is that the reason for her apology as she don dey feel the heat of marriage?

E

With all these, résumé will simply have just name, educational background and full stop.

I stopped at that number 4, If its true, do you know how many ladies that will be living with their dream guys now, or even how settled some guys will be in naija?
I doubt all these though, but if it is true, then all naija leaders and past ones deserve worse than that man.

Maybe she is getting a taste of it as a mother now, hence she remembers her foul tongue in 2013.

I doubt if people will actually read it all before commenting. We really have a long way to go as a people

If its true, hmmm I no just know where to start from.
Killing in the name of a religion is not acceptable at all, whether na Sango, Orunmila, Amadioha, Allah, Jehovah, Obatanla, Igbe, or just name it....everyone should be allowed to do their thing in peace.
Its so bad that government can't protect people against these religious fanatics.

tumababa:
Things are now worse. Cooking gas now 5k.

The answer remains with naija condition o. 5k for cooking gas, I was thinking 4k was too high o.

Dongreat:
He uses same beat and worse still no meaningful lyrics. He knows about the crazy love for beats by Nigerians and he tapped into their weakness. He is same as "Kiss Daniels" who also uses same beats in all his songs. There's nothing about him that is original and at this rate he will fade away soon just like "Blackface".

Brother you wicked o, see as you end the thing with Blackface.
I can't laugh abeg

Dongreat:
Music is a food to the soul but does that include music from either Ghana or Nigeria? I have listened to the guy songs and one word "TRASH". He just murmured all over his songs while repeating rubbish lyrics with no meaningful rhymes and still shouting "Mr EAZI". He use one beat pattern to cover all these flaws and like many Nigerians with no sense for the importance of lyric but mad over beats, they called and crowned him Next Rated, just like they did to Mr Skibo and Rekedo banks but where is the rated among these mentioned.
Well people music taste are different but for music to be a food then it has to deliver meaningful lyrics. The great Fela has no sense of rhymes but his lyrics are heart touching, making his Afro songs original. I listened to Titanium, Bang your Head, The Greatest, Elastic Heart by Sia and even as she is no preacher, her words on those songs are powerful than any man of God I have encountered.

"They call me Mr Eazi and Life is Easy because I roll with Wizzy, oya zagga that". And you call that music??

I thought I was the only one who realized this guy is not original yet, how can he keep using same beat with a little addition.
Listen to all his tracks from beginning, they all sound alike......

This guy was just referring to Timaya who keeps using Ghanian beats, and keep repeating lyrics from beginning to end

The simple answer remains in the condition of naija....
if naija remains as it was last year, walahi, people will enter codedly and tell you they are not into it.

He probably should be referring to Timaya that keeps repeating beats, lyrics and all.
Even Mr Easy repeats beats, Ghana influence ko, those ones that have one particular follow follow beat.

Israeljones:
u never pray 4 ur own country finish...
mstewww...
misplaced priority

No mind these online prayer warriors looking for online 'amen'.
charity begins at home, how can I pray for others when naija is still upside down, why can't we stingy our strength to pray for our own

But that Nestle to Buhari estate far to each other na, at least 30-40minutes drive to each, so where exactly are we talking about?