₦airaland Forum

Kilamiti:
That one concern you oh chacha. Your husband will still cheat with a girl that makes up and photoshops. People won't stop forcing their ideologies on other people.

you're a very poisonous person.

How can you wish that her husband cheats on her and also went further to say she forces her ideology on others. Where was that written?

Evil people everywhere wishing others bad

he invests or he bought trucks from them?

What kind of journalism is this?

oyatz:
You can praise Peter Obi without the unnecessary comparison with Tinubu.

What brings Tinubu into the matter?

Why didn't you mention Ribadu, Okorocha,Saraki or Fayose?

leave the guy, he's one of those political minions on Nairaland.

I don't see the comparison necessary as it makes no sense

Arthur21:
That is why I never delved into the NL version of red pill ,albeit I follow other mgtow and red pill pages. Till date they live on a wack definition of an alpha male(since a large number of them can't measure up to the real standards of being alpha). Follow other red pill pages on IG,Facebook et Al and you will be ashamed of the ones on this forum.

How can a masculine man who ought to be courageous bend to archaic/medieval psychologies?

I have no reason to hold some guys on this forum to esteem, no wonder ladies here call them dogs and western men are suffering from the lashes of feminism.
We mess up over here,and the sane men over there get scourged instead of black men.


That said,marrying a single mom is better than marrying some buffoons on this forum such as funmistiqueen, ri.ele,lillmissfavy et Al that are without kids.


Let no betnaija player chatting with free WIFI quote me!

you're a confused man for real.

Just so you know, western men are fallen men. They've fallen and unfortunately for them, they might never rise again. You think we have a problem here in Nigeria.

I don't know how people think western men are good examples for other men to follow.

Chocolatte01:


i tried to tell Martinez39s this but his ego wouldn't let him accept that most single mom's aren't interested in young guys, like himself but more older and mature males. Like single dads and widowers

I think both of you are absolutely correct.

Two used products belong to each other and perfectly fits. That's why I won't suggest a single young lady to go for an older man with kids or a widower.

to me it just doesn't make sense at all.

Same goes for single guys.

I can't entertain the thoughts myself, but if you as a single guy must go be sure that the benefits you get from the relationship far outweighs the demerits. as in very far, because all of the time there are always issues.

Also isn't it apparent that single mothers are lovely and all because they're disadvantaged in the dating game? let's be honest with ourselves. Check her life before she got the child and compare with after the child you'll get a perfect picture unless you intentionally want to ignore.

Sunofgod:
Hypocrites....

hypocrites, no be small

AfrokanGod:
The purpose of enslaving women to Men. Women were never meant to be equal partners in the marriage, they were meant to be slaves to the men. But the mordern woman is way too Educated and enlightend to be any mans slave.

Ok,

0m0nnakoda:
What is on display here is the inability to reason in an unintelligent individual who is very opinionated

Let us examine the proposition that Yoruba identity did not exist before Nigeria
Even if that were to be the case does that mean there was no other identity?
No
There were Ijebus,Ekiti, Egba,Ondo,Ijesha,Igbomina and so on.
They had kings and Kingdoms
Can you have a Kingdom without identity?
They had their own monarchies and systems of succession.
The Ijebu e.g. do not circumcise their women
The Oyo have their own tribal marks very distinct from Ondos


Among the Igbos there were Aros and Ngwas among others with a very strong sense of identity
Or is it the Ijaw or the Urhobo that do not know who they are?
This is just Nigeria
We are not talking of Zulus,Kikuyus,or Mandingoes

How anyone in their right senses can say ethnic identification is unAfrican is shocking

The slave trade lasted centuries. People raided and sold OTHERS as slaves for generations

it's very shocking. I don't know what the OP is smoking really

CotenantNIG:
Is it me or most people always think or trace their roots to Nigeria even whites

it's just you oga, it's like you're not reading the message

Kai... this one na see finish

jawalis:
Androids these days are trash remodified. Go for iPhone 6. You can get a very neat UK used one at 40, 16g chipped unlocked.i used it though upgrades to 7sp now. You’ll enjoy it.

iphone 6 is crap. Very poor camera; at least by today's standards.

if some one gifts me that I won't use it

Rossinnki:
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There were no ethnic groups in Nigeria prior to the colonial era.

There was nothing like a Yoruba man.

Or a Hausa man.

Or an Igbo man.

That way of identifying people simply did not exist.

Message to secessionists:

Biafra is NOT your father's history.

Even the name Biafra is Portuguese.

There was no sense of Igbo nationhood prior to the colonial era.

So the whole 'Biafra' concept - the very concept of there being an ''Igbo people'' is European-originated, oriented, and influenced.

Your ''Igbo identity'' is a Tokunbo notion, every bit as foreign as your average, dodgy 2nd-hand junk.

Prior to the colonial era, the fact that you spoke the same language as another person did not mean you were of the same ''ethnic group'', different from those who spoke a different language.

That simply was NOT how we viewed ourselves in AFRICA.

Kinship and group identity were about blood connection and lineage, which transcended languages spoken, and often involved various languages existing within the same kinship group caused inter alia, by migration and inter-marriage.

In pre-colonial times, you were not ''an Igbo person''. You were a person who spoke Igbo language. Finish.

What identified you was your clan and your village or town, and your lineage therein, not the language you spoke.

There were Igbo-speaking groups who knew their cousins that spoke Yoruba or Edo a 100 miles away, and were closer to them by lineage than to Igbo-speaking communities even in the next town.

That is how we were. It wasn't about the language you spoke.

Today, out of European-influenced modern triibalism, we find previously connected people and communities now separating themselves by language, and denying ancestral links with those who merely speak a different language.

ALL OF THAT IS COLONIAL-INFLUENCED.

If you don't know your history, let us, your elders tell you your history.

Every person who hates another because they are supposedly of a ''different ethnic group'' is acting out the playbook written by 18th century European colonizers who came here to divide and conquer, and is NOT following in the ways of our fathers.

Thank You.

utter bull..shi..t

I stopped reading when said you start talking trash about Igbo identity bla bla bla...

You lack knowledge to discuss how a people should be grouped or are grouped.

wink2015:
You seem to understand the views or message of Senator Ekweremadu.

some contributors in this thread unfortunately misunderstood Senator Ekweremadu views on the security outfits. They concluded that he was against Amotekun or he was supporting the federal government against Amotekun and Shege Ka Fa.

I respect Senator Ekweremadu because he is truly in support of devolution of federal powers, decentralization of government business, restructuring and regional government.

Senator Ekweremadu in most of his contribution has been an advocate of restructuring and the establishment of a true peoples constitution to replace the miltary imposed 1999 constitution.

I think Senator Ekweremadu sighted community policing to let the south west and other region know that the federal government is on a mission to deceive them with legal technicalities and existing federal laws in the Nigerian constitution.

exactly!

But unfortunately, like Wole Soyinka said Nigerian youths are only after the position of first to comment and of late first to insult. They don't care about the message, they don't even listen to it to know what's talking about. Its so unfortunate

AfrokanGod:
The institution of marriage as outlived its purpose...

what is that purpose that it has outlived?

Nadio2019:
After you could not restructure the country even when the six geopolitical zones voted yes for you to restructure.
Abeg take seat. Personal policing which is same as community policing is the last defence.

You de dance to Arewa tunes, you want be President.
Another Nuremberg beating ....loading.

you probably did not watch the video that's why you're giving this opinion.

He actually explained what community policing is according to the Nigerian police IG who is bringing it to you?
Also, just so you know he's pro regional policing he wants each state/region to have its own police outfit.

seunayantokun:
Initially it was state police. bubu, tinubu, lying Moh, assistant class monitor osibanjo all mouthed it. Now it is a wingless bird called community policing. Isn't it a fraud? ... so that the Islamic fulanistic colonisation won't be jeopardised.

I'm glad you understood it, and that was what he implicitly said in the video.

He said it's fraud because it's clearly the same Nigerian police just with extra people reporting to them and not really securing the community.

But most people did not watch the video but are commenting and also dropping insults here and there

Mandelus:
Nothing will stop Amutokum ....
This Igbo people self..... Mind una business una no go agree see as una the jump from one party to the other since 1999 in Imo state

did you watch the video at all?

the guy never condemned Amotekun...
He never said anything about it and by the way according to what he explained Amotekun is not community policing, rather it's a form of sub police though without the name 'police' attached so as to not be considered illegal by the constitution.

According to him, community policing involves people giving information to the police and not necessarily a new security outfit for the community. Community policing according to him involves bringing the Nigerian police force closer to the community and not necessarily creating a new 'police' outfit to cater for the community. Hope you get the difference, please try watch the video before you start insulting him.

And you talk about Igbos... Well, I reserve my comment

Blue3k:
Lol when are going to resubmit bill to alter constitution? Its clear decentralizing policing is the ultimate solution. Prisons also have to be decentralized.

Ps: You can tell most people commenting are too broke to watch video. They're foolishly condemning his opinions without knowing his arguements.

I took my time to watch it complete before commenting and I must say he made sense.

And his approach to making the state police not be abused by the governors is so goos I wish it is implemented as soon as possible.

He made sense seriously on many things he talked about.

And Goodluck fu..cked up really

Riele:
Tsk tsk tsk tsk.

What else is new in your words ?

What other brand of insult do you have to throw at me .

I didn't Insult you , did I ? .
So why the vile words ? . If I type back to you in the same energy you used , some lowlife's here will start quoting me to bark . Not like I care anyway .

Just so you know , someone is actually proud to have me as a daughter nothing unfortunate about it .

my message wasn't an insult, it's a clear declaration of fact based on evidence available on this thread.

A simple question that deserves a yes, no or even a 2 phrase answer. Ended in the most unintelligent way.

I'm glad they're proud and I pointed that out in my previous reply. I just pray they don't see you display as you did on this thread, elsewhere (in real life) and become disappointed

Riele:
You're a man . You know nothing .

Intelligence is far from you,

I didn't come to this thread to argue back and forth with you as you've been doing with everyone, your statement caught my attention. So, I asked a simple question so I'd be sure I've been understanding you since. Only for you to tell me since am a man I know nothing.

Your education is a waste. It's unfortunate someone is proud they have a daughter that's been educated and can tell her right from her left. May God help them so they don't get disappointed.

Kennedyiheme02:
very true.. the stupid judge is always trying to convince the man to take care of the bastard child

damn!!! throw that bastard thing alongside it's mother out through the damn window..

The judge needs a beating of life

Kennedyiheme02:
paternity court?.. check youtube.. its real life

holy shi..t

means to say the story where a judge was begging a man to train a bastard he's not been away belonged to someone else and not him for long, is true?

God forbid bad thing!

Riele:
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Don't think you as a man have anything to offer . Most people are disgusted at the sight of you all .

Please, let me get this straight and clear...

Most people are disgusted at the sight of men?

Is that what you meant there?

which people please?

Kennedyiheme02:
that judge is very useless.. i watched one case where the woman had 3 kids that didn't belong to her husband.. guess what the useless judge was begging the man to continue the marriage and take care of the kids.. that what is done is done.. i almost cried for the guy..

are those not movies?

Are they real stories?

RisenPhoenix:
See as you are reasoning with unreasonable people. Lol. You have time.

it's unfortunate that she reasons that way.

Women always want to defend themselves even when it's obvious they're wrong. And some useless bags of walking flesh with a penis attached to their bodies have made it a lifetime duty to defend women in such cases. These men are responsible for every thing bad women do today that has become a norm.

Of course we men have our bad sides too.

The problem these folks fail to see and understand is that men and women are different.

LilMissFavvy:
Why should a woman agree to submit her children for paternity tests? Except a man hides to do such paternity test on the kids, no woman should ever succumb to that rubbish. If women learn to stand their ground disregarding the outcome of their actions, compulsory paternity test will never turn out to be a norm. It is even wrong for a woman to share the same doctor with her husband, marriages of today is a scam, 99percent of men are cheating dogggss, yet they wouldn't want their wives to breathe.

Jesu what is this one saying?

To set the record straight only stupid men would walk up their wives to ask for their permission to do the test. A test that's like one of the easiets. You can test even the woman without her knowing. Stupid abound sha, so you have a point.

Fountainofyouth:
Hehehehe blind bat, running away shamefully, I thought you "lmao" at birth switch? Now its the "figment of my imagination" cos I said you all believe it is all paternity fraud, confused lots.

Lol see the way all of the dingbats above have refused to comment on birth switch, because it doesn't correlate with their disgusting believe that everything is all paternity fraud, they can't breath well if they don't look for a topic that will give them the privilege to insult women, irritating nonenities.

easy with it madam.

You're not talking to fools or illiterates on this forum.

Everyone who has an iota of sense knows that switching of babies at birth happens but it's not as frequent as you make it seem.

It happens but very rarely because every woman in labor goes to the hospital with someone whom the baby is shown to and mark such as label is put on the baby, these marks come in different forms. Very few women go alone.

All of these measures make it less likely for there to be switching. That doesn't mean swapping of babies does not happen it does but very very very minimal unless na for all these local place wey people dey shi..t children you dey talk about. At standard hospitals it's rare.

That aside, the presence and possibility of baby swapping at birth does not in anyway invalidates nor reduce the number of paternity fraud cases we have in Nigeria and all over the world.
Infact paternity fraud is grossly under reported in Nigeria for various reasons such as finance and some men being extremely stupid.

People have been made to believe it's expensive hemce they don't want to entertain the idea at all. But in reality it's not so expensive that would make you forgo the idea of finding the truth; a very important truth.

In Nigeria it costs somewhere between 80k to 120k in my opinion it's worth it. The problem is there's so much poverty in Nigeria that coughing out 120k for such is seen as something too big to be attempted.


For anyone who's a little financially stable, you don't need to be rich, always to the test especially from your first child immediately after birth, you don't even need much a Simple biological sample from the person is enough, a strand of hair would do, even saliva sef...


Paternity fraud is a big thing and ladies know it. I don't know why women equate men cheating in marriage with women cheating and worst bringing home a bastard to their husbands.

We're not the same, male and female are different and have different biological build up and this 100% of the time affect virtually all our life and that includes our cheating life.

pocohantas:
You can’t kneel to propose,

But you will bow to lick toto like say bounty and snickers dey there.

Brother wey mumu.

do you think that sh..it is enjoyable to men?

99 percent of men who do it, do it for the lady not because they enjoy that sh.iit.

So use another example

Sarang:
Ana akogheri

mumu dey sha worry you.




some of you lack basic comprehension skills

snowblaq:
I lost my baby girl on the 13th of October last year..that was my second pregnancy... I lost the first to miscarriage and the second died during delivery ... I would give anything to have a daughter right now.... Or 3 daughters.... My point is, people are out there crying to have even one kid... And here you are, blessed with 5 healthy daughters and you are asking God if you have offended Him in anyway for giving you guys another girl?.... You sound really ungrateful to God right now... You and your husband.... Please don't allow God to turn His wrath on you... Do you know how special daughters are?.... This life sha.... Some have it all and yet cannot say thank you Lord!!!!!... It is well o.

nobody has it all.

What's considered the best thing is not much valued by others, different people have different priorities.

And sorry on the loss of your babies, may God help you and grant you your heart desires. Amen

Sarang:
What is your problem?

Are you dumb?

Didn't you see the message I quoted?

If you can't read, aunty pleade shift and continue facing front