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Smalldick123:
U be mumu

you sef dey stupid.

I'm only posting it here for those who might fall victim not because I care much.

Losing such amount isn't much of a big deal at least for me but another person might fall

moreover I've been buying from jiji for a while and most times I send money first.

CC:

state of the art ko country of the art.

Them never use am. These are pictures before use...
Shey na Nigerian students go use am?

Dimples0303:
As a feminist, my need is to be allowed (cheesy grin) my independence while still in a loving relationship with a man... Are you telling me that because I won't submit then I must stay single?

I'm afraid yes.

Personally, I won't go into such a relationship. Obviously that's why more and more families are getting messed up. The American society is the worst hit, the whole trend has affected their young population. A whole lot of them are denouncing modern day feminists and feminism; that includes women as well denouncing

Ladycewhy:
Thank you ,atleast there should be a balance ,women should stop doubling their duty ,that is not equity feminism was built on its cheating that a working woman has to go to work,come back attend to the kids ,cook ,clean the house while all the man does is come back from work and lift his feet up,to me it just doesn't show equity at all,modern feminism is cheating women.

where are you getting your facts from?

I think in reality it's contrary to what you posit here.

Feminism actually is towards the opposite of what you're saying here if my memory of feminism serves me right.


From my understanding of the whole movement on feminism and other social justice movements is that their sole aim is to emasculate men.

It doesn't matter what role men decide to take up. Long as it's not a role that puts the man where he's decider of his actions.


The problem with issues related to nature and nurture discussion is that there isn't a concrete and widely accepted 'story' on the beginning of man(humanity). That's why the argument is always filled with emotional rhetorics.

If we're to live in a traditional family. The family style where men were always the head as were in the very past, I don't see a reason why I as a man won't assume the post of a provider since my wife would also without unnecessary complaints assume her rightful position. But today the families we have are ones where there are 2 heads with each threatening to go their way. There's no point providing for a potential traitor.

Oluwatosean:
CLICK
Refusing to sit where ushers direct you doesn't mean you are proud... It's the house of The Lord not the ushers house.
You can sit wherever you want,wherever you are comfortable...

As an introvert, I hate front seats so when usher trys to usher me to the front I decline and take a seat @d back...
Doesn't mean I'm proud

I agree with the rest.

there has to be orderliness in the house of God cos God is not an author of disorder and confu. Those urshers were kept there to help maintain this orderliness.

About being an introvert, many people are but we end up finding a way to outgrow that. otherwise it'll affect you outside of the house of God.

bless you

Apeshy101:
Thanks
Couldl you pls give more insight into this?

purchasing power.

Users from the US and other tier1 countries have a much higher purchasing power than Nigerian users. This is the most basic explanation but there are more I could go into but in summary that is it.

pansophist:
They are sponsored by elite men, who have nothing in common with the average joe. They are legally immune from the consequences because they create and understand the tenets of the law. The divorce industry in the US worth over 50 billion dollars. The industry processes over 1 million divorce annually, that's about one divorce every 36 seconds. That's a lot of money that attracts the most immoral creatures in the form of lawyers, who lobby to with other big corporations to financially rape men completely. It is not about your humanity, it is about the money. It is no surprise that divorce men have the highest rate of suicide, and some men are known to commit suicide when their wives ushered them the divorce papers. All these are hidden from the mainstream but visit a divorce court, you will hardly see a man smiling on his way out, but always see women happy, as it is like winning a lottery.

What's going now with feminism is similar to the holocaust, where Hitler successfully brainwashed Germans and make them hate the jews and see them as the enemy, leading to the genocide of over 5 million people. He convinced them through books, media, schools, and every means possible. The same is going on now with feminism. Now, their enemy is the patriarchy, and they are convinced that it is a system of oppression designed by men to willfully oppress women and that all men benefit from its structures while it disadvantaged women. Disregarding all the problem men faces in our so-called privilege patriarchy if it exists.

apt.

Imagine the 'divorce industry' worth so much, an industry that does nothing, nothing at all.
No wonder it is famously believed that after wedding the next thing that comes to the mind of American women is divorce.

I wonder why their men still go ahead to get married especially those living in their cities

pansophist:
It's already self-destructing itself in the west, though, it has to get to a critical level before society says enough is enough. But it's the men that will stand up for it, not women, though, you'll get support from the traditional ones, especially ones with sons and husband, who experiences male discrimination first hand.

Men are leading in depression and suicide, the are more women in universities in a far higher number than men, more than 95% domestic shelters for women than men, most homeless people are men, more scholarships for women than men, women lives prioritized in danger than men, divorce court raping men off their current and future earning, a woman giving the presumption of innocence, while for men it's the presumption of guilt, workplace death of over 90% are men, men sentenced longer than women for same crime etc. I can go on and on, but I'll stop here.

If boys are in trouble, so are we all. It is these boys that girls will build a future with, and anytime they wonder where all the good men have gone to, they seems to always gloss over the fact that the system they create makes its difficult for good men to thrive, and dangerous for men to pursue a relationship with women.

Even with all these statistically backed fact, feminist will still point at the dictionary definition of feminism and completely ignore the reality on ground. To know how feminism is destroying boys, you may read the book below. Good it was written by a woman, since it takes women now to speak for men, for it to be taking seriously.

wow... I love your analysis of this whole thing.

I've always maintained this but it seems your choice of word is the best; these women are drunk, drunk with the idea.

Too bad. The average American young whiteman is fuc..ked in all ramifications that some of them are denying their skin color and gender just to appeal to women who are(claimed) fighting white male hetrosexual patriachy. It keeps getting worse as their voices are getting louder and deafening. Once they succeed fully in the US. You'll have their presidents sanction countries who don't adopt and adapt to the new world, that's why there are so many women so much interested in American politics today, not because they want to make things better but they want to have full power to fight a perceived enemy.
I'll check out the book you recommended but too bad I have too many books unread I initially plan reading.

We'll see how it goes, the very problem men have are the bas.tards who get in to power. A good number of them make stupid laws. Laws that don't promote equality between both genders but explicitly promots women over men. These laws are 100% detrimental to men, but guess what? they were sponsored and passed by men

BlackPantherCri:
Who else noticed that his friend knows that Kemi no Sabi fkk and no Sabi cook? How the hell is he privy to such information

is it a new thing that guys share such info with friends?


Na him tight man be that, if you know what that means

RealMrNigerD:
Real alphas aren't those players that pride themselves in no. of ladies dumped, though the weakness in some ladies make them think so. Most of those guys are just sissies reformed with a code of conduct thanks to books on dating tips and help of friends who have gone before them. Alphas don't have a habit of doing women cause that would be a distraction from their goals and they are overly time conscious. He only wants to have a woman of similar vision (not slay queens) with him and that can mange what he is building efficiently. He's not afraid of a woman of great capacity, he's looking for her and doesn't pride himself in trampling on women ,riding on their insecurities. The alpha is that guy doggedly set on conquering the challenges of life and setting his name on stone in the sands of time. His vision is global and covers even his lineage for years to come. He's not afraid to admit weakness but he's out to conquer it. He's got very rigid principles and will not compromise them if the all his guys and even the world object to them because he has built his life solidly on these and knows they will carry the weight of the legacy and dynasty he's building. In other words, he's not afraid to tread alone if its necessary, to achieve his goals. Sadly today when money alone is a yardstick for much, it's possible to mistake lowlife boyish celebs without any real vision singing "sexy mama", "whine for me",... up and down to be alphas. Much more could be said but well, got to go now.

epistle.

MrCork:
.....are u one of those feminist women from lagos wit base voice? (No oofeense)

Mr Cork....
Are you still on this forum?

seems you went under...


Another crazy fella was madcow, wonder if he's still on the forum

seriously?

I'm surprised people are even advising her to go ahead and let her uncle collect her bride price.

Bride price sef na how much wey you want use put yourself and future family for potential wahala.

Irrespective of your father's behavior, he deserves what's his.

You don't become one's father by training them alone, your uncle is your foster father and not your biological father. He doesn't deserve your father's rights.. Even if your father is dead, his people(brothers etc) have a better claim to all that.

Don't be stupid to follow people's advice, advices they won't follow when push come to shove.


Do the right thing and be free for the rest of your marriage.

Question again, how much brideprice? it won't wvwn reach 1 million yet you want take risk

this one don catch her boyfriend dey make mouth for Nairaland, while oga dey wash and clean

for comings it's going to get hot. conversations upon conversations...

Great work Ubunja, God bless

This is an amazing write up from Ubunja as usual...

It's raining already and folks are getting wet you know

Ariza:
If only mothers would pay more attention on their wards psychological needs like they do their physical needs. A mother will focus more on teaching the female child body anatomy but the male child mental anatomy. When a mother talks to her female child, You hear things like, don't let a man touch you, you will get pregnant, don't play with boys because you will become like boys, sit well so your pants won't show and boys will laugh at you. Learn to cook so that you will get husband, Learn to wash so that you will have a husband, don't talk anyhow no man will marry you etc.Right from the beginning this girl child's life has been mudded to revolve around , boys, Men and what men think. She's has been caged to live her life for men's validation and she can't be blamed for not knowing Self worth, Self value, Self esteem and Self Love because she wasn't taught.


On the other hand, When a mother lectures her son. You hear things like: Be strong, Don't cry, Work hard so you can buy a house for me and your father, Marry a beautiful wife, Be rich, You can be anything when you have money. You must be brave, strong willed and disciplined, Never let anyone pull you down. All these just to build up her son's mental health. And you expect the child to grow into a Man of integrity?A man who is chaste and prides his body? A man who values and respect his body so much that he wouldn't do the next available hole? No way! He was never taught. Most men were trained to act like dogs, only the self disciplined one acts otherwise.

most men were trained to act like dogs?

bitch WTF?

Empiree:
Fix your brain before you quote me, please.

You're yet to tell me your brand of weed you Arab men worshiper

Empiree:
this is why I hate Africans. Brainwash is real. Africa can never develop for as long as folks like you exist in the midst.

you never countered his claim... All of a sudden you hate yourself(an Africa ).

What type of weed do you all smoke? All of you Africans that hate Africans?

Tzar:
This is totally true.
Imagine, yesterday a Zenith Bank driver ( he showed me his ID) was using the company car in his care for driving lessons without a learners sign. The learner bashed my car bending the front shaft, breaking the full light and seriously damaging my front bumper. I asked for his 3rd party insurance and the guy said the car has none (maybe had been doing fake insurance)
The damage will cost me 45k! After begging for a few minutes the guy calmly told me "oga, but you look like you can afford to fix the car now. Just take me as your brother." Then he started calling his entire household to come beg me.

I honestly just got tired and decided to go fix the car. The evil & sense of entitlement in Nigeria is baffling.

whoa! that's a crazy story you have there

iammo:




Black people have a problem with envy and not just poor people

why else are people rejoicing the downfall of Mompha and other Yahoo Boys if not for deep hate for rich people

The scammed white people aint even wishing evil on them infact some of their victims still love them, but Naija people curse and wish death on them

enough you Nairalanders and 'black people this' black people that.

Are you white? if you are then fuc..k off this forum.

But if you're black then you're one of the lowest piece of shi..t ever.

Each time black people did this and stuff, don't you have self esteem? You think people are very much different?

CarlyX8:
Am telling you, there are the pioneers of slave trade

you're talking trash

CarlyX8:
Arabs kwa? If there's anybody buying slaves with app it should be the Britains and Americans!

are you sure?

Susu888:
Are u nigerian at all?? U think say the adenuga's and dangote's are mugu's? some of them big men u see have jazz dats not available to even some monarchs. They have special malams and baba lawo's on speed dial. U think its just evrybody that can shake the hands of northern and yoruba monarchs and have his mind still intact without having a strong jazz for protection!! U still have a long way to in naija matter bros. Just dey look all this our politicians and rich men forming western minded and innovative , if dem comot the baban riga's and agbada's u go blind with the amount of charms under it.

Welcome to Nigeria.... survival of the fittest.

no mind that guy

CanadaOrBust:
(See my post above)
So apply it to the guy and win $1m. Have someone turn invisible with juju and harm him. He put up that challenge in his 40’s, he’s lived a full very moneyed life and is now in his 90’s

I don't really care much about that as I read few paragraphs from it.

The said guy who's staking $1m could be using worshipping a much powerful spirit(put anything you like here) and in hopes it makes every attempts fail.



Bible say for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but principalities and powers

the whole juju thing is a power tussle, that's why I mentioned it to the person I first replied in this post.

To put things in a more relatable scientific context... It all has to do with speed and dimensions. speed in time and in actual motion. Humans don't posses what it takes to have access to some of these.



If you care you can do some research by yourself, there articles all over the the net for those who care to research. These things would give you the idea and open your mind. Stop being a close minded person thinking all starts and ends with science... When compared to the universe and it's entirety... Our science is still extremely young to be compared with things like this.

Many things baffle even scientists.


Every wondered who built the Egyptian pyramids? and how their tombs and caskets were able to be protected and safe?

Tellemall:
But what is your proof that the witch doctor is actually concocting pure pheromones in his mud streaked platter? Faith?

he's chanting science here and there and is basing his scientific argument on an uncertainty, having complete in faith in something he doesn't know and is seriously defending it.

What if it's the juju at work?

CanadaOrBust:
There is a lot of undiscovered science (I’d say 99% of knowledge is not known yet discovered). That’s very vast. It’d be very easy to stumble into something that works without knowing the science of why, and think it worked because you were wearing red shirt. I bet oxytocin is not the only thing that works like this

the premise for your argument is greatly flawed.

You can't bet a certainty on an uncertainty you're not sure of. It makes no sense even in the concept of sciene you keep mentioning up and down.

Admit it or not, juju and all these black magic stuffs are real... just pray you don't have a problem with one or find yourself in a situation where such has been applied.

logan2:
sir, speaking from experience, juju

DOES NOT WORK ON ME and it won't work for me either.. You will not understand

possibly doesn't work on you. But it's not as a result of your disbelief probably a better and more powerful protection. Sometimes you might know

logan2:
This shit wouldn't work on me.. First i am not a longer throat.. I mind where i eat, infact the place i eat is at home,/close family house... No eating at friends house, not even family friends house.. Mama taught me and it has stuck with me... They taunt me with it, but i dont care...


secondly it only works on those who believe in juju

Joke of the century


So, it needs your irrelevant belief for it to be potent?

Well you don't understand the concept of power. A higher power is always a higher power and definitely would have influence over a lesser power.

unless you have a highe power protecting you or your some of kind of spiritually alert person. otherwise, forget this believe this believe that, power is no respecter of belief because power is power

mysticwarrior:
the El Chapo family are the second most powerful body in Mexico after the presidency.

wow... that huge?

but still won't legitimise their actions and business