pejuhazel:
Why must there be a head in a marriage? I believe any man fighting or clamouring for that position is insecure because if he were a man who is confident in His masculinity, he wouldn't mind sharing responsibilities with someone he has decided to share his life with. Marriage is a partnership because it requires the knowledge of two people to make it a success. All this talk of submission belong in a master/servant relationship.

maternal:


3. The point is things can/should be split 50/50. Why must it only be the woman to cook ? Men do not fend fully for the family in the west. Unless you're rich it's a 2 house income. The rest is taken out of context.

4. If one isn't religious or an atheist, this point of view is pointless to them. Because one was born into X religion doesn't mean they believe everything within the religion.

5. Ironically the demands some naija men put on naija women, they can't try that on the other nationalities "rushing" for them.

Dogalmighty17:
I have dated this girl for three years. We fixed a date for the wedding for late this year. However, events seemingly out of my control necessitated that I shift the wedding to February next year. Initially, she was against the shift but I pleaded with her.

Sometime in August this year, we had a disagreement because I noticed she was being disrespectful towards me. She is hardworking, cooks well and is very business oriented. But her sense of independence makes her struggle with submission to her man. I told her how uncomfortable I was with it and she's promised to make amends. She has but from time to time, her old self comes out.

I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family. When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship. I got to know about this decision and I called her and she said she was going to obey the wishes of her family. Her mom also told me that since I keep complaining about her daughters lack of respect, I should leave her daughter alone. It took serious pleading from me before the family accepted the continuing of the relationship. They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much.

My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.

My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not

This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?

I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issue's into my own hands.

jimikata:
Good day everyone,
please shed more light on Australia sub class 186 visa.
An agent want to process this class of visa for me on a sponsorship deal.

Alexgray:

They would come for you real soon.. They dont like to hear the truth.

olumide4christ:


Ah....Radautoworks just come Naija now...give them some time to settle down...a year or two perhaps...then they can give Christmas freebies...

I'm not speaking for Aunty Radu ooo...just my opinion!

EbukaHades10:
Other clubs wey never collect their own "Christmas gift" from United right now

mikel88:
she is currently working and has been o the job for over a year and not a contract job it’s a full time job... where is the job offer comes in here ? Abi which one is job offer again please explain. Thank you.

GlitteringStar2:
Post-Landing Experience (Part 2)

Saintee2009:


Thank you very much sir for this input. Really appreciate. The approval would be from Senate right?

Saintee2009:


I think I didn't state things clear enough. Let me buttress my points further.
I only have Bsc and 3yrs Working experience... If I apply as single and must max out on IELTS, then I'll arrive at 441... which isn't strong enough.
If I apply as married and she joins her BSc. ECA and max out IELTS.. then we end up in 445!!

But as things are presently... she's in the best position to be the PA and the advantage will only be after the Msc. has been concluded and she only need 8777 in IELTS whether applying as single or Married because of the MSc. advantage.

Let's forget about the maiden name of passport part for now... Waiting for The MSc. is the best way out.

I'm keeping tabs on the draw though.. and even if CRS skyrockets... with her MSc... 3yrs working experience and 8777 IELTS... there's hope.
She'll either apply as single or I boost the score with my own ECA and IELTS (I would have to write IELTS) then.... which can still give us at least 465+ CRS score.

So I've done my assignments and checked out all scenarios using the CRS tool....

Thanks for the response sir.

Ifeoma77:

why na? We've not had a fight on the thread for a while

Fights are sweet

prost80:
Congratulations to all ITA clinchers. Please is it normal to have gotten AOR for over 2weeks and no mail on biometrics yet

Reference:


And nobody will be the wiser. Do you know how many times the CIA boys will have visited him over the decade to extricate more information on others still at large. Psychologists will have studied him in depth and written a behavioral analysis thesis. His incarceration is like catching a rare specie of wildlife. They will take theirs to the lab to study.... we will roast ours over a barbecue and wash it down with cold lager.... non the wiser.

dumo1:
Nice one valarinz. Keep up the good work. I see it was fun all through. When will those To****Japanese noise makers hold their own meeting?

FaskRolce:
My guy. we dey here. we join hands. I'm just starting my processes. using PEBC though, awaiting my evaluation result.

mahxiimus:


Good morning, please can you give me details about the online training?

raphrulz:
I want to request that you share the PEBC assessment process and timelines so that it can be included in page 1. I actually believe the PEBC and MCC process should feature as separate posts on page 1. @ drcynthia... can you also help with MCC.

So that newbies wont come asking for it again.

@smslive.. what do you think??

Cheers.

ontarioissauga:

How? Do you have two email addresses on your profile? It is the email address you supplied for correspondence. Am I missing sth?

Onyeenyeh:
Did anyone get this mail?

Celebrityblog:



Source

Slikbae:
Excuse you. Linda does not write horribly.
She writes the truth. The cold bitter truth that everyone hates.

lonelydora:
How much of a member was he? Was he in any unit? Was he a Sunday-Sunday church goer? Was he a tither?

I need answers to the above questions before i comment.

I hope he was not among those saying tithes shouldn't be paid to GOs? Because if he was, the church won't use other people's tithe to help him.


I pray he finds solution

NwaAmaikpe:



He died because he couldn't draw the line between a movie role and real life.
The only closure his family can get is the consolation that he died as a movie star.

Ifeoma77:

Okay wow! Congratulations on becoming a Daddy for the first time!!
Your deadline is still far, I'm afraid you will have to find a way to raise the necessary funds.
An alternative is; if your CRS is high enough to guarantee another ITA, you might consider declining this one.
However, it's a long time from now till 1st December. I'm sure the POF will show up.
For now, concentrate on getting baby's passport and having medicals done.

Congrats again

Ifeoma77:

Tbh I don't know how you're going to tackle this. Why don't you want to add the child at once? Is your deadline imminent?
I feel that when you finally add the baby, the birth certificate will show that he/she was born before AOR and it might raise some questions.
However, if you're out of time, I think you can go ahead and submit without the baby, then raise CSE immediately. An argument could be made for you that you need time to process baby's passport.

Maybe you should tweet IRCC and hear from the horse's mouth

Homguy:
Hello fam, thanks for always coming to my rescue.
A quick one though,
If my baby comes between ITA and application submission, Can I continue with application and the raise CSE after application submission? Pay the $150 and upload passport?
I am done with medicals and all other documents.Can I add her to the application later?

Newmum01
mcstan18
Ifeoma77
et al

Ifeoma77:

Typing the letter on your laptop = free
Printing = #50
Signing (pen) = #50
Transport to nearest high court = #50 - #1000
Notarizing in high court = #1500 - #2500
Transport back home = #50 - #1000
Scanning = #0 - #200

You're welcome