₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
The country has been trading national progress for the sake of the poor for decades now and what has been the response from the poor in that time? To breed and multiply like rats. The population of Nigeria is expected to Ballon to over about 370 million in the next 25 years if current trend continues. Before the removal of subsides , the situation was already bad for the poor. Do you think it is going to get better 25 years from now if no drastic changes are made to correct the many problems in the country now?

2. The poor need to change. And adversity typically presents the best opportunity for the change needed.

wait, so your bright idea of birth control is to increase cost of living to the extent that basic things become inaccessible to everyday people?

siofra:
Nigerian men are useless

Stay way from them. They are dangerous.

that includes your father and brothers right?

moshman007:
Highest level of been biased


It this Is nigeria, so many would have rushed to type rubbish here now blaming government, but now its a developed country and it seems like normal

government has declared state of emergency and they are taking everything measure necessary to rescue those in worse affected places.
they have opened drainage manholes and bug tankers are sucking water away from residential areas....

what does Lagos state do where there is flood in lekki besides blaming residents? tell us

Think9ja:
Are we still on this topic?

Personally, I believe Tinubu indeed graduated from the said Chicago State University. However, I think he forged his Waec before he was admitted there.

I think the O'level is the issue, not the Degree

Nothing Atiku can do about Tinubu's presidency. Obi did a lot of damage to Atiku chances and surprisingly, it is still the Obi that is wailing everywhere.

Let's see how things unfold.

Fortunately it's not by what you "think"

Emma1Oj:
man is the head of the house. Woman is owner of the house. Parkage and content. Man is the parkage that owns the physical and it responsibilities. Woman is the content that own it inner cares and responsibilities and report to the parkage.

Hope you got the logic?

You still believe this lie in 2023? Smh

Microwhy:
Not cool..
It tells alot about your personality. Kind of baby adult.
It can easily be use to deduce your day-day state of mind and a very smart woman can see through your tint glass and use Chatgpt to write a whole lot about you..

Oshey AI crew🤣

So people are still eating the poison called "Tin" tomato??

Y'all better watch what you eat

Rodimi20000000:
Labor party and union should kindly not throw the country into more hardship. We plead with them to postpone their strike till thy kindgdom come

Plead with Tinubu to reverse all his senseless policies. He is the cause of all these hardship

Nigeria should also start advising its citizens not to visit US and places where there are mass shootings

tollyboy5:


I keep saying that many people will just open the bible and read the opinions of Paul when he was writing letters to different churches and now want to enforce Paul letters as the standard of Christianity.
Paul was not even amongst those that were with Christ and understood all what Christ was about. People like peter, James etc. Paul was an apostle like Barnabas and need validation from the disciples of Christ.
Any time you want to see a pastor or anyone cap about the bible they will quickly open to one of the books written by Paul.

Many people don't know that the Hebrew or Jewish religious practice is nothing similar or close to Christianity, its even closer to Islam than christian.

Without data I'm very sure an Israeli can easily switch to practice Islam compared to practicing Christianity.

So those who were with Jesus would have approved
a pastor wearing ear rings and plaiting hair

I see this arrogance of some Sabi Sabi Christians thinking they know more than Paul. You can as well discard 1/3 of the new testament since Paul was not with Jesus

Boondocxs:
Mr president we are not seeing your reforms
What is wrong, you promised swift policy implementation instead the suffering have doubled

I laugh at people who are expecting anything from Tinubu. What did he achieve in Lagos apart from amassing wealth from government, stealing government revenue and sponsoring touts for ballot snatching?

Kobojunkie:
1. They don't yet they continue to sign up for exactly that same agreement which stipulates they pay it ALL while the woman continues as a submissive entity. Whose problem is that?

2. That is common sense but how many men do that? They continue to set themselves up for failure by adopting a failed contract only to whine when it does not pan out as they imagined in their heads that it would.

3. Wrong! That is not a problem with women at all but a problem with men. These women do not hold guns to the heads of these men so I don't see why a man would marry a woman who he knows has an entitlement mentality only to come whine about it. If you know a woman does not want to contribute her fair share to the bills, why marry her? Why?

4. Not just on domestic expenses but also domestic duties. If a man wants a woman to contribute towards domestic expenses then the man must also know that he too must take on part of the domestic duties — chores, caring and raising of kids, etc. Marriage is meant to be of teamwork, and not some setting where one partner feels he is to set himself up as slave master over the other. That isn't marriage, that is instead wickedness.

I agree wirh the bolded.
This is not 1970. The man is not a financial slave and neither is the woman a domestic slave. Both should contribute, assist and help each other to take care of the home and build real wealth together.

Flamemignon1:
Nah, I'm gonna fight for my people...............................from here of course

Pele o...LGTV Mike Tyson

dapotemi:
Do you know how many seniors Jimmy would jump to get to that position? It's like making a captain a chief of Army staff!
Lol, Christendom don wise now, nobody will allow the Redeemed scenerio to play out again, NEVER AGAIN!
When baba Akindayomi decides to pass on the baton to baba Adeboye, where is the Akindayomi family again, do you still hear their name again, they have all been erased..No founder/owner will make that error again .All of una will be here when Adeboye will pass it on to his Son...Make you continue to dey pay tithe, you hear?

I'm not sure you understand RCCG governance structure.
No be one man church and Pastor Adeboye is not the founder.

He will handover to a completely different person same way pa akindayomi handed over to him.

RCCG is bigger than where you can simply Hanover to your son no matter your level

Flamemignon1:
Who told you I'm in Nigeria? Lol

Then enjoy your gay life wherever you are and let us enjoy our own culture in peace

Botragelad:
That's a right peculiar take, and I must say I disagree with it, mate! To say that a "genuine" Christian shouldn't have their hair in a particular style seems a bit judgy, if you don't mind me sayin' so.
As far as I can tell, there's nothin' in the Bible that says Christians can't have their hair in any particular way.

The idea that a Christian's appearance should be a certain way to "preach" or "convince" others seems a bit backwards, if ya ask me. After all, the Bible says that "man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart." (1 Samuel 16:7)
The focus should be on the person's character and actions, not on how they choose to look, yeah?

Unfortunately you will see appearance first before character. A Christian should be modest in dressing and appearance. And no, a man braiding his hair is not modest. It's pop culture popularized by black ghettos and later by r n b musicians.

Who is your role model? A very important question to ask

Flamemignon1:
I'm not going to blame you because you aren't part of the community,even at that,were you living under a rock when the news about the gay party broke out? Let them get rid of the dumbass antigay laws then we will talk,at least the talk will be on marriage for both polygamy and gay people then it will be fair because right now they are both not on equal Field,gay people are still arrested for just being gay whereas no one is coming for you straight people,you can screw as many chicks as you want. So get rid of the anti gay laws,then we will discuss about marriage for all

Mr LGTV abeg rest!

The law in Nigeria does not allow gays just like the law in US does not allow polygamy.
I don't know why that is so hard to understand.

You can move your ass over to US or Europe for proper screwing.

Africa says no to depravity. We have a culture and we will protect. Let US and Europe stick to their own culture

dkidd:
Well I guess u were too quick to reply my post without really digesting the message. I said they're not meant to shoulder the responsibilities not share as it should be. Leaving the burden on their shoulders and to handle alone is what I'm talking about bro. Maybe i wasn't clear enough sha. My woman supports me in every way she can but doesn't mean I would leave everything to her because she earns too. She's able to handle things for herself and our daughter wether I have in abundance or not because she understands we are in it together so I don't get this ur preaching that's a normal way of how it should be. U aren't saying anything new. And u bringing my parents into this is disrespectful. U don't know me. FYI both my parents are very educated and kept their work until she had to resign on his instructions and start up a biz. My mom wasn't idle or a lazy woman even though the husband was capable of making provisions for everything. I am only advising against allowing ur wife to be the sole breadwinner and taking charge not against partners sharing or making the burden easy on themselves. It's a partnership for a reason. Learn to understand before responding next time. Enjoy your day

I am not referring to "your parents". Rather I'm addressing the ladies who have the warped mentality that a man should kill himself to meet every family need because he is a man.

"If you are a lady and you intend to marry with this kind of mentally...." Everything I typed from the second paragraph is addressing these kind of ladies. Sorry if it wasn't clear enough.

I'm happy that your wife understands this perspective and that is exactly how marriage should be. You will have peace of mind to pursue your purpose and achieve great things together.

Neither the man or the woman should be excessively burdened with home expenses. Both should contribute generously and everyone is happy.

God bless you and your loving wife🙏

Flamemignon1:
Just stating facts, nobody is pointing a gun to your head to be gay

Neither is anybody pointing a gun to your own head as a gay. Quit Whinning

How many gays have been prosecuted since Jonathan signed that law? If the law was as strict as you want to make it look then you many people would have been jailed.

Polygamy is a human right in Africa. Let the west legalize polygamy first then we can discuss gay rights

dkidd:
I know where u and op are coming from but a lot of ignorant boys will learn the hard way much later. This applies to 90% of women. If u want to die happy never allow ur wife take charge of the home affairs else u die miserably daily even while ur alive and breathing. She will kill u mentally, emotionally and psychologically until u have no self esteem left then u die off naturally a shadow of urself. Women are not meant to shoulder these responsibilities but the understanding ones can support. It's the reason u see most of those who can afford to do it for themselves act like it's a great deal and start claiming boss ladies for being able to pay their own bills 😁

The bolded is a lie that has been told for far too long. And I'm happy that young guys of nowadays have woken up to the scam. This belief is an error and has no root in culture or religion.

In marriage both of you are one and should bear each others burdens. If you are a lady and you intend to marry with this kind of mentally please look for the families of dangote otedla, bill gates and the likes else you are just decieving yourself especially if you have a stable career or business.

This is not 1970 when your father was most likely the sole breadwinner and your mother was stay at home mom. Lose the entitlement mentallty y'all. And I will add as a guy double your Hustle and be responsible. Both parties should see the need of the home as their responsibility and join hands together to make it a happy home

kayperry:
I think most are getting the message all wrong, nothing is bad with "assistance" the problem or should i say the challenge here is "post assistance" experience cos of the nature of women

No doubt a woman can assist you buh from that day as a man you've started losing whatever respect she has for you,

its easy for your elder bro to tell you his wife his an angel, blah blah he supported him and gave 2.5m buh what most men tend to keep confidential is the insult & humiliation they see from "my wife help me".

i borrowed money from my babe then just one time and gave her a payback date buh because we had a small misunderstanding i know the things my eye saw , immediately i had to collect quick loan and settle it and from that moment she was dating herself.

No be every woman dey give wahala over assistance but 90% of wives will furstrate & humiliate you "post assistance", only a complete shameless man can miss it

your elder bro might be luck but he not telling you everything

This is the exact point I tried to address in my post. If you are a woman and you think that contributing to the home in a meaningful way is a licensee to disrespect the man who has been shouldering the same responsibility for years then your head need examining.

Women want the man to evolve from patriarchy but at the same time they themselves are not ready to have a progressive mindset.

As a woman what is your joy if you stack up millions in your account while the man is struggling to take care of the family all in the name of culture and tradition? Heard the story of a woman that died of sickness while the husband was struggling to pay her medical bill. Alas she had more than enough money in her account to afford a foreign hospital but mentality of my money is my money killed her. She became stingy even to herself!

As for me I will make it clear and both parties will sign. No woman will come and kill me with problem of marriage. This stress is the reason why some men die too early. The man is not a financial slave neither is the woman a domestic slave.

Let each contribute in meaningful way to the family. It is your home for crying out loud

Kobojunkie:
Stop blaming the women for adhering to what has been culturally passed down from your ancestors. The typical Nigerian man enters into marriage to serve as the sole winner and in exchange he gets the respect and submission of his Nigerian wife. The woman is basically expected to surrender her self-will and even her dreams to exist under the man and in exchange he takes over responsibility for all of her financial needs and that of the family that results from the union. That is what is Nigerian culture and tradition to this day. Ask the man next to you if you are not aware of this. So, stop blaming the women for staying on script.

There is a paradigm shift bro. I have followed many debated about this topic online and it's clear to me yhat even men who pay ALL the bills do not get submission and respect in the end. And in any case you are not getting married to the community.

I think the best thing is to have a clear understanding with the person you are about to marry. Let him or her know in clear terms what the financial responsibility matrix will look like. There is no rule cast in stone. I know couples who have a fixed amount they both contribute to the home welfare every month and it works for them.

The problems with most ladies is their entitlement mentality. Marriage is not poverty alleviation scheme especially when you are also have a good job as a woman.

My money is my money. My husband money is our money ....this mentality has destroyed many home because the lady feels it's a crime to do certain things in the home.

As for me I think marriage is sweeter if you take away all these shackles of tradition that makes the man a sole provider and the woman subservient. It's doesn't work!

Both parties are adults and should join hands to together to achieve great things in life. Be open to your husband, be open to your wife. Let the love respect, openness and vulnerability be mutual

If you don't see eye to eye on domestic expenses, how Will you two join forces together to build wealth for your children?

Starcrest1:
There's nothing like scrutiny Trump broke the law and is facing the music same way Biden will face the music if found guilty. America is not like Nigeria where the leaders are untouchable.

Then you have not been following American politics. Hillary Clinton should have been in jail if the justice system is the same for the left and the right

Flamemignon1:
Who's forcing LGBT rights down your throat? Are they pointing a gun to your head the same way you are pointing a gun to gay people's head to be straight.

Polygamy is illegal but you can have and live with as many women as you want as long as it's their choice, nobody is going to cut your head off and break into your house to arrest you now compare that with LGBTQ community where gay marriage isn't legal and one idiot can come from nowhere to break into your house and have you arrested,how are earth are you comparing both when they are not on equal playing field

You sound so pained

Are you one of them LGTV People?

Skyview01:
Why you wan collect her phone number and name.

You wan send am prayer points.

He want to send prayer to her mailbox🤣🤣

Samantha124:
Watch and see how the ones with dirty apartments will be coming for you...

Samantha off ya mic🤣🤣

Send a dm

Starcrest1:
Where are all those Trump cheerleaders that were saying that Trump was being persecuted, they should come and see this one.

They think America is like Nigeria where innocent are witchhunhted but criminals go free.

You are going down if guilty no matter who you are. If Trump and Biden are found guilty, they are going down. That's real democracy nobody has absolute power.

If thesame scrutiny on trump was applied to Boden he won't last one year.

America clearly has two justice system, one for Dems the other for GOP

TemplarLandry:
Rocket man.

Why am I reading this in Trump's voice? 🤣🤣🤣

tophempire:
WE ALREADY KNOW.... THINGS ARE ABOUT TO CHANGE.

MY PRAYER IS THAT THE PH REFINERY OBASANJO SAY WON'T WORK TO BEGIN OPERATION IN DECEMBER. AND YOU WILL NO LONGER REFINE FOR US AGAIN.

ALL OUR ILLEGAL REFINERIES BOYS IN CREEKS OF N.D. NOW HAVE JOBS TO DO.

MAKE ASARI DOKUBO SEFF GET WORK😂😂😂

I don't blame Obasanjo. The government lies too much. Buhari increased fuel price three times in 8 year in the name of subsidy removal, spent over 2 trillion on turnaround maintenance yet no single refinery worked. We have no business buying one litre of fuel above 200 if we have sensible leaders.

How far with the Dangote that you people said will start refining in july? They rushed to commission incompleted project just to spread short-lived propaganda.

People are tired of APC lies!!

kay29000:
It's illegal in their country. Not every country is like Nigeria when it comes to polygamy.

Yet they want to shove LGTV down out throats in Africa.

Let US and Europe legalise polygamy right first then we can talk about gay right

OboOlora:
They know most yorubas don’t understand English 🤣

Understanding English is not an achievement just like an American does not consider it special to understand Yoruba

Be proud of your heritage. Chinese people learn physics chemistry maths in mandarin and they are one the most industrialised nations on earth.