₦airaland Forum

CedarHoldings:
Did you kill him, because he can eventually kill you

I ended up getting a job which non of them can lay claim of.

I can't kill him and why should I?

The only thing I owe them is to become successful and that has been my goal and nothing more.

It is not general but I totally agree with u.

My uncles will rather enslave u than to see u succeed.

Talking from experience,one of my uncles substituted my name for a job for his girl friend and that resulted to a big fight that day between him and his wife.

Even the man that gave us that slot was shocked till this day.

It was hell in the house that day...I can never forget that very night.

Most Uncles from father side can be very nasty,wicked and competitive just to ensure no help would ever come from them.

Then u need to travel well.

Munamoqel:
am just curious ! If UM citizens are complaining of the inflation why would a Nigeria on Budget jump into it even spending several millions to go meet this cost !

They think is all rosy...let them move first.

Starz825:
You sound like someone who don't like to argue at all

Wetin u wan make I do?
To argue without a compromise.

Blunttruth:
Both sexes do this. Everyone wants to have value in the eyes of thej8love interest. I know a guy who lied about genotype, another about being a graduate,even to the extent of forging certificates, so this is not gender specific.

U are not wrong at all.

It’s natural for women to try to sell you purity, to make themselves look more suitable in your eyes for a committed relationship.

On an intrinsic level, women understand that men don’t want to commit to women with a questionable sexual past.So when a woman wants commitment.

She creates a version of herself that she knows increases her chances of getting a commitment from you.

It’s manipulative, but it’s accepted in today’s society.

So don’t complain, just adapt.This woman in question, I had been seeing for about 2 months.

And out of nowhere, she decided to tell me I was the first guy she had unprotected sex with.

I didn’t even ask her, so this was totally unsolicited.I could have immediately called her bluff, but that would have been the wrong move.

All that’d have done is make her defensive.

And I’ll end up looking crazy.

So I waited a month.

& came up with a series of questions, to unravel the truth with ease.I asked her “whats the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex at ?”

She said “On a rooftop” with a smile on her face.

I asked “was it planned or was it spontaneous?”

She said “it was spontaneous”

Checkmate!Who has spontaneous s*x on a rooftop with a condom ?

Possible ? Yes, but definitely not probable.

Being reactionary and directly confronting women about their lies never ends well.

They’d rather die than say the truth.

They’ll get super defensive.

Not worth the stress.Did I call her out after this discovery ?

No.

Did I continue banging her ?

You’re damn sure I did.

I came to a verdict in my head, and knew she’ll never get a relationship out of me.

Silent dismissals are usually the best approach in situations like this.I also need to make it clear that I didn’t dismiss her because she previously had unprotected sex.

I mean, who hasn’t ?

I dismissed her because she’s a liar.

She couldn’t be trusted.

And it wasn’t my responsibility to find out what else she was lying about.

Pls,singles keep off.


I have been married for the past 7yrs and counting,my wife and I are salary earners and and we invest virtually everything we earn in a month while we depend on our side hustle for children's fees,feeding,house rent and fueling of our two cars.

Our over all income per amonth fluctuates such as sometimes we earn 2million or above or less depending on the clients need.

Now is the question,how much is ideal to save in a month while maintaining a tight budget because of the way things have really gone up in this country...and I am also considering getting a small car for Uber next year to augment my monthly income to at least 3million.

I will need your advice!

This is not love...how can u take this foolish risk.

There is a an adage that says,eyes dey eat before mouth.

This isn't love madam. At least u have been married before use your common sense.

If u follow this man blindly without a job,who will feed your children? he loves your kids,how just imagine!

Advice:
Pls,leave marriage and let that man go fix himself up,how can a jobless man marry u?

Are u going forward or u are going backward?

What tribe would allow this,a man who has nothing doing to marry u...I wonder how u guys foist poverty and hopelessness upon yourselves.

Your salary isn't enough and now u want to abandoned your job for marriage without an income.

Pls,use your tongue to count your teeth.

I have a lucrative business that brings in 2million and above monthly,but I can't tell u how it is done.

It took me 10years to be where I am today.

My only advice is to continue in what gave u that sum of money.

Or

U go ahead and spend half of the cash on land and see how far it will go while u use the other for any business of your choice.

Prinxzona10:
Honestly,your analysis are in order buh I think Atiku will take a second position while Tinubu will take third position though I wouldn't be certain buh the votes you gave Tinubu in the North ain't viable and obtainable especially when you visualize what Nigerians have been through in this APC government coupled with the fact that two demi gods from the North,after Buhari will be on the ballot..
Buh the truth still remains that anyhow they arrange it,analyse it or dissect it,it always boils down to the fact that all the indices favors Peter Obi and certainly Peter Obi will win though ain't sure of the minimum of 25% votes from at least 24 states of the federation..
I rest my case..Gracias!!!!

U are brilliant.

guobe:
ASUU is fighting for their pocket.leave those people out of it.How will you keep students on the street for 5 months

What do u know about ASUU.

It is better to stay mute if u don't know what to say about the strike.

This fight started long ago...read about it before u conclude.

Sweetplum:
Companionship & Procreation.
Go n read Genesis to know more.
To all who are quoting me. Marriage isn't by force. Don't discourage those who value it.
I wonder how you all train those kids you had anyhow via baby mamas or surrogacy.
What's the value you instill in them. One of the things destroying the world of today is lack of value. And its first gotten from homes.
So who are you all fooling?
I m coming with full force!
Last Drop:

Either you all cooperate jejely or stay out of marriage.
I now found out most people here in support of the op are atheists & men running away from responsibilities.
All of you no get life. Especially those atheists. I dey watch you, Una dey watch me. We dey here. Una go see weeen!

My brother u don't need to waste your time on these jobless guys...they are not happy to spend money that is why u see long writes like this.

They are highly irresponsible.

PreciousBro:
Words are powerful. Don't curse yourself. Obi might win and you might not live to see 2024.

Fõõlish man. Smh

Don't mind them.

E go shock all of them.

Staphylococcus:
You will witness 2024 and beyond, cos it’s guaranteed that Peter Obi won’t win. Ignore all these media brouhaha.


After insulting other tribes for 8 years, it’s election period and they all have now turned to motivational speakers, telling other tribes not to vote by ethnic lines!

You can never plant maize and harvest yam!


But it’s guaranteed Peter Obi will ONLY win on Twitter, Nairaland, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and Snapchat.

U guys should be keeping quiet...APC is the grand father of all insults.

Why did Jonathan say he is the most insulted President in the whole world?

Just open mouth to talk rubbish.

This is Good for Peter Obi honestly.

apache22b:
Waste of time indeed. Tinubu is the only man who can unite Nigeria now that it is in disarray. He did it in Lagos and will do it for the Country only if we give him the opportunity.

Check the past records of Peter Obi in Anambra, he has absolutely nothing to show for it other than touts and insecurity, Peter Obi has no track records like Bola Ahmed Tinubu

My fellow youths be wise , say a big No to Peter Obi and his Obidient fellows

Carry this your matter commot jor.

I lived in Lagos when your so called Tinubu took over govt,he was a total failure.

Just be deceiving yourself with what u don't know.

Point at one specific thing your Tinubu did in Lagos or do u want me to send u some hidden things Ambode said about him concerning projects.


Read it below and next time u should learn to say what u know.
https://www.nationalpivot.com/2022/08/2023-tinubu-plotted-my-removal-in-2019.html?m=1

I am just seeing this now.

I had already paid for this last month through someone.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Simp and weak ass men everywhere

Woman way you go off her pant shaperly na im you dey looseguard

If I born male child then if at the age of 16 years he still never sabi off woman pant...I go go throwaway that my pikin for river
I played my first footsie with a girl when I was in primary 6...when I come get admission into uniben I was already a pro in pant offing...especially for night class...education field, back of engineering, basement..

Wether you like it or not bros op....you are a male child...we male children are born to off pant

This is a typical example of werey.

That does not mean we should not keep an inheritance for our children.

Whether vanity or not.

Na fools dey think this way.

Person wey no get money,dey always think towards vanity.

Money is good but we should not always forget that doing good is key to humanity.

I know of one old Yoruba woman who died in Lagos some years back,she told the children to give part of the flats to her driver and whatever car the guy might be driving her upon her death.
Till this day,the same guy (driver)was given everything that the old woman asked to be gifted to him. And again,the family went further to take care of the school fees of the drivers children till date because they are wealthy.

In summary,I agree in the word vanity,but not in the context above-na poor minds rush to call am vanity. If your wealth is pure,not yahoo,not stolen or amassed fraudulently and it is used responsibly,forget vanity. It only becomes vanity if it was spent like the way Abiola,Eze ego and Abacha squandered their ill gotten wealth.

TooNoisy:
Even IPOB knows Tinubu will win. Peter Obi himself knows he cannot win. Obi has become a captive of his aggressive supporters and has completely lost control of his campaign. He doesn't even have a recognised campaign spokesman. IPOB is his campaign team.

Take it or leave it, Tinubu is the next president. Tinubu l'okan and he will be a great president because he is prepared to lead. He has been preparing for a long time and he dis well I Lagos State.

Presidential candidate without a clear objective of what he wants to do.

I am even surprised that a woman with conscience would ever talk like this.

Although I respect your democratic choice, but I feel u should be ashamed to openly support mediocrity over competence.

How could someone be trying to bring u out of dungeon yet u are unwilling to come out.

May the invisible hands of APC not finish u before the election.

Darontilly07:
It's not easy, Men are really trying!!!

Women can bear pains.

May God bless women especially our Nigerian women.

After my wife's 3 C-sections...I respect women more.

Baronthecelebri:
mumu

If someone's opinion differs from yours must they be termed mumu?

What shows that u are matured now?

Opinion is not conclusion.

Say yours and let others be.

Sannisege:
And they want us to believe that Obi is different.

Better than Tinubu for now.

etrouble:
No he has not treated the woman well. So it is good he divorces the street Olosho so that she can go and meet the men treating her well. If not, in a short while she will plan with one of those treating her well to send her current husband into the grave

Meanwhile, the poster that I quoted here needs comprehensive psychiatric evaluation. Him head no correct

I am married and I think u need to be evaluated to know if u are sensible.

If what that man posted here is the only evidence to quit his marriage,then u the supporter must be sick in the head.
Most of u here are from terrible homes and u guys are always in good mood to see people's marriages in the same situation as yours.

When marriage issue are brought up here,it is vital to keep quiet because marriage isn't relationship that one can treat with kids gloves,therefore I urge u to always keep away from it.

Until u marry,u will know how to respect and treat women in most respectable manner.

Hunter too dey divorce abi?

U are hunting and your wife is some where chatting with a man.

Have u treated this woman well?

Ask yourself this question before it is too late.

Why is Elrufai afraid of being insulted yet they all abused Jonathan and wanted theirs to be free of insult.

Never.

A man that can't control his state is talking about Obidient people.

How can they control Nigeria when a common state like Kaduna has been over ran by bandits.

We are talking of Peter Obi and someone is telling us rubbish.

Vote Obi and become eternally Yousful.