Crime › Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Ibime(m): 2:35am On Jan 05, 2023 |
ibkayee: OP said that the family have been ‘codedly’ behaving as though they believe it happened and begging the husband. Is that not incriminating enough for you? That also means the 15 year old has also been codedly disciplined at home which is the best disciplinary outcome the OP could get from this. |
Crime › Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Ibime(m): 2:14am On Jan 05, 2023*. Modified: 2:39am On Jan 05, 2023 |
defcon4: by refusing to report to the police and charge the case to court, you have become an unwilling accomplice. Charge the case to court, the whole truth will come out. Both the victim and perpetrator are minors. The incident happened 1.5 years ago and is now hearsay. Court has nothing to do with this matter. She has reported the perpetrator to her family. I'm sure they'll caution her behind closed doors but they will never admit it openly. There is nothing to be gained from raising the issue further. All that's left is to ensure her daughter is well and is not scarred by the incident. At her age, she should forget the matter very soon if it is not constantly reinforced, as humans only start to develop memory from 4 years old, and memories at 4 tend to fade quickly or become very hazy |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 11:26pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
This ballzproblem dey change mind every 2 seconds  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 10:42pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
How did Palace go from being solidly in the game at half-time to losing 4-0? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by Ibime(m): 10:11pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
IjeBos: How will he "make the place scatter"? The Speakership isn't owned to anyone. I think it's over for him. The extremists you speak of are exactly that, extremists. I doubt they'll back down. He can only lose 4 and there are more than 4 who seem to personally not want him to win.
The crazier thing is that we constitutionally don't have a House right now and so we don't have a functional Government. If something were to happen (terrorist attack), we would no be able to pass any bills as every bill has to go through the House and no elected member of the House is officially a member until they are sworn in. This mess extends further than just the Republicans. It is easier for him to get 4 candidates from democrats than for the MAGA extremists to put forward a candidate that wins. They should continue the shit show and show Americans they are not fit to sit in a legislative body |
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by Ibime(m): 10:01pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
sanpipita: McCarthy really has to drop at this point, the consensus candidate will only be someone Democrats are comfortable with. No he doesn't. 7 vagabonds from his party cannot change anything. They either get in line or make the place scatter This speaks more about the extremism of the 7 blockheads voting against him. If they bring forward a nutcase, the moderates in the GOP will also reject the nutcase, and they are the majority |
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by Ibime(m): 9:55pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Ibime(m): 9:37pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson: Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long. I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it. They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. Your daughter is telling the truth However you should listen to your husband As much as his family know it's true, they don't want to crush the 15 year old girl at the same time. That would be akin to losing another child. Your daughter will eventually forget, or it will become a hazy memory for her. There is no gain to the family to bury the 15 year old. Your husband knows this and has let the matter go. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 7:48pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Roland17: Teams like Benfica, Ajax, Monaco, Sporting Lisbon have maintained the same simple business model. They identify young talents across the world and academies, develop them, transition them very early into the first team and then expose them to the world during the UCL/ Europa since they are perpetual participants and then make 100 times the profit in sales. This model has kept them running, competitive in their local leagues, active in Europe and financially stable for the most part.
The list used to include the likes of Valencia/ Sevilla/ Arsenal/ Inter/ Porto but they seem to have faded in this philosophy.. Dortmund is chief among them But Benfica do it so well because they allow agents to own 50% of the player so those South Americans where the agents and players own half of the player dey rush them From that £200m, Benfica go only collect like £100m and the agents go cash out the rest |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 6:46pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Benfica are yahoo boys. Imagine collecting over £200m for Darwin Nunez and Enzo in the same season
And they are still making yanga for the maga |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2022/23 by Ibime(op): 5:55pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
timbros: Do you now see my fear for Mitrovic? 5th yellow card means he will miss Chelsea game. No more DGW for him.
And Ibime captained him  That's disappointing. He was on track for 3 bonus points before that yellow as well Well it's still good news as a Chelsea fan |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 2:34pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Havertz10: All these talk of getting rid of fuel subsidy is dangerously counterproductive, our people need to stop being useful idiots to the west. Personally I consider Nigeria a failed state so I don’t really care but millions are going to die, if fuel subsidy is removed You consider Nigeria a failed state but were encouraging people not to japa. Is that not wickedness? |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 2:33pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Spy360: I totally agree with you.
But it is important to know that subsidies arose due to the failure of our refineries and the dependence on importation of oil products. Subsidies are killing our economy and it creates a big avenue for stealing and corruption.
However, if they must remove subsidies, they must first fix our refineries or our private refining of petroleum. Even if refineries are fixed, when something has a free market price and you sell it less than that price, there is a subsidy one way or another. Nothing stops our refineries selling refined petroleum products at free market price to Ghana or any other country if they were working. To sell it to Nigerians less than that price implies a subsidy |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by Ibime(m): 2:18pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
You better go for the tech company. Club is not a career |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Apologises To Fans For Late Performance by Ibime(m): 1:38pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
GloriousGbola: Feels like damage control to me
No be today he or anyone else Don dey perform for naija
Same way big brother have the entire season running hitch free even with diesel at n690 /litre, everyone has learnt contingency planning
Also does not account for the reported violence towards the fans.
It would have been much simpler to announce this then.
I think na male diva stunt overdone Na, I knew right from time that they didn't get the sound right and that's the reason for delay WizKid had the same issue in Ghana recently and refused to perform These are guys who perform frequently and professionally without hitch. It's only in West Africa they come across certain sound issues and have hiccups Nigeria will frustrate you. After 11 hours wasting his time, no doubt his temper will be short |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Apologises To Fans For Late Performance by Ibime(m): 1:25pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
He is right |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 12:21pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
nateevs: Hehehe. For real?
Young man, you might never have been told this, but YOU DO NOT possess the intelligence to decipher anything or anyone dumb.
You don't even have the intelligence to understand basic punctuation when writing, yet you want to pass on the understanding of the complexities of FFP and multi-club ownership as your own.
This is why I called it copy and paste. I know this because in all of your 1 million child-like compositions, you have failed to mention the single most-important reason Boehly doesn't mind paying over the odds for Enzo, but wants it NOW. You have never been told, so you are unable to know this your own. I will tell you, so you can copy and paste elsewhere.
ENZO is 21, and still according to the provisions of FFP, considered an Academy player. Therefore all expenditure on the Academy is outside of FFP scrutiny. So Boehly can write off all of the expenditure as development funds. You understand now?
Why does Boehly want it now? Well Enzo turns 22 on the 17th and therefore any deals made afterwards are subject to FFP.
Smart move but he's still overpaid....grossly! And that's why the bone of contention has been about the price paid, not whether Enzo is required or if Boehly is smart.
But you are trying to form intelligentsia when you know nothing. You think it's by posting every second.
I no dey fight on here but if it will happen, at least I will prefer some real G with average understanding of their own position, not some nitwit who doesn't appreciate the proper use of a full stop.
Come at me again, and I will phucking destroy you. Good info re development funds write-off. No wonder Boehly is splashing on youth team |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 1:25am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Bimffo: Do Newcastle have a better team that us?
NO.
But you cannot have Chilwell, Kante, James on the sick bed, and you think our team won't be affected. Having those players on the sick bed changes everything from stone to sand.
We peaked last season against Juventus at SB. We played total football, and since that time, injury, war and transfer have affected us.
Time to rebuild. For 2 seasons, rudiger and Silva have been covering Jorginho's yansh. Now, CSO can't do that.
CSO even played a fast one on me, his stats in seria A shîts on rudiger's PL stats. First match for CSO, CSO don dey breathe like goat 70 minutes. They had to replace him. Omoooor.
GOD PUNISH CSO. Last season we were barely a top 4 team with Rudiger, James, Kante, Kova, Silva, Mendy and Mount our key players The rest of the players are players that should finish midtable This year we have lost Rudiger, James, Kante and Kova to transfer and injury while Mendy is a shadow of himself and Mount has gone down too So we are not far off from where the players remaining should be Either CSO committed fraud in Serie A, or he's had a physical decline that scouts should have spotted. It's looking possible that CSO was committing fraud of the type Eluaqim Mangala committed at Porto before coming to Man City exposed him |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 10:11pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
BlueRayDick: Ibime abeg wetin dem dey call this Emerson Royal set for set theory?  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 7:37pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
iamoyindamola: Oasisx will say Baba is trying to lighten up the event It was intentional Plausible  |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 3:22pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
liveLongNprospa: So after OBJ, ortom couldn't even wait for G5 and now Edwin Clark has endorsed Obi too.
Lmaoooo people are looking for votes in SS  Edwin Clark is thinking of his legacy. With this, he can mitigate the anti Biafran accusations that plagued him his entire adult life |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 3:20pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 1:21pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
afrodoc2: Yeah, that autobiography was dope and had a lot of street info. Many people actually accused him of snitching. Yep, it was borderline snitching if you ask me |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 1:09pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
DeadPresidents: Prodigy and Mob Deep wrote some of the most gangster shït in Hip-Hop
“Rock you in your face, stab your brain with your nose bone”
That shït was graphic as forensics after the crime scene. RIP to Prodigy. His autobiography is a classic, if you have the chance to listen to it on YouTube He was a firm believer in the philosophy that the gun equalises all physical deficiencies |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 1:08pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
afrodoc: The thing shock me. The man don die and he still dey catch shots. In the words of 2Pac, don't one of y'all niggas got sickle cell or something |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 12:39pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Ibime(m): 12:36pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
afrodoc: Wetin Prodigy do you dat you give am stray bullet like dat? You sef see am  |
Celebrities › Re: Alexx Ekubo Persuaded Fancy To Stay Celibate For The Five Years They Dated by Ibime(m): 12:20pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
CutieKing: From this whole episode,it's obvious the girl was well brought up,he loved Alex deeply and I guess the guy knew that as much,reason he was doing this to her.
For those who don't know,the girl father is a multi billionaire and one of the power brokers in the country.they can singlehandedly finance the wedding .
Lastly, Alex was with the girl probably because of what he intended to gain from her but I think the girl was wise and forward thinker to a fault. Kudos to her. If the bold is true, Alex should just stay quiet rather than buy market |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 1:21am On Jan 03, 2023 |
Roland17: @Ibime, remember when I said football agents are going exploit Boehly’s inexperience in managing/ understanding transfers? By the time wen him go catch up, he may end up putting Chelsea up for sale to recoup his money  Either Boehly will bankrupt the club and sell for pennies on the dollar like Alexandre Gaydamak did to Portsmouth after taking them on spending spree, then suddenly demanding his money back. . . . .or he has some Saudi backers willing to blow money One thing is for sure, he is not spending like someone who is managing investors funds. He is spending like a sheikh |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 9:52pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
hensben: Its in installment. Come let's maga you in installment then |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 6:00pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
swiz123: This epistle is laughable Proffesional analyst who sees everything wrong in Jorginho while 4 different proffesional football manager start that same player . Your epistle can only sway the view of those who don't know you.
Pep carried Busquet but since Busquet left him, he hasn't seen the UCL Sergio B on the other hand has lifted another UCL trophy. Let's not talk about his Euro and World Cup trophy won outside that same pep's system.
Tuchel didn't see a UCL until he met Jorginho. If he was that good, he could have done it with a much better PSG. Also, after protecting Jorginho at Chelsea, did he also protect him when he represented Italy at the Euros? This player won the Euros as a stand out performer and rightfully, won the European best player and coming 3rd on the balon d'or rating.
Just rest with this Jorginho cause no matter how you look at it, non of your favourite DMs in football now has achieved what he did. Unfortunately for you, league football is not tournament competition where you park bus and wait for your keeper to save penalties, or park bus after Insigne scores a wonder goal. To win league, you often have to dominate on the front foot and put forwards in scoring positions consistently. Jogginghoe bus parking extravaganza at Euros means nothing to Chelsea. That's why he couldn't take them to World Cup in qualifying league format. If only there could be penalty shootouts with Switzerland, but league football doesn't work that way. 2 points dropped against Nottingham Forest, no penalty shootout |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Ibime(m): 2:07pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
FBS: Classic. Always contradicting yourself. You know very well that Conte plays 3 at the back yet you just suggested for Conte to remove 1 defender to allow for creativity. How is that going to work oga Mr "Expert I'm in Conte's head"?
And you are wrong, creativity can be anyway on the pitch but more traditionally in the middle - the likes of KBD, Modric are testaments to this but keep yarning opaks. I get your time today. I no get your time jor. I dey go Liverpool now. I suggested one way of introducing creativity by changing formation, while you are blaming the wrong players within his current formation for his statement, and I told you within his current formation, he is talking about his rightside players. |