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Acidosis:
Many women of old were "forced" into marriage yet many of them succeeded to the end (success is relative). But how come people of this generation with so much freedom to sleep around, date multiple spouses, etc. still end up with useless partners (divorce)? Don't you think those making bad decisions in our generation are also useless? Did anyone forced them to choose a useless partner?

Overall, do you consider this trend a progress or retrogression?

essenceplus:
Double mindedness. So when king gives you money for upkeep you'll be saving money for divorce abi babe

essenceplus:
That's sick babe. Face it. It's psychotic. Ever heard about been careful about one's thoughts as it has the power to force circumstances to play out as thought

AmazonTopaz:
Abeg tell them
This is what they fail to understand

essenceplus:
Ibkayee

essenceplus:
Guess what. I'm going on a date with this amazing British chick that's got very strong chemistry with me. The family already loves me. So I'm taking her to a sweet place on the island to wine and dine. Guess what I have a divorce and marriage plan in play how sweet. People having divorce plan even before marriage is sickly.

AmazonTopaz:
Lol, I agree with you.Life should not be that complicated. We just like complicating things for ourselves
Only frustrated people compare us with women of old.
I wonder when men of today would start comparing themselves with men of old.

essenceplus:
That your bum. Smh. Our mothers built their homes

Bossjakande:
get lost with ur rubbish lifestyle

AmazonTopaz:
Thank you.
To me divorce is an option.
I like my sanity and happiness. I won't cage myself if I am not happy

Kenneth10110:
earning potential we have spotted one come and see them. The ones that ask for money on first dates. Lol

truthsayer009:
Stroke game, Ewo!

ornicus:
I have three kids. I did not particulars ly plan on the third but the missus wanted a third child.

The other day I sent money for creche fees, only to be told Sorry, he is now in kindergarten and you will be paying a different much larger amount.

Mentally I was like here we go again, just when you had reached some sort of equilibrium, you had to get another pikin

ornicus:
School fees is after the fact. Too late

Cholls:
my brother the best contraceptive is school fees

kid7soccer:
[s]Guy let me tell you the truth. Thank your God and Move on. How can you live with such a person, even after bringing your family to beg her, OK what if you are married and you cheated so she will now divorce you. Brother she not the one for you, love means taking pain to forgive cause no body is above any sin. Even people who got married with cheating till fall sin to it.

If everyone have intercede and she said no, please let her be, I can say boldly she also playing the same game you have been playing.

As the saying goes "birds of the same feathers flock together".[/s]

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed over your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate. You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the show, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour. You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

ornicus:
I really don't have that much faith in those 'engineers' in pc village. Anyway, if you take your laptop there makes sure you have moved and deleted all pictures from your laptop. ALL PICTURES. We no wan see your Bobby for empresslk with Facebook girl story attached

Also, note that a sharp fellow can get all your internet passwords by copying your browser profile. Of I have a problem that pass me, I always remove my hard drive before taking my laptop there.

Bossjakande:
[s]coco stop dis even if rape is wrong ladies shd not exposed thier body cos some guys get tempted[/s]

lawman88:
I can't do that. During our relationship days, two of my wife friends wanted to sleep with me but I turned down the offer and she knows about it. That was the genesis of the trust...

ikeno:
going into my kitchen to to check if there's food

thesicilian:
Visiting.

Pidginwhisper:
Cc: Ibkayee

theButterfly:
Yes, talk about utter disrespect: lying to females that he's single and searching, and telling them she's his cousin. The only reason he created the thread is b|c she found out/he got caught. She should think very carefully before proceeding with him. Once she forgives him and they're on good terms again and they get married, he'll go back to his cheating ways and she'll be the one to create a thread next year on Nairaland: "HELP! MY HUSBAND KEEPS CHATTING AND FLIRTING WITH DIFFERENT GIRLS". There was a thread three weeks ago in Family of a similar nature.

theButterfly:
It's good she found out now oh. If she marries him she knows what she's getting herself into. A man like him will cheat plenty and sleep around if he can get away with it. On the other hand he could change.

Theboss100:
You Should Pity Him, He Has Acknowleged His Mistakes And He Is Sorry. U Might Have Done Same B4.... U Know...