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You must be shitting me!!

My company can insure the car for her...

I stand with insurance.

Every snake na python to Nigerians..

LuciferAnointed:
His younger brother is buying 3 Rolls Royce this one is buying common Toyota.

What a waste of birthright.

If I were in his family, I will poison him without any remorse.

Anumanu.



*spits

Damn E-money looks older than Kcee. Nawa oo

But anyways guy you sef ehn..

dolpaz:
Hi guys, Long Post Alert !!!

Sorry for the long silence. Man gats hustle, study and make some cheddars. You know, money makes the world go round, but still one has to be careful cos the same money is the root of all evil.

Now, as promised I want to drop some experience about dating here in DE. I want to use this medium to appeal to everyone that this is just MY OPINION and personal experience here in DE.

First, everyone would probably need either a Romeo or Juliet at some point in life. This is normal ! I heard at the earliest stage in DE that most Germans respect blacks alot and when they see one, they regard us as Black American and before you know, the flows and likeness comes into play. but these days, that opportuinty has vanished into thin air as they mostly see blacks as opportunist thanks to our African Brothers who chase these ladies towards papers. Truth is an most western lady (German, American, Austrian, etc) either blows hot and in most cases very hot or cold/extremely cold. Reason best known to them. I think its because of the cultural differences between us, hence the reason why we could not withstand these differences. You could be dating a white lady and you guys could have a lil misunderstanding and within the twinlke of an eye, she can ask you to leave even in the middle of the night, she doesnt care! and if you refuse to leave, she could call the Police. so as omo boy, you go just bounce to avoid stories. Moreso, if you end up dating the strict ones and she understands english, she could command you not to speak any other language apart from english or German. But because of the fear of loosing her and the advantages accrued with dating her, you´ll bow to her demand.

These and many more which inlcudes food, Religion, lifestyle (Party, smoking, clubbing,) etc. The big question is: are you ready to tilt towards the differences because of paper? when a black dates a German she faces alot of criticism from her colleagues. They criticize them so much by saying to him/her Jokingly that "You´re dating a black guy/girl right, dont worry he´ll impregnate you, get the papers from you and dump you for his African woman" and truly, this is what the african guys do alot because we cant get controlled by a lady for the rest of our lives.. so, after getting the papers they file for divorce and go for the real African woman. When these happens, the news spread easily like wildfire and the caution/hatred spread also. If you want to marry a German, you´ll go through some series of verification which could span across months. If you impregate a German without marriage, my brother be ready to pay through your Nose. You´ll be asked to pay a certian money (Around 800€) for verification from your country of origin to proof that you don´t have a child/family back home. after this verification is complete, you´ll pay your child and Baby mama a certain percentage from your monthly salary. So lets assume you earn 1200, you could end up with 520 at the end of the month or even less cos your Renten(Pension) and Insurance will increase while your Taxes will reduce because you have a kid. Even though, you are registered as a father to a German child, Yet it doesn´t translate to getting permanent paper immediately. Most foreign office will give you 3 years at first, and if you don´t err in taking care of the mother and kids, then they give you permanent residency. But during this three years, you´ll be at the mercy of your baby mama cos any report from her... He don set be that. so you´ll be as humble as a lamb.....! Also, you have to keep working to sustain the support and during this process, school will heavily suffer cos you have to make so much in order to keep up with Bills and life.

The same scenario is applies to ladies as well. But not as extensive as in the case of guys. You just need to find someone who understand what it means to be inter-racial lovers. I have a girl around me thjough who keeps complaining about a German guy she´s dating. she said the guy is unpredictable and most times, he doesn´t want to even see her around him. Like I said earlier on, both guys and girls face heavy criticism from their German colleagues because of experiences from the past or from what they´ve heard or seen. Even the blacks born here will hardly give you a chance cos most of them are already soaked into the german system and culture. So when you approach, they give you alot of conditions and my brother, these conditions no be here. (Not in all cases though) so they tend to me very careful.

Pros of Marrying/dating a whity:
1) Your status gets changed... You´re given between 3-5 years at first, then Permanent Residency follows
2) You get unlimited work permit
3) Your woman gets Kindergeld and Muttergeld from the Government (Assuming you´re not working)
4) Fastest way to get PR (if responsibilities are taken and met)

Cons Marrying/dating a whity:
1) You face emotional, psychological and at times physical torture
2) Your studies could suffer
3) Cultural differences
4) Be ready to withstand the awkward look when you´re pushing around a white baby in the Kinderwagen
5) Your dietary could change because with Bread, cheese, Currywurst and maybe Beer, these guys are OK.
6) They tend to look older than their age (My observation though) etc


There are other nationalities though that are not as strict as the Germans... The Poles, Czech, Romania, Bulgaria, etc but if we have kept our house (Nigeria) in order, We are better than these countries. They are just better because of the affiliation with EU. (My opinion)

My advise to anyone who has a stable partner (Stable means there´s a commitment and/or legally binding) is to hold on to it and keep communication open. dont because of "I am going abroad" end a fruitful relationship. It could hunt you such that you may regret it. Most especially if you have a hardworking partner, The sky will be your limit because opportunities are boundless here.

Pros of Bringing your partner (Student):
1) You understand each other
2) You eat your favourite continental dishes.
3) You can jointly train up your child without cultural clashes.
4) You both work and save to have a better future
5) You support each other in times of need
6) No/few religious, Cultural, Lifestyle differences etc

Cons of Bringing your partner (Student):
1) You don´t get a permit immedaitely which means your child depends on the parents status. But if one of the parent gets a PR, everyone gets it as well.
2) Your child doesnt get Kindergeld (Depends on cities though) but If your partner comes via Family reunion, the mother gets mutterGeld while the child gets Kindergeld
3) Your status stays and your partner will have to find a way to take care of the family.

You could also bring your GF/BF if you can vouch your church mind for him/her. **

My verdict: The German Government has given us the opportunity to experience world class education at a great price. Lets not abuse this opportunity. Also, The German Government has made residency kinda easy to get.. Finish your studies, during your study period, try and attain German B1 with a corresponding certificate, Apply for a job (There are jobs everywhere), work for 21 months, File for your permanent residency. #Lobatan. Its sounds/looks hard but its doable. I have lots of guys who are on this path. If they can do it, you can do it. The ball is in your court to decide what you want. According to the Bible Micah 6:8

In all, if you think you are mentally ready for inter racial dating, you can go for it. I decided to write this as a Benchmark. The above are just scenario you could experience while dating a westerner. Its a 2 edged sword thingy.

PS: This is my OWN Opinion/Observation.

My english these days sef.. German don kaputt my sentence construction

See the way am following every of your posts bumper to bumper... You are a blessing!!

The bolded sentences are inspirational.. Wanna ask - How long have you been in DE...?

I've owned like 4 of the cars... Thanks to pc & android games!! Ama big fan of "hit the road" car racing.. These vehicles are beautiful,, I love em..

Op you said vehicles worth over ₦6billion.. Disappointed though when I didn't see "The Speed Demons" amongst em..

I don't understand why most of these millionaires & billionaires do not see the need to open a foundation through which the public can be helped. They only purchase luxury cars, expensive mansions, private jets and live extravagant lives...

Through prayer and hardwork, I believe I'm gonna make it and I will contribute to the society either through the provision of scholarships for students, employment or "grants" to aspiring entrepreneurs. There are a lot of people out there that need every help & assistance they can get. I can contribute to make Nigeria a better country.

wow I love what am seeing... My female cartels way back in school were even bigger than this lady with milk factories big enough to feed an entire family.

Plus size, my specs, chocolate lady!! God took his time to bake her.

...and such ladies can show love wella.

Lady happy birthday jaree!! You are wonderfully made. The bigger the better!!!

MJBOLT:

what do you want us to do

I think you need Tinubu's kind of glass to enable you read well...

badman007:
Back then, they had better Electricity supply, compared to what we have today.

I visited the museum of science and technology in Manchester a few days ago, my guy I say Shame catch me.

Bros tell us more jaree... what did you observe??

Itoosabi:
This is total rubbish. The girl use to be a Prostitute. I know her before

Nawa for you sęf.. Go & sit down and let them enjoy their marriage.

Magic1:
Can you see the dirty boxer line the groom is wearing.

Ahn anh... Mr. Seer na only you sabi see oo

Wonders no go ever end... What is left to see in this Naija??

FredUmar:
Good morning house. Pls am kinda confused but need ur opinion on this pls
I got admission this summer to greifswald and have gone for interview.. i planned using SL but was disappointed by my aunt and have no means for raising the BA fund..so after my interview I gave up my quest for Deutschland..and started processing and have even paid for another migration package (Canada) thinking I will be given a conditional AM . Then monday to be precise i got AM without funding or BA and no condition attached that I should send my passport and insurance to d embassy and specify my date of travel..first I was sceptical but my agent handling my recent migration package told me to get the visa since i have a virgin passport and travel for enrolment at the school, then I should come back and continue my biometrics for my new migration plan..he said if I book early I might not spend more than 450k , since my enrolment ends 29th March.. so he suggested going to Germany for my enrolment with a return ticket will boost my on going application (so as to hv a travel history)...however, I have sent my passport & insurance to d embassy awaiting their stamping...i have b4 my interview applied to several schools for winter 2019 (Godforbid,just incase the new migration plan flops) and hv even gotten an admission from one of the schools for winter
..the issue is I really need the opinion of the house about my current predicament ..should i travel to Germany to acknowledge my "to be"stamped visa and how much it might cost to spend a week there for my enrolment and flight ticket (return ticket, if it's cheaper)..cos if my new plan flops, I will still resort to Germany again during winter, So I wouldn't wana go and jam paulinus for another interview this winter..thanks for ur kind opinion

You are really lucky bro.. Not all gets this kinda luck. My advice..; face Germany, leave Canada. Try to look for cash that can sustain. You might not see a good reason to pursue Germany now but in future you will find out that life in Germany is in a way different from Canada..

Ps: BA or SL is still important..

dolpaz:
Hi bro,

Pregnancy is a blessing from God. so first, accept my heartfelt congratulations. now to the real challenge. If I may get you right, both you and your wife studied the same course and would like to proceed to Germany to study together and start a new life. well, Its a good choice if you ask me but the financial implication would likely cut off your pocket when you finally find yourself here. I don´t know your age but obviously, your wife and new born baby will be on a Gesetzliche Familien krankenversicherung (Public Family Insurance). A single guy/girl below 30 years old pays an average of 90€ monthly (over 38k Naira) and this COMPULSORY in Germany. This mean as a family, you guys would likely be placed on the Public family health insurance which could cost as much as 300€ (over 120k naira) every month. So, lets assume you´re over 30, you could still get insured on Private health insurance which is very cheap Around 30€ (12k monthly) but your kid and wife would be on a public insurance. The difference between Private and Public is the fact that If you attend any clinic or hospital for treatment, you pay direct cash and the Private Insurance pays you back after submission of treatment and payment receipt, but for Public Insurance, you don´t pay any dime. Just submit your card and the rest will be sorted between the hospital and the Insurance coy.

Secondly, Its risky coming with SL. reason is because you ain´t gonna start wokring Imediately you get to Germany. So, the moment anyone offers to sponsor you, then he´s saddled with every financial responsibilty accrued to you. So if your wife comes and deliver a baby, mehn, that Guy/lady don enter one chance. He/she has to take care of the family because he has signed a Letter of Declaration of support. and If he erred, his permanent residency could be revoked. Also, as a married man, I wouldn´t advice you to use SL. Since you´ll be enjoying full benefits of the insurance and other stuffs, I´d advice you and your wife to fund with blocked account so you can settle well into the system. I know it´s not easy but trust me, you´ll understand the importance of this when your finally arrive here.

Also, If you decide to use SL alone, You´ll still have to come to DE with at least 3k. The first couple of months, You´ll pay Semester fees, House rent, Kaution, Insurance, Feeding and other valaubles. The three most important payment monthly in Germany is House rent, Insurance and Feeding. So imagine spending at least 400-450 monthly for 3 months prior to getting a job.

Secondly, Your wife can go for her interview In as much the Pregnancy is not visible. With my calculation, You´re going for winter and not summer. This mean your wife will be heavily pregnant hence, it´ll limit her chances of coming for studies cos she´ll be in her Tri-Semester and this means less/reduced stress for her usw.

So much to explain but here´s my opinion and advice.


Channel all your energy to come here first (If your body fit hold am ). By next year, your wedding will be 2 years according to you. Submit your wedding certificate with your child birth certificate during your interview. When you get to DE, work and study and ensure to make a certain threshold. Apply for family reunion and your wife will join you with your baby. If the family reunion visa is granted, your wife would be able to work 24/7 because her visa is a Family reunion visa (§ 29 AufenthG Familiennachzug) while yours is different because you´re on student residency permit (aufenthaltsgenehmigung § 16) with 120 full days or 240 Half days to work. Remember when your family is here, You´ll need a 3 bedroom flat for yourself.. A room must be set aside for each child except they are of the same sex.. You´ll have to feed them, clothes them, and do some shopping.. Bro, you´ll be spending close to 1200€ monthly. and this is an outrageous amount for a student here in DE.

I hope I´ve been able to pass some message across and you can understand me better.


Phew, I have typed so much. This post will go a long way to guide anyone who plans to come with family/pregnancy.


Wishing everyone success in their Pursuit.

Mehnn.. see analysis.. Nna you are jagaban. Infact you are the bomb. Gonna pm you when I am ready for AL.

More grace mein bruder!

Gonna read this informative thread like a novel....

*My love for Germany!!*

Please who knows about Berlin School of Business & Innovation (BSBI)..?

Donaldpros:
wow so ambode just rule one tenure ..Lagos an APC is like corn in chicken hands...Tinubu is involved

Are you just knowing?? It is a planned work.. That is why they call him jagaban. So-called godfather.

Donchukz:
.

Son, how old are you?

I'm very sure he is not yet a teenager..

tegrianonigltd:
What merit, from illiterate almajiris or from the self centered elites feeding under him, or from the ignorant ones, what has he done to Nigeria, what impact is he to Nigeria sorry to even daura or katsina, a state that produced presidents and vice, took jonathan to give them federal university and almajiri schools, used Boko Haram l, lies and problem to destabilize his regime, tell me what he has achieved since 1970s first as a military governor to now president, which scholarships, which lives he has impacted, which business he did that succeeded, how did he improve himself after all government posts, he has no money and his kids went to one of the best universities in the world, uses a London hospital, LIST BUHARI ACHIVEMENTS AS AN ELDER STATE MAN AND PRESIDENT, shagari brought nysc others did something

Don't mind him.. There exist a lot of blind sycophants in this country. Illiterate President, illiterate followers.

Shibaraba:
Na so

This post is rigged
I swear
I enter here no single post no FTC
I smile,I don ready my joke already say make I book space down
Before e post I don see plenty posts before me

Yet we complain that they rig
Let's stop it from grassroot
Charity begins at home
Give FTC to whom FTC is due

Make election finish abeg make I go drink

hahaha...

Then when you as a good samaritan tries to help save the gurl from the woman beater, all you will get as thank you is "I still love him"

I do not understand most women's taste.. SMH!!

donstan18:
Don't waste your time exposing him to women.

Women don't care to know if you are caring, they don't care to know if you are responsible, they just don't care if you are a woman beater or not.

All they care is your financial strength. That's the only thing they are after.

Only a handful bother about financial strength.. The others are concerned about physique, body building etc...

[quote author=Zeus2477 post=76453385][/quote]Keep it up.. Continue editing. The same way your colleagues usually edit bet9ja tickets to look real!! Heartless scammers. Enjoy your "no expiry date" data..

Old bodies everywhere. Retire they will say NO.. Mtcheeeeew!!

Newboss:
Some folks are plain stupid!

To buy that trash, you need to have crossed several million hurdles. Yet he couldn't get her mother out of that stupid place. When she gets killed there, he'd be the first to wail.

Disgusting fellow

You said wail?? Naah.. That is when he will spend money more. "On her funeral" and maybe he will bury her in a Range Rover instead of a coffin.

Larryallovernig:
Is okay.

Who can bet with me PDP is winning in Lagos state on saturday

hmm.. I also have the feeling but don't forget Jagaban is still hale & hearty.

SmilingScorpion:
I need a Visa

Same here bruder....!!

5 Mill...

Chai The exact amount I need for my MBA.

Germandude:
mein gott.alle diese fur ein person

Lols,, na for one person oo

gypsey:
The youngest billionaire? And she is not even Praying, Worshipping The useless Jesus, paying thithes, sowing seeds or donating to crooked pastors.


All those African Gullibles shouting, Crying and banging their Heads in Churches Hoping that Some noneexistence God will bless them overnight with billions by paying thithes I pity you goons.

This is where you got it all wrong!

Mtcheeeew... Is this one news??

Nooo you for kukuma rule till you reach 90

Thisis2raw:
Truth is. The election was rigged

It is even visible to the blind.