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Dominiondominio:
I’m a 26 years old woman married to a 37 years old man. We have been married for almost 3 years.

We don’t have kids yet and 6 months ago I ended up in hospital with sepsis. The doctors originally thought it was caused by a kidney infection but later found that it was caused by Pelvic Inflammatory disease.

They repeatedly asked about my sexual history but I have only slept with one person in the past 3 years - my husband. I ended up having to have emergency surgery as the infection would not respond to the IV antibiotics they were giving me. I was in hospital for 10 days and have potential long- term damage which will affect my ability to have children.

I recently found out that my husband has cheated on me a number of times throughout our marriage and that the Pelvic inflammation was caused by untreated Gonorrhoea.

When I was discharged from hospital, he admitted that he has been cheating on me with a single mother of 4 (unprotected sex ) And he got the gonorrhea! How irresponsible! I am completely devastated and don't want to believe that the love of my life could be so callous. I very nearly died and if it were not for the brilliant doctors who quickly recognised my symptoms.

Of course the woman my husband got the gonorrhea from denied everything and I bet she won’t go get treated and will continue to spread this nasty and dangerous disease! She is done with having kids so why would she care, right?

Well, I do want to have kids and I won’t let my fertility and health taken away! the emotional damage caused by the infidelity itself is horrible. I feel angry, dirty, and ugly. All I want to do is cry all day. I can’t talk to anyone about it because I feel so ashamed. The person I trust the most is my mother but i don't want to break her heart. I know that to her my happiness matters the most and I think she would be angry at me the rest of her life if I told her that I still love my husband.

My husband feels remorseful and said he would never cheat on me again. He said he would choose me over any lifestyle and that he would give up everything for me. I have a very hard time trusting him again and I still don't know what I want from this whole thing. I just can't understand why my husband would have sex with a disgusting, nasty woman and betray me on so many levels. My pride got hurt so badly. I feel so ugly and worthless. My libido is absolutely gone. I feel empty inside. Then all the sudden I feel horrible, horrible anger and I want to break everything in sight. On some nights I can't sleep and sometimes I want to sleep all day. Most days I'm not even hungry and I have to force myself to eat something.

I feel like I will never be happy again. I used to be a happy, confident, bubbly person, now my zest for life is gone. Is this normal? Will these feelings ever go away?

ElonMosque:
What do I do? My domain isn't up to 60 days reg and the potential buyer doesn't want to create the namesilo acc because he's used to Godaddy. I have told him it isn't an issue as he can later transfer but he's not even responding after reading the messages.

IeatPussy:
$300 on the table.

Which one should I go for?

Geo or Brandable... Advice please.


Geo : due to nature of my work, I may not have adequate time for outbounds.

Brandable : Quite entertaining, no stress but that amount is too little to get a good brandable name.


The Bosses, The ogas and the Capons... In your own understanding, what advice are you giving to me?

viktor88:
If you call with Nigerian accent is another problem with this calls

viktor88:
Africa, wetin we do?

AAA593:
I have Iceland PayPal and I just love this. I have been using it since December 2018

Lifediary:
Hi! I just saw this thread now. I really appreciate you for the good work you doing here. Please, can you send the ebook to my email: allcolonies@gmail.com. Thank you.

Uwaeromosele:
Good evening sir. Sorry for the late Reply
Yes sir, I am from Edo.
I have sent you a Pm but I have never used it well. Can I drop My mail to contact you sir
I am really intrested in this venture. God bless you sir.

Soneh:
if you don't mind, I would love to have the affiliate marketing ebook sent to
ejsoneh@gmail.com

priceaction:
If am right, high search volumes, low competition with high CPC will be good for seo ranking and adsense profits. Cc IdeasPro

priceaction:
@ideaspro
please i want to pick a domain from expired domain for website developments, content optimization and add adsense,
lets say i have this , under , {Adwords & SEO}
ADWORD global searches=400000, USA searches=25,000 , THEN CPC BOTH GLOBAL AND USA=3 and competition = 40% , dont know if higher competition is good for this number.
THEN IS THERE ANYTHING I NEED TO ADD , LIKE BL, MAJESTIC VALUES or YEAR OF FIRST REG in order to make it more strengthen?
with those search filters above , i still see what i can pick and right competition.
I want to buy some domain, go into paid content writing then optimized it into adsense and upsell. Any contribution to tht will highly appreciated.

ikhalyfah:
Now u have contributed to his skeptical ability. One by one that is how all those white people will start having second thoughts about buying Domain From outbound. We keep portraying ourselves as scammers
We should be cautious oo...


But wait, u had the energy to outbound for domain u didn't own

NkShallom:
Please an end user is requesting for a call to discuss with him how it works.
Note: we have already negotiated and agreed on a price, he is really interested because he does reply my massages, but seems he needs more clarification on the purchase process.

I have already added him as a lead on Dan and sent Dan Support a massage to help call him or For Dan to drop a number with which the buyer can call them with, I haven't gotten any feedback from Dan, and I don't know if Dan would actually call him
What should I do?

UrVillagePpl:
Good morning, let me share an experience that happened to me recently.


I reached out to an end-user about the availability of this doman ''TexasGermanShepherdBreeders.com".
NB: This domain is actually not mine but only available in ED market.


After a couple of days, he replied saying, I should tell him why he needs to buy it. I told him. (In my mind thought I was about clinching my first sale. ) at exactly that time the next day got an email from him saying 'am not sure if that Domain is still available'. I quickly checked it on WHOis. low and behold it's been taken. I then told him they domain is no longer available but the singular is. After some time he replied 'okay how much do u intend ditching it out' I told him.
The next day I woke up to a mail from him saying 'thanks for advising. there were both available'.
I checked WHOis it is no longer available..
Now both domains have been redirected to its main site.
I was just smiling and felt a little bit heartbroken (thought that was going to be my first sale)
Anyways we just move on, lesson leant


NB: thought of buying it earlier but was having some constraints.

Uwaeromosele:
Good evening sir. Great thread I must say. I got Interested when I saw you post on Iyje thread this afternoon on how U can Get Unlimited Domain to your Hosting and sell for higher price instead of The usual Domain Name we sell for cheap.
I see that u explained it so well, that I am really interested in this particular venture. But I would love to ask Some questions like the Adense, Getting the Free Traffic from achieve and the likes. Am not A novice , But I am not older than learning sir. This February must not pass me by.

sketcherJ:
thank you bro.. my afternic domain status has changed from in review to listed.. but I can't seem to find it on the new domain listings on the afternic home page

debeginin:
louisangelo227@gmail.com

sketcherJ:
thank you.. I am still currently faced with an issue.. after buying my domain. Do I need to do anything on it before listing on markets? And do I need to change the Whois Info? Cos it is showing GoDaddy and not any of my info

IghravweIG:
I buy into your ideal of turning key domain in blog website.


How do i go about this please?

Zubbykan007:
thank you, but don't you have any tread here in nairaland?

priceaction:
So cpc column is in dollars while sg column is in search volumes?

Julius209:
House, please help a brother

sketcherJ:
bro thanks.. you know when u want to list on Dan, they ask you to redirect or add their dns to your domain or something? Please does this affect you listing on other domain markets?

priceaction:
Hello boss, @ideaaspro
What is the best est metrics to filter expired domains especially considering cpc, backlinks(not fake ones), SG, cpc and one what site better, you know how Ed is with lots of boxes to "check". Is it the higher number, the better or vice versa for good Ed? I know such of many good domains are difficult to get but some average existing businesses that went down are still there that we can pick up and continue contents with and flip for profits either upsell or adsense?

300wayne:
Good thinking bro...... If u don't mind explaining further for newbies like us

fasa199:
Please bro send to toddt.ward@gmail.com

Zubbykan007:
Wow that's nice, please can you throw more light on how to redirect links to the current website?
You can as well open a new thread about this, I really want to learn about this

ElonMosque:
Its not a phishing mail because you are making no attempt whatsoever to get him/her to reveal personal information. However, I think you can instead direct him/her to buy from godaddy(because its super popular) if they are really interested in the domain. The aim of your email is just for the person to see the value in what you have for sale. If they see the benefit of having such domain, they should proceed to godaddy/com to make a secure purchase within 10minutes.... maybe chipping in with whois info could help too...

IghravweIG:
My Ogas, How do i reply this?


@Ideaspro
@2Sexycom

tranxo:
For registrars that offer free privacy, I use free privacy. For those that do not offer free privacy, I use my real Nigerian address and phone number.

My personal mantra.

As long as I am legit, I keep it real, do my part, and leave the rest to His Grace.

tranxo:
This is one of the obstacles we encounter without proper research. We have all been down this road sha.

That's also the reason IdeasPro advised we take CPC and SG seriously when we select names on ED. I will also add considering ACR. With a domain having impressive numbers across these 3 metrics, we can confidently tell and show the buyer that though the domain has no website currently, it used to have one that is similar to his business. This means that the traffic that used to visit the former website are still typing those EXACT kwds (SG) in Google. You can even share screenshots from Wayback Machine for him to see that the former website is in the same business with his. Finally, depending on the CPC of the name, you can tell him that his competitors are already spending heavy ad costs just to advertise with the domain's exact keywords. He can save himself these costs, and POTENTIALLY (do not be definite with your pitches) rank higher than his competitors by owning this name.

You can tweak and switch all these around to suit your personality.

PS
Do not screenshot ED stats. Rather go and grab stats screenshot from Google Keyword Planner