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stiflerdrug:
Yea that's what am getting does tat make any sense or she tryna friendzone me?

She's not "trying"....ure already friendzoned. Limit ur conversations, don't do her favours, basically start treating her like one of ur male frieends with zero affection.

obviously he's hurt and angry...obviously he's also taken it too far and long...obviously u love dis guy...obviously u know him more Dan we do. Some guys can keep malices for years so dey tend to get angry and hot for long...me for instance longest is a week, I'd miss my baby and settles issues.
Send him dis msg in a text or whatsapp...(use his real name, not dear or hon or baby) "name I probably will never know how hurt ure for wat happened btw us, but d relationship means more to me Dan my ego, am sorry for hurting u...but if ur mind is made up to move on, I wish u all d love in d world...takia" don't end it with I love u.

I really do not understand how I and a gal dat isn't a work colleague can possibly be "just friends" I mean wat do u guys gist abt? D weather? D economy? Olympics? Wtf
Sorry bro if she sees u as a friend...it means uve become a non-sexual human to her which means she cant date u. You can only pray for a miracle...maybe some oda dude brks her hrt and den she sees ur potentials...till den, u remain a Frnd.

For me once ur am "ex" dats it...no feelings watsoeva....unless ofcourse just to bang u.

sathel:
Long distance relationship can't just work for me

Wat happens wen u marry and u av to travel on a 3 months biz trip?
Hey am just curious!
Well it take a mind of steel to handle LDR, not for kids.

Rapmoney:
Don't expect me to provide an answer to such worthless question.

U don't av sense. U sed in a LDR d guy will be asking "wat av u eaten?" so its in a SDR u don't ask abi? Or u live togeda under same roof with ur gf or u feel cos u live on same street with ur gf doesn't mean she won't travel and cheat on ur ass with a guy in anoda state? Uve got deep issues bro...mature up! Wat happens wen u marry and u need to take a two weeks or months biz trip? U divorce or wat?

ZeeAfrica:
sugar !!! lotssss!!! M so tired of men in dis country having a 1652 mentality. Yal better wake up n get wit de program. Its her body, her future, he choices, he pain. I still repeat, if he wana go, let him. Dats my opinion n m sticking to it. All yo life, u wana tell me u have never seen or heard on anyone who go married to someone who already has kids? Nigeria stop pretenting to be saints, coz yal aint. Men in dis country think dey r all a woman can achieve. Gosh its even tiring talking about it. If he wants a divorce, for pits sake, let him fuckkkkk offfff

u sha don't av sense.

in other words u wanna break up with ur bf and move to wale abi? I pray someone breaks ur heart also.... oniranu. it's ur bf I blame dat allowed u av a male bestie.

seyiafo23@gmail.com

uve got to av something of value I can immediately sell off and get my money from such incase u default at paying back d debt....saying ur product doesn't do it for me. I'll need like a car, machine (worth d 300k), etc
if u got all can I can help u with d loan... but if u still insist on not aving send ur account number to my mail.... I'll send u 10% of d money for free.

foolinlove:
You don't tell them off. You say you're with someone, you don't love them and you don't want them.

If you're going to triple date out of fear of violence then you're going to end up with countless girlfriends.

If they threaten violence tell them one day they'll meet a man they don't need to threaten in order to be in a relationship.

If thet persist BLOCK THEM.

It's pretty simple stuff. Go with the one you love. Ignore all others.

Sack up. God is protecting you. You also have the law on your side. Do the right thing for crying out loud.

tanx just want I need to know....a can of malt for u.

foolinlove:
Yep. He was immature and selfish to allow them back. It shows a lot for how he thinks of the one he loves... considering he gets gifts from one.

He should take time out to develop the maturity to be with one person alone.

If he truly loves a woman, he will have the strength and conviction not to get distracted in the first place.

yea if u say am immature ure probably rite...but d case at hand is me being in love with one gal (my 3yrs+ gf) and 2 oda gals "madly" in love with me (of wish I just like dem)...how do I tell off d oda two gals without hurting deir feelings or dey going "gangster on me. gals av been known to be really violent lately.

been dating my gf now 3yrs+ but late last year we had a terrible fight, we almost broke up, we didn't talk for almost two weeks. during dat period, I got closer to a female friend, unknown to me dis my frnd fell in love with me, we kissed a few times. now my gf and I are back togeda, but ds female frnd is so in love, gives me gifts even my gf can't afford....then there's a 3rd gal who's kinda like an ex who's also on my throat dat she's been single for 3yrs now cos she can seem to fall in love with anoda guy cos her heart still with me. I love my gf to death....but dis two gals are so so difficult to let go. am going crazy....how do I handle dis??

same here...I've tried all kinds of browers, still d same "error" page coming up. If dey dint want people applying why bring up a bleeped up site to apply to.

I cried once...I entered dis gal's kitty cat and it was so tight, moist, warm and cosy inside....tears dropped....best kitty cat ever. was like aving a cold beer after a long day at work.

been in love/relationships so many times and at d beginning it's always fun, but as time goes on d gal starts feeling too much like a queen...like she's d only female human on earth (all cos u tell her and let her know how much u love her). I'm so done with dat shit, all I need now is a bunch of female humans (gals) falling in love with me, weda sex or no sex attached...no more singulare love bullshit...need to atleast make 3 gals fall in love and wen one starts feeling too big, I won't be bothered.

la click la bomb

I thank my first ex for teaching me sex, my second ex for teaching me how to value females...my 3rd ex how to plan for d future, my 4th ex how to save...I wanna thank my present gf for giving lessons on patience.

Is there one thing your ex brought to your life that you are grateful for

I'm here wondering why my boss will look me in d face and say dat and not be in d hospital's intensive care unit....the next min.
ull gonk my WIFE? u dey mad?? u know d wahala I see to toast her?

annnikky:
Hi guys this question has bothering me for a while now so I decided to throw d Q here.

Is it alright for d husband to help out in doing d houz chores like bathing d baby, cooking, washing d dishes etc?

when did bathing baby (ur own baby o) become a chore bitches are so lazy dis days!!!! go to d afterlife!

Am an 8" dude, and during sex with my gal she always complains I'm hitting her cervix.
pls how can I stop hitting her dere?

lolzzz...funny peeps
I've pushed my gf so much to d wall...I've apologised so much...she just mite snap someday and kick me out.

iPrevail:
Like Vizkiz mentioned already, take Anger management classes. That should help.

But one really simple thing to always do is this.. Think before you act. Don't give in to your reflexes. Always remind yourself of the consequence of any action you're about to take and how it would affect you and the people around you.

Finally, always remember that's nothing is ever worth the anger. You don't stand to gain a thing.

I used to be like you.. easily angered. But now I simply don't give a fvck.

If my GF offends me the 1st, 2nd and 3rd time, I warn her but she keeps doing it.. She doesn't hear from me or see me for weeks.. When we talk again, if we do, she never does it again.

Thanks sir...uve been very helpful. I'll try and cultivate dis virtues of urs...a crate of origin sir.

Estharfabian:
Verbally abusive?
That's A new one!




Like what exactly do You say? Usual "God punish You'' crew?

more like "ure stupid, useless, selfish, get out of here, u always say sillu things, etc....dos kinds...it's crazy I swear and after exploding...I can't even recall all cos I always delete dem afterwards.

vizkiz:
Very simple. Take anger management classes. You should be back to normal in 3 months

where and how to I register...patience has always been my flaws. am not patient atol....I'm so quick to jumping to conclusion. wen u say A I've read ur mind to Z. which is so wrong

I wuldnt want her to marry a dude like me...but a more patient upgrade of me will do just fine. am a hasty, quick tempered nigger...pray I grow the ability to be patient some day.

hi y'all...am in a relationship of 3yrs+ now and am a quick to anger, verbally abusive guy. I insult peeps at d slightest provocation (dudes or babes) and after am done, all anger is gone. I do it in my relationships in d past and it really affected d gals alots. with my present gf I do it a lot, esp tru text or pings...wen she starts been irritating I just go nuclear explosion on her and yab/insult her, and den after am calm I apologise. I'm not happy am hurting my gf with my words, I'm always calm wen angry in person, but wen we apart I start pouring out my mind in hurtful words. I don't wanna hurt her anymore, can someone pls tell me how to "scold" a gal without been insultive or verbally abusive. (NB: I've neva Eva hit her Eva before nor abuse her in person, always tru text) pls help a brother.

so my ex called me today after a week of no contact...asking us to meet in person so she can return all d money she borrowed from me. she disagreed to send it tru d bank, sed she wants it in person. Wat u fink

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y u sef no invite just five people so e go jell well?? scammer oshi...o ma sho fo ni. idiot.

ure a waste...pack urself to lawma.
the job is insulting, demeaning, embarrassing. to fink dey will even employ dos who will be supervising d so called teachers is annoying. Nigeria is d worst place to be born into.

fratermathy:
Keep doing yahoo. One day EFCC will catch you and make sure you feel th agony and pain of those you have scammed- innocent gullible people who toiled for their money.

The new volunteers are taken as teaching assistants not as full time teachers.

ure a fool...will buhari's kids join? will tinubu's kids join? go and teach na...mumu!!! dey will also be doing clearance...I laff! nysc season II.