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illusion2:
Really? So wetin come happen ? 

Please share your testimony. . . .

I noticed you metioned 'partner' & not 'husband'  . . .

Husband,Husband and Husband.
lol

tpiah:
what's your partner's tribe?

i[b]'m aware he's not Igbo.[/b]

i assume he's yoruba, middle belt, or ghanaian.

abi na white?

other option is south south but you dont seem to interact with the south southerners that much, so maybe that part should be ruled out.

lol
Hes Igbo.

inneedofad:
Our finance was fine when we got married and had our kids but like I said things just aren't working as well as they used to. We were not over the top wealthy but we had enough to meet all needs but now after the incident that we spent money on, things became tight and that's why I want to look for a good job to enable us live  more comfortable lives.

@zeal500 and dyt

thanks

My bad.I assumed u just got married and are Yet to have kids.
Theres general recession everywhere oh.
Yes, look for a better job and encourage ur hubby to do so,But don'tlet money matter separate u from ur husband and children.If u shld move,make sure u are moving with ur kids and hubby.
Endure gallantly,Joy comes in the morning.

slap1:
Uchenna I di nma iwunye akamu oku n'ime ike. So onye Igbo di ka gi biara i derail thread a? Ihere megbukwa gi. @topic. Onye fee eze, eze eru o ya aka.

hahahahaha.Unu ga egbu mmadu ebe a

Onlytruth:
Abum nwa Anaedo (Nnewi). Nwa afo kpom kwem!

Udo di Nwanne.

valeny2k:
Facebook is a website where make Nigeria meet, you can find who know there school mate and more.

LOL.
Uchenna biko,buru ahia gi a jee ebe ozo.Umu asa igbo are all born shapely,we dont need any body magic.
@Topic,Atara aki,atara ukwa,Uwa bu ofu nbia.
Variety is the spice of life

Poor Gworo seller and Ice cream Vendor.

@OP,sharpest mind as in
Rofl.

Ikomi:
Onye ziri gi, that na ibie nwanyi aka na azu o hapuru gi onwe ya final. Nna this boy imapara ihe oohhhh.

But you should not have said it in here, Agaba ga kopiri ya now, before you know it ulo the boy ga eju with umu nwanyi.

hahahahaha
A dikwam suprised oh.A maghim na Uche Darfur kpakoro onu like this.
O dika o gara coaching na aka either Tosh or Felimbobo
Darfur

@Topic,Okpa and Akamu

Lagosboy:
Either way it is still AR² lols.

@uplawal
I dont think anyone will diasgree with you on the point of mode of dressing , also i think i have addressed this issue on this thread on preceeding pages. The bottom line is the clothing should be loose so as not to reveal the shape of the woman ana a hijab to cover her bossom. The specifics Allah never mentioned in the quran- d[b]ifferent cultures have different mode of dressing. And God knows best.[/b]

Yeah,Still Razak-ing
@Bolded,I so agree with that.Still,to see things from Uplawals point of view,it wud make things easier if she has photos.
@Uplawal,Salams.Please upload pics ASAP.

tpiah:
now, i want to assume her conversion has to do with her partner maybe, and if that's the case, most non-muslims marrying muslims know they might be asked to convert sooner or later?

No,i and my Partner were Christians b4.I did not marry a born Muslim.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=523278.msg6853198#msg6853198 date=1285886603][color=deeppink]I miss MrCrackles so much, he hasn't been online since March.

Please does anyone know where he's at?[/color][/quote]His wife had triplets so he quit to attend to Fatherhood.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=523892.msg6860734#msg6860734 date=1286008689]
lol, he probably lied before and she just didn't know it [/quote]lol
If jes a chronic liar and has been lying b4 marriage and she saw it all along i guess shes left with 3 options:
She start lying too.
She pray,encourage and hope he changes.
She just ignore his lies.
BTwn,I know some ppl hate hearing the truth hence giving ppl close to them reasons to lie to them.Im not making excuses for the man though but i hope the OP checks herself and see if she gave the man reasons to lie to her.

[quote author=Missy ★ B link=topic=522635.msg6849794#msg6849794 date=1285848429]Rotfl!
This can't be true. [/quote]So true
In as much as i like lagos danfo my best anyday is Molue
Old boy,From the preachers to the Pharmacist(with 1 drug that cures 20ailments) down to the beggar.lol
Everyone dey serious dey hawk his wares.When i was still a JJC,many conductors chop my "change" even collect double fares from me.
My fav. route was Yaba/Ojuelegba CMS,
Dont forget to empty ur pockets,heft ur purse/bag to the front(i hang mine on my neck) then raise ur mobile phone up.

memes:
please someone help me cause I don't know what to do. I have notice that my husband lie even with little things that is not suppose to lie to. He believe that marriage cannot work without lies and he always tell me about this his friend that lie so much. please tell me what to do about it because am hurting.If I tell him that he just lie to me he gets very angry that can even lead to a fight.please I need your help.

Did he start lying now or he has always been like this even b4 u married him?

OP no vex,abeg u be male or female??

inneedofad:
Dear house, my husband I I live in an accommodation provided by his company and its quite secluded cos he is a Caucasian. when we just got married, things were ok he was never rich I married him for love cos as at the time we meet he was earning around 80k and he made it clear from the start that he was not a millionaire so the question of marrying for money was off. We dated for 4 years exclusively before we took the big step to the alter. The problem I have now is that we have started making a family and I believe we need more funds since he is responsible for his family back at home and the family me and him are creating. I cant seem to get a decent well paid job where we are and he doesn't want me to leave to go work in another town cos he is worried such move will break our family apart. I come from a family of industrious people and women who hate depending on their men for every bit they need to buy or own. I cant afford a lot of things based on his salary and I cant get a good paying job where we live. I got a well paid job in PH but he was worried for our family and so I declined the offer, But, I have needs that I believe if I start asking from him he will think, well, you know our income range where do you want me to get that from and at the same time he cant afford to start a business for me as we were hit by tragedy that required us to borrow money to solve. I am so confused right now Please this is a genuine problem I have now no insulting and abusive posts please thank you.

First,you or rather both of u should have thought abt finances b4 marriage.
I wont advice you to leave ur husband and go to another city,its not just good for a young marriage.
Your husband can start looking for another job in another town alongside u.
Make do with whatever job and pay u get in the city where u stay for now and if u get one,pls endeavour to keep aside a little something each month,save something,no matter how small.I cant decide for u but u guys might do better if u wait for a year or 2 b4 making babies
As for the things u want that he cant afford for now,better thing no dey finish for mkt jare,u can always get them morrow.
Keep and save ur marriage first.Goodluck

Gera1980:
Can anybody please tell me what Keni keneme means?

I am sorry if the spelling is wrong. I only know it from hearing.

I am trying to learn Igbo, but for some reason my husband is only teaching me very few things.

Imela!

Correct spelling is Gini ka i na-eme?.
It means "what are u doing?"

LOL,Darfur na Ikomi.

Happpy Independa,Ndi Igbo.

which way Biafra

Happy Birthday Nigeria!!!!!

So those kids are Yet to be released?Very sad.
Aba's Problem did not start today.From way back,it has always been Ndi Maf(Osusu boys etc) to Ndi akpo obi(ulo elu,ngwa road,clifford road,Milverton)girls were abducted on the streets in broad daylight and no-one dares talk.
The Politicians,biz men used same tugs and evil perpetrators as thugs and protected from Jungle justice(Bakasi boys).A known Mafia and Killer named Escapee is still wining and dinning with the power brokers In Umuahia and collecting taxes from Okadas at Aba inspite of all the evil he did.Slangs like "if u bend down,u see Aba" was used freely by the residents to show their city's supremacy over others.Ngwanu,e don Happen !
One day,However,all those killers and ppl financing and supporting them wud meet their doom and it wont be very long.The blood of the innocent cries.

oisehumen:
Oya, lets hook up now if u think u are single indeed. I dare u

oisehumen:
.
Only single ladies like u can make such malicious and fallacious remarks about marriage and the action of the woman above.

Hungry,Confused and Undecided.Bad Combo.
Have a good day Mister

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=522476.msg6845109#msg6845109 date=1285781013][size=14pt]Fake Police Sergeant Arrested[/size]
Date: Sep 29th, 2010.


A 53-year old man, Sunday Ugochukwu, who has been parading himself as a police sergeant in the Nigeria Police Force has been arrested.
He has allegedly been duping members of the public and extorting money from commuter bus drivers and truck drivers bringing goods from other states.
Sunday was arrested yesterday by the operatives from the Federal Special Anti-robbery Squad, FSARS, Adeniji-Adele, Lagos Island, Nigeria.
Items recovered from him, the police said, include a police identity card and warrants of arrest.
Police investigation revealed that the suspect from Umuahia in Abia State is married and has three children. He resides at 3, Sikiru Alimi Street, Surulere, Lagos.
In his confessional statement to the police, Ugochukwu said he is a security officer attached to a security company at Costain area of Iganmu and his salary is N15,000 monthly.


“I promoted myself to a police sergeant after I succeeded in buying the uniform and identity card from Seme border to complement my meagre salary.
“I have never used the uniform to commit serious crime than extorting money from commuter bus drivers and truck drivers. Occasionally I arrest okada riders. My main reason for purchasing the uniform for N20,000 was to enjoy free ride in commuter buses,” he said.
He was arrested inside a LT 35 bus he escorted from Cele expressway along the Mile 2-Apapa expressway to CMS bus stop on Lagos Island, following complaints from members of the transport leaders at CMS/Apongbon axis over police harassment and extortion.
The fake policeman reportedly exposed himself when the vehicle he was escorting was stopped by the security operatives at CMS bus stop. Before the security men could ask anything, he alighted from the vehicle with boldness and identified himself as a police sergeant and claimed he was attached to the Iponri Police Division.
When he was asked who is the DPO & DCO of the Iponri Division, he could not mention their names. Sunday was immediately arrested and taken to the Federal SARS office.
—Paul Iyoghojie

http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2010/09/29/fake-police-sergeant-arrested/[/quote]@Bolded,Funny.
I hope they also look at his statement and get those that helped him get the uniform etc

Haahahaha.
E sumora jare abi oshe ekpe fun e
You missed the big phat ladies ,backing a baby and holding 2 toddlers all for One seat

So Only Truth wu onye Igbo ?
@Topic,Nwata nna ya ziri oshi na eji ukwu agbawa uzo.
A child sent to steal by the father does so without fear

[quote author=pres-elect link=topic=413608.msg6846237#msg6846237 date=1285793099]Ify   
Ify, gi mere m ihea? 
chei, ikomi, I nwago m okwa ya?

Chei, even toshman , nke ga atuwa Ify ime nyekwa ya AIDS n'elu ya
chei, alaala m, Ify gini ka m mere. Okaaaram mma na isorola agaba, than ikomi and definitely not toshman[/quote]Darfur 
A maghim way gi,hoha.Ima na ahu m di hot,obara m di hot,infact ihe nile di hot mana oge o bula ino awol.Ole ihe m ga eme?A choghim rusting of any kind 
Ngwanu ebe ino nso bia butue m 
O di m na obi. 
Kowa,gini mere i jiri chee na Agaba ka Tosh na Ikomi Nma?Agaba ka njo IMO.
Onye oma m gbahara 
Bia ka anyi lakpuo ugbua  Ikomi na Tosh gbakwa oku

@OP,Why is this at the culture section or are u asking if its a cultural thing

oisehumen:
.

If it is not ADULTERY, then what is it called?
Only single ladies like u can make such malicious and fallacious remarks about marriage and the action of the woman above.

@Poster
Please, advise your friend to quickly desist from it and turn to God to help her.
Marriage is for better and for worse and is for LIFE

LOL
You sound hungry,when was the last time u had a  meal 
If the story of the OP sounds like marriage to you,then u need help more than the OP's friends.
Btwn,are u single too,we can hook up sometime 

illusion2:
Hmmm. . . .

Ify has become a muslima ?

We must equalise . . . Muki where are you ? 

LOL

uplawal:
Allah says wear cloak i.e bubu,kaba,Abayas,long free skirt goes too with very loosed blouse that will give fall into the category of cloak

Uplawal,cite the quotation and pls find and upload pics of what u term as "bubu,kaba,abayas,long free skirts " Thank you.

Lagosboy:
Oh Wonderful! mashallah! Even me i am jealous now lols. May Allah make us all steadfast unto the rope of Allah.  Decided on the names now? Tell AR to put you in the luggage when goin lols and leave AR² with mama. lols

Haha.
We are not yet decided oh,He wants AbdulRazak and AbdulRaheem while i prefer AbdulRaheem and AbdulRahman.One Razak is enuff already but im sure he wud dance my tune soonest.lol

LMAO!
This is definitely the most ridiculous piece i have ever seen.

Which Part of Nigeria is this staduim located?It looks lovely.

[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=522183.msg6843580#msg6843580 date=1285767070]MONDAY NIGHT RAW [/quote]Yes! Yes!! Yes!!!

Unsolicited kindness and help is from the Devil _{Seun Osewa}
The kind neighbour shld have discussed this with the woman before she travelled.
As things are now,one wud expect the good samaritan neighbour to advice herself and stop washing the mans clothes.Im not saying the woman that travelled is right though but its better to be cautions than sorry
Im curious sha,why wud another woman offer to wash another pesin husband clothes,no bi say de man dey sick or sumtin

Omo kpukpa by Victor Olaiya.
@Effrakata,i agree with u.
Please who sang Nigeria go survive or where can i get it online?