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tpiah:
always risky getting involved with an "only son".

Too much wahala.

true that,God help u if they are Igbos.u are constantly drawn btw the mum and sisters who feels u are snatching their baby-boy from them
@Poster,all ur excuses dont hold water.If u are sure abt the lady ,go ahead and marry her,heaven wont fall,ur ppl wud fall back in line with time.

Times are changing,women now beat their husbands silly.
@Topic,sad and unfortunate.

baby nets scarce ke?
If ur own baby cot is special(u said it swings) then go ask for a special net from wherever u bought the cot.
Besides,u can easily get nets in wuse mkt and get carpenters to fit it tothe swinging cot

Markenny:
und Frau, wenn u lieben diese zweite Typ, dann tun, was er fragen u zu tun.
und wie kann er das Gefühl, als er feststellen, dass anyother ist die Liebe zu jemandem er die Liebe?
Sie er beschweren?

rofl
u see ur life,Mr Over sabi. 
@Berit,The other Guy is african right?Tell him to give u time to sort out urself.All seems alright now BUT what happens if and when u manage to get ur hubby out of the way. . . .what guarrantes do u have that he wud be any better?,wud he accept u and ur kids?
Give ur marriage/hubby some more time,theres no domestic Violence Involved so methinks theres still hope,it actually can be worked out.have a long talk with ur hubby and dont be shyabt asking him his plans for the marriage,if hes tired and wants out then so be it.It on one hand looks like hes tired and is trying to frustrate u till u file for divorce 
Are u working?assuming u guys seperate,how far can u go with the kids?
No matter,how in love u think u are with the new guy or how much he claims to love u,u need to sort out ur life and marriage first and if he do really love u,he wud let u do so rather than being a sweet distration.

Onye anoghi n'akuku oku, ji ya anaghi eghe osooso.
Translation:If a person whose yam is on fire is not around the fire, his yam will not get done timely.
meaning: If you are not supervising your project by yourself, you will not get desired result.

@Niky,I maka.
Gini mere iji aza "Nike Niky"?aha gi abu Nneka
Siggy gi bu egwu eji. . . .final bustop

In as much as i loff dreads,that pix up there is a big NO NO.
@Topic,I and I are one of the few Jah kids left.One love.

Is ASUU actually on strike again?

He try but wud that change anything

I dont think we are ready to host the Junior world cup Yet.Opening match at warri

Ok.
Been say na di kind thread wey i dey like,i was forced to be concerned.

Only the brave and honest make it in life.am loffing this thread.
@Theolar,goodluck.

I think he meant that his People had in the past,tried to find a woman for him.
@Poster,u are the man.If u cant stand up to ur ppl now and prove that u are a man and know whats good for u,i doubt if u wud make a good hubby to the lady cos u def. cant stand up for her even when u guys are married.
If u are very sure abt the lady,u have to convince ur ppl abt her.U are an Only son,they wud never disown u if u go ahead and marry this lady,infact IF they find out that u are actually serious,they have no choice than to accept her.

How come this thread was locked?i did not even see my reply?did i go offtopic?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-286326.0.html

MrCrackles:

 
rofl.

theolar:
Pls can someone in d house give a pratical list of where to meet marriagable guys and how to get talkin to dem. Any hint will be appreciated .

Pratical list :Nairaland romance section.
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Is condoms not N20 in Nigeria
where dat girl see u pick sef?u dont have time to go to the clinic with her but u have time to phock her without condom.

Berit:
he never ask me to come with him, he wanna stay outside alone, i already told him several times that im not happy and i feel lonley, like a single mother and that when hes off from work that i would appreciate that hell stay at home and spen time with his family and not goin out every day, im doin so many things for him, cookin, showin my love, but, even before i met the new guy, i was already thinkin that i cant live like that anymore, a lot of people already asked if im still married,cuz they never see me and my husband together anymore for such a long time,
no, his work isnt takin so much time, most of the time hes workin in the afternoon til night, but im always stayin awake until hs comin back, even when its 12 or 1am, and then his food is ready, and im talkin to him, so, and instead of stayin in the mornin at home, hes alwys findin anything else doin,
the sex life*lol* theres no sex life for long time, im tryin so many things to make him to feel makin love but, no, then when hes around in the evenin, and we could have time together and im showin him waht i want, he stop and tell me "sorry i gotta go out and make a call", or"sorry i gotta check somethin in my car" and all those things will take up to 2-3hours, in between im callin him to ask what hes doin and that im alone here, but hes tellin me "i almost finish, i can go to bed if i want",

and the new guy, hes givin me so much love that i need in my marriage, and in the beginnin of my marriage, usually i never wanted to marry, so i married cuz my husband want, and he was never really carin but he tried and since some months hes not even tryin anymore, and im the one that is just tryin and talkin and doin, and i already ask my husband y he married and y he got children when hes not even spendin time with us, then hes always tellin me that hes not a prisoner and he can do anything he want, and in my own sight, its not like that, the way he behave is just like hes a single man, and i told him that, but he dont care.

If everything u have said is true then i can safely say that the guy is not intrested in the marriage.
Are u gainfully employed?
call him and talk with him again over the state of affairs in the marriage.I just hope he wud be honest with u,if hes not intrested again,he shld let u go rather than keeping u in pains and emotional misery.Too bad u met the wrong one.
U sound very patient,can u give him some more time,for the sake of ur kids.

Yoplait strawberry and vanilla for me.

Do u mean Nsala soup 

Boiled yam,palm oil,hot pepper sauce and  Pepper-roasted Tilapia.

marychizo:
There is no any medicine that can prevent pregnancy it is just by chance and when God Says Amen.

rofl.
@Topic,she shld relax jare.Emotional stress can alter her period Plus the Postinor too can change/alter her period.
she better go for preggie test so she wont be in for suprises.

Not good esp if u eat late and head straight to bed.
8pm at mots is Ok but if u must eat later than that,make sure u stay up long enough for the food to digest b4 heading to bed.

Rofl@Poster and Thread.
Beggars believe.

some kain threads sef,am begining to think Aro and Yaba left ppl are on strike 
wetin come be dis;

lovenlife:
most people do not ve a teste so they go 4 any thing, what do u think Cal Relationship Expert: 08030973720

i wont marry from the tribe of racists,thieves and political mehu-mehus. 
Reason:i no fit shout.

hehe.
@Poster,whats the name of the company offering this service

Stocks if u have something else to fall back to/live on for the next 5 yrs.
Real estate if u are not sure abt the next 5 years.

demoly:
please can somebody in the house tell or assist me in getting a loan of about n300, 000 to start my online biz.

My brother,u really want take loan for Online biz?
Make u dey very careful sha,extremely careful,make u no go hook,think die.
Taking a loan for biz ,good oo ,but not for something like Online biz
If u somehow get the loan,i wud advice u dont put in the whole of ur money into the biz,abeg ooo.Start with maybe half of the money and give yourself some months b4 u can decide on the way to go.
i don yarn my own.

In Onitsha,1000k can cook a pot of soup that might last for 1 wk(if hes single)
1000k can buy 5 bottles of beer plus cowtail peppersoup.
Recharge card.
A jeans/Top for bright street.
Yes ooo,1000k can buy one of those celtel phones that comes with sim card BUT its gonna be 2nd hand as the new ones is abt 1500k.
1000k can offset light and wtare bills(if hes single) or can fill his drum from borehole,get fuel for his generator for like 3 days.
1000k wud def. go along way for someone that have NOT touched 100N for like 3 days.

Nene 1,Queen and Mukina(not a Gambian but living there)

ukukaegbu:
@Ukukaegbu,e chekwam na ibu nwoke

Yes, abu m nwoke. UK nke m abughi Eucharia, kama o bu Ukaegbu. Ndeewo.

o di nma.i thought as much.
Youngies,e zilam ya ozi mana ahu e sighi ya ike for sometime now.
rubi,nma nma.Chi na akwado i ji na side mu.I hope na unu mere uka nna nke oma.
@Topic,Onyeubiam anaghi aza "Omeokachie."
Translation:An indigent does not take the title of "Omeokachie"(one who completes and seals anything he does).

Meaning: Used in condemning false claims and utopian aspirations