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They are inviting us because it is igando far far knowing that people won't want that stress. If it were surulere,VI,ikeja, they wouldn't try it.

marvin906:
yes
buh not with the excuse that hes sex life hes dull
even husbands to pornstars still cheat buh not with the excuse that they dont get it good from their wives

Sounds like an excuse. If the man cheats, they say the woman is not performing well. If it is confirmed that she is performing well then it must be for another reason.

Continue

I think they deserve it. They are one airline that always keeps to time

Done that already

marvin906:
when you keep eating beans the same way all the time
why wont you get tired
if you know your sex life is dull why dont you find ways to spice things u with your wife
the kamasutra is there other things are there
who wont get tired of doing missionary for ten years
where i wont blame you is if your wife refused to change in you guys sex life
buh for now your just another irresponsible high end maggot

If a woman like let her do frog style, hang from the window or chandelier, do upside down or spinning wheel, a man that will cheat will cheat

TheSuperNerd:
The man to whom the question was asked by the silly married man answered quite beautifully. Same thought came to me immediately I saw the title of this thread... And yes I knew it was asked based on a man trying to justify his infidelity adventure.

But again, I must say that this is a poor analogy to make. A woman is not some food you eat and then defecate after food is digested.
A woman is a being that houses and represents so much more than being your sex partner.

She is more than a recipient of male intentions. She is a home. Your home as a man and also your tower of strength when you are down or feeling stressed or weak.

Look, Marriage is not for the lovers or for the romantic... Marriage is for the strong and disciplined-at-heart who also embodies being lovers and romantics.

Because people do not understand this, they get married and find themselves asking the most silly analogy question ever to justify their immoral ways.

If you must get married, then you must be ready to stick to him or her and must know how to make the most of seeing him/her in beautifully new lights every day. There is so much more to your spouse than what you think you know... If only you take the time to focus more on discovering more of the beauty in him/her.

Marry me

imam07:
Are you married? If u are, your wife never show you shege. Most men that beat their wife were pushed to the wall not one time .Most men that promised they will never beat their wife and ended marrying evil women are beating their wife now

And you know this how? Did you go round and take this statistics?

Good point.

But then, the vacancy for a new side chick is created and the new side chick can also take you out.

I think the advice should be not to get married to a man that is lazy and not ambitious

lefulefu:
Most side chicks accept their position as side chicks.their main aim in that relationship for most reasons are for the financial benefit of it.there are situations some married men spend more on their side chics than on their own wife. There have been situations where some single moms who are sidechics,their married manfriends send their kids abroad for further studies while the man's own kids are in Nigeria and he's unable to pay their school fees.the sidechic profession that a number of ladies embark on is for mainly the financial benefit.nothing more nothing less.

Ça ce n'est pas possible. I should know the financial capacity of my husband and if i am not seeing that money being spent on the family on investments or whatever we both decide on, then i need to know what rat has created a hole in our pockets.

A marriage is a union of two people. We both know about out finances and major projects. Sending children abroad to school is a major project. I would be careless not to know.

Shukura

ndubueze92:
Insults, hating,cursing and abusing has become a Nairaland thing very recently. I have been on this forum for a long time though, I have never been an active member and, In those years, the new entrants have damaged the reputation and the serenity that existed and should i also add that the mods are accomplices in this.

There are too many children and overgrown babies that feel the need to hurl insults and profanities at every turn, especially to ladies.

I respond to them accordingly but sometimes i overlook.

AntiBrutus:
Not just men, humans generally are imperfect.

Every woman has what is a deal breaker for her.
Some can tolerate a cheat, he should sha provide.
Some can tolerate physical abuse, the makeup sex should be good.
Some can tolerate poverty, but he should have a rich dick.

The list goes on.
The idea is to find a healthy balance as no one is perfect.
Don't go tolerating things that can turn you into an emotional wreck or leave you 6ft below.

Exactly. It is not peculiar to men

ndubueze92:
True. Truly I have been expecting an insult from you... We have exchanged mentions many times now without any.... Well done. I go help my wife do some kind things sha.

I am shocked myself that you didn't throw insults. It is good to find a guy here that can communicate without insults.

Op is also a struggling Nigerian. He is trying to sell his e-book by all means. Forget all the figures he is calling.

ndubueze92:
I never said that! We go die together from 90. Realistically, check the society the ratio of that! you will know that the view I shared is real and happening.

It could be a lifestyle issue. There are exceptions

Icecream4U:
I tried this on a new Sim I bought after receiving a message from a bank which I don't have account with. Base on the message, I use the code to load 1,000 Naira and it was successful! I got alert on the Sim. The person has about 364k in his account.

It's been almost two months now, no call from the owner and no transaction has been done on the account - no deposit, no withdrawal. I'm beginning to think maybe the owner is dead o!

Fear no let me use the Sim again cos it was registered with my real details my drivers license and my real home address. Make efcc no come visit man.

So, in a case where someone died leaving money in his bank account his family does not know about, what would happen to the money?

This happened to a customer. He wasn't using his sin for a while and it was reassigned. The person that bought the new line was loading airtime constantly uo to 40k. The account owner was an army pensioner.

When the thief was called and confronted, he was begging and even crying on the phone1

ndubueze92:
Imaima, life is too short for the men to get involved in house chores! when, they will die off in the future and the women will continue to enjoy the children and whatever was left behind... Just a random thought, not consistent and susceptible to changes depending on the kind of woman one later end up with.

Wow!! So you are going to die off early and your wife gets to enjoy everything? That is an interesting perspective. Well...try to enjoy your life right now since you hope to die soon

crackhaus:
Lol, she was the one who introduced the word into our short conversation. I was more concerned with the point at which one will be taken for granted.

Hmmmmm

ndubueze92:
Nice one..... If I do offer to help bah, it's gonna be once a week, only on Saturdays or more often especially, when the kids are little. In fact, not voluntarily... I will have to be begged or possibly bribed.

I don't think you should be begged. When the time comes you won't be cajoled or bribed. It is also your house and they are your children.

When you see your wife always stressed, combining work,house chores and children, you would be mean not to get involved. You are not a visitor but a resident.

Sarang:
How is it his business?!


Please see link on my signature

Everything is his business these days

I thought they didn't have access to phone and devices. How does he send messages outside the house

The man is really irresponsible. He cannot fend for his kids but he has money to marry another wife. While her own life has to pause because she is using her money to take care of the kids.

ndubueze92:
Sorry, I think I need to come in here. You must definitely need to contribute something whether he helps at home or not. Except maybe he's a multi billionaire... u can spend.

I have no problem with contributing money. I was just trying to make a point.

When a man tries to make house chores solely the wife's duty, he should also make providing for the house solely his duty.

marvin906:
this is serious

Some people will not see this thread o. Later they will go and write one education epistle about how women have dealt with him.

Andy2274:
. If you see your brother doing same thing for his wife you will go and report to your mother that your brother's wife have turned him to woman wrapper. It's not a new thing. For the fact that people don't post such things on facebook or nairaland doesn't mean they don't do it. I cook at home, I bath my baby, I feed her and do all house chores a woman can do but I don't need to publish it here for people to know.

Report to my mother? I would rather commend him and tease his wife. They are husband and wife and they have an understanding

SirMichael1:
What about guys who haven't masturbated before?

Besides, why does everyone think all guys (virgins) masturbate? I find that statement to be utterly incorrect

It is the same way they say ALL MEN CHEAT

Outfinity:
Baba....I know say you try but for where you buy those fruits for over 20k You buy fruit of the womb join? Abi na Garden of Eden you go pluck them??

Why are you like this? How could you make me laugh so hard? Fruit of the womb

bukatyne:
Does cooking everyday make someone a maid?

CC: ImaIma1

Should chores be exclusively for the wife?

Mandrake007:
it's not a generalization,trust me.

It is. You cannot possibly vouch for every man in the world. Not all men like to deep their thing into different places. Some people like themselves more than that.

godofuck231:
Igbo woman and her money,

Where is she?

Why all these making money online? When we know it is not to help people but to sell their e-books.

There will always be someone who can put someone through for free.

If you are making so much money from the online platforms, why are you still disturbing people to buy e-books?