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Evil man...how has his killings helped the situation?

I wish there was was something better for her to do than hawking food.

Seriously speaking, how many of you ladies here will hawk food or get dirty with charcoal? And how many guys here will sell pop corn or fry pofpof by the roadside after graduating from the University?

In other news, pls click and vote for Edima

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Shook hands with people that kidnapped your child?

So that he can dump her and bring another woman into the house abi...no way!!

What happened to him building a house and putting her own name?

Pls vote my girl...she needs your votes.

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A secret account is necessary especially for a rainy day where you come and save the day.

No 4 very true. They are irritated by people that always ask for money

5 is also true. Ladies from poor background who are trying to mingle are hard to please. They are the ones who come up with stupid yardsticks and standards

Be playing with fire.

You better advise yourself

Looking for go ahead

I am good since i don't do any

Papiikush:
28 cakes?

Not enough Na...why not make it 40? 1 cake for every single year of your life. Seems like the older these hoes get, the dumber they become.

Even when the president of the country celebrated his birthday he no use 5 cakes.

[b]Olosho wasting money on cakes instead of putting the money to use...and we keep wondering why we are not making it big in this country. [/b]

Papikush you mean you use that word? Adonbivit!!!

Someone who probably can't boast of any real achievements in her life will come and be setting ridiculous standards.

rockcitie:
Tonto Dike did more than this. She showered enuf praises on Churchill. But we all witnessed the unending drama.

Even Toyin Aimaku

MhizzAJ:
Bank work na rubbish
That money too small

So so small. When Diamond bank is over 200k

The writer needs to be sued for releasing such a book that "uneducates" readers.

Thanks guy for voting earlier. She has got to top 500. Please help take her to top 100.

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bizzy500:
lol just wanna knw if u slept well

Relatively well

bizzy500:
ooh spare me...only gay guys tho....how was ur night

That question "how was your night?" always puzzles me. If i was asleep, how am i to know how the night was? And if i am married, am i supposed to narrate what went down?

A male friend asked me once and i said "you want details"? That was the last time he asked

24 is ok as long as she is ready mentally,emotionally and mature enough to handle a marriage.

No two marriages are the same and no marriage is perfect. Concerning the child bearing thing, i advise that they settle well into the marriage,bond and enjoy themselves and get to adjust to each other before a child comes. I never subscribed to getting pregnant immediately after.

And in some cases, the woman doesn't neglect the husband after the baby comes(they always warns us about this). The husband may even bond so much with the child. If the husband is involved, it even makes life easier.

Wife should still have time for her husband. One good way to start is training baby to sleep in his or her own bed and not sleeping with you.

And TALK. Please talk about the issues you are facing and what can be done to make your life easy. No one will buy any excuse for cheating.

donstan18:
Why are ladies this heartless? this is wickedness at the highest level.

Let justice roll down like the water upon the river, no one knows the trauma that innocent boy is going through.

Why should a woman emotionally abuse an innocent boy?, why should a woman forcefully defile a man against his wish? Why should a woman threaten a man with a knife while she sexually abuses him?

This is rape, a crime and a taboo. She must be penalized and brought to justice.

NO is NO

Good day fellow NL,

Please judge this case. Last week thursday my sister inlaw visited me and my wife from NYSC camp. I was shocked when I welcomed her because it was no ordinary visit. she came with a full ghana must go. We greeted and I got to know that she escaped from camp due to the tough tasks on camp. My wife never told me her sister was coming to stay. We have lived amicably till yesterday.

My lil cuzin that stays and helps us with chores was mandated by her to cook 2 big pots of water for her to bath. I scolded my cousin and told her why didnt she use the electric kettle so as to save gas which we just replaced with 6k. I now gave her a warning that whatever my inlaw wants that she should ask me 1st. I even got to know that my wife lied to me that her parents knew she left camp. My wife heard our conversation and started antagonizing me that why did I tell my cuz to always ask me b4 she obeys her sister. she was shouting at the top of her voice even my inlaw could hear. This angered me and I shouted back and told her to leave my room. she continued shouting and even slept in the sitting room as I slept alone.

This afternoon while working on my computer for hours I came out of the room only to find out my sister in law has packed her things back to her NYSC camp without telling me but my wife knows....I am slatted to officially do my white wedding next saturday. I just feel down because we quarell too much and my wife talks in a domineering way. I have warned her about it and I do not want to turn a woman beater. Any quarell we have she tells her parents and siblings which make them never free with me and act cold towards me. Damn it! pls advice me

Op now i understand a bit of what you were talking about. But in my case, my mother visited with her two daughters and they stayed for over 2months(story for another day). They were boiling water on the gas separately to bath instead of waking up earlier to use the electric kettle before the light goes. Three of them,three full pots on the gas everyday

By the time the gas that we usually use for close to 2 months finished twice in one month, it was my husband that warned them himself. And he told me to make sure they didn't use the gas for that purpose if they couldn't wake up early to use the electric kettle. They adjusted quickly.

bizzy500:
oh yea blah blah.....my sister do watch it tho...I guess its girls thing

It is not a gender thing. Guys watch it too.

bizzy500:
I've never commented on any bbn thread.....bbn is bullshit hope u re nt watching too

Is it not my choice to watch or not?

Anyway i only remember to watch it on eviction day.

bizzy500:
comment fire...I hate bbn

Then why not just skip the thread?

This OP just discovered Nairaland and can't stoo creating threads whether it makes sense or not

Beke2020:

Abeg reap what you sow and share in the blame.

Who is impregnating her? The landlord or neighbour?

BedLam:
Having fans doesn't translate to making money in Nigeria or you don't know that a lot of people get there music for free ? You know how much they spend on videos ? These videos don't generate money. How many shows has Simi headlined since the beginning of this year ? Let's compare her to Runtown.
Pls talk about what you know.

Please are you saying Simi is not making money?

Are you comparing her to upcoming artists on nairaland?

Is Simi's name recognized in the music industry?

Someone is acquiring properties and investments with proceeds from het music career and you are here saying what i don't understand.

She might not have 30 billion like Davido but she is successful.

BedLam:
They are struggling and with the population we have, coupled with the fact that the whole Africa listen to our music, a lot of them should be more than "surviving".
Even underdogs should be well off. The market has potential.

How many people of Simi type of music are relevant compared to those that didn't make it ?
That's how you measure success.
The industry has a lot of potential and could grow to billions of dollars.
If we put ourselves "in order".

Because you haven't bought Simi's cds or you probably are not drawn to her music doesn't mean she is struggling or does not have fans. She is attending shows and she keeps making music that appeals to her fans. She is making money and has a wide audience and fan base. So what are you on about?

Please don't! Their ego cannot handle it. Besides, you should wait for him to do it. Don't force yourself on him.

I see infatuation, rebound, danger ahead...

This point of her life is not a good time to make an important decision because she is not thinking 100% clear minded. Right now she sees you as her knight in shinny armour.

Best thing will be to allow her grieve alone and get her late hubby out of her system so that she can be in a good mental state to fall in love again.

I gave this same advice to someone about 15yrs ago. He didn't take it and it ended badly.

Why is that people that claim to hate bbnaija can't help but open the thread to comment?

Seizethabae hope he has found you..

I don't see any problem here