₦airaland Forum

emmaodet:
Sure, we are the reason, No doubt BUT a woman can also say No to the advances, am i lying?
If i go to the market and pressure the seller to sell eg car or land etc to me, the seller has the right and power to say No, abi?
Why not stick with the bf instead of being pressured to cheat on him because of maybe finance etc thereby causing breakup and before you know it, body count rising.
Also, when you know you are not ready to marry, why dating? From age 16/17years old, you are already dating.
Is it not the same thing they tell guys? To go hustle, finish school and be working before thinking about women? Since we all know the woman too is not ready to marry at teen, why not focus on schooling and when you graduate, you can date.
In as much as we want to put the blames on guys, know that the rising of a woman's body count is solely the fault of the woman because she could have said No

emmaodet:
Facts bro, facts.
That is why my favourite parable is - ki okunrin to atorin, ki obinrin to atorin, ka wo eni ti o ma lomi leyin ju - literally meaning if a woman wants to compare herself with a man, then let them go for a urine-while walking contest and let's see who has more urine on their feet at the end of the walk.
Nature made everything perfect in such a way that men have where nature fvcks him and favours him while women have where nature fvcks her and favours her.
In relationship, nature favours the woman to get too much attention, gifts, money etc but in return she runs against time and also becomes less and less valuable while for men, nature fvcked us hard to work and make money as hard as it is, so as to still spend it on women but consoles us with increasing value with time and being overlooked with cheating and this is where ladies get it wrong.
They want a win-win system for themselves while men become a workaholic no-compensation human. God forbid

Heineken:
those police ehn. Dem go don call the guy collect share and won't get back to you..

CaptainMarvel:
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normal police station wont help. try force CID at Alagbon

Mrbaz1:
wow that's nice..when I had same issue like that,I wasn't having anybody in such position that was ready to help me then. Only for yeye police to be telling me to pay some useless token..It was then I realised I had better move on.But I still have the details and everything about the issue at hand.

Rapmoney:
I have a former school mate. We met way back in the university. No doubt, she was an intelligent girl then and was always shinning in her department. One particular issue she had and which I also detested was her fondness for sleeping with married men/people's husbands. I really didn't know what she would be looking for since her parents provided most of the things she needed in school. She wasn't from a poor home, neither were her parents super rich but they were very comfortable and could give her what she needed. I really didn't like advising people personally, especially when they are so much engrossed in an activity. You could easily be seen as a killjoy or fun-destroyer. Though, I did couple of times but the attempts were like pouring water in a basket. Today, she would be in Awka with Engineer Julius, tomorrow, it would be in Asaba with Chief Akpofure. No value for people's matrimonial territory! No retreat, no surrender.

Well, she got married in 2010 and it was all rosy. Few years into the marriage and it was something else. No day would pass without her posting criptic lines on Facebook about cheating husbands and how 'God' would see her through. I didn't need a babalawo to tell me what has been going on. Even a dumb primary 3 pupil in a local village school would be able to tell what has been happening. I later confirmed this from another former schoolmate who worked with her in Lagos. Her past has come back to hunt her.

In as much as I sympathize with her, it's pertinent to note that some activities are enjoyable until things start going south. Nemesis doesn't forget. You can't sleep with people's husbands as a spinster and expect yours not to be sugar daddy to some young girls out there. Wetin dey go around, still dey come around. Wetin happen for fowl house, go still happen for goat house.

If you are a young woman, get focused and leave other women's husbands alone. There's a reason why they call it MARRIAGE. It's a sacred matrimony whether it's conducted in a church, mosque, shrine, court, private house or even village square. It's not a visa to success. Person wey bring wood wey ants full, nor need to complain when lizards start to visit am for house. Many young women will tell you that they are being disturbed by married men. The truth is that such girls are the ones who give married men the cushioned platform to do that. I'm very sure he's not going to beat you if you don't give him your contact details.

Finally, as a young man, beware of girls who constantly tell you that they don't do married men even when such information is not relevant to you. It's mostly the other way round; a clear conscience fears no accusation.

Dear Op,I enjoyed ur write-up but ur advise is one-sided. How about u advising these married men to stay faithful to their wives? No side chick was present when u were making ur marriage vows before God and men. Dear Married men, pls focus on ur wife,it’s for better for worse, let go of side chicks today and forever.

Happyguy201:
when you get married or if your already married i pray someone fucksss your husband and give him AIDS so he can infect you and you die . since you want to justify sleeping with married men. useless harlot

Vortex369:
Why do you beggars always omit your names from your beggars account details. Does it mean that you are ashamed of begging? Or that someone here will identify you as an internet beggar?

Zakkyoz:
From your response, I know you are deluded and low in critical thinking ability. For your information, I am a Christian. How has it become a sin to ask a Pastor who has Miracle and Healing School to heal the world of the pandemic that threatens humanity?

JosephXavier:
The love she showed me when she was alive made me to forget whatever she ever said
My dad left and she brought us up single-handedly
She sacrificed everything she had to see that we had the best
I was very brilliant but I dissapointed her due to my poor choice of friends which later landed into trouble several times but she was always there for me even when everybody turned their back on me; brothers, sisters uncles daddy etc
She actually died of cancer last year
RIP mum

MadeBoy:
I'm a guy that likes my privacy reasons of my quality time to think and pray for hours. Because I face a lot of spiritual challenges. And my midnight prayers have been helping me. Most especially when I had a nightmare or anytime I woke up.

I will seal up my windows and doors while my AC is blasting high. And even when I raise up my voice it doesn't come out.

The government just extended the lockdown which is tiring. She came to my house and doesn't want to leave. I have so many debts on my head now and my yearly house rent is expiring soon. This is the period I need to be alone in prayers. The little I have now I am using it to take care of her which I would have uses for myself to prolong the suffering during this lockdown. Branch and carbon are sending me SMS to pay my loans.

My apartment is so cussing, chilling and so comfortable more than her house by far. Maybe reason she doesn't want to go. She will be disturbing me and dragging remot control with me. When I am watching TV she will just change it to nollywood drama.

I do want her to be coming and going. Not just to come and stay like she is doing now. I'm not use to this type of life unlike some of my friends.

Outside of all this, I do not see future with her just normal control things..

I have not been able to leave the house or do other personal private stuff.

I need her to go maybe coming on some weekends or when invited.

BigIyanga:
Saying in Jesus name is not a treatment against covid-19... only reasonable actions can slow spread. With folks like u, Africa is going to be like Ecuador

Emmaomotob:
What difference does it make whether a Jewish criminal with a mental illness that psychologists call Messiah complex in an age where criminals were normally nailed to the cross was finally hanged for his intellectual puerility? The con job called jesus has passed its usefulness and what was formerly tolerated has now become an abomination for anyone who still regards highly his intellectual health.

Munadad:
Chris and his pastorpreneur ills are dumbassses. Rather than cash in on the situation by going to the nearest isolation centre and healing the sick there, he keeps spewing his trash. Corona virus has exposed this pastor as self serving. Despite the fact that they always inundate us with their several discussions with God, they seem to have problems reaching him again. They are all cheats robbing the gullible by staging fake miracles.

Zakkyoz:
You mean Church is no longer a place of healing? Can't you invite all the coronavirus patient across the globe to your church to heal them by laying of hands? Nigeria's name and image will be improve if any of our former miracle-performing pastor can heal/cure the virus.

Kaeboy:
Agba Yahoo. OG wire, king of cash out . What do you expect, no cash out since 2 weeks

Mizwisdom:
Sanwo olu is a Muslim, they hate anything to do with Christianity, if they had their way they would ban all Christians in Nigeria. There will be problems if he doesn't relax it, God knows

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Sultty:
Aunty olosho. God don punish her ponmo smelly puna

mbahdi:
U don't mearit.
I was expecting 14yes imprisonment.as it wud av b in d case of a poor niggga

Staphylococcus:
Bigger bandwidth and faster rate.

This tech will bring a new world of doing things called IOT(Internet of things). The speed will deliver faster, and more efficient ways of doing things.

Think of anything been done at the moment atva faster speed. It will deliver across all industry you can mention. Healthcare, manufacturing, automation, Entertainment, Automotive, Education.

It's about doing all this things at the same time seamlessly.

Do you get or I break down more a little

Staphylococcus:
Are you joking?

GreatResearcher:
Shoot anyone insight. Stay at home una no hear

whytediamond:
Yeah sure... you even look like Lemar's sister. Are you related to him?