₦airaland Forum

Sebastine1994:
My girlfriend has a lot of shame about physical intimacy. I think she enjoys it, but she feels guilty afterward that we’re not married, like she is betraying her very conservative upbringing. I love her and we have talked about getting married. She thinks that will make physical intimacy more enjoyable for her. But I’m not sure. The idea of spending my life with someone who is unhappy after every time we are intimate makes me feel hopeless.

My dear, bringing this to Nairaland will not give u d answers u need , we all know this is site that they tag every girl olosho. Some are even saying she’s playing mind games with u. Pay no attention to them brother.

U definitely know ur girl better, if she’s a true Christian , it may be d reason for her shyness; like she has sinned against God.

I thought one should feel shy after fornicating , or am I wrong?

shogsman:
You're a bastard if you think I'm not concerned with terrorism in this country,those children, women they killed are they terrorists,you call yourself Christians and you are okay with the killing of innocent children just because they are Muslims,Your God will punish you

Easy man! Easy . From the front page u just go about laying curses on people that don’t agree with u. U even said their children will die! Come on man!

Kindly note u are not d only one using nairaland , u can’t just keeping posting pictures of dead children, if u can’t respect people’s opinion Please respect the dead! Those pictures are too painful to watch Control urself pls!

iamyemiakins:
Baba calm down!


Battery wey full go still low and battery wey low go still full, our prayer be say make our charger no spoil.

I like this! Thanks

oluwaseyi0:
What's your definition of suffer?

Hope it doesn't include a lack of food, clothing, shelter?

Because Harry generation won't ever lack any of those

After daily bread is out of the way, satisfaction and acceptance is the next in line human needs, what's the essence of free food when your own kid will be constantly looked down on by your people because of skin color, something you can't change

It's going to be a very long and painful life for both father and kids not to even mention the wife

Well said!
I totally agree with u. We should understand that money is important but it’s not everything.
May Harry find peace and happiness in his new life!

Awwww! Love is so beautiful!
Congratulations ladies. Dark and handsome guys, nice!

To the poster, I am not here to judge u at all but please watch ur ways.

I am just curious, why are u calling those little children , ladies? In ur mind, do u see them as ladies already? Something is obviously brewing up, I advise u to stop it immediately before u land in trouble.

Globad:
Let's leave theory.

Make a prayer request about one of Nigeria's many problems in 2021 and let's monitor it.

Choose any one: banditry, terrorism, bad governance, bad roads, poor supply of electricity insecurity.

Stop all this ranting from thread to thread.

Solve one problem spiritually. Only one.

Calm down ok.
All those problems u mentioned from kidnapping, bad governance, fraud etc are not spiritual problems, so why do u want him to solve it spiritually? We all brought these upon ourselves so we shouldn’t expect God to fix it unless we change our ways.

The solution to all these is in d bible. Jesus says love ur neighbour as urself. If I love my neighbour I won’t ever think of kidnapping him or taking his/ her life. If our government love us they will not embezzle what is meant for d general public, rather they will serve with love. I can go on and on, but I will stop here.

People, 2020 is coming to an end. Let’s do right for humanity sake!

BluntNigerian:
Mr Time-waster..
I am not going to register..
I already have a NIN,, so Sharrrapp.!!
Let those people that do not have a NIN go and register first..
..
Meanwhile, stop showcasing lame wokeness here..
You're not the only person that saw this thread.
So, why are you registering your frustrated attention here?

Mr, why are u so harsh on people that tried to help u? Take it easy Ok .

Sincerely, I have lost interest in humanity. These days I just stay on my own. The height of wickedness in this world especially this Nigeria is way too alarming. Something happened in my church today , I almost cried. We go to church/ mosque yet so full of evil.

If u are a wicked person, pls stop ur wicked and evil ways as this year comes to an end. Try to live right and do right. The world is too messed up! Sigh!

I’m addressing this to d REAL men on this forum, not the ones that open their mouth anyhow and call every girl; olosho! U will have sisters, daughters and even mothers, and u still open ur mouth to call every girl olosho. The joke is definitely on u!

Back to d topic. U can’t treat ur woman right; and she will buy u just plain boxers and singlets. If u are dating girls like that, pls check urself well. First, u need to change urself and change d kind of ladies u roll with . Level up lo’n je be!

After all ,one good turn deserves another.

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I agree with u that d op should be patient, it will clear off on its own.

As regards , d use of lemon on d face, it’s a big No. lemon is too harsh for d face hence it kills d natural oil on ur face thereby leading to early aging. Incase u use lemon, pls discontinue usage.

Let’s talk to ourselves pls. What is happening to this generation!!! The way some of us just open our mouth to talk anyhow especially to elderly people is really sick and saddening!

I watched this programme. This man just prayed for everyone in all ages. He even prayed for this country. All because someone just lifted a portion of what he said about marriageable singles, you all started saying all sort.

Adeboye is a great man already and nothing can be done about it if u like abuse his generation, it changes nothing.

This is just a simple prayer and he never forced anyone to go get married. It’s ur right to comment cos this is a public forum but it’s not compulsory u comment.

Life no be by I sabi talk anyhow ooo, life na jeje my people. Happy Sunday !

My wish: that nobody will ever die in this world but that will never happen coz we are born to die someday.

I feel ur pain sister , it’s never easy to lose a loved one. May God continue to keep and comfort u.

Most of them don’t marry these older women cos of love, it’s simply to escape poverty.

We are just too money conscious in Nigeria. Everything is money, money!

We know a king when we see one. A king doesn’t go about screaming’ I am a king’

Bro Davido, be calming down small small!

barragan:
And not a SINGLE picture of a WHOLE 15 dead people. Haba! When every single one of them carries a camera phone with flash.

Let’s try to agree with u guys that there was no shooting and nobody was killed, assuming u are in that crowd and soldier started shooting, so u will still have d effrontery to bring out ur phone and be taking pictures or recording? If u can genuinely do that, many of us can’t, we run for our dear life first.

The people Sanwolu went to visit at d hospital that very night were they also pretending to be injured?
I’m not gonna lay curses on anyone but let’s have some compassion ok!

It is so clear this government does not care about anyone. Dear youth, let’s go about our normal business, pls don’t waste ur life out there fighting for a new Nigeria. I don’t see any new Nigeria for now, maybe till 2023 when we elect a new govt.

Don’t waste ur life cos this govt. will so deny ur existence. If u die or get injured, this government will say it is fake or photoshopped. Let’s forge ahead and live to fight another day. To me, I say let’s stop d protest!

Incognito403:
Weren't they warned?!

Stop crying foul when you get what you asked for. Afterall, if you succeeded you would have called the government names and made jest of them.

Weren’t they warned about what exactly? The curfew or d protest in general?
About d curfew, it was meant to start at 9pm, to allow people held up on d road to get home, the shooting started way before 9pm.
If u are saying they Should end d protest, they should end if for what exactly? People are damn frustrated in this country especially d youths, people re venting their frustration ... an hungry man is an angry man.

It is so sad these people died for d betterment of Nigeria, but to me, they are my real hero! They are not afraid to die at all, after all we all live to die. None of us will be alive forever.

Just say ur Rip to them and let’s leave over analyzing for now.

In life, we should be careful not to make hasty decisions. I’m very sure d lady must have regretted her actions in one way or d other. Walking out on a live broadcast is totally unethical and very rude of her, please let’s say d truth and shun tribalism. She did wrong, yes!

Dear men, if you cannot stay faithful to one woman, maybe u shouldn’t consider getting married at all. The rate of infidelity is getting too much, haba!
Almost every married man now has a girlfriend somewhere. O wrong nau.

Yes, I say a big no to police brutality! Human lives matter but for those of us screaming ‘ EndSars’ pls suggest an alternative ways to combat crimes and robbery.

Initially, when this protest started it was a very good cause but if u go out on the street and see d way people are going about it now, u will wanna ask questions.

Are we really protesting for a good cause or some people want a total end to SARS for their selfish reasons. Please it is time to ask questions? Don’t just follow d crowd , let’s all reason together .

I will never suppprt police brutality , never! I just have one question to ask. Why is ‘EndSars’ protest gaining so much momentum each passing day? When Bokoharam abducted young little girls most of us didn’t even care, Fulani herdsmen are still terrorizing farmers daily hence their untimely death. We have so many bad roads that have killed and still killing people in their thousands. Recently , fuel price was increased we all went about our daily activities, not to mention d way food stuffs have increased. Infact, so many things to protest for in this country but we all look away.

Are we finally waking up hence the ‘ endSars’ protest or some people are protesting for their selfish interest ? (we shouldn’t ignore d fact that we have so many bad eggs)

I truly hope this same energy we have right now to end sars, we will use that same energy to protest against bad governance and vote in d right candidate come next election.

Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

My brother, u will have to do everything within ur power to forget this lady cos this is so draining, gosh! Ve been there and sincerely I know how u feel right now.
Do u work? Pls focus more on it. In ur free time just engage urself and stop thinking about d good times u once had. Listen to good music but not love songs pls. ..
U can go to Quora and find more help if that’s ok with u.

Whatever u are doing , don’t be stock with her, just keep moving.
May u find help soon. Blessings!

I assume there are no kids on this forum, if this comes to u as too raw..... apologies.

Please what’s the big deal in washing ur woman’s pants? If u can use ur mouth, as in ur whole mouth which u will use to sing praises to God ; for d religious ones and still suck her down there.( give her a head)What’s now d big deal in washing pant where u will even use soap and water. Enough of d pretense pls! No big deal!!!

For those saying never, don’t say never yet till u get to that stage!

I come in peace!

My dear Nengi, there was no boyfriend to start with. My Nigerian brother will not give u money to go do a butty implant unless this ur boyfriend is one big god somewhere sha.
I trust u know what u are doing.

Ariza:
There are no men who will feel loved when you display them or there are different types of men (some of whom will feel loved). Please pick a side, you are confusing me.

BTW I never said they "ONLY" feel loved that way. And do you know what love language is and what your partner's own is? Oh you already asked who will date those Men lol. It's always about you Nigerian Ladies isn't it?


Yes the monitoring spirit that can snatch them

No, I won’t allow u use that ‘ Nigerian girls’ bla bla for me cos u can’t claim u have travelled d world and u know how other girls in all races of the world behave. So pls squash that.

I never confused u, u were just in a hurry to reply me. Personally, I don’t know of any REAL man that will feel one of d ways he can feel loved is when I update him on WhatsApp; meaning I can’t date such! and d other lady u quoted said her man doesn’t have time for such thing as well !

Well, not because they can snatch them , we just like to keep our business private! You can ask Beyoncé for more! Good evening to u!

Ariza:
This isn't about you but HIM. If showing him off makes him feel loved I will even if I'm a private person. You may not need WhatsApp update to validate/ confirm but like I typed it about him. So does he feel the same way?. Anyone who does what the lady did feels insecure, I believe for once we should stop this privacy thing and see from the other person's perspective.


Lol... I doubt that too.

For starters, who will date this type of Man U are describing Biko? So the only way ‘ this man’ will feel loved is when I update him on WhatsApp? I’m sure no real man will take this petty stuff to heart . What do I know, there are different types of men anyway.

Some of us do the privacy stuff because we are keeping them away from ‘ monitoring spirits’ not because we don’t love them.

The way some of you guys ridicule these men of God baffles me, if they are not ur pastor, are they not old enough to be ur father / grandfathers? Shame on u d way u abuse these pastors You will surely reap whatever u sow in this life!

When this man was struggling in one room in mushin, were u there? I bet some of u are still in ur mother’s womb. Many of u I repeat many of u don’t even know where ur next meal is coming from, but u won’t fix ur life rather u abuse this man that can stand before any king and president in the world.

Y’all should calm down and humble urself. Stop forming ‘ woke, woke’ when u have nothing tangible going on in ur life!

To pastor Adeboye, more wisdom to him in Jesus name.

olayiwola4u:
I've once had the urge to move near the dead on the street and pray for her to wake up, but my faith was not enough to move in action

May our Lord Jesus Christ, the savior of the world increase ur faith and mine more and more.
Happy Sunday

XXLMANDIGO:
Great God...

How wonderful you are...

I praise you and the works of your hand....

Yes dear, He is a great God, always!!!!

God is God, He does as He pleases and no mortal can question him. This is one of the wonders of the world . He made them conjoined( can’t question him why He did that) at the same time He made them lived till the age of 68. How they lived that long, only you God can say.

To me, I see it as a punishment to their existence but u are just a great God that works in mysterious ways. I stand in awe of you always.

RIp to the conjoined twins. May God bless and keep d families u left behind.

Jkyoung:
I type this with tears in my eyes. I decided to share say this here because if I need somebody to hear my voice, as I approach my end.
If I write this on Facebook, family and friends will see it and panic will set in, I don't want that. Devoid of our differences, Nairaland is also family to me.
The choices I made in life are mine, but the forces at work are overwhelming. I was weak to their manipulations.
All I ever wanted was to be an Engineer, to make mama proud and take care of my siblings.
Believe me I have Love in my heart. I wanted to just be a better version of myself but nothing seems to work.
When it seems like I am making a little progress, my desires are there to remind me that I am only but a prisoner.
It appears to me that I was created a failure. I failed my family once again, myself, Society and God almighty.
Now I am not afraid of death, I am only sad as I picture the face of Mama, Papa, Brothers and sisters crying while I lay motionless oblivious of everything( I know I will surely hear their wailing from the other side)
I don't want to be judged, but that isn't really my choice to make.
The next 3 weeks will be very crucial to my existence, if I survive it, then I will know that I will grow old and reach 95( I have always told anyone that cares to listen that I will live to 95).
I know they are not reading this now, and nobody that knows me personally is; I just want to tell mom that I love her. To dad; All I wanted was to make him proud. To my brothers and lovely sisters: I love you guys, take care of mom and dad and succeed where I have failed.
To my Nairaland family, God bless you all. I will miss the Afonja's, Ipobs, Nyamiris, Brown roofs, red mud, Arewa's(do they even have any special insulting name like the rest of us?)Lala and his snakes, the feminists( feminists are wonderful people, thank God they don't breed well). Lol

I sincerely pray I survive this. Precious Blood of Jesus Christ, Save Us and the whole world.

Great one, good morning to you. Whatsoever u are passing through trust me, It will pass away. Nothing last forever, this too will pass’ . Pls do not take ur life . Picture what ur mother will go tru when u die, no parent want to bury her child, Never!
I assume u are a Christian, pls listen to this hymn” what a friend we have in Jesus” it really helped me a lot when I was broken. Pls draw closer to God and tell ur worries to him, I pray Holy Spirit comfort u.
We are ur family here , say d area u need help , pls don’t be shy about it. We are definitely ready to help u.
We still want to see more of ur funny posts, pls don’t take ur life. We love u.

onadana:
They will never remain the same.The pains is forever.You can only live with it.It is a horrifying experience. In 2weeks my late wife will be one year gone and the pains still lingers on as the day I received that phone call that changed my life forever.

So sorry for ur loss sir. May u not know sorrow ever again. God will keep u and ur household.