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True. She making the first move won’t be a bad idea. The guy might need help, he might be suffering from “inability to ask a babe out syndrome” lols

All these things are good no doubt but e go shock you say woman wey go straff fit straff a guy with no car at the expense of all these things

Funny how you people think you need to teach an adult how and when to cut someone off. Bros dey know what to do(cut dem off) if they aint doing it they simply have a hidden agenda and we all know what that is

She never wise. Just dey straff am till she go wise

�����lolsss I said what I said. Why is the guy pained and stopped keeping in touch since he isn’t thinking with his prick like me lolss����Ppl like you no kuku dey like hear truth no vez����lolssss

Bros na the guy Fup, he suppose don straff this gal.. Its clear she isn’t fit for a gf and he would have seen it, instead he kept gisting like mumu.
Some boys no jus dey street smart. I trust myself when I dey street lols no wonder I don lose count��
PS: He will still straff this gal if he wishes to, no need to vex make he jus dey straff the idiot! Since she no get sense ���

Sorry Are u a Virgin? And How Old are you?

Bros sorry to say you’re stupid.
So you knew all this things and still impregnated her then after she gave birth to an innocent son who isn’t responsible for your predicament you’re now just thinking you will send her out. Once again you’re stupid.

Facts. The belle fit only prevent her from leaving totally but will not stop her from fucking her ex���nawa for some ladies sha

Bro Let him be living in denial. Instead make him agree say him fup. If he played the game with his head and not his heart, he would have forseen the tinted cunt babe is playing pranks but NO, baba carry heart dey play game����now he’s fighting tooth and nail to debunk the fact, which is, the babe played him and won.. he got beaten hands down�����

Fact! Especially if it’s a reconcilable difference in their context.
Except the new guy is smart enough to sharply give her belle before she and her ex settle fight.���otherwise na OYO o

Children of nowadays get mumu confidence. Person wey the papa suppose slap him face. Nonsense!

God bless you and well said.
I’ve never seen anybody with half education and dumb as this Op before.
The dude is extremely dumb.

Yea that’s why I said I see no bigdeal in a working class lady paying her own tfare. It’s different from don’t give working class lady tfare.

Ladies that wants to make their own money and not depend on a guy do not say it, THEY SHOW IT.

You’re welcome.

Get busy. You’ll have little or no time for sex!
If your GF is always around then change the narrative..

Well it depends in my opinion.
I will give and I always give.
However if the lady is a working class i see no bigdeal in her paying her own tfare.
If she’s a student she has to be given tfare that’s a must.
If the girl visits often and also benefits from the guy in other ways, she shouldn’t expect tfare everytime.
You know why I stated all these, most women are found of only coming out to say the bad about a guy, they never say anything the periods the guy is good to them and doing things their way!

I disagree. Not all, partly depending on circumstances leading to the breakup.
Women who means business of settling stay clear of such.
They know what’s at stake except the one dem swear for from village!
At least not at the early stage of their relationship.

Excellent write up BUT please she cannot talk to her ex at all at least not for now! Limit the talk is not even an option! Girls that really want to move on cuts the line of communication till the new relationship gets bearing and the reason for this is so that emotions doesn’t set in again!

Believe this kind of girl at your own risk. They make broad day light lies look like its nothing. Just be sleeping with her jare since she no get sense. She’s not leaving her ex for three reasons:
1. Sex still dey hungry her
2. Financial GAIN!
3. Repeat 1 and 2 as many times as possible.

If na marriage you want, she’s clearly unfit! Still early days in your relationship but the fact that they speak regularly is red flag! Girls that are ready to move on wouldn’t take such calls again, na only message with no response the guy go dey send.

Before I advise: here are the harsh realities about Nigerian ladies, based on my two decades of experience. this realities will make my advise perhaps meaningful.

1. They marry who is ready and not who they love. So never think love always wins
2. When u show dem u care too much i.e the act of submitting ur fone; they see it as weakness and take advantage with misbehaviors
3. If she declines or postpones meeting her ppl then she isn’t willing to settle with you
4. They do not have sense by default, The sensible ones amongst them have experienced inhumane, catastrophic or failed relationships that has damaged their self esteem.
5. If a Nigerian lady says she’s not in a relationship she’s truly not, even if saying so doesn’t stop her from cheating.
6. Never trust a Nigerian lady completely; always anticipate the worst especially if number 4 hasn’t happened to them. do not lose guard
7. Whether we like it or not. Standard and or success is one of the major reason they are attracted and or agreed to date you
8. If you’re dating ladies less than or maximum 27years old, do not be predictable at all times as this bores them.
9. If they are financially stable, They do not mind funding you if you suit their mindset and orientation.
10. They will always have toasters and temptations; ability to manage this things is a function of their personality, role models, personal success goals, upbringing, quality and types of friends they mingle with.

MY ADVISE
Its extremely hard but Break up with that girl now, do not show her anything!nor evidence. Tell her the only condition u will remain is for sex i.e friends with benefits; that’s if u can cope turning someone u once loved into that.
If u ever gona tell her reason for the break up let it be years later wen ur paths cross again.

REASON FOR MY ADVICE
It’s not far fetched, several people have told u here: To keep the only dignity u have left!

Failure to heed to this advice will lead to near future regret. its not a curse bro coz i wish u well but this is THE FACT

I wonder what kind of advice is this. We are talking about a major issue here and then you’re talking about buying gift and treating the wife right. This is ridiculous to say the least

Insatiable Bastard she is.

And you think the solution is embarrassing yourself publicly like a jobless and low self esteem person?

You couldn’t have said it better. Women that do this are either jobless or have extremely low self esteem

Most Naija gals are roaming mad.. I gbadun as you clear the idiot. If my own case, what I do is book any girl wey bill me senselessly like this on an overnight prick appointment immediately. After which I will give the token I have not necessarily all she asked. You no show, you no collect shingabi from me coz after that time we no dey relate again..

Facts.. Ladies less active have more sense..
A lady of 26 and above should have sense and be realistic too although a few of them defy this logic

Well said. Arguably the best comment here..

Did u guys start having sex only after marriage? Was she like this before you got married? Is she the over religious type? Is her job a 7days morning to night job? Have u ever noticed she has low sexual urge before now? Has she been emotionally traumatized or abused before?
If answers to all these questions are NO, then your wife is sleeping with another man. Simple as ABC

If you have played football, you will know how difficult it is to score just one goal.— Arsene Wenger

Goal is the hardest thing todo on a football pitch.
Take away goals from a football match, then its totally useless. Or lemme ask u? Do u enjoy football matches without goals? Lols

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