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iamyemiakins:
Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?



How was the experience?

Most Ladies this days are like that, especially all this gals in their early twenties. They don’t even want to go through the process. They just want to get married lols. They dislike the honest guys who aren’t thinking of marriage just yet but will rather chill with the desperate guys who will promise them marriage the next day they meet. What then happens? He bleeps them and leave and then the cycle of guys continues for a while till they finally understand that promises are not what makes a man walk a lady down the aisle, but rather compatibility and ability to stand the test of time together.

Yungmil:
Guys who is the world record holder of toasting, this does not include meeting and bargaining with a prostitute to pay for sex, No.

I mean meeting and talking to someone for the first time and going down with her the same day.

Mine was back in the days when we were still on the street of 042, it was almost a daily routine, if you give me the opportunity to speak with you codedly as a lady that you are, then you are gonnneerrr. I was a world toaster

Share your experience...

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Same day NO, first date YES, Next day YES

iyke484real:
1. There is no final decision in their dictionary, it’s always changeable.

2. They don’t like when their Handbags are empty .
3. If they ask sorry , it means one day you going to feel for it.
4. They love babies but that doesn’t mean they’re ready for Marriage/Sex.
5. They can keep their darkest secrets of theirs with them , believe me.
6. They hate Ladies functions.
7. They always believe guys know every little technical thing .
8. They love saving , but ends up buying unwanted things .
9. They love to see guys staring at their assets.


U can add your own if any...

If you have to chase them they are definitely
not into you but rather into someone(s) else..

The are poor at calling, if they call you consistently they love you or expectant of something from you. Know the difference!

Not every gal is to be toasted! Once u toast some of them u don spoil runs, they reinforce their guard. These breed na from friendship una go straff and start relatnshp from dere. Again do not toast these breed!

They all want tall dark guys or guys they can show off until reality gives them uppercut! Lols

They do not marry who they Love in most cases but rather who’s ready!

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is a not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

You write so well but stop wasting our time here biko. Your mission is to Bleep the new guy pls go ahead. Girl wey get sense. She don see say her bf go soon comot skol she wan replace am����

Casandra25:
I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?

One thing you need to understand in life is that you can’t always eat your cake and have it. you probably had a guy who pounds you alot more than him before you met him and you’re struggling to adjust. You can’t have everything you want in one guy!
I also disagree with you that you’ve had sex with someone for 2years without having orgasm.
You Ladies twist things alot to suit your audience.
some of you ladies expects to have sex with a guy with the same energy always and that’s not realistic.
It’s okay to breakup with him but remember you’ll not always eat your cake and have it.
If you meet another guy who wouldn’t pound you everytime the way you envisaged, you gona walk away too right? Most of you ladies who complain about orgasm are not busy mehn

jeff1607:
A man talks , he talks too much

He doesn't talk , now he isn't intelligent

na wa o

you can't have everything you need in a partner, focus on his strong and attractive attributes.

if it isn't enough let him go

Baba I tire. Most of these ladies are confused twats!

Beacinhomarvie:
How Long Should A Guy Keep Communicating With A Lady He Plans On Dating?

Someone needs ur advice

https://www.marvelzglobe.info/2020/06/how-long-should-guy-keep-communicating.html?m=1

You mean how long he should ask her out?

ModestGal:
Lol, you are funny sis. Why you send account number to him?

Mscheww u dey answer the mumu gal. The guy go kuku stl Bleep her e sure die!

linearity:
Better get up go do STD test fast fast, life no get duplicate and no dolling.

Yes he has to and urgently coz most of these yeye gals don’t care whether a guy uses condom or not. They just open leg.. speaking from experience!

Alberta123:
Most Nigerian lady are incapable of love.

They'll open there legs for anyone that can solve part of there financial responsibility.

Na this small thing no make u walk

You said it all. At least 80% of ladies are what u described! Anyone who disagrees is a learner and not worthy to argue with

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

Red flags all over the place. She earns more than you and you pay her bills ok fine, So what does she contribute to ur life with her higher pay? Again, she doesn’t wear engagement ring that is barely a week old? That babe is clearly not seeing u as her husband. She’s with u Becos her spec never toast her or dem never show face. No concrete evidence to nail her yet but pls reduce paying her bills if it’s affecting ur finance and do not force her to wear the ring. Evrytin go clear soon, time will answer the mystery surrounding her action

uthlaw:
2 is too small,at least 6 and Bleep them steady!

See correct guy chop knuckle jare �

Dreyton36:
Let's be honest with ourselves here brother
When it comes to a woman you so much love it's very hard to play hard on them , that's the fact
Especially when it's a woman you got future plans with

And honestly I agree with you but it is what it is. You have to train yourself to that level, it takes time but very possible. Most importantly, I tell guys women are naturally unreliable, hence do not at any time have one babe. At least TWO! Especially if ure dating all this gals that are still in skol. E get why

Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this

Person wey u suppose just play along with and be fucking while u find another babe. If the Bleep na twice a week before make am 5times a week. Once u find another babe dump the idiot! That’s how to deal with gals like this coz they never change.

poletire:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/11604966_9j_png5582e5a5b9dc55ad5a1722b095a359ca

Scammer! Go find another job

GAZZUZZ:
nope she cannot do it.

Ok bros i hear you since na u and her dey follow waka all the places lols

Agbagbaregoo:
Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew

Next time you should call her own bank to ensure the money is sitting in her account or make her call her bank stylishly in your presence in a calm manner so she can get a sense of you genuinely trying to figure things out.

Agbagbaregoo:
Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew

Next time you should call her own bank to ensure the money is sitting in her account or make her call her bank stylishly in your presence in a calm manner so she can get a a

GAZZUZZ:
Regina will not . Ask the senator

Lolssssssssssss says who she’s even alot more prone to cheating. An actress that spends days in location for that matter. Plus she still young and fresh blood go dey hungry her.

Ayomideayo:
May our visitor not die in our house

Underrated prayer!

GAZZUZZ:
Guy go and hustle. When you have money you will not be reasoning like this .

Its good to make money no doubt, but money will never stop a babe from fucking another guy behind your back. Enough said.

sammyj490:
Good evening, please i really need your advice. Kindly over look my English composition, I'm not a professional.
So i met this girl last year, i was awaiting a new call up letter from NYSC because i just revalidated from batch 1 to batch 2. I met her in one of the NYSC group chats, we became intimate friends, and started developing feelings for her, at first i thought it was lust but i didn't care i just wanted to have my way. As time passed i noticed what i was feeling for her was more than sexual desire, she's really different from other Ladies I'm met in my life, like i felt the chemistry with her.
When i asked her asked her out she told me she already had a child but that didn't stop the feelings i have for her, it took me 3 months to be able to convince her i really love her, my waiting and perseverance really paid off. When we started dating i saw a new side of her I've never seen in a lady before, she's became my whole heart, she kept motivating me, she also helped me financially alot like she knows my account number off hand and I've never seeing hers once.
I was later posted to North and she was posted to southwest, i wanted to relocate but she told me not to because if we keep seeing each other everytime we'll get bored of each other easily, we only had sex once before i travelled to the North for my NYSC program.
Everything was fine even tho we've had different ups and downs every broke up about 3 times but we always find our way around our misunderstanding even tho as a mature man i do most of the apologises because i just don't want her to leave and she was the one doing most of the break ups, i understand our differences might be because I'm not around, but i love her soo much and she knows it.
Now our first issue is about the fact that she makes me tell her everything worrying me which i do but she finds it hard to open up to me even though we've been dating for almost a year now.
Secondly, she once told me about this guy she has a crush on, she told me she always tell her self if it wasn't deji it would have been the other guy.
My gf is a beautiful lady and I'm not exaggerating trust me she is that makes her get more attention from guys, instead of just letting them go she keeps them in the friend zone which I'm not cool wit but i have to keep quite so as not to look like the over jealous type or over protective.
Now I'll b through my program this month ending and my guts keep telling me she's cheating due to some of her attitudes, sometimes she's this lovely, romantic type and sometimes times she acts like a pain in the ass, she's not just my gf she's my best friend. But i know there is more going on then i know, she ones told me never to upload her pics on my WhatsApp status because she doesn't want people to count her relationship for her or know about her relationship life, she post my pics once in a while on her own status especially on my bday where she wrote alot of heart Melting words but who knws i might be the only viewer, if i call her she doesn't pick up, she'll either hang up and call me back later or not even call at all.
I love her soo much but i dnt knw what to do, pls mature minds in the house advice me, I not d emotional attachment type but I'm really in love with her, some of my friends who knws what's going on advice me to end it with her but i can't.. I'm just soo in love with her, Please advice me

She’s cheating but doesn’t have the guts to tell you. Just Look for another girl to get serious with but keep playing along with madam cheater for Bleep only till you’re tired of fucking her..
You will thank me later.

EricBloodAxe:
Your girlfriend screams at your mum and you don't shut her up immediately with a hot slap and apologize to your mum? What is wrong with some guys? Are you sure you're normal? Something must be seriously wrong with you.

The dude is clearly not normal. The thing pain me so tey I feel like seeing the gal now now and slapping her on his behalf

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

I’m not the type that take sides when issues happens between a girlie and my mom. But if its obvious my mom is at fault I let her know and vice versa. But in this case, this girl is raving mad! What audacity! Like seriously! If you marry that girl bros sorry you’re a bastard. Not only that, going by your personality you described, you deserve a better girl. She keeps behaving in ds manner coz she always got away with it.
This girl needs to be taught a lifelong lesson! And the only way is to break up with this idiot! Let her go and marry d ppl toasting her. Marry her at your own peril!

NiceMen:
Stop the blackmail.

Girls who really like their man do not want them to spend.

After I left the leech I met here and just before she came with her shocker, I had moved to another girl.

The new girl told me she is not my responsibility and has tried to keep things that way. Recently I discovered through her friend that her mother's legs are bad and this she hid from me for long.

I had to quickly release money so that they can save whatever is left on the leg.

Girls who don't love u are the ones that will bill you heaven on earth and watch u spend anyhow without caution.

Facts. I remember one idiot once called me broke for driving corolla���I quickly told the idiot say make she show me her papa car����awon werey

MJBOLT:

your girlfriend is the type that will say "your money is our money but my money is my money",very wicked set of human beings

Nothing but wickedness. She will make a terrible wife

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

Kudos bro. The importance of your decision cannot be overemphasized! To grow faster and achieve goals faster some people needs to be allowed to go especially a financially draining gf. Was a decision I once took and till date I never regretted coz I was able to do alot of things faster. However, when you’re ready to date again, please make sure you DONT position yourself to a babe such that you don’t have to always sort ALL her bills. Every weekend outing is also outrageous. Any serious babe will comply as long as you dey try small small plus the babe too cannot be useless, it’s important they know it, if they don’t you need to tell them. Peace

powerfulguy:
Cute Photo Of Cristiano Ronaldo With His Children

https://mobile.twitter.com/Cristiano/status/1258432451657031680

His dad’s pics at the corner of the house

MizJaY:
Sorry for the long message but this lockdown period might favour reading long msgs.

I'm the quiet type so I have never opened mouth to insult my husband during any misunderstanding. Just arguments and my voice may go up a bit trying to explain or clear myself but he will start saying im raising my voice and talking back at him and start saying all sorts of things.

Honestly sometimes I wished I could unleash the anger deep down and screammm but I always have self control. If u sit with him, he will give u a million reasons why I'm not a good wife and if u don't know me well, u will fall for it because he tells it so well. I will not say everything he says is false, but 80% is. Only those that really know me, will know he is d one that has problem. He's too difficult at times.

In an office, there's usually that one person that quarrels with everyone am I right? But I end up being d only person that dat person doesn't quarrel with cos I try as much as possible to avoid quarrels that's just d kind of person I am. Calm and quiet.

When I met my husband NYSC days, he was very close to God, organizing programs in church and handling them. That was the main reason I got close to him cos I wasnt so spiritual and needed someone to help me grow spiritually through life. He told me he was called to be a pastor and that excited me but I'm not seeing that now lol. He's spiritual life is almost zero. And back then, he had nothing, we would spend all my money even to reach his sick mother in the village I would buy all the foodstuff to send to her.

The way he talked he sounded promising that things will get better with him, but today, I still suffer, I have no savings, all my salary is on the house. He works too and earns but he's salary covers rent and the children's school fees finished. I do the rest but he doesn't appreciate the fact that I sacrifice everything I earn to feeding the house. We are family of 6. Everything provision, food, children school snack, fuel for car and gen, gas filing etc etc it's me. And that's how my whole salary will just go fiam.

if I ws getting a little appreciation I for no mind but rather I get insults o. It's my fault that
Money is finished, it's my fault that we have no savings, I don't know how to manage money, I'm hoarding my money etc etc those are d words that come out of his mouth o.

I used to be a beautiful woman but no more, I wear one shoe everyday to work, can't buy myself clothes shoes nothing I had to cut my hair to relieve myself from hair money lol. I'm stressed out thinking of where money will come for feeding when my salary gets finished before month end at times I have to beg my sister or my dad a pensioner or hussle one way or d other. I now developed high bp and today I'm living with hypertension taking drugs everyday. It was my parents that gave my husband d job he's doing today. He is not in talking terms with he's dad n siblings. Before he's mother died, things were not too good between them. My husband likes to always form man of d house and want me to apologise whenever there's a misunderstanding saying that I am d one wrong, I'm always wondering how am always the one wrong and he's not � every time.

Sometimes self I don't know what I did that mks him angry he will just start carrying face. Today makes it a week we are not talking cos he has been carrying face since 7days now, and went to post something on wassap yesterday that a woman that cannot apologise to her husband cannot stay in marriage.

My brothers and sisters if I know of anything I did that I have to apologise for yet I refused to apologise that is making him carry face, may God strike me. If u know I did anything wrong why not come to me and tell me u don't like what I did and tell me what i did rather than carry face up n down. He always does that. At times I do ask him and as usual am always d one at fault. Maybe it's cos I'm a quiet person he's taking me for mumu.

The national anthem now is that because he does not have money that's why I don't respect him the way I'm supposed to. I'm always careful with my word when gisting with him cos make I make mistake say Donald duke is d current governor of rivers state haaa problem don enter and it may spoil d sweet gisting we were having. He go almost insult me and become uninterested in gisting with me again cos i don talk mumu talk.

So how can I handle such man cos if no be say I be quiet person, I for don receive serious beating black and blue from this man cos he has done it earlier on in our marriage not serious beating sha but I had some bruises. If not that my parents are still alive and warned him. Tho he still attempts once in a blue moon I go jus arrange myself. But I'm kind of tired. I have no money cos trust me, if I had, Maybe i for don dey plan my move sef I no dey enjoy marriage life at all

Madam what is the age difference between u two? Do u genuinely feel the marriage was founded on your eagerness to get married like you being the one to make first moves or u prolly financed the majority of the wedding ceremony bills? Have u always been financially stable than ur hubby from when u met till now?
I can give appropriate feedback if u respond to these 3 questions I asked

Jullima:
Well let me say most, because some women are enjoying their marriage. Don’t ever NOT have savings, there is no protection for you o. As you can see your 100% contribution is not even appreciated. Always, always have savings. Always save a portion of your salary, if anything happens, Igando will award you N500 stipends. Starting from now, set aside a portion of your salary and start saving, so you can always have an option to leave when it gets unbearable or you have something to fall back on if he puts you out.

How can she save with 4kids. At their financial level they shouldn’t have more than 2kids but no they won’t understand. The reason for high level of poverty in Nigeria

gaby:
Real girls hate and detest olodos like you who went to school to waste their parents money.

My two year old won't write this razzly and incomprehensible.

I fear to see what your handwriting will look like if your typed English can be this horrible.

#4m indeed.

Instead of you to have used your time in school to study and better yourself, you were busy doing nonsenses you can't even explain in writing.

I dey good mood this night, I for tell you one bad word.

Instead of me to born pikin wey mumu and useless like you, make I jejely born Buhari

Abeg carry this your indigenous English go front jare

I thought I was the only one. He can’t even write to be understood, why will the babe not think he’s a maga

srclark:
no matter how you put it ,there is no way in this our country you wont have one person or the other coming to stay over for more than a week .The earlier they learn to accommodate people the better .God forbid any thing comes up and support is needed is it then you will start allowing people to come stay .Better open the door to your home to family members and friends (but limit it).Dont wait till you need them

Your opinion and its okay that you have exclusive right to it. People do not have to constitute nuisance in another person’s house before they show support if needed. If the people around you need to stay with you before they survive then I’m afraid u belong to the wrong circle. My last response coz this argument aint worth it. You will learn sooner or later.