₦airaland Forum

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

contactmorak:
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Failure44:
I'll understand the reason why he did it?
How do you understand your father beating your mother countless times in front of you?
Or trying to kill you and your brothers?
Or breaking house properties
Or threatening not to pay my school fees?
Or embarrassing the family name?

See, I'll work hard to better myself and become a great father for my kids( that's if I get married)
But i swear on my life, that man will see hell from my hand.

If you think mikel did his father badly, that man hasn't seen anything.
A shallow grave is where he'll land

helinues:
Interesting

Udom should be the best VP candidate for Pdp

My opinion though

Kestolove:
if the
idiot girl had respect other people relign this rubbish wont be happening, christains always call the shot nd will b forming victim

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1418305/black-man-will-go-heaven-prophet-agya-dan-video/

stephanie11:
https://politicsnigeria.com/the-economist-and-its-unrelenting-doom-gloom-about-nigeria-by-fredrick-nwabufo/

Omooba77:
What are you thanking God for as a Nigerian?

AquilasDei:
How is no7 a failure pls?

djranking00:
Lawyer
Nurses
Teachers
Flight attendance
Actress
Footballers/athletes
Pastor
Bankers

tensazangetsu20:
Bros trust me once I leave this country I wilk never come back and I will lay a curse on my generations. Anyone who decides to come back to Africa will die immediately he lands in African country. I shall lay the curse naked. Walai and I also tell my children the same thing. Anyday they return to where I have struggled to escape from they will die.

There's really no job in Nigeria I can come for. Maybe before I became a programmer you can say so. But all the money I make from programming it's white men. Infact my present skillset and how good I am now was my boss that took me under his mentorship and taught me so much. He's a white man. I have brought In two young Nigerians both juniors into the same company and he's also all teaching us. The same people were rejected by companies in Nigeria but na oyinbo man still come give them chance. Through his mentorship I have gone to work on projects that are used by billion dollar companies. Billion with a b o. As for political position, you can forget it. I will never ever contest to Be a politician in the zoo. I never even did my nysc after graduation so that disqualifies me and I don't give a Bleep.

There's really nothing Nigeria has given me I can say yes thank God I am a Nigerian. My university education wasn't even in Nigeria. As for working in Nigeria. I have only worked with a Nigerian company for two months and that was it the rest of my work has been with companies based abroad.

Secondary Citizen lol maybe for other professions not for programmers O. You don't know what is going on now. The tech industry is basically an employee's market now. This other countries I am talking about. Their salaries might not be USA level but they are ten times higher than Nigeria. I won't pay rent. Food will be given to me. This was stated explicitly at the interviews I have done so basically my salary will just be a pocket money. You can feel the desperation in their eyes even during interviews.

As for my family I really wish them well. The only thing I will do is build a house in Ghana for my mom and dad to stay in and bring my sister over immediately she graduates but as for Nigeria once I am done that's it. Even if I come to Africa to visit I will go to another African country and then the person who wants to see me will come there.

Exkandayee:
This op nah mumu man, that's why I said going to university in nija no make sense,pesin go go school to become particular profession,he go come out dey work 4 bank,dey teach,dey fry akara,dey hawk,then what is the reason of going to mahadum,abeg make all of go and sit down,Las Las skul nah scam,my bsc nah waste,no student for nija dey do Wetin in read,na only our stupid doctors and nurses and ignorant engineers, make I save my anger biko

Robertkenny:
Mrs. Juliet

I was with my husband on March 31st, it was 3 or 4 o’clock in the afternoon and I took a phone call from the owner of my company, the president and COO. He informed me that my position was being eliminated.

Significant changes had to be made to the small, family-owned business I worked for due to the coronavirus pandemic.

Coming from leadership, I understand. I worked for Skymack communications, a publishing company here in Lagos, for over 13 years. I was senior vice president of operations, client service and account management. The majority of the clients I worked with were in the airline space, so Covid-19 had huge impact on the area of the business I managed.

Even though being let go is not a personal issue for me, when you get that call from your boss, it’s quite a shock to the system.
I love the people that I worked with. And I have never been unemployed.

This was a first for me, and I had to tell my kids.
The first person I told was my husband. We went for a walk because I just wanted to takeout bad thought and feel free. It’s so overwhelming that you don’t want to think about the “What if”.

I cried when I told my husband, but it wasn’t sadness that I felt. I didn’t feel a connection to my job title such that it was a loss of my sense of self. It was more, “Well, what am I going to do now?” Or maybe it was because you have to say those words: “I’ve been laid off.” I never said those words before.

But I didn’t actually tell my two girls, who are 12 and 16, for almost a full 48hours. I just sat with it first. I was thinking, “How am I going to tell them that I have been laid off”?.

My girls have seen me get up and go to work their whole lives. I don’t believe they tied me as a person to my job, but they do understand that my job provides money for the family to live.

I was really trying to figure out, how do I tell them without scaring them? And how will I keep a level of composure?.

The third day I told them. Schools in Lagos were closed, so my daughters were homeschooling. I called them into the living room, sat down and told them that I had been let go from my position at work. I was crying while telling them.

They both sort of looked at me and they said, “Well, what does that mean for us?”

How you handle yourself is everything when it comes to how they’re going to respond, so I immediately composed myself.
“Well, we’re probably going to have to make some changes initially, but as a parent let I and your dad focus on that. I don’t want you to worry about that” I said.

My eldest daughter got angry and frustrated at my employer. “Aren’t you important? Don’t they think you’re valuable?” she asked with a sad face.

“I am valuable” I said. But my value has nothing to do with my job. I’m valuable for a lot of other reasons.”

“I will find a job that makes me happier, a place to work that values me, a place where I want to be” I said. The girls asked questions about money too. I have a loan to pay and other bills. “Yeah, we’re going to have to make some changes, for me to be able to pay back” I said.

“I’m going to have to really work to get another job or figure out what my next move is” I said.

For now we’re good. My girls and I are stable and we’re happy. We have made some changes towards managing most things around us. For instance with food shopping, we are not particularly frivolous, but now we are much more careful.

Also there is no “I need does cloths just because they’re beautiful or I want to do online shopping for me and my girls”. They know they need to be conscientious about what they ask for. And they have been fantastic without reminder.

And I have not stopped my job search, but I am not obsessing. Right now everything is fine, but that won’t last forever. So I am trying to determine what my new normal is going to be.

Thank you Bogger for sharing my story

Have you ever lost any job that makes you think twice? Please share your story.

Peace2allmen:
I have said this many times over,Biafra of Igbos only or other similar tribes like Efik or Ibibio who identify with our beliefs and values and want to be part of it should be our utmost focus.
There is no need bringing people who don’t like others into another nation and have another useless country like Nigeria. We can’t force others into it, that’s hypocrisy, akin to doing what the useless dream killer Nigeria is doing and people of good conscience shouldn’t be part of it.
However, it would also be good for people down south to fight together and liberate themselves from Nigeria first and then to your tents oh Israel.

Peace2allmen:
I have said this many times over,Biafra of Igbos only or other similar tribes like Efik or Ibibio who identify with our beliefs and values and want to be part of it should be our utmost focus.
There is no need bringing people who don’t like others into another nation and have another useless country like Nigeria. We can’t force others into it, that’s hypocrisy, akin to doing what the useless dream killer Nigeria is doing and people of good conscience shouldn’t be part of it.
However, it would also be good for people down south to fight together and liberate themselves from Nigeria first and then to your tents oh Israel.

definitelyME:
Hello guys... Please is there any likely hood of jamb still extending the UTME registration I am very nervous...

OloshoMan:
I hate this family with passion, if I was in charge, nobody will survive my wrath and vengeance, the entire family will be History.

This case totally shattered me

Techsupport:
I am no business person, I am a monthly income person. I don't know the average income in Nigeria. My question is this how much money should you have to be considered rich.
or how much monthly income should you make to be considered rich?

lalasticlala:
##FindHinyUmoren has been trending following an earlier report of a young lady named, Iniubong Hiny Umoren, who went for a job interview but has been missing for over 24 hours now.

Hiny Umoren went for a job interview at Ibiono Ibom, outskirt of Uyo in Akwa Ibom state on 29th of April 2021.

Minutes later, she sent a one-second voice note to her friend Umoh Uduak who revealed that she heard her scream and couldn't reach her again.

Hiny Umoren Twitter profile reads: 'Pragmatic Humanist, Choleric-melancholic, Skin Care products formulator, Philosopher, Lover of people with sense'.

She is yet to be found.

AwesomeStormy00:
Hahaha oga leave me let me be joor. I work in I.T, I get paid nearly £1k a week. If that is slavery then you need help.

jawalis:
Getting a degree is not a waste of time. It’s high time we stop faulting education for our own deficiencies. Some go to the university to get a degree in Animal Husbandry, some in International Relationship and lots of irrelevant courses in our society. And such individual will later blame government and education for not getting a job after graduation. No. It doesn’t work that way. We should be conscious of the kind of courses we pursue when desperate for admission. Out of desperation; I opted for Biochemistry while I was a jambite. I had to leave in my 200L for a health related course in a college of health. It wasn’t an easy decision but I had to follow advice and now I have no regret coz I’ll finish my degree in the same career next year. I’m not certain about getting a job instantly but I know I’ll definitely get one someday and not too long cos the local, State and federal government can not employ into the hospital management board without hiring my discipline. So pls, we should know the kind of society we lives in before filling and accepting admission offer. I have friends who later got their degree in Med Lab and didn’t stay 3 month at home before he secured a facility to work (Though Private) but at least; it puts decent food on his table. Education again isn’t all about been hired for labor after graduation. It’s to enlighten us and prepare us to be independent. Many times, I follow people to say “school na scam” but deep down I know it is not. School is never and will never be a waste of time and resources. But we should chose our discipline wisely. Don’t go for some secular courses with no relevance in our contemporary society. You can’t compare someone who studies Office Management or even Business administration to someone who got his degree in Radiology or Dentistry. No. They are very different. So pls let’s be wise

edoairways:
He is probably ignorant

jawalis:
Getting a degree is not a waste of time. It’s high time we stop faulting education for our own deficiencies. Some go to the university to get a degree in Animal Husbandry, some in International Relationship and lots of irrelevant courses in our society. And such individual will later blame government and education for not getting a job after graduation. No. It doesn’t work that way. We should be conscious of the kind of courses we pursue when desperate for admission. Out of desperation; I opted for Biochemistry while I was a jambite. I had to leave in my 200L for a health related course in a college of health. It wasn’t an easy decision but I had to follow advice and now I have no regret coz I’ll finish my degree in the same career next year. I’m not certain about getting a job instantly but I know I’ll definitely get one someday and not too long cos the local, State and federal government can not employ into the hospital management board without hiring my discipline. So pls, we should know the kind of society we lives in before filling and accepting admission offer. I have friends who later got their degree in Med Lab and didn’t stay 3 month at home before he secured a facility to work (Though Private) but at least; it puts decent food on his table. Education again isn’t all about been hired for labor after graduation. It’s to enlighten us and prepare us to be independent. Many times, I follow people to say “school na scam” but deep down I know it is not. School is never and will never be a waste of time and resources. But we should chose our discipline wisely. Don’t go for some secular courses with no relevance in our contemporary society. You can’t compare someone who studies Office Management or even Business administration to someone who got his degree in Radiology or Dentistry. No. They are very different. So pls let’s be wise

inyanging:
PLS DEAR CONTESTANTS DONT BE PERTURBED, DONT GIVE UP ON UR SELF, DO NOT ALLOW FEW SADIST IN NAME OF JUDGES DAMN UR ENTHUSIASM , ALL OF U GUYS ARE GOOD & WONDERFUL ONLY THAT THE COUNTRY IS NOT TALENT FRIENDLY ,ELSE U GUYS SUPPOSED TO BE IN THE ACADEMY , EVEN THEIR FACES ARE ENOUGH TO SCARE U GUYS KEEP UP U ARE DESTINED FOR GREATER HEIGHT

davidodiba:
Wow...I love this analyses. Soooo on point!

inyanging:
PLS DEAR CONTESTANTS DONT BE PERTURBED, DONT GIVE UP ON UR SELF, DO NOT ALLOW FEW SADIST IN NAME OF JUDGES DAMN UR ENTHUSIASM , ALL OF U GUYS ARE GOOD & WONDERFUL ONLY THAT THE COUNTRY IS NOT TALENT FRIENDLY ,ELSE U GUYS SUPPOSED TO BE IN THE ACADEMY , EVEN THEIR FACES ARE ENOUGH TO SCARE U GUYS KEEP UP U ARE DESTINED FOR GREATER HEIGHT

davidodiba:
Wow...I love this analyses. Soooo on point!

prigoz:
Like I said b4, Naija don cast, disintegration is the only option left.

davibid:
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Of course, not all will be as wasteful as the greater percentage. But no matter how wise and prudently they invest their money, THERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR DUPING PEOPLE. God doesn’t rob Peter to pay Paul and hence their wealth shouldn’t be considered a blessing. ONLY GOD’S BLESSINGS LAST FOREVER AND WITHOUT SORROW!!!
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Sophiebabe85:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJx7mkCsPD8

Mercy Johnson and family celebrate easter sunday with matching outfits

AwesomeStormy00:
Are you alright? Be realistic the land is curse because your leaders are cursed. Is like having devil satan as head of the family do you honestly think the family is going ti be ok