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portplus:
Does she listen to her parents counsel?
Does hold her parents/guardians in high regards?

The response the questions above would determine how far you can help her.
Focus should be on going further in her education and learning a skill.

Yes she listens to her parents. Thank you very much for taking time out toshare an advise. It was gratefully received and I truly appreciate.

Good morning everyone and happy Sunday to all nairalanders. Before I start with the issue at hand, I would like to wish us all a happy week ahead.
There is this young 19 year old girl I just met, and while there is obviously a sexual chemistry between I don't want to just build this relationship on sex alone, I want to implore nairalanders to help me with suggestions and ways in which I can help this girl attain her potentials and become somebody in life. Her mind is still empty right now and from what I've noticed so far, she does listen to me a lot. I know this topic may sound silly to so many folks here, but any advise and suggestion I receive will be greatly appreciated. Thanks in anticipation and may God bless every one of us.

This guy is actually mentally unstable but money Dey make him feel too proud. What portable needs now is not fame but rehab before he lose him mind completely

Wonder what they are discussing. Fear GMB! But Tinubu Bleep up sha, imagine him and GMB combine forces and endorse one of either Amaechi or Osinbanjo then the chances of APC winning would have been huge. But now we can only pray for the best for this country. God bless Nigeria.

Hope this honorable minister is not a mole? This govt suffered sabotage from so many people it trusted to work for it. But in all, I just pray the strike is resolved and students return to school because honestly, they are constituting a nuisance at home.

ASUU should please call of the strike before this one and numerous others enter depression as a result of excessive masturbation with little or no satisfaction derived after the act but guilt.

Nigga let go. Trust me you will do yourself lots of harm trying to get back at her or achieve your aim. Since she still dey give u kitten what's your stress? Just friendzone her and use protection when getting down with her. Truly see reasons with her, there is no way you can marry her with the age diff start hunting for a decent girl, build her and continue using this your ex to cure konji. But if she nor agree then my nigga make u rest.

queenemelda:
Greetings all, please can anyone recommend a good romantic comedy to watch. Not series, just movies. Whether Nigerian or foreign Thank you all.

Go download and watch friends. You will learn alot

OperationalVehi:
good morning chief

I greet you my man

Your ex thinks of you. All exs think of exs. I love this question because it opens up something people rarely talk about. Perhaps it is the darkest side of all this hooking up and breaking up. This darkness has to do with the process of moving on after it is over with someone.

Maybe this is me being too much of a poet, but there was love (maybe just on one side) and now there is a pretend game. We pretend that the love was not important; now that the relationship is over, we pretend that the love is not still alive in every cell of our bodies; we pretend we are machines that can program out something that once made us feel loved comforted, and full of peace. The most cruel thing we do to our exs is pretend that they never mattered.

You, and all your exs, can find someone else, but you can never find what you had. It could only exist with the two of you. Go ahead and try, you'll have someone else, and it may be great or even better. But in your unguarded moments you will still remember something beautiful that you'll never have again.

I think we believe that it is better to remain silent about our past relationships. Maybe it is polite, and maybe it helps us “move on.” I have never objected if a girlfriend of mine wanted, or needed to speak to their ex. I know the pain of love lost and I'd prefer her honesty over her being polite to me. If she was the one who broke it off with him, I’d prefer she not treat him like he never mattered.

Source: quora.com

That itsekiri, Ijaw n Yoruba girls are always unfaithful in marriage. Urhobo men are lazy nd okpe and esan are very brutal and wicked tribes respectively.

This is quite commendable and should serve to inspire people that there is no age limit in quest for knowledge. I remember during my matric then in school years back, we had a 70+ year old baba who came to study law.

To stand up and beat nonsense comot her body. . Just kidding though. I won't even kneel down and propose to her. I will just sit down after one day when man utd is playing and be like " babe e be like say my mind don dey reason marriage o, how u see am?"

She wants to breakup so as to be celibate? Is your friend a sex addict? If yes him too better activate celibacy mode for he own good. You guys having sex anyhow don’t know what you are doing to yourselves. And you are quick to rush to Nairaland to talk about not trusting. “If u have sex with a lady always, tell me how u can be able to trust her or take her seriously”? Don’t normalize premarital sex, it is still a sin when I checked the Bible this morning.

.... Where are the obedient people from the yeast? Lol.

Brother detach yourself from the dat girl emotionally. Don't raise the topic with her again about her ex. She knows what she is doing. Eating her cake and having it. Na highest see finish be this, focus on other important things and develop yourself. Trust me when your own girl comes into your life you sef go know. You don't force love, "let any girl you wish to date seriously be the one to chose you and not the other way round". Your mental health is very important. Be wise.

OP g.f is better anyday anytime. Unlike ashawo wey go spit for hand hand rub for toto and tell you "oya come Bleep". Na that one you want compare to g.f when go give u lots of romance and pre intimacy that you will be so high and if care is not taken finish the match before starting it.
Come op for this comparism I say " you are not doing well".

Be like this Magu hard face an follow come o. I love the part where he turned to salute his wife. It's so romantic. In Magu's mind he be like "tonight you must collect".

Jesus Christ

All women are the same. You just have to calm down and look for one worth going through the pain for. If person nor learn to tolerate and overlook things, e no fit cope with that gender.
Let love lead! But stay alert.

gratefulheart:
How do you deal with frequent urine at night.

Bro that's an early symptom of diabetes. Please take care of your health and prioritize your fitness.

From my ex back then. Anytime we got into a fight, no matter how angry I made her, she just logged on naira land and starts scrolling and laughing. The thing pain me sotey one day I vex drag her phone na I begin read wetin she dey read na so me sef burst laugh join. And since then I've been a guest member for several years before opening my account.

Acidbath:
P0rn doesn't do much damage to females as it does to males.

For females, they start struggling with body image issues.

For males, they turn to imb£ciles.

Like the godfather said... "Women and children can afford to make mistakes but not men".

I agree with all you have written. But I don't practice any except exercise. Whenever I'm down or bothered about something, I run for 60-90mins make sure I'm exhausted on the work out. Go home smoke one joint, shower and sleep. Mehn I always feel so much in control and thrash such issues mentally anytime I wake up. Like I will have a conversation with myself inside my head like I'm talking to the subject concerned. Jogging is life.

Op. What if you continue again with those businesses that didn't yield but this time from an experienced position. Only you can give yourself the best advise.