₦airaland Forum

Jakumo:
Nigerians can be extremely rude and conceited when traveling internationally. This uncouth villager conduct is a well-known phenomenon, among air crews in particular, so this woman is not making any claims that are not based on observable fact.

It is extremely rare to ever hear a "please" or "thank you" from passengers on flights in and out of Nigeria, when flight attendants serve passengers food and drinks, or respond to their passengers' numerous requests during the flight.

A typical exchange would be as follows.

Fat Nigerian passenger ( calling the flight attendant ) : Hsssssss. Hssssssss. Hssssssss.

Flight attendant : Yes, how can I help you sir ?

Fat Nigerian Passenger : Give me wine. I want to drink wine.

Flight attendant : Certainly, sir, just as soon as we are done serving lunch, I'll get you another glass of wine.

Fat Nigerian Passenger : I want to drink wine NOW. Give me wine.

2nd fat Nigerian passenger : Hssssssss. Hsssssssss. Hssssss.

Flight Attendant : Yes, how can I help you madam ?

2nd fat Nigerian passenger : Give me more food. This one is not enough.

Flight Attendant : When the rest of the passengers have eaten Madam, there might be some left over, and I will bring an extra serving over then.

2nd fat Nigerian passenger : I want more food now. Bring plenty food now.

The infantile, arrogant and rowdy behavior continues in the airport terminal. In London's Heathrow and Gatwick Airports, it is possible to locate the check-in desks for Nigerian-bound flights, simply by the sound of the hysterical screaming and shouting, as Nigerians abandon any semblance of civilized decorum, and grapple one another like wild beasts in full stampede mode, as they swarm the check-in desk by feverishly clambering over the heads of other passengers, while dragging 200 pounds of luggage and shrieking babies in tow.

Nigerians regard people with this kind of behaviour as being sharp and smart.

Articul8:
That is the beauty. You can fight ur own family but outsider can't try it. You will even be the one to stand for who you're fighting. That is how it works.

Any family which fights using the same method you find here cannot be called a family.
They are nothing but pre-historic cave men.

lenghtinny:
Nuclear family is the most important but it doesn't mean extended family is unimportant... I respect him for standing up for his woman but I believe he could have sorted out the issue with a diplomatic approach instead of burning bridges in the family.
Besides don't forget Peter and Paul are twins, and trust me with their popularity, it won't be okay to raise their kids without sorting out their differences because of the future...

The 2 important factors to raising healthy children are money and a peaceful home.
Peter has both, extended family opinions have no impact on a child's development.

lenghtinny:
We don't know the circumstances surrounding darey's marriage but their late mom never supported the relationship, so it's normal for the brothers to keep up with the tempo after their mom died....
Besides I think Peter is not being diplomatic enough. His defiance is only adding more petrol to the fire and driving the family apart...
I fear for their offsprings growing up in such a toxic environment

Peter owes his brother nothing, only a coward will be "diplomatic" when grown adults
who have their own family are trying to run his domestic affairs.

The earlier Paul and Jude realise that they are no longer a kid, the better for them.
Domestic family is the most important to a child's development, so I don't see
any toxicity in them.

2sexyus:
Go bless you rokiatu (your old handle ) This is exactly what I have been saying.... It has a lot to do with the woman's character...

Who should worry about a wife's character, the husband or his family ?

The best decision a woman can take is to settle for a principled man who
will shield her from detractors. Peter is the man.

If not for Peter, the immature Paul and Jude would have made life difficult
for lola even though they have their own family.

ruggedized1:
Their mom warned Peter not to marry Lola. In Anambra mothers wield so much powers amongst their sons. Now their mother has passed on. Peter was very stubborn for not have heeded her mom's advise.

Paul's wife is Rivers girl while Jude's wife is an Anambra girl. Their mom before she passed on approved of these ones but Peter's wife.

So a mother can now decide who her son cannot marry ?
Kids everywhere.

guyla:
But she can win thier heart, she can win them over with her behavior, it doesn't have to be "I know you despise me but I will still live with you in it" no she can change them,, it is only natural no tribe is excited about their own marrying outside even the biblical Sampson offended his people when he married a philistine

It is not her duty to win over anybody. She is not a slave of the okoye's,
she is the wife of Peter.


The only reason Paul and Jude are trying to run their brother's family affair
is because their own family is unstable.

mccoy47:
One bad wife can bring the demise of a large family empire!
Guys always be careful the kinda woman you would say "I DO" to.
No be by force to marry girl wey you gv belle!

By the way who was filming it?
Cuz it seemed Paul was talking directly to the person holding the camera i.e Peter

A man marries a wife not his brothers.
It is better not to get married than to hand over your family
affairs for your brothers to run.

Rokia2:
Sense should fall on you. You think is just about Tribe am sure her character and personality has a lot to do with this.


You don't even know some women they divide instead of uniting.

No mature man will want to run his brother's domestic affairs.
They don't even live under one roof or depend on each other
for survival.

belindar:
They call everything domestic violence even when they do evil against the man and the man react Bicos I have never seen a man that wil just wake up and start abusing his wife.
Do these ladies knows that what they made a man went through is also domestic violence. Every Baby mama claiming domestic violence.
Imagine married for just one month.

It is better you post in pidgin.
By your logic a woman cannot just wake up and start "do evil against the man".

Silvertrinity:
So we should do what?

I don't just understand why all this celebrities like posting and uploading every single bit of their private life on social media.

Is it that they don't know the difference between 'Social' and 'Private '?

It is because they understand the monetary and promotional value of telling it all on social media.

newsynews:
I think these black movement of a thing has been hijacked by anti-americans who hate that Donald Trump is setting things right.

If Blacks are getting killed, is that why you should disrespect your country so openly? What message do they think they are passing across to foreigners?

cc lalasticlala

POTUS Replied

Why should anyone care about foreigners when they are getting killed as citizens ?

The first step to take is to discuss the issue with your wife and come up with solutions
together.

peterderock4dei:
Yoruba women lik to distory home

Educated illiterate.
Peter is married to Lola not paul.
Peter's home is standing strong!

I hope paul can now focus on his family instead of trying to run the
affairs of his brother's family.

Iamlordgee:
Nwamaikpe always say this lola is the cause of this rift... Women & Money the main cause of rift between brothers.. As if paul aint family

Yes, because he lives with them.
There is nothing wrong in shutting out an adult who behaves like kid.

Let paul face his own family and stop inyterfering in his brother's family.

RomeSankara:
A man is very specific about his goals during the campaigns and achieves almost all of them within 6 months of his inauguration yet a hater like you wants to ascribe it to strong institutions.

You must be dreaming, he has NOT achieved any thing he promised.

He said he was going to get the jobs back up and was specific about how we was going to do this and he did.

Try doing some research, he promise to bring back factory jobs and he had not delivered
on it.

He was very specific about how he was going reduce cases of illegal cross border immigration and drug trade and he has.

Yes, he appears to be doing this but it is a job in progress.

He was specific about killing your hero Al Bagdadi in months and putting an end to Ur ISIS and he did

ISIS is still very much in force.


All I see in your post is inability to see the big picture, the problem with an average african.
Just because a man promises to remove your front teeth and he did does not make him
an honorable person.

Adaumunocha:
I'm sure we have competent females ready to lead this nation.

Till date, there has been only one that showed interest and pursued it, unfortunately
she couldn't get the required alliances to advance her goals.

Take May for instance, she would long have ceased to be british PM if not for her
staunch maneuvering and shaky alliances.

Adaumunocha:
Let's give a female president a chance in this country.

Merkel was elected for being competent and smart leader not because she is a woman.

Greatzeus:
All of you congratulating her,hope you know this is her 4th term.If it's African leaders now we call them greedy and power drunk. What is she doing that any new person cannot do.

Germans have spoken
Migrate to germany, become a citizen, then organize and vote her out.

Greedy and power drunk leaders are those who does every evil, kidnapping,
assassinations to stay in power.

supersystemsnig:
People should be secured in love and not strive to compete. When a husband tries to stop a woman from visiting her family, he is setting himself for failure. It goes the reverse way too

Peter is a financially independent grown adult so is Paul.
No one is making any of them do anything they don't want to.

There are behaviors which should only be found with kids not
adults.

Anybody that cannot respect an adult family members boundary
can't really be said to be a family.

It would have been understandable if Paul claims that the Peter's wife
is sitting on his monthly feeding allowance, but this is a man who has
the world at his feet.

Any man or woman that wants their entire resources fully devoted to
their birth family should never marry. That way boys can continuue
playing boys game undisturbed.

attackgat:
Igbo land has always run its own affairs until Lugard came to create Nigeria

Igbos have never at any time in history run their affairs together.
Every town was on its own fighting its neighbours for dominance, I doubt you
want to return to such era.

supersystemsnig:
People with healthy family relationships should not even think of break. If only life was simple. How can a twin break, twin for that matter?

There's a place for family love, there's another section for spousal love. Any spouse that dares competes against family love sets himself for failure...

You don't understand what family stands for.
Anybody that is trying to control the domestic affairs
of an adult family member is not acting like a family.
Such a person is acting an abusive control freak.

Benite:
This confirms that his Wife Lola is the problem.

It is well

She is the problem because you live with them ?

I will say the kids that can't mind their own business are the problem.
They have their own family but want to have a say in the family of an adult man.

1StopRudeness:
Reward??
For who?? The kill squad or the pple giving the orders for a go-kill??
Kill squad will be secret military snipers, compensation will monetary or otherwise discussed... and for those giving the orders, the reward is a better Nigeria with one less evil,self centred, corrupt, politician..

You still haven't answered the question.
Do you think someone will just wake up to organise a killer squad without
getting anything in return ?

If you understand how power works, you would realise that nobody will risk
their heads when the majority of the populace don't give a damn.

Because you thrive in corruption.

kp3tech:
The government Should not have openly took law into their hands. Worst still Is they failed.

They Should be pressured to produce Kanu... For also stalling court process

Buhari need to understand they are what we call due processes...

He lost this one

You know very little about the law, it only deals with evidence.
The only fact of this case is that a suspect jumped bail and the sureties
will be held responsible.

Online blog stories do not count as evidence.

Only a dumb person will believe that a penis got missing.

1StopRudeness:
There should be a secrete assassination team reporting directly to the topmost patriot in power or is that we don't even have patriots is this nation who actually want things to get better. We can't possibly continue like this...at some point, there won't be a Nigeria ooo

Why ?
What would be their reward ?
Ask yourself the last time you did something for your country for free ?

attackgat:
Somebody should tell him that Scotland was part of Britain for over 300 years but had referendum on independence in 2014.

But he is talking about Nigeria thst was created just the other day in 1914

Scotland has always run its own affairs with some deference to GB.
No such history exists for any part of Nigeria since its creation.

CAPSLOCKED:

ARE YOU TELLING ME THAT WAS EXACTLY HOW THEY SIGNED UP TO BE THE WHITEMAN'S SLAVE FOR ETERNITY??

Yes, till today they are still crying to the UN, USA and RUSSIA for help.

hopeforcharles:
Sleeping with another woman how does it relates to treating your woman like trash? Hope u know the northerners marries more than one wife does that means the first one is been treated like trash?
The most important factor here is if ever you want to do some outside business always make sure you treat your home front right if not perfect.

The right thing to do is to stay single so that no one will disturb your games.
It is an act of cowardice to pretend to be married.