₦airaland Forum

tunjilana:
You assume she is the one feeding the children. She could be the type that believes the man must be the one who does everything in the house even wen broke. While I condemn the man's act, I want to believe the woman is the our money, my money type cos a reasonable woman should have no issues with a loan when it becomes necessary. (Retrenche husband managing a failed business)

If the woman can afford a 1 million naira ransom, she is likely the one feeding the children
and the useless husband.

TyushTal:
I just hate it when people are been lied against.

He only cut-off some part of the body
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And to all of you condemning his act. This would be your reaction when you get to heaven and find out money ritual is not a sin

You are a very dangerous fellow, people who don't know right from wrong unless
in the context of heaven and hell are immoral and should be avoided.

I pity any man who finally settles with Anna, he
will always be a second fiddle to the prince charming, flavour.
Bathed in insecurity and low self-esteem.

emi14:
This is how south Africans treat infidelity and deception in relationship. A Nigerian woman can keep 4guys . Allowing a man you don't love spend over #200,000 on you only to be dumped and call names because that is Nigerian ladies professional styles of leaving a relationship. You break his heart and walk freely. It doesn't happen in south Africa....you die.

You know nothing about South African societies, they are more
relaxed and carefree with sex issues compared to other African countries.
If that is how infidelity is treated then more than 50% of SA's
women population won't make it to the age of 30.

Stop concluding based on isolated incidence.

LordKO:
Dear, mind games is only for small-minded people. If I cannot be of goodness to a lady/person I termed a friend then, I have no reason keeping her close. Pretense isn't my thing. Nothing justifiably inhibits someone that has the wherewithal, from genuinely changing for good, the cause of people around him/her (blood relations and friends) simultaneously.

My previous submission stand.

You don't get it, how many friends do you have ?
Are they all at your level of financial capacity ?

There is a clear difference between helping a friend out in times of need
and taking up the role of a parent by sponsoring his/her education.

I am not against doing good to your fellow humans on a neutral ground
but when emotions are involved, one should steer clear usurping their
parental roles unless one do not care about the outcome, which is nothing
but a pretence to save face since nobody want to be a loser.

Good riddance.
Many sick patients are already experiencing pains only for
some hypocrites to add the threat of their sky daddies to the pain.

Religionists always think they know it all.

How old are you ?
Under 26 girls are not interested in serious relationships,
they still believe in perfect Cinderella stories..
Consider yourself as just a pass time and don't take such
relationship serious if you don't want to end up emotionally damaged.

The way forward is to cut off the relationship immediately, do not delay
for your own good.

Chidonc:
a guy is sexually assulted and the ladies are busy shouting see as him dey do as if him no like am, once a story of a lady been assaulted hits fp now, feminist would flood the thread shouting all men are beast. assult is assult, no matter the gender involved.

You are just looking for a way to justify sexual assault of women.
All the comments on FP are from males but you were too blind to see that because
you saw an opportunity to probably justify your future harassment of women.

SaiNigeria:
Something like this right?......afonja

Igbos have grown beyond that level

raker300:
[/quote][quote author=lionjungle3000 post=60250978]Afonja, were you expecting to see human skull parts...and got disappointed?

BTW...what a beautiful car. Manual is for men like us! Look at the interior...love it!

liberalsinnerx:
When people like Emir of Kano tell you that these people are the problem of Nigeria, believe him. I never seen a people as envious as afonjas in my life.

Easy on your egos.
What is the difference between you guys and the immature kid you quoted ?

Aside from risk of infection from eating Liver, every other food
on that list is good for healthy people in moderation(as every other food).

intelligen:
am very disappointed. ...youjust lost my respect with this post

That handle is a provocateur regularly dishing out inanities just to get attention, I am surprised
you just found out.

They are tamed lions.
Anyone can pet a cheetah wild or not.

Sopigtit:
You try. But nobody is voting for you. Atiku can't be president in this country. How come he never understands that?
A very desperate ashawo politician. Who will vote for you?

It is you that don't understand what you want.
While I am not an Atiku fan, your reasons for rejecting him
are superficial.

iyke926:
Forgive them

Go and treat malaria ASAP.

OkuFaba:
Until we Nigerians wake up one morning,
burn all the MTN office,
burn DSTV centers and destroy Stanbic IBTC banks in the country, South africans will never learn to respect us

Savages are never respected e.g Nazi, ISIS and Boko haram

Good for the home breaker.
Now she will learn the hard way unless her husband is a sissy.

Mbaka is a very wise man

Businesses Reserves the right to their properties and its premises.
It would be a different case if you were filming the food you ordered
instead of filming an unauthorised documentary.

If you felt harassed, sue the company online campaign is not enough,
if you don't sue, you are part of the problem.

VargasVee:
1. I know you're a female hiding under a male moniker cause your comments are always about attacking men. Work on your self esteem.

2. How about when men say they cannot be in a relationship without sex? You lot still go ahead and cry an ocean about it.

3. The world can never be Utopia, not possible. There's always gonna be the rich and the poor. You do know that some people work harder yet still end up less affluent than others?

4. As a lady, are you any less human? Why not work towards your goal of being independent then having a man to it comes as a perk?

Truth is bitter!
It is none of your business whatever standard a woman set for herself,
you should be more concerned about yourself.

Any woman complaining of a male sex freak is obviously stupid because
it is none of her business also and she should move on from the relationship
if she can't accept the man's condition.

Unfortunately, what we see is someone writing several posts about how women
should live their lives, if they can't meet up why not move on instead of whining ?

Good for him.

People should not criticise him for having a standard, everybody
deserves to have their own standards without being insulted.

Morally bankrupt cheaters always blame their partners for the choices they make.
What stops the husband from moving on ?
And some of those unrepentant cheaters will fight tooth and nail to "save" their
marriage while blaming the devil for the consequence of their actions.

It is logical to dump the devil when you meet an angel, but cheaters won't do that
due to cowardice and stupidity, they want to eat their cake and still have it.

risingrainboll:
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My HOD shares the same religion with me but different language with that of my team mates.
Sorry, I want to keep my religion and other details discreet.
Honestly, I was doing fine in my former department. I never had to deal with team mates of similar background. It's sickening. Besides, my HOD's management style just depressesses me. I think the ride he gives to me is a contributing factor.
Moreso, I tried to learn the language by being friendly with my team mates and showing interest in it untill my intension was missunderstood and taken for granted. Had to stop. Just trying now to focus on my performance.

If he gives you a ride to work why then are you complaining of errands ?
It is only natural that your HOD gravitate towards you since you are relatively
close to him.

Also, why keep your religion private ?
Are your co-workers also in the dark and are relating to you
as member of the same religion ?

You just have to endure.

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luminouz:
U have a point there!!!
But I believe there can be balance between family n work.....
Have u even considered d secret the woman threatened to expose? Daz another angle DAT could change both ur n mine perspectives!!

The secret can not be worse than the husband's criminal exploits which
makes the wife more hideous and despicable because she was comfortable with the
act before she was busted.

madridguy:
Very unusual of igbo woman.

Reference please.

mofeoluwadassah:
what is wrong with most of our nigerian parents sef.....they think they can just make decisions for us on whom to marry and whom not to marry

You are under no obligation to follow their orders, unless they are
responsible for your welfare.

There was a story on FP some days ago about a guy whose mother
rejects his fiancee, it may interest you to note that many nairalanders
mostly men encourage the guy to respect and follow his mother's command.

RIPEnglish:
I was expectation it, these is what will happened when a country have a illiterate as his presidency.

I understand you can't construct a correct sentence but that is no reason to
adopt this ridiculous strategy.

You can at least use pidgin, don't let the thirst for attention rob your of your
common sense. You have consistently violated nairaland rules by making
unintelligible posts.

This article is correct.

We cannot continue to pretend that all is well with SW's secondary education.
The various state governments don't give a hoot about education anymore so
long as it doesn't affect their re-elections.

Since there are no reports which prove that cheating is more common in other
regions, I will assume that the SW no longer take secondary school education serious.

Even though I am against taking people's pictures without their consent,
there is no such thing as privacy in public places, whatever you want to
be kept secret should be done in the privacy of your room and don't
post them on the internet if you don't want people to comment.

matrixme:
The grass is always greener in another man's country. The same Chinese people we see on the streets of Lagos almost doing menial jobs to keep body and soul together?
Ask the average Chinese man weather he or she is really happy with their government and has been truly lifted from poverty and you will know the truth. That's if they are allowed to really voice out their opinion. If communism really works like you claim, why isn't the rest of the world flocking there like as they head west?

The question you should ask yourself is whether you should be concerned about
the Chinese instead of yourself.

There are thousand of homeless people in the USA, but that doesn't mean that
the USA is an impoverished country.

All you need to do is compare Chinese cities with your country's cities or if you
are interested in numbers, check the US indices on development.