₦airaland Forum

hopeforcharles:
Is it against the law to marry more than one wife?

No it is not. Neither is it against the law to abandon a stray kid,
it is also not against the law to neglect those in need and refuse to
tell your neighbour that a snake entered their house.

My point being that there are many good things you do that has nothing
to do with the law.

This post isn't about polygamy, it is about treating a wife like a trash who
don't deserve a say.

hopeforcharles:
Good geh na ur type dey last 4 marriage
Good geh this is some truth some ladies are finding it difficult to accept if u leave him u lose, he goes out there and marries another woman and continue, mother nature made it very easy for men to adapt and flow so instead u leaving why not stay and fix things.

I hope you won't practice this because it won't end well.
You might enjoy your youthful days but karma will be waiting
at old age when everyone will get their pound of flesh.

Isn't it funny that a baby mama is advising married couples?


She recently converted to Islam, a religion which sees women as properties,
so her comment didn't come as a surprise.

Elukapendragon:
Do you know that in the U.S, the government house them, pay electric bills, fuel the cars they use for patrol give them the uniform to make them look neat, but in Nigeria, u have to do all those things with 30k a month salary.... thats why i dont condemn any of them collecting money from civilians

Stop saying what you don't know, an average US cop remuneration is at the same level
as a low level teacher. Most live from hand to mouth.

greatman247:
We need to see how she actually dressed to work before I talk. But if the picture up there is how she dressed to work then they should pay her the entitlement and reinstate her immediately cos there's nothing wrong with that her dressing .

Because you are ?

What is PDP doing with a cult group?
I hope they will be able to contain them when they
start demanding the impossible.

david0bed:
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It happened for real. I am a Safarian - confirm Sapele pikin. Lol. Search for Oghenek on Facebook... Go through his posts of today, you'd get the full gist.

Is it Oghenek that made her mad ?
If not, it is all story.

Holyfield1:
Seun Hardmirror HopefulLandlord what can yoy say about this?? jazz ain't real?

firstolalekan:

The way atheists will be avoiding this thread ehn

Did you read this part of the article ?

This is really serious. A woman allegedly went mad after sex in Delta state yesterday.

This usually happens when a woman who should have confronted her husband for cheating
thinks the side chic is to blame.

olawalepopoola:
When will Nigeria change when our judiciary the average citizen support corruption and corrupt leaders

Fixed

ShyCypher:
1 gunshot and the Yoruba "agitation" will fizzle out. These ones get liver for Operation Crocodile Twerk?

Cowards.

They waited for flat skulls to take the lead before cautiously comin' out to breathe.

They'll scurry back to their hidey holes - no be sarrki & omenkalives dem?

This description fits the coward of Abia who has gone into hiding since military parade
started.

months:
It is best to always marry from ur ethnic group.

Inter-tribal marriages has so many complication and wahala.

Particularly amonst Yoruba and Igbos, rival tribes that appear to dislike each other.

SMH, marriage is between a husband and wife not between a wife and stupid in-laws who
can't respect boundaries.

It is a shame that you still don't know this at this your age.

Corruption. Most Nigerians will do anything to beat the system then
turn around to blame system failure on government.

Rrankdonga:
Everybody in Nigeria can just pick up some title for them self.
Op who certified you as a life coach and all those things you put up there?

Can you please tell us how someone get certified as a life coach ?

Monalisa Chinda is a primitive woman, that is why she can't understand
that domestic violence is evil.

Hmm

You have 2 options.
1. Go ahead with the marriage and remain unhappy for life because you will never trust her again.
2. Dump the lady, suffer heartbreak for few months and find a better partner.

Wike is a smart man.

jonnytad:
Am talkn abt the general logical situation

There is no such thing as "general logical situation" an area is either
peaceful or not.
In area where there is conflict the rich can buy their security while
the poor is left at the mercy of chance living with the fear of the unknown.
And in peaceful areas, everybody goes about their business without fear.

ideologies:
If KANU has a good lawyer, FG & military won't escape ICC

That stupid boy called tonyebarcanista is write another foolish article

Buhari is a big Coward, why send Northern governors if his actions were right,

So many educated illiterates, you could have at least educate yourself on the ICC statute of Rome.

jonnytad:
The feeling of being secured without guards.

That depends on where you live.
Remember Ikorodu and Badoo ?

FTrebirth:
i'm not against biafra agitation but i think nnamdi kanu does not possess the acumen to lead a herd of cows, not to mention human beings. he's so lousy, undiplomatic and spiteful.

this guy should be arrested and locked up till further notice. ipob can continue with a new leader...i too don't support FG terming them a terrorist group. secession is practiced everywhere in the world.

In very few places in the world can you discuss secession.
In most other places you will be roasted alive.

NwaliE01:
Don't show me your personal mansion rather show me the little home you built for the homeless on the street. Tired of seeing extravagance lifestyles everyday.
#thinkoftheneedies

You have a right to close your eyes.

These unions are becoming a nuisance.

Talk is cheap!

Adaumunocha:
Guy I don't really get ur argument. She bought two cars making three and never thought it wise to give her husband one. D woman in question pushed her husband into d arms of another lady. This one you are talking like this are you related to the op

Do you honestly believe that the man will accept a car gift from his wife?
I don't know if you are married, but there are thousand and one reasons why
a man cheats, the number one reason is that he has decided to cheat.
He is not a kid that can be pushed around to do what he doesn't want.

Given the description of the OP, I can deduce that the man will long have called
off the marriage, if the woman is that horrible.
But he didn't because she is the one taking care of the family while he spends
his own income on girls.

The Op is just being unrealistic by expecting his mother to remain obedient and
subservient while being ignored and treated like shit by his father.
My guess is that she has learned a valuable life lesson that she can never be
happy while pretending that all is well in her family, she has embraced her fate
and decide to live as if she has no husband(technically, she doesn't).

Only a selfish child will want to deny such mother her happiness.

Adaumunocha:
Thereby making the man seem weak before others? Two becomes one.

So a woman owning a car makes a man weak?

Why should the worth of a man be dependent on the servitude
and helpless nature of his wife?

This case is even worse, he can't provide for his family and doesn't care,
yet he wants absolute control of the wife who is the breadwinner.

You don't need to cut ties with him, just set the terms of engagement:
"Father, you cannot dictate to me how I live my life, we can discuss any other
thing"


The path you took is akin to cowardice and callousness. If someone especially
your family does wrong let them know they are wrong, don't just cut them off.

AFONAMARO:
She equally buying a car and making the whole neighbourhood know is her personal belonging as well as the church, is not enough punishment shey?

The woman did nothing wrong, it is not a crime to flaunt your possession
just because an egotistical man will not be happy.

Women are to be seen and heard, not relegated to the background!

Stop interfering in the life of 2 adults, it is none of your business
since you have your own future ahead of you.

If they are tired of the union, they will both agree to call it quit.

It is not pride for a woman to be financially independent, neither is it pride
for her to flaunt materials that she acquired herself.

If you had been left to fend for yourself, you would have appreciated the
sacrifice been made by your mother.

There are lot of hypocritical husbands who will contribute nothing to the household
but demand to be consulted before any decision is taken, even trivial ones

Great imagination,
but I wonder how a continent which many of its individual countries cannot
maintain their unity will suddenly have a single voice on the world stage.