₦airaland Forum

OrdercityWeb:
Yoruba men stop marrying Igbo women, you're breeding a lost generation who don't know the roots of their father.
They are manipulated by your wife and her family that's why most of them lean towards their mom's side

People with primitive caveman mindset like you are fast becoming extinct.
It is unfortunate that your education was a waste.

This kind of useless posts keep creeping up.
The reason why any lady is not married is because she hasn't
found her spec or have decided never to marry, not all these
childish lists.

I see no reason why an individual's personal choice should become
a burden to others.

princeSammyz:
And I keep wondering what even made sex outside marriage a sin... Every other sin seem to be some kind of harm against a neighbor or against God, but sex, mutual pleasure for two consenting adults... I keep wondering

The problem is not that extramarital sex is a sin(at least no one is forced to play by the rule),
the problem is some hypocritical sanctimonious people who
believe they are better than others because they are
christians, yet they practise everything those "of the world" do
including fornication.

Probably a fake news.
Whenever the headline is ambiguos(walk down the aisle instead of marry),
especially on provocative news item I suspect foul play.

sonnie10:
Don't accept it. She will always use the car to shame you whenever you have little issues with her.

She would say she would have allowed you to scotch in the sun if she had know that you will have the gut to talk back.

Please reject that car , save and buy one for yourself.

You may have problem in your marriage if you think it is an ego contest.

Bolustical:

Be predictable like her too.

Buy your BF/Fiancee/Husband a car and let Nairalanders see it.

Are you implying that he is gay ?

Two losers reconcile.

Bahddo:
how did he expose his tribalist mindset?

He did so by subtly promoting a superior tribe who can do what others can't
even though every Nigerian tribe is guilty of overt and covert tribalism.

Liar and Fraud.
This guy is looking for victims, if he had such a shrine he will never
tell anybody.
But because he needs Magas for survival, he is showing off the shrine
and some fools will fall for it.

There is a simple rule to follow whenever you want to subscribe for
a data, subscribe for the smaller package first, test the network speed
and then decide if it is good enough before investing in the mega plans.

Businessideas:
O ga o! Even new Borns are not spared of the lack of civility of the social media!

Nothing is spared.
Anybody who wants privacy and courtesy shouldn't expect such from social media.

abelprice:
.if u see d way these guys dey spend money for club eh.. u go feel lyk dissapoint... anyway man must hustle xo dey should free them after all d white don dupe Africans before.. payback time.. ..

I hope you won't shout racism if the whites decide to strike back.
Fraudsters don't care about the victims race so long as they can
squeeze out money. You may even become a victim someday, so
learn to condemn evil when you see one.

You are a lawyer what other help do you need ?

Deceptive headline.
2 US attorneys hired to defend victims of extra-judicial killings.
Trump don't give a hoot what happens in Mexico let alone a far away nigger country.

Mtchew.
The man was railing against disunity while at the same time exposing his tribalistic mindset.
Core tribalist are actually better than this two-faced "human rights" fighter.

handsomebanana:
During the period Bill Gates was building Microsoft, there was no woman behind him.

Steve Jobs -- no woman

Larry Ellison -- no woman.

Larry Page and Sergey Brin -- no woman

Aaron Levie -- no woman


Behind every successful man is a lot of determination, years spent suffering and the urge to succeed.

I could go on and on

Your statement is outdated

His statement may be outdated but the entitled men of these days are just so annoying.
Instead of struggling on their own, they demand a woman stay loyal to them
and if she doesn't she is subjected to various blackmail including being accused
of being materialistic(which everyone is by the way.

This kind of story will stop coming up when both men and women realise that no one
owes them a dime for being male or being female.

pocohantas:
She stayed
She stayed!

Was she supposed to go before?
I don't like things like this, makes it look like it shouldn't be the norm. We have lots of materialistic women around, but it's common sense and proof of loyalty to stand by your loved one. That's how it should be!!


She was also broke, and the guy stayed with her too.

Is she the only one that could have left? The guy can also hook a rich woman, do women think they're the only one with richer options?

She try, but na the guy try pass...

It is obvious you live in an utopia, nobody deserves less!
While I am strongly against a partner staying in a relationship
because of hope, her message is clear enough: that life is a gamble
and she won big time.

thesicilian:
All I kept seeing was "she stayed with..." "she stayed with..."
What exactly were her contributions to the husband's eventual success?

Even though I believe it is badluck and poor decision for a woman to stay with a
man just with the hope that he will be successful.

You have no right to ask such a question, only the husband
can demand such answers.

I hope the animal who did this is somewhere rotting in jail.

RichyBlacK:
What are you saying? You just listed two things that negatively affect the practice of human sacrifice and then ignore the reality that those factors will hamper the practice?

Difference between 100 years ago and now regarding human sacrifice:
1. Indisputably labeled a crime  - makes the practice more risky
2. Done in secret - makes the practice more arduous
3. Less adherents due to Christianity - means less people that view human sacrifice as okay
4. Less adherents due to education - means less people willing to be fooled by dirty old decrepit men chanting gibberish in smelly huts in remote locations
5. More efficient information flow - means more people are aware of the fraud called juju.
All of the above creates difficulties for an outdated practice.

The then famous Okija shrine was raided by policemen and the priest and maintainers of the shrine were arrested. If juju was as powerful as some people want us to believe, with all the fear-mongering talk, why didn't the Okija priests disappear or use their juju against the policemen? Plain old fraud!

You're correct that some Nigerian Christians don't practice what Christianity teaches, however, the few that do are still relevant to the discourse.




Maybe you're new on this forum, but long before I posted this article, I have argued on this forum about the fraudulent nature of ALL juju claims, not some but ALL of them.

Your supposition that my taking a stance on juju and my posting this article have a causal relation is premature. My stance on the fraud of juju is only a reiteration of my long-held view and not because of one article. I hope this is clear to you.

Nevertheless, the article puts in perspective, the fraudulent nature of juju claims.

While I agree that general "juju" efficiency idea is false, there is however a different
"proof" which you seem to ignore, it is good enough for gullible people to be wowed
by it.
It goes thus:


Juju Man: If you think my juju is a fraud drink this poison or touch this
item and you will start convulsing.

Audience: Echoes in agreement

Skeptic: I can't drink your poison.

Juju Man: You can all see for yourself that I am right, the skeptic is scared
shit of the power of my juju. Who else don't believe that I can conjure money, fly
unaided and remotely control people ?

Audience: We believe you.


The conclusion doesn't follow the argument, but it is sufficient for most believers.

Old topic.
a new one should have been started.

Amajerry83:
Getting married is a decision. He who decides to remain single has his/her right to.
There are great men and women today who are singles. Example; Aliko Dangote.

Dangote ? Single ?

OrdercityWeb:
I just knew someone will go emotional and leave facts alone.
I guess the Chinese and Koreans who hardly inter marry are "backward" or you are more evolved than them.
How does intertribal marriage preserve culture?
What then is your identity if you are from different places at the same time?
Discouraging intertribal marriage IS NOT EQUAL TO tribalism. Tribalism has nothing to do with that, it's a mindset and you can still be a tribalist even in an intertribal marriage like the example i sited in the OP.
Please reply intelligently and with facts and not appealing to emotions or trying to sound politically correct. Face REALITY PLEASE.
...
Intertribal marriages kills and dilutes cultures they lose coherence and values becomes extinct faster

Chinese are not an homogenous group, in fact homogenous group with significant
population don't exist anymore.

Identity is fluid and it has always been!

Franco93:
Exactly what we need. This is so good. Our educational system is collapsing. We need a well recycled western eduction.

We need to update our syllabus to the latest knowledge and discoveries.
During my secondary school days, my teacher taught me with the same note, she was taught during her secondary school days, and she is even proud of it.
Now in my university, our lecturers recycle 2007/2008 past questions and set for us. Now tell me how we can excel beyond our predecessors?

Last semester, I had an argument with my lecturer that the sun moves, and he threatened to fail me if I write it in the examination, because his outdated lecture note says otherwise.
Dangote, we need your standard school, my children will attend.

Are you willing to pay the price ?

A man or woman can get married at any age.
Money answereth all things.

Yes, it is relevant.
Before anyone quote me please check the meaning of "feminism"
and look at your environment.

Ever8054:
this one pass green card...how is it possible for such age difference to match?.."age is just a number " not in this case abeg...

Inheritance and Insurance

Anointed yahoo boys!

Remember touch not my annointed.

Josephjnr:
Personally, I see those who protest or claim to be activist for something as being part of the problem rather than solution. There are other ways one's voice can be heard. #Bring back our girls# frustrated a lot of people but failed to mention dying soldiers and never did any of them go to Sambisa to help return one of the chibok girls. Easy said than done. So if you can't do,shutp up and let those that are trying do rather than insulting and frustrating their effort. They should let police do their jobs for this is not the first time someone is escaping from custody.it happens all round the World.

I am not surprised, people who can't see beyond their nose can't understand the reason
behind protest for justice.
Protests handed Indian their independence, it also brought Buhari back home.

You will rather the people allow a vicious murderer to escape justice.

Richy4:
By swallowing horrible meal every day, how will she know she was not getting it right? For how long will the pretence continue....

It is no crime if the husband cooks for himself.

Kobicove:
Frankly I do not think Shagaya should be on the list cos her fortune was made largely through government patronage

Most fortunes are made through government patronage,
that is the "secret" many rich men and women closely
guard.

admax:
Arsenal players are poorly paid compared to their mates in the other top 4 club in EPL and they expect them to win the EPL or Champions league anytime soon....lol.

Arsenal match tickets is also the highest in England, they make money also in sponsorship and TV rights! The board is making all the money while the players are poorly paid and fans are unhappy so don't expect them to sack Wenger anytime soon!

One would expect the "poorly" paid player to be the one complaining
but unfortunately, only admax feels that way.

The world doesn't owe anyone anything, you get what you deserve and demand!