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[quote author=D-Explorer]You are so on point jare sometimes i wish to speak English in contrast to its meaning. LOL.. The spokens will be damn interesting [/quote]Yeah boy!

Shouldn't it be about the person and the person's way of thinking. Family history should be considered to some extent but that should not be the determining factor because a person can have opposing ideology to what others in the family uphold.

190
This your redina has reached a screaming point where people should go on strike about it. That is too freaking bright on the eyes. WTfr*ak, 190?

190: ^You are always active 12am to 3am in the mornings

dont you sleep or you dey fly ni?

What's wrong with you 190 Baby?

Abeg leave me to chill at whatever time I want to. Am I not better than you that is active and bubbly 365 days a year.

[quote author=D-Explorer]Oh my goodness You're a clown I can also told you so. LOL[/quote]She mustn't say I didn't told her so?
Isn't English much fun when you throw caution to the wind and speak it like nothing dey happen? Isn't that what makes "broken English" sweet?

Yes girl, a guy can impregnate a girl and told (according to you) her many many things!

He can told her- "It weren't me" (Come on let's have fun & be free with English )

He can told her- "--But I was pulled it out--it can never be me!"

He can told her- "Find your Baby Daddy-- I are not the only one doing it to you"

He can told her- "Abortion it" and when she is done abortioning it find her disgusting and be planning on how to dump her.

He can told her- " You want to trickish me into marriage---I am not ready to marriage now"

He can even plan and take you to the doctor for antenatal guise and abortion it himself,he can slip drugs that can remove the baby into your drinks/tea so be careful when you do what you do Babes. Never you go setting a man up with pregnancy because it can boomerang on you and stink up your life.

Edo girls are also among the most beautiful of the Nigerian Babes. The beautiful ones are real beautiful but when one wants to be Atutu na real Atutu Oyoyo. Make I run out of here before they attack me for the Atutu part. Na atutu Oyoyo I said o-o no be Atutu Poyoyo.
Atutu Oyoyo na beautiful Atutu. Hahaha

Babamide: Guess that's what they could afford. The arrangement was just foolish!

The cake na storey building cake, wetin be your own nah. Cake na cake what mattered to them is that the poor cake be used to build storey building and it did? Shikena!

I happen to belong to the class of people that don't like to follow the crowd,like to do some things so different without all the glitz others assign to it just to show that it doesn't really matter. Does it?

kandiikane: Getting Industrial and tragus in 4 weeks time and micro dermals on my pelvic bone

Kandi please read about the micro dermals very well before embarking on it----from what I read about it, it involves leaving in the gripping/stud part of the jewel inside the skin and that sounds too "I can't handle that" to me. Hope you can handle that? In the picture of the lower tummy micro derm I have attached below, it looks lovely but I ain't leaving no metallic object inside my skin to heal up and seal up in there so I ain't microing no derm

I like some piercings but I don't like it when people take it to extreme like the ones on the lower lips, eyebrow and all over the faces etc. I like my things minimal yet sophisticated and feminine. I have two simple ones on each of my ear lobes and another two Helix on the upper part of my left ear lobe (in the helix A position in the diagram below, the second one is just below the helix, close to the C position in the diagram). I simply love the look it gives me when I have two ear rings in that upper ear lobe but I allowed the inner Helix close up leaving only the outer one at the tip of the lobe.I will open it up again, I simply love that double slanted tip and inner Helix of mine.
I want to get the Tragus on my right ear. I like it but will have it on one ear only and will add one more piercing each to my lower ear lobe so that I can have 3 straight-up/lined-up tiny earings at a time.(The two slant helix on the left ear and the Tragus on the right ear---something a bit spicy & different for the 2 ear lobes I like tattoos too, looking to get some mild scribbled worded ones but not too much. I like them minimal yet sophisticated.

I admire the navel piercing and will like to have it but the thought of piercing the stomach area puts me off it. How did it go when you got yours Kandi? Who here has the navel piercing? Will make out time and study it. If it is harmless I will get one. I like it.

dasparrow: Well said. My siblings and I were victims of these crap of a culture whereby my parents (college educated) kept having babies because they were looking for a son. Then we had to suffer because they could not afford to take care of us adequately and we had to start hawking goods at 8 and 9 years old. Every time I think of it, I feel resentment towards selfish African parents. Later on, they expect we the adult kids to take care of them in old age when they never took good care of us. Mtshew!

Hugs to you Ojare!
It is indeed not right to have too many children that one can't take good care of but in this case, I am not sure that that they bargained for the quads battalion. It means that now they have 9 kids. Jeez!
I have a friend whose mother only stopped birthing when she finally got the desired male child and that was when the count reached 8 kids. A cousin of mine kept trying for a male child until the 9th kid male child arrived.

The 7,8,9,10 number of children of our parent's generation is the reason our population exploded. These children all grow up and each want their own kids too. I have Aunts that had 10 and 9 kids. These days I ask myself "What the heck were our parents thinking having all that children?". I use to think of having three but nowadays is even wondering whether having two is not just enough. I mean our parent's generation spent all their energy in raising children, one should enjoy one's life while raising kids by the side too. I mean having kids will never tie me down and stop me from chilling out in a club to enjoy my sweet music or do other things I love to do.

Yes you will marry dearie!
Poor darling!
Quit thinking rejection and rejection will stop coming to you.

Who did this to Obasamma?

Madam Patience air lifted to Germany, I am happy for her o-o. I look forward to a Nigeria where anybody can quickly get airlifted or be quickly giving proper medical attention. Alleluiah!

redsun: Food poison could mean [b]her not washing her hands after poopooing,and using that same hand to eat amala.

Wasting our money to fly the waste pipe to germany for mere food poison is beyond disgust.[/b]Nigerian leaders are shamelssly unpatriotic.

Jeez! Old boy, you wicked small-o-o.

Why did the man run away? He should hurry up and return home.

Isn't he the one that shot the bullet that shot the babies out of the sky? Hahaha.

Hahaha
Atutu Oyoyo.
I don't call people ugly abeg, I must behave. His Ray Charles Glasses na die!

If her husband married somebody traditionally (has never set eyes on the person) it means that the marriage has not been consummated. If he did not wed the person in church or court, I don't think that he committed Bigamy or am I wrong?? He couldn't bring over the person to the UK because the person was denied visa severally, shouldn't he have travelled down to Naija to bring over the person? There's no need crying over spilt milk, he must have a reason for not making great effort to bring over that person but that is not a discussion for here and now. He should have annulled the traditional marriage (by taking back the bride price as they do in my culture) before marrying his present wife. It is very very unfair the way he treated the first lady he married traditionally, he should go clear up that issue because that is somebody's sister. The traditional marriage will prevent her from marrying another person so let him explain to her why he did what he did and free the lady instead of keeping the wife in the dark and having her threatened by the lady.

I think that it is better they stick together and solve that big issue instead of quarrelling and beating themselves out of the frustration of it all. The man has committed heinous offence in hiding the truth from her, there is no doubt about that. I am looking at ways to make things better but if he is in the habit of beating her though, she should let him know that she is no punching back and should not keep her back for him to keep punching. Does the man even enjoy hurting women or what? He is playing with the lives of women and when found out beat his wife to a point that a child fell from her hand. Is he a crook? Woman pls find out why he hid the truth and whether there are other hidden truths and seek a solution if there is one but if there isn't and you can't trust him and you have to be suffering beatings too----Please don't endanger your precious life.

Our young girls need to start having naivety shaken off them as it makes young women make mistakes. Why do the head of some girls swell when it is mentioned that their suitor is a pastor? WTFr*ak! Okay see the behaviour the almighty pastor is meting out to women in the name of marriage. What fr*aking pastor? Me, I want no Pastor husband lai lai, I mean how fr*aky can a pastor get? Is he going to be quoting passages and verses for me when we want to get our fr*aky on?

Is it not the same poster (that somebody has already shown that he/she goes about posing like a man in another thread)that is still getting all this attention and replies.

no1madman: shut d hell up and take d penissss. . .

You mad orrrr what?
Ooops! you did call yourself maddddddd

I am wondering what it is about poster's first son that the husband is saying ruined his life? Is the child differently abled/disabled and he can't handle it or that a 40 year old man is frustrated with life because he has to cater and feed a child.

Poster don't abort the child, as you want two children find your way out of that dangerous situation (before you get killed) and go have your child and take care of the two of them. Is he not better off having non of you to care for as your presence in his life frustrates him? I have never heard of a Nigeria man that has this phobia for commitment like the man does,Nigerian men always appreciate their offsprings. You sound very unhappy poster and to think that you are pregnant too. Distance yourself from him for a while and have peace of mind first till you deliver and if he isn't interested in taking care of his family-----you know what to do. Do you intend to foist yourself forever on a man that does not want you and the kids around him?

@Dfrank
You can do me a favour and give me your Babe's name so that I can do her a favour and tell her to run for her life because she may end up as a sacrificial lamb with how st-upid you are moving. WTFr*ak, disgusting ignorance! Somebody make him stop please.

I hope we don't meet you on the faces of the newspapers with human heads strewn around you and the mighty job you are protecting yourself for all gone, that is the pathway ignoramus like you follow. I am so angry at this ignorance this poster is spewing here, he is one of the weak minded ones being deceived around in our society. This person needs help people. He needs to have some light shone on the crooked path he is being led down.


I wasn't even feeling like posting a thing on the forum today but I can't keep quiet on this soul that is being led astray. WTFr*ak is going on here?

Oh my God, this is a 2010 thread, hope hasn't been deceived already and here I am trying to make him stop.

This thread reeks of ignorance.
People! shouldn't you guys be educating and enlightening this person that he is being deceived into the dark places of the earth instead of abusing him and making him run away and deeper into the evil forest.

Poster please the people wanting to initiate you into the place they told you will protect you are ignorant people leading you astray, they are deceiving you. Run away from them, only God can protect you. Your life is in the hands of God not in the hands of man, God is the only one that protects. The dibia medicine man that muddles up all the charms for people to get rich and be protected is only but a poverty stricken man that can die like others at his own time meaning that he can't even protect himself and prevent himself from dying. Use your brain, do not be deceived young man, don't go messing up your life. You may regret it, they may demand for you to bring lives of your relatives as sacrifices thereby making you a murderer who if caught can spend the rest of his life imprisoned and even if not found will still be imprisoned forever by his conscience.

Brother Dfrank, Live simply. Please don't go complicating your life and stop being ignorant(Yes I'm angry with you for believing such s-tupid things) swallowing those deceits from your friends who said that they are gonna initiate you into something that can protect you. The truth is there's nothing that protects. Be wise my friend.

Whew!
Are you guys tired of it? Why get tired? You can continue hating and spewing hate on one another shamelessly while the world laughs at your hate mentality. It is that type of mentality that has the African man killing his brothers for trivial reasons. If you want you can go to the other parts of the world where descendants of blacks(from olden days slavery) are, the Americas and some parts of Europe too and fish out all the blacks------find their roots(whether yoruba or Igbo) so that you can know which side to place them and hate on them too.

Keep wallowing in hate and living in the stone age. Why stop now? Mtscheeeeeew

nicky4lif: Well me I don't care abt what any pastor feels or think.what I do these days,I go to church sit,pray,dance,give my offering nd leave.I don't pay tithe nd I can't give my money to any pastor that wants to buy a land or build a church...never.there is one church I went to nd the pastor needed close to a billion naira just to buy a land nd they gave everybody in the church forms to fill......ur name,ur address,ur phone no nd how much u want to bring, they needed this 1billion naira in a month,me I was like how much will the buildin of the church now cost.the pastor said everybody that paid,their names will be written on a rock in the new church,not for advert but for people to keep prayin for u anytime they go there nd I told myself this man cannt be talking to me nd that was my last in that church,maybe I will still go but when they finish building the church.my heart bleeds for the needy not one pastor that will only use my money to buy a big cars.
Another church I went to(pastor destiny if u are here I'm talk to u)the pastor told us he had 20 blessings in his shop that he wanted to sell,he told us his price nd asked those that cld afford it to come forward.he told us is better to disappiont a man than God(God is a good God but when his anger is on u,u will be halp dead)now I'm becoming scared.God can I do this but I'm already out so I had to go nd look for the money nd a padlock to open the blessing.the next day I came with the money nd the padlock so we were told to come forward as he was praying people were falling nd me hardly I fall so I was like my blessing can't pass me by nd I lefted one of my legs so I wldnt hav balance,still yet I didn't fall,after the pray I didn't open my padlock nd I ran to the pastor nd he told me to go nd sit that it was ok nd he wld want to know what my problem was.when I went to meet him,he started telling me how beautiful I was lookin nd how much he likes me that he has been noticin me in church nd i was like this people can't scam me,as an igbo girl I acted fast.I started playing along,he kept callin me nd the first bill I gave him covered the money I gave them nd I made profit so I left the church.the owner of the church said he was going to the mountain while he went to a hotel nd the members were there praying for him nd his girl in the hotel or is it not in nigeria that a pastor wanted to poison a fellow pastor if it had worked for him 2morro he will stand there nd tell me what God told him to tell me.me I can never be fooled by any pastor.

@Nicky4life
Girl you wan kill person? You had me laughing. E be like say I know that church that you are talking about that needs I billion to build their church, they never finish building that church since 19 kpirigidim? . Are you sure that it is not that my favorite Swanky church in Lagos that you are talking about? They talk about money too much to the extent that sometimes I walk out when it becomes too much yet I love that church of talented people and they give my spirit sweet praise and worship songs too. Anyway make we no talk too much about it.

Did you say that the pastor of the other church was making a move on you after selling the blessings to you. Chineke mee! Abeg make we leave tori for another day, you don finish them sef. Give me a high five. Hahaha!

@Nicky4lif
While we are at it, we can give ourselves an assignment and share some favorite chapters in the Bible together, I have been lazy with my bible for sometime now so you will be helping me get some readings too. If you are lazy to pick up your bible visit www.bible.com read Isaiah chapter 60 and Romans 12, girl you are already making me read----do you know how long I haven't read my Bible? I do get quotations on my phone daily to keep up but there is nothing like chilling with the bible and you just have me doing that. Thank you and when you are done reading yours we are going to be exchanging views on that thru mail. Take care, gotta run now.

nicky4lif: Thanks love,I really appreciate ur concern nd every one of u that took out time to call me.I'm really feeling loved right now nd I'm getting better.I don't have my siblings here with me so when ever it gets to much on me,I just feel this way.

Hugs Babe!

nicky4lif: Thanks but its really hard for me.guess is just for the night,will be fine by 2morro.

Don't you have a good friend that you can chat with online or through the phone? How about your family, your siblings etc. Find something you derive joy from and keep busy with, you can watch a good movie, listen to music, visit an educational website and learn something. Read your bible and get your spirit stirred up (if u are a christian), Write a song or a short story, immerse yourself in a book. You can also send me a line or two at ivorybt@yahoo.com and I can reply back hoping that that will make you feel better. Hugs to you!

You did sound good and jolly, take care till we get to chat again. Plenty Hugs and kisses to you.

irenonse: @Poster
I'm sorri about your mum's death, but life must continue for your dad. your dad right now is going through a very difficult time which he might not even disclose to you and your siblings. He has made the best choice to re-marry, its best for you and ur brothers to accept his decision and pray he finds a woman as good as your mum, except you want to become an orphan so soon.
I am speaking from experience, I lost my mum february this year, and as the eldest daughter, i have seen that its not easy. In-fact i have been praying for my dad to re-marry and asking God to give him someone as wonderful as my mum ( I love my dad wella, and dont wanna see him hurt, depressed or whateva), and am glad because by God's grace, next year he should re-marry. Now i begin to see reasons while i have not gotten a job outside Abuja where my parent stay, it would have been more difficult for him. Infact when he shared his experiences with us since the demise of my mum, i cried for him. My elder brother and I have accepted my dad's request and we are trying to put things inorder for our new mama before telling my other siblings and i know they wount have problem with it.
Please think of your dad first before thinking of relatives and what they will say, after-all who cares.
Help him plan his wedding and make him happy again. Wish you the best.

You viewed it just the way I did. Hugs to you on the loss of your mum.

eustocrat: Well, well, well. Although I still disapprove of his intention based only on the scenario I presented above, and which most of you guys have termed to be selfish of us, now let us examine this following adjoined scenario:
Prior to it, I want to sieze this opportunity to dissect and then present the hidden scenario


Yes, he is a different type of person~an introvert when mum was around; why now trying to an extrov all of a sudden? We will revisit this area at the end of my comment.


Yes, again, he must be commended because he dared not try it without our consent. I doubt if he would be able to bear the gbege that follows. We run a parliamentary family Dialogue good o.

His view, which is? That he is lonely? He has always been a loner!


Now, here is the last straw that broke the camel's back.
Popsie has got himself tangled with someone already!!! This was even before mum's depature. On several occassions, we tabled his moves, but he always denied it. We presented some implicating evidences such as teller slips bearing his name as depositor and a lady's name as benficiary. Yet, he will want to escape, terming it as philanthropism. "you call it philantropy and your wife is unaware of it? You call it philanthropy when we had pressing needs at home. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------To cap his phuckk up, a text message believed to be meant for the lady, which reads our response to his request was mistakenly sent to one of us from his number.
O ga oo.Now which perspective do you want us to look at it again?

I know that you are hurting over this, I understand how you feel. It's almost the same way my elder brother felt----guess it has to do with that special bond between some male children and their mother. Indeed at one year interval after the loss of your mum, that searing pain is still very much open and that may also contribute to your hurt feelings yet there is no written rule on how much and how long one has to mourn another, one year may be five years to another and 10 years may be "never again" for another too. You guys can appeal to him to give you a little time to assimilate it all.

In your post above you sounded like the life of your father is in your hands. Sweetie it's his life, you know. You can't stand at the gate of his life and decide what he must do. You've got to let him love again, I know that it hurts much that he wants to replace the sweet place of your mum but Life goes on, you know. Plenty hugs to you! and hey! one more thing, you need not go bringing out all the skeletons in the cupboard and dishing out what went down in your parent's marriage----some things are better kept out of the public view. If somebody else has the heart beat of your father racing, let him enjoy love. It's one life we've all got to live. He is not gonna be loving up and getting loved, cherished, cared for neither will he need a companion when Life on earth is over for us all.

Modern day Slavery! Thank God that it was discovered in time or this girl would have been sold into slavery.

ojubi: One of the worst nigthmares of my life was helping a homeless friend in 2008 here in portharcourt.

He was homeless so i asked him and 2 other friends to come and stay with me.

Its a very long story but bottom line is he fell into the hands of 419(ners), i did my best to rescue him even if it cost me a lot of money, but i ended up taking all the blames and uptill today though we have moved on as guys, our mothers are not in greeting terms in the village.

As i type this i cant sleep, i keep wondering why people miss use previllages.
A friend of mine stays in a one room appartment with 3 of his younger once. I gave him my spare keys so he can always stay in my flat when ever i am not in town since i work at the rig, (two weeks out 2 weeks in).
Each time i come back i will find my convocation portrate hiden and my photo album hiden too. He lied to girls that it is his house.

I came back from work yesterday and he brougth one of those girls he has brain washed that my house is his.
The girl is just every were, they are currently in the bed room while i am restricted to my setting room.
Why am i so unlucky with helping friends?

The bolded is so fr*aking funny that I couldn't resist laughing. Why don't you make some tea and go serve them as they are lovey-doveying, Mr Nice and Goodly?
Please do the girl a favour and blow his bubble so that the girl go kukuma find her "rich big boy" level go somewhere in time before she gets brainwashed into something else, that way Mr. This-house-belongs-to-me will get motivated enough to work hard for himself and be as big as he is acting out. What kind of a man acts up for a woman claiming what he isn't? A dishonest man with an inferiority complex problem.

This thread is old but it did make me laugh. I no go lie.

@poster
I understand how you feel about this but you guys saying "No" to your father is selfish. You are only thinking about yourselves and how to stand shoulder to shoulder with your learned relatives when your father has another wife. Wetin concern your learned relatives concern the happiness of your father?

This looks exactly like the same conversation I,my eldest brother and my sister had with our father on a certain Xmas. We came home to spend Xmas with him and he called us to announce that he wants to remarry & have a companion again. Immediately he said that it inspired different feelings in my siblings, my brother had anger and jealousy written over his face and my sister had fear, possessiveness and near tears on her own face and when I replied that I support him if he wants to do that my younger sister nearly beat me up and was almost cajoling me to stop supporting him from her tone. He eventually changed his mind and said that he doesn't want to marry again and is still single and I will be the happiest person if he finds a female companion/wife to marry because I will like him to have a companion. A helper cannot fill the emotional gap/ closeness and companionship that a love mate/wife will fill, abi you no wan make the man get his freaky on again? It frightens me to think of my father lonely and without a mate but he has chosen not to marry again, hope he changes his mind cause knowing that he has a mate will make my mind more settled about him.

There is always that fear of what the new wife will stir up when she comes but you guys are grown up and should be making a life for yourselves now. Let him have a companion biko, just try your best for there to be harmony between you, your siblings and your new step mother. If he brings in a woman with a good heart, you may be surprised that you will all be relating well with her. Don't have it in mind already that she may be coming to stand in between you all or stir up stuffs. Is it because you are all grown up, if you were young and on the passing away of your mum he decides to remarry will you tell a young man not to marry because you don't want another woman in the house?