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kelz88:
Makes no difference. This topic could have been about someone on here and the chick will still display such ignorance.

True that, but you will agree with me that their is an added bite cos of the false believe that the thread is all about babe

BABE!:
You're a mess. A big ol' mess. A stable home = marraige? Olodo.  

You are wicked oh . . .Just put her outta her misery that the thread is technically not about you  but just hypothetical scenario or what not

Missy B for her adoration and numerous updates on Nigeria's number 1 celeb

Simplezzzzz . . . . . . They had rather spend their quality time making the world better be it by inventing life saving gadgets or increasing the coffers of the nation they live in.

@ Sexkills
We should debate it further on another thread

Hardunnii:
Dont know why ppl keep sayin ppl who r not happy in mariages, wat abt the ones that are happy?? In everytin, try to luk at d postives, my folks are still happily married, they had their ups n downs, bt they r still together n we d children benefited most.
@coogar why would anyone lie abt virginity

To score points duh
You have quite a chunk of men out there that will only date virgins hence the reason why it's celebrated  

Anyhoo, virginity or what not is an over flogged issue. Good on you that you are keeping it but you sure don't have the right to lambast those that aren't.
People make own choices that they may or may not be comfortable with so who the heck are we to be the judge?

sexkillz:
[color=#000070]No sir! Unless you can guarantee that people who cohabit do not get separated, or that after cohabitation and getting married afterwards, that they would not divorce either![/color][color=#000070]

Offcourse no guarantees in life hence the reason why we all get excited about the challenges we face and how we go about solving them. If you are to look at it from a risk environment point of view, you will agree with me that cohabitating and having a broken relationship has a low weighted risk using permanent heart scars as the key determinant factor when compared to getting married and then getting divorced

sexkillz:
Nothing guarantees that, neither does cohabitation! If that is the case, why dont you get married and try making your marriage happy! it's more satisfying knowing you are married, than cohabiting and knowing at the back of your mind that anything can happen tomorrow! Married couples are prone to solving problems in their marriage than cohabiting couples. If religion would atleast help us in living a more meaningful life as married couples, then why not?[/color][color=#000070]

I'm sorry to say but that's just a Nigerian mentality bore out of teachings from various religious houses. Why is it not a surprise that Nigeria is probably the most religious country on heart but yet we most certainly have the highest socialogical problems planet earth has to offer. The reason for that is not far from us not just using how god giving brains and looking at things from practical viewpoint instead of viewing things at all times by what the pastor or Imam says.
What's the point being married but obviously unhappy and unable to do anything about it because of the stigma of being a divorcee? Do you actually wanna go research on statistics of people in loveless marriage in Nigeria

Religious is good yes but be common sense should always prevail

sexkillz:
And that is why people cohabit! Fear of commitment! What is the chance that my marriage would go haywire just because someone else's did? It's because of the speed of breaking up and moving on to the next person that attracts people to cohabitation! How many cohabiting couples ended up happily in the long run?[/color]

Coogar has already enlightened you on some reasons why people do it.
I hope you know marriage is not for everyone

sexkillz:
[b][/b][color=#000070]Really? Like seriously? Nothing wrong moving in with who you are not married to?[/color]

Wouldn't you rather people co-habitate rather than get divorce in the long run. Nothing guarantees a marriage is going to work out and the less we use religion to look at things the better. From a practical point of view, it's way better/quicker to break up and move da heck on than get divorced then spend years getting disassociated from the ex husband or wife.

Uncle

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Why are all questions being directed at beaf  
Since when did he turn Johnny boy's spokesman  

GenBuhari:
@jay bee
Have you seen independently verifiable evidence of Abacha's wealth?

If you have that info. let us have it.

Do not forget that the only source of information of Abacha's wealth has come from dishonest Obj and IBB.

Abacha most likely overpaid himself and treated state resources as his personal property, as most absolute dictators do, but I am sure it was not excessive or to the detriment of the country as Obj has been trying to label him.

It was Obj and IBB who looted Nigeria to ruin

This is what i don't get with you bro . . . . . . .
Why are you talking with both sides of your mouth?
You are trying to defend something that's as clear as they come. That my friend is exactly what's wrong with Nigeria. Don't ask question culture that will continue ruining the country we all want to call home.
So you are making us believe that IBB and OBJ lodged all the money in the swiss bank accounts? You are beyond unbelievable i tell ya. Do you honestly think it's that easy to just open unverifiable bank accounts then lodge huge amount of money inside of it?
do you even know why people lodge money in switzerland and all the other tax haven countries?

So you somewhat agree that he probably likely overpaid himself but yet he never stole from the country as stealing a little is justifiable compared to stealing more when compared to the likes of IBB and OBJ. A simple analysis should have told you the massive difference in the price of oil today and back then when Abacha was still in power.

Dude, you seriously need to stop smoking that ish. It ain't good for you.
Give it up already

Beaf:


Damn!

Another Damn

Mr, Cork:
Popularity is not leadership. Popularity is the easiest thing in the world to gain and is the hardest thing to hold. The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.  Trusssss me!!   

Corkyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Woooooooooow

The professor now the spokesperson for the Chinese Government?
Use ya brain wouldya

@ OP
What's the salary of a seating president?
How did Abacha amass so much wealth when he is meant to be a common public servant?

@OP
Sexkillz have said it all. You have all the answers needed to make informed decision going forward. However, if still in doubt please do no not hesitate to come back so we can analyse further

@Lasinoh
Are you the same as world famous Blazay?
Your old handle (chintua) was very easy to follow

Brb to give you my take on your dilemma
In the mean time though, can you please help answer the following questions
Career-wise, what level are you both on?
Is your stance on early marriage based on peer pressure or family insistence?
How much are you really into this dude?

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E-helpers simply because it accurately defines who we are and how we've evolved.

REALITY101:
Hi Jay Bee please kindly clean all the unrelated comments on my apology thread on Romance section. Thanks

Pls provide a link to your thread

Utterly disgusting
Why are people so desperate?

SMH with the way you type in text lingo but expect people to understand where you are coming from.
Text language ought to be banned. Does my head in