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tipscogreen:
It only fake believers that practices what you are doing. Go to the north, you wouldn't see any Hausa/Fulani moslem accepting easter or Christmas meat(food) from Christians.

You can also visit the former eastern region and check if you will find any indigenous Christian accepting food or meat from moslems during their festivals

Yorubas are our major problem in Nigeria as a nation. They don't know what is abomination is religion or politics. No different between Yoruba Moslems and Christians. They can freely share their place of worship with each other. The will eat anything eatable and married themselves regardless of what their religious holy book said. Yoruba attached no value to their religious belief but their personal comfort

And that is the way we are supposed to live. Remember Jesus Christ our Lord said the Sabbath is created for man and not man for the Sabbath. Religion is created for man and not man for religion. Any man practising religion in a way that doesn't promote unity and peace coexistence among men isn't practising religion but cultism and terrorism. What is the essence of religion if it segregates and divides and we have the morality to classify some people as racist, etc.

Ishilove:
In my experience ghosts don't hang around and start harassing the living that had no hand in their death unless there is a satanic connection somewhere. So it is either this story is a figment of your rich imagination, or whatever is harassing you is connected to the house through occultic avenues. That lady is gone so the thing banging the gate is demonic.

Assuming this is real.

Ishi, na you dey talk this one? In this life, Yoruba people go say "mewa 'n shele"

ademidedavid:
Its not bro but a lecturing job.....I have been trying all means to do so but she just doesn't like the job. ..

This means she cannot even do your kind of job to take care of herself, not to talk of the family and she has the audacity to play Oliver Twist for you to fund her fantasy lifestyle. If you dare apologize to her, you fall yourself hand big time. I don vex, just use her do money ritual �

travelland:
Mr cautioner, hope you don't continue this way, if your wife can't tell you to go out and hustle I wonder who can encourage you in this life

Oh! E easy naim her father no save the money for her to travel out. If she get brothers, na how many girlfriends or wife her brothers don carry travel abroad? Them swear for her own head to hustle to fund her expensive taste herself? A man should not for any reason marry a broke lady with high taste.

HarunaWest:
Sorry to say but if I were in your shoes, that slap will land on her cheeks.
I hate when people don't appreciate someone's efforts.
If she want to live flamboyantly, then she should learn to make her own money. I won't take an insult on my person from someone that isnt contributing to my development.
Don't apologize for slapping her, just lock up. You are the man of the house not the other way round.
However, if she doesn't deem it fit to apologize to you, just dey look am.
If you dare apologize, you will kuku loose the remaining small respect that she has for you cos from look of things that woman has been brainwashed by material stuff. Cheers

@ademidedavid this guy has given you the richest piece of advice so far. You should keep your dignity. Yoo haven't done anything to crucify you for.
@HarunaWest, you have spoken well.

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funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

You never see wife o my guy. Marry her, she will cheat, she will slap your mother one day, she will destroy your property or important documents, good people in your life will disappear and avoid you just because of her. She will not take to corrections, she will not respect you. You have seen the signs yourself. Don't come here two years later and say "and I saw all these signs before we marry"

adenigga:
Can you please make yourself understandable a little bit, cos I can't see any difference from what I said to yours.

If you can't understand what I wrote, sorry, I can't help you.

adenigga:
I respect your opinion Sir!

But check that Deuteronomy 14:22-29 very well. It was allowed to turn your agricultural products to cash if where God directed you to is far.

But still, I respect your view. More power to your elbow!!!

Turned to cash and buy the things youe heart desires and consumed with your household, friends, neighbours, the poor and less well off, the orphans, widows, strangers the levites etc. So they can eat, be full and the Lord will bless you more. Don't cherry pick the words that suit your purpose and intents. Read and understand the whole context of that Deuteronomy chapter 14-29 very well.

ZINIBANKS:
Guy no reason that way
Money no dey ni,,nothing dey there even me self wan use am
If you take pics with 7+
You go know say andriod na suffering lol

O have a house, I have a plot of Land wey I no know wetin I wan do untop am yet, na wetin come be one bloody iPhone wey I no go fit afford without making a dent on my account. If I can't afford something, I can't say whether I dislike it or not.

Not everyone is a fan of the iPhone. I have never been one, I don't think I will ever use one.

tunmiluabi:
She will one day tell her parents herself. Her parents have sought for an amicable solution and meetings are being called. I have not doubt in my mind that I have moved on. I still have good relationship with her family because of my child..

You will have to tell them because she will tell them herself and it will not be as you put it here. I salute your courage and restraints.

repairpalng:
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tomakint:
Oba Oyekan openly worked against MKO later while Abiola who groomed Tinubu politically was still alive so what's the hype here about one funny and sellout rogue being decorated as Asiwaju when it was clear that the "issuer and receiver" here eventually betrayed the Mandate man (MKO) and follow after his tormentor (Abacha)! Miserable lots......Rest in peace MKO Abiola

Tinubu betrayed MKO's mandate? You just intentionally decided to lie or you are acting under the influence of something stronger than your brain can carry?

JohnNgene:
AMALAR. My dad and our family will never forget what that drug did to him few years ago. Till tomorrow, no mention Amalar near my papa unless you dey talk about amala and ewedu. Lol.

On a serious note though, my dad developed rashes all over his body after taking Amalar. It kept itching him and he kept scratching it. At first we thought it was the usual itchy side-effect of drugs like Chloroquine but we became scared when his skin peeled off as he scratched it. When my dad eventually got better, he swore never to take Amalar again.

Meanwhile, my mom took Amalar and didn't react to it all. Same thing with me. I even took it recently (probably last week) without any rashes and itching so far. So I guess it depends on each person. Just like I heard that the almighty Chloroquine which makes me scratch even my palms and under my feet, doesn't itch some people. Is it really true that Chloroquine doesn't itch some people? Lol.

ya,chloroquine doesn't itch me.

CplusJason:
It's all good until one Yoruba Demon walks into the family.

Like say you know wetin I wan been type.

Lordsonn:
Thanks. It is really affecting me. I am a lecturer in a private university, I lectured online yesterday via zoom, all the students and management discovered that something is wrong with me somewhere. I performed far below the way I used to lecture because i was really worried and depressed. I have another lecture by 4 pm today, I will try to look happy. They don't know what i'm passing through... i'm a young man of 33 years. the woman is even older than me, after i discovered her real age

All what you have stated earlier are genuine grounds to justify your separation from her. She and her family are selfish and unreasonable. If it ever comes to a point where there will be a kind of family meeting and her family and yours keep insisting that you continue, tell them that since they want you to continue on a foundation based on deceit, they, their children, till the last generation will be deceived till death. Anyone that harbour any plans do do you evil based on your decision, that person will not die as any normal person dies, that person will be eaten alive slowly by maggots and bugs till they beg to be buried alive. As you planned no evil for her to warrant such deceit and attitude towards you. You have to let them know that you just can't live with what you can't live with. There is no malicious reasons for your actions.

ArcSEMPECJ:
OP...thanks for the update , threads like this makes people to have hope in Nigeria that one day things will get better even if it is in our great grand children's era.....

A full chicken at 4.98 euros .....someone making 500euros over there a month won't see chicken as a big deal....

Full chicken isn't a big deal for Naija here too na. You go get around #1,600-#1,800 which is approximately same price.

CollinsWeGlobe:
That's why I said I don't have a job. language barrier

Bro, are there jobs in Greece? What we see on CNN about Greece is Loan default, Debt, Recession, IMF Unemployment, Social benefits cuts etc. Wr can't tell if it is the same Western media stereotypical profiling just as they portray Africa in grim light. Greece is an historic and beautiful country. The land of the Hellas. You love traveling to new places, you know how to find your own happiness, you have go all the wealth that matters. All our struggles and is just to buy happiness which some have in abundance even without having money.
Stay blessed Bro.

Ishilove:
See them. Awon Association of Dog Eaters, Nairaland chapter

Present ma ��

ZaRuleOfLaw:
I remember that book. a rich man daughter was acting porn and her daddy wanted the agent to bring her home. something like that. I'm a Hadley chase fan

What is the title please.

mygreenday:
have u listened to the live performance version of those songs? use a nice head phone in a quiet place and you would find yourself in the crowd.

Greenday's performance is usually energetic. Thirty seconds to mars' "closer to the edge" and Blink 182 "darkside" give same feeling.

Makavelli25:
Come on.
Its wierd
she is a church deacon

So Deacon no suppose plan her family?

My handwriting is not ugly and among the most beautiful but ir is very clear and legible. I use expensive fountain pens now and my handwriting is admired whenever I write.

Osinbajo always goes everywhere with his tablet.

RemoveKebab:
This place will be the most haunted place on earth

E gogood to act horror film. Even the buildings appear haunted

moyin2009:
The best advise is to pray about it and makes some findings about her and her background. Don't be fooled by her behaviour she must have done her own findings about you and makes up her mind to give it what it will take to win your heart. From the scriptures " the heart of a man/woman is desperately wicked only God can know. Go ask God about her. Getting married to her might end your business also the other way she might be an helpmeet for you from God.

Mine own advise. Thanks

Ishitinyourlife, this is another good advice.

Ishitinyourlife:
That's a new one,thanks bro

You are welcome. A good woman is hard to find these days. Love, just as life, is a risk, it is a chance that is worth taking no matter how it turns out. In the worst case scenario, you learn a new thing out of it that will be useful for you later in life.