Travel › Re: Update On Awka Millennium City Project, Anambra State (photos) by JayPeeOham: 9:36am On Jan 10, 2020 |
Another abandoned project loading........  Quote me and loose ur fingers!!!!  |
Romance › Re: Man Unknowingly Took His Fiancée To Hotel by JayPeeOham: 2:34pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
So after sleeping with a "total stranger"...
She still had the guts to carry herself to the so called husband house to get married... what impetus!!!
What if it was another man, then I bet you, that wouldn't have been just a one night stand... but an act that will continue even in the husband's house.
Nonsense and ingredient!!! |
Politics › Re: 10 States Ready To Pay N30,000 Minimum Wage – NLC by JayPeeOham: 2:28pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
Where are all the South Eastern States o   ? And they will come here and be shouting Igbo Amaka upandan!!  Lemme catch anybody again!!  |
Sports › Re: 2019 CAF Young Player Of Year: Osimhen Or Chukwueze, Who Wins? by JayPeeOham: 2:26pm On Jan 07, 2020 |
omokoginimi: ” He will make his Super Eagles debut last year”
Wtf! He will last year? Na wa o ROTFL  |
Education › Re: Which Of These Do You Fear Most As A Student? by JayPeeOham: 12:28pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
What of... 7. See me in my office!  8. You will graduate before your time  9. Report yourself to the disciplinary committee |
Romance › Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by JayPeeOham: 12:19pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
JayPeeOham: Bro, just like some people said, beating will only make her scared of you and not confide in you over her private life which I am very sure you won't want that!
I also have a younger sister who will be 20 this year, but I still talk to her as if she was 13 despite the fact that she is through with her 1st degree.
I can't remember beating her for a day. I always counsel her, give raw talks about everything sex, love and relationship to a point she became so comfortable talking to me even more than our mom.
The first mistake you will make is making her feel you are "The Elder Brother" ..teenagers of these days don't like being bossed around, they like being themselves, which most times they find that freedom in their so called male besties.
To win them over, you need to first be their best friend before "Elder Brother"!!!
Your sister is 14 and it has been proven that youthful exuberance begins from 13 through 20. Be careful not to push her to seek advice outside the house, that will be dangerous.
Finally, treat her like you would treat that girl you love. In other words, make her know that there's nothing a man /boy out there would do for her that you cannot do for her. Mind you, it's not about money, but the mindset. Make sure you create in her the mindset that no boy out there can lo e her more than you than.
In summary, you also have to ask yourself if you have been a good example to her.
P.S.: Advice is like a stranger, if you welcome it, then it stays, if you don't it goes. Don't force her to see things from your own point of view. Do your best and leave the rest for God while you also remember her in prayers. smat101: I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning
What I was scared of is finally happening... I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...
It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.
There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years. Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.
Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...
Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...
My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...
So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again... Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...
I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter . |
Romance › Re: My 14-Year-Old Sister Plans To Send Nude Pictures To 27-Year-Old Facebook Friend by JayPeeOham: 12:16pm On Jan 04, 2020 |
Bro, just like some people said, beating will only make her scared of you and not confide in you over her private life which I am very sure you won't want that!
I also have a younger sister who will be 20 this year, but I still talk to her as if she was 13 despite the fact that she is through with her 1st degree.
I can't remember beating her for a day. I always counsel her, give raw talks about everything sex, love and relationship to a point she became so comfortable talking to me even more than our mom.
The first mistake you will make is making her feel you are "The Elder Brother" ..teenagers of these days don't like being bossed around, they like being themselves, which most times they find that freedom in their so called male besties.
To win them over, you need to first be their best friend before "Elder Brother"!!!
Your sister is 14 and it has been proven that youthful exuberance begins from 13 through 20. Be careful not to push her to seek advice outside the house, that will be dangerous.
Finally, treat her like you would treat that girl you love. In other words, make her know that there's nothing a man /boy out there would do for her that you cannot do for her. Mind you, it's not about money, but the mindset. Make sure you create in her the mindset that no boy out there can lo e her more than you than.
In summary, you also have to ask yourself if you have been a good example to her.
P.S.: Advice is like a stranger, if you welcome it, then it stays, if you don't it goes. Don't force her to see things from your own point of view. Do your best and leave the rest for God while you also remember her in prayers. |
Sports › Re: Arsenal Set To Announce Arteta As Their New Manager Today by JayPeeOham: 3:11pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Reacts To Impeachment: They Are Not After Me, They Are After You by JayPeeOham: 2:55pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Yeligray: This man is against so many things that the Americans like.
Can impeachment ever happen In Nigeria? My brother u comot the talk from mouth o!!! Over to the Political Gurus in the house... CAN IMPEACHMENT OF THE PRESIDENT EVER WORK IN THIS OUR NAIJA AREA     ?? |
Sports › Re: The Audi Cars Gifted To Real Madrid Players For Christmas by JayPeeOham: 2:39pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: FG Declares December 25, 26 As Public Holidays by JayPeeOham: 2:38pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
whether they declare or not we don already collect holiday since..
If they have said 25-5 Jan I for understand....But this is no news!!!! |
Sports › Re: Mesut Ozil Deleted From Chinese PES 2020 After Uighur Muslim Criticism by JayPeeOham: 2:34pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
bajeen: They can delete him in PES. But they cannot delete him in minds neither can they delete him at Arsenal. Stupid China, they expect the world to keep mum when they've thrown millions of people in concentration camps? Someone please tell me if these players are being paid for having their clone on PS, I really want to know plz?  |
Politics › Re: Adesina: If Buhari’s Military Regime Had Lasted, Nigeria Would've Been Better by JayPeeOham: 5:43pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
paix: This one is an extension of the former regime. In fact this regime is gradually turning out to be a junta. You can say that again |
NYSC › Re: NYSC: Which States Will You Suggest I Choose For Service? by JayPeeOham: 4:53pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
GreeneLamb01: I'll be brief and simple with my narrative, I promise. To the glory of God, I have just graduated from KOGI STATE UNIVERSITY (KSU) with a 2.2 CGPA in English and Literary Studies.
As a hustling guy ( now in my late 20's), it was God's grace that helped me pull through my studies in that, I lost my only surviving parent while I was about starting my studies. And that made me had it rough all through my stay in the University.
Now, I have successfully graduated and don't want to be entrapped in this state, Kogi, any longer. I'm pretty sure you all know what is up here in kogi state; everything appears so gloomy and I seriously need to be totally out of it at least, for the time being.
Since I'm just a hustler with no ready relation to nudge me, I seriously want to use the NYSC period as an avenue to get out of this State. I so much desire to stay back wherever I'm eventually posted to for Service; I need a place with a lot of job opportunities with respect to my course of study, English and literature. And that's where the knot is. Which region do you think is appropriate for me to achieve this desire of mine?
Some persons I shared this with specifically advised me to move up North East; they suggested States like Gombe and Bauchi, even Maiduguri while others suggested Ibadan or Lagos.
This is where I need your advice and suggestions because as it stands now, despite the fact I want to register early, I am helpless and wouldn't know the right states to select for NYSC when we'll be eventually directed to start registration early next year. And I just need to plan well against that day.
To you, which states with more job opportunities in Nigeria, do you think I could choose for my NYSC and also continue my life there afterwards?
P.S I'm also a computer technician and will like to set up my business in the event of not getting anything to lay hands on after service. BUT NOT IN KOGI STATE!
Please, advise me. From my experience as a corper, I'll advice that the first thing to look out for when considering a choice state is accommodation. Go and serve in a state where you have relatives where you won't have accommodation crisis. I bet you don't want to go roaming the streets looking for where to stay after your three weeks in camp. You may ask, what about Family House, well it's an option though but you might not like it if you're the type who likes privacy. So, in my opinion, I'll advice you go to any state you're posted to and be the best you can be while at it....who knows, YOU MIGHT PASS OUT WITH THE BEST CORPER AWARD in that state and I bet you the story of a better future begins from there!!!!! ALL THE BEST DEAR |
Sports › Re: The Audi Cars Gifted To Real Madrid Players For Christmas by JayPeeOham: 4:40pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Na hazard own sweet me pass!!! so happy for him!!!  Wetin Chelsea no give am all those years wey him just dey run upandan for them!!!!!  congrats hazard  |
Celebrities › Re: Uriel Oputa Becomes A British Citizen by JayPeeOham: 4:34pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
congrats |
Politics › Re: Adesina: If Buhari’s Military Regime Had Lasted, Nigeria Would've Been Better by JayPeeOham: 4:24pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
What is difference between Buhari's military regime and now abeg  |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Badoo Career As An Artiste Has Ended (SEE WHY) by JayPeeOham: 4:21pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
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Family › Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by JayPeeOham: 4:05pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Casemiro: nice suggestions there..
You can keep saying insecure all you want, but Everyman to his own..
some men want women working in big organizations and offices, while some prefer them stay at home..
Stories flying up and down especially on Nairaland are enough to make such men not change their mind.
from colleague colleague,
they start something funny.
Before you know one thing has happened and the do done.
It's not insecurity on the part of such men,
they just don't want their wives to always be in an occasion of sin, where there would be much pressure..
no need trying to sound politically correct, we know what really happens inside life..
once again thanks for your suggestions.
MODIFIED !!!!!!
If you like quote me full textbook calling me insecure, I will never try to sound politically correct just to win cheap likes on nairaland.
You can give motivational quotes or try to win likes all you want, but we know that
theory is different from practical.
Inside life, we know how things operate.
I asked a simple question,
'' What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? "
Can't you just pass if you don't have contributions?
marriage is for two who agree to get together.
If you are a career woman, marry a career man.
Simple! Besides, some of us don't like the idea of our wives answering "Yes Sir" to another man.  |
Romance › Re: To Marry A Lady Who Loves You More Than You Love Her , Is It Okay? by JayPeeOham: 1:59pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
UbiPetrus: While it is okay for her to love you so much, you are the man and should love her crazily. The holy book commands the man to love and the woman to be submissive. If she loves you more than you love her, that is, if you doubt what it is that you feel for her, then I wouldn't advice you to go ahead. UbiPetrus God only commanded the man to love the wife because men find it difficult to love hence the command. While women find it difficult to submit, hence the command to submit-A woman will only submit to a man she loves wholeheartedly. As for the question, OP marry a woman who loves you more than yourself and you're sure to have a blissful marriage that's if you are God fearing yourself. God fearing in the sense that you understand the Lord's command to love your wife, you will learn to love her with time. But first you need to ask your self if you truly care about her, if yes, that's a good way to know you'll love her over time. HML in advance OP...lol By the way, I will always say this: LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE especially for the man. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Features In COZA Advert For '12 Days Of Glory' January Programme by JayPeeOham: 1:45pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
See who's talking about putting God first in everything, yet has no song where he referenced God (like Flavour, M.I., Timaya, 2Bbaba and the likes) all he does is sing about money and girls...SMH Who is deceiving who   ? |
Music/Radio › Re: Timaya & Falz - Win (Video) by JayPeeOham: 3:11pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
spiritedtete: Falz is good.. in his own way...
I would have prefer a pure trap... MI and co and not falz.
Timaya nailed it. Yeah or an international collabo |
Business › Re: Dangote Buys 800 Trucks From Anammco Assembly Plant In Enugu by JayPeeOham: 2:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
I wonder why Dangote is not considering going into POLITICS 
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Politics › Re: PUNCH Has Started Addressing Buhari As 'Major General' by JayPeeOham: 10:55am On Dec 12, 2019 |
EsomahJD: He has never acted like a civilian president.
Shame on zom bs Modified: He has never acted like a civilised president!!!  .... |
Politics › Re: Sowore: Akeredolu Condemns DSS, Warns Lawyers Could Be Arrested In Court by JayPeeOham: 11:55pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
The one thing I hate the Nigerian Constitution for is putting virtually all the powers and immunity in the arms of the government most especially the Federal Government!! What a misnomer  |
Education › Re: What Is The Difference Between Pharmacology And Pharmacy? by JayPeeOham: 11:46pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
arinzos: Pharmacology is one of the branches of Pharmacy. Pharmacology deals with Drug Dynamics and Kinetics. While Pharmacy is Much more than that..deals with Drug Formulation, Dispensing etal. Pharmacy is a Professional Course/Degree(B.Pharm or Pharm.D) while Pharmacology is Just a Normal BSc. Degree. A Pharmacist can also be a Pharmacologist by virtue of Postgraduate Studies but a Pharmacologist is not a Pharmacist. Both are not Equivalent. Pharmacy is Much Higher than Pharmacology. Oversabi no go kii u sha o...lol |
Crime › Re: Gildas Tohouo's Wife Stabbed To Death In Her Ikoyi Lagos Home by JayPeeOham: 11:37pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
bmdmixer: i tire for the blogger, he sha wan add join, soon it will b news reaching our desk
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Celebrities › Re: Open Letter To Tonto Dikeh & Revelation Of Zainab Rufai By Godson Odims by JayPeeOham: 11:35pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
Someone should pls wake me up when Tonto Dike replies this woman.
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Education › Re: Meet Victor Ayooluwa Babalola: University Of Uyo Best Graduating Student by JayPeeOham: 10:43pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
generationz: Name the schools under ASUU who don't suffer the same fate?
Their only hope is having a side business. UNICEM!!!  |
Sports › Re: Slovenian Club Sacks Nigerian Player For Impregnating President’s Daughter by JayPeeOham: 10:39pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
What happened to the pregnancy OP? |
Celebrities › Re: Tacha Tells Angela Okorie To Pay Her If She Wants Her Attention by JayPeeOham: 10:37pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
All this "one year fame" just be making noise upandan!!!  So my dear Tacha enjoy the fame while it last till 31st December!  2020 is just around the corner, new Bbnaija yeyebrity will emerge  |
Celebrities › Re: Bassey Ekpeyong Marries Nadia Ann, His Girlfriend In US (Photos) by JayPeeOham: 10:19pm On Dec 10, 2019 |
ekaette1621: NOTHING IS AS SWEET AS CALABAR PENIS.
IT MAKES IGBO, YORUBA AND HAUSA WOMEN GO CRAZY And that's the only thing we contribute to the Nigerian economy...lol  But wait a minute....this Ekaette1621 na woman oooooo!!! Imagine a woman making this kinda confession  |